FabSwingers.com forum: Tasks for a sub

By *ugbylad87 OP Man
over a year ago

lichfield

I am looking for tasks to set my sub looking for inspiration hope someone can help me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would send her out to do big shop might as well make use of em

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong

Deep clean the carpets- seebwtat gives Henry and his friends that big smile

Wear a frilly apron if it helps the kink factor.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrisUB3Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Sink enemy ships!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

write the initial of your name somewhere on her body, take a pic of it and send it to you everyday xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have told mine to find something obscure around the house and send me a picture of it inserted in herself.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"write the initial of your name somewhere on her body, take a pic of it and send it to you everyday xx"

Love it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sink enemy ships!

I wish there was a like button.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"write the initial of your name somewhere on her body, take a pic of it and send it to you everyday xx"

That's one of my favourite tasks.....but instead of name or initial it is a random word

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

"I have told mine to find something obscure around the house and send me a picture of it inserted in herself.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner! "

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the only solo task i will do, quite like the random word too , good idea x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am looking for tasks to set my sub looking for inspiration hope someone can help me"

Evade capture, stay silent and torpedo the hell out of anyone else just because you can.

Hope that helps.

Up Periscopes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Mow the lawn

* clean the garage

* service the car

* change the light bulbs

* put some shelves up

Get some alone time to yourself and go out for a coffee and shopping spree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to send a certain number of photos of me during the day.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie"

A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.

No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie

A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.

No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X

It was her decision I said the same to her but she made the choice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!"

Different strokes for different folks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!

Different strokes for different folks

That doesn't make any sense!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a chastity belt for a week

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

What’s with the curtains? You got a curtain kink? Ha ha.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

What’s with the curtains? You got a curtain kink? Ha ha. "

I blame my type errors..lol..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.

Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..

Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..

Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..

This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.

I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie

A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.

No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X

It was her decision I said the same to her but she made the choice "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Simple set her a task she will not enjoy doing...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!

Different strokes for different folks

That doesn't make any sense!"

Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.

So one submissive may find being treated like an unpaid cleaner the most erotic and deliciously humiliating thing ever, another may be highly offended by the suggestion and yet another will find it just plain silly.

Because of this, rather than seeking random suggestions, perhaps the OP should have a conversation with the submissive in question and find out what their submission means to them, and what they want to experience by sharing it by being set tasks. That should help start the process of inspiration, at least.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!

Different strokes for different folks

That doesn't make any sense!

Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.

You got my gist, thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in...

Reads thread....

*shakes head....

Wanders back to the man cave....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.

THIS is exactly what I've been saying! I am more of a purist, in that I try and take things down to their most base level before building it up. The way I view it, and I may be wrong, it is more about trust than anything. Also a freedom for the sub. Freedom from having to choose what they want, sexually anyway. Once that choice is gone they are left with raw emotion and feeling, which should heighten all the sexual play during that time. The trust is the most important thing though. They should trust that the dom will protect them from any sort of harm that they do not want. I feel that being a dom is a huge responsibility because if you have someone that is giving their all to you, and you ask too much of them, then the trust is lost. So there really should be a huge amount of communication before going too far into it, as it is a very intense and deep connection.

That's my two pennies worth anyway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rent them out for cleaning duties you’ll make a mint

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Sink enemy ships!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Surely only you and your sub can come up with the right tasks for yourselves.

You need to know what is the purpose of the task, what is it trying to achieve, that will help you to deceide what kind of task to set. Only you yourselves know the boundaries and limitations you have set,so really again, no one else can just pop in with necessarily the right idea.

Unless of course this is just a bit of fun to titallate you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!

Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess

I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!

Different strokes for different folks

That doesn't make any sense!

Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.

someone who understands kink, well well written reply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why am I seeing suggestions more suited to a lifestyle slave than a submissive?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I thought most suggestions were tailored for a house elf

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought most suggestions were tailored for a house elf "

note to self: never give a sub clothes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Sink enemy ships!

??????

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Housework

Clean shoes

Reorganise cupboards

Gardening

Wash the car

Clean the windows

She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner! "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread