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By *plbnorfolk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

To delete your message straight away on here while chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By *plbnorfolk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Dont you want to see a conversation develop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a site supporter when they message next the chats there....i always delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They maybe got bored with the coversation or they might just like to delete to keep their inbox tidy, have you asked why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand that .. I keep ours for future reference untill they are naturally delete by the site..we find single guys do this alot. I did ask one once, why he instantly deleted his replies and messages..He said, to keep my inbox tidy. I asked, do you get a lot of messages each day then..he said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They maybe got bored with the coversation or they might just like to delete to keep their inbox tidy, have you asked why?"

I do hate a messy inbox but I do wait until I know if it's going anywhere before I delete. Mid chat seems I bit weird, but maybe they knew it wasn't going anywhere, who knows with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete mine during chats too. It all shows anyway in sent items or If supporter it’s displayed anyway .

Fascinates me how people get so emotionally invested in this site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont you want to see a conversation develop?"

not if it's clear it's going nowhere...life's too short to spend time talking to uninspiring people...

having said that, we do like to keep a tidy inbox and the message stream is there anyway so we do delete as we go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

If I start losing track of conversations then I'll delete all the ones I've replied to or not going to reply to. I can still be chatting to people. I just need some organisation

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I bet the people that delete mails on here are the people that delete emails once read.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do you mean after they've read it, or without reading it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I question men who delete my messages straight after replying to me, they say they have OCD... Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even check your sent mails?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We drop the message threads into the saved list...that way it's easier to keep up and if only one of us is there at the time the other can catch up later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't know if someone had deleted a message I'd sent, I don't check. I don't think it's rude though.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I sometimes delete accidentally.

That delete button is easy to press.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

But more importantly, why would anyone care if messages are deleted?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I delete after reading and or replying. I don't want to be scrolling through tons of messages to find someone's message thanks.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

What's it matter if they delete the message if they are replying?

If they are not replying then perhaps they have decided to end the conversation.

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