FabSwingers.com forum: Socials

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep deffo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Love ‘em.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad to know others love them i find it so hard to get a legitimate social sometimes although stafford can be lacking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad to know others love them i find it so hard to get a legitimate social sometimes although stafford can be lacking x "

I’d definitely meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve been on a few

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We do always ask for a social when meeting a couple for the first time and we also regularly go to the organised socials up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from me

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By *rssexy mrbitvCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Always do a social first. Have to be some attraction there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, we rarely meet without one. And not all socials lead on to sex, I/we often just enjoy spending time with like-minded people.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to know others love them i find it so hard to get a legitimate social sometimes although stafford can be lacking x

I’d definitely meet you

Thanks hun

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Always social 1st, has to be an attraction

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I go to lots. Best way to meet psople

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Going to my 1st one Saturday night looking forward to it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

I have been for a few social and some have turned into the hottest encounter that I have ever had.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes we do. We are going to a large organised social in Darlington tomorrow night and went to a similar one in Durham a few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Always especially on the first meet

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Yes

always a social first for a private meet and we love a big group social too

V x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes and always in a public place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love socials ...and often a prerequisite to potential play to check chemistry if on a first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is a must for me.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Yes, lots of people do

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Absolutely always for me

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Unfortunately we don't have time for socials due to work and family. We get to know people via messaging then take it from there xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Big organised socials yea

One to ones before a meet not really I usually get a good feeling about people from just having a little chat on here so prefer to just meet for fun

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By *RAGGLE...ROCK...xCouple
over a year ago

colly

Yes, we do, love them x

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We always meet socially first regardless of who we meet.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Love meeting socially

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Regularly, all my playmeets in the last few years were met socially first, usually at my organised ones

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly do. I like the social side of this world

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope..would rather just get on with it..

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Yes, socials are a definite for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first. I gotta fancy the guy and feel the mutual chemistry. Otherwise there won't be any fun later.

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Yes we do and turn up not like some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few socials & enjoyed them. Got one next week actually with a couple who we're meeting for fun with the following week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re big fans of them

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Host regular social events in Hastings and I've been to others.

Always a good laugh and fab to meet people in person.

I couldn't imagine not having some people I've met at socials not in my life..even if I don't get to see them as often as I would like

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

We always meet for socials first. We have inevitable no shows but we'd rather that happens when we can still enjoy a drink or meal on our own that when we are excited about a play date. Messages is the first level of wedding out and socials are the second level, which means we do then end up with people we really want to play with. Getting to that point and then the anticipation of a play date with those we fancy all adds to our excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, don't need to play to have fun.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Yep, don't need to play to have fun."

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Have had some great socials but not much more from there

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always have a social before anything else though, it's a safety thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely something I enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, not always a requirement, but I do like a social with the right person. Helps build attraction and anticipation.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s very very rare we play without a social first

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"Host regular social events in Hastings and I've been to others.

Always a good laugh and fab to meet people in person.

I couldn't imagine not having some people I've met at socials not in my life..even if I don't get to see them as often as I would like "

Miss you too x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Always social 1st, has to be an attraction

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always go for a social first x

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Would love a social with you greens

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had a social meet posted for nearly a week. No takers. Nows it's on the evening, loads of chancers who it's clear on my profile I don't want to meet are messaging. The answer to them is still no thanks or no reply. I'm not desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We social meet. Always first before anything.

Peach will sometimes be sneaky and do the first meet herself in a public place like a Costa. The last three gent she met in Costa first before we all when to pub.

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

We do too. Wouldn’t have a play date without a social first.

Although sometimes a social can turn into a play date if the situation allows

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, my first meets are socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do .... can't beat coffee, cake and a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed

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By *eejay2015Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Buckinghamshire

Always. First meet is purely a social, in public. My philosophy being if we can't sit chatting for an hour over coffee or a drink then we aint ever going to get intimate. Its worked well for me so far and I've made some amazing friends.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Not interested in socials (except with vanilla friends and Fab friends we have known for some time), but on the other hand we play almost entirely in clubs, which is pretty social anyway, though most of the sex there is pretty spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes indeed

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

I looking for a local social tomorrow

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I looking for a local social tomorrow

Good luck. X

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

Will probably need it lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

That’s the way I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more social than sexual. Gimme an evening of chatty drinks, anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but logistics usually mean they’re socials with possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Yes, was at a London social on Thursday evening!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Yes always a social first .....and in a public place

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Definitely

Weeds out those who can’t be arsed to put in any effort and they aren’t for me

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Yes

Been to many socials all over the country and have many a nice person whilst there.

However too big I will disapeer into a quieter area.

As many have joined me there or is already there.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Organised socials, yes. What people call "a social", no. I go for a normal meeting in a public place over a cup of coffee between two or more civilised individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a social in a pub or bar with a potential future male... allows me to see if he’s what I’m looking for and if we fancy each other.

And love the kind of ‘socials’ we plan for play with couples....

those who have been to one know what mischief we get up to on those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find some genuine people for socials... take me for instance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can find some genuine people for socials... take me for instance lol

Yes but have you seen where you live in relation to us and have to read the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t blame me for trying

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Definitely

Weeds out those who can’t be arsed to put in any effort and they aren’t for me "

Spot on. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You can find some genuine people for socials... take me for instance lol

Yes but have you seen where you live in relation to us and have to read the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand for the life of me why people are on here to waste peoples time. I’m here to be the best a ladies ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always arrange social meets with cpls of singles . It helps to know ppl better before sleeping with them

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We do group socials when time allows and if it's a private meet we always start with a social that has potential to move on.

The social side and having a laugh with like minded people is great fun!

Also helps people relax which ultimately leads to much more fun

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes. I enjoy socials

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Definitely

Weeds out those who can’t be arsed to put in any effort and they aren’t for me

Spot on. X"

Yup..

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Definitely

Weeds out those who can’t be arsed to put in any effort and they aren’t for me "

I don't think those who don't do socials can all be lumped into the 'no effort' pile. We do if we have time. However we meet in clubs only now, with the occassional big social thrown in. Every one uses this site to get their own fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Yes Definetly, we would never play without a social unless in a club but would never just meet for sex, how awkward would it be if you didn’t click and wanted to leave!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've been to socials as a single man to a couple. But all bar one ended up more that a social.

We as a couple have been to an organised social evening once but there was a club downstairs and of course we did end up in there so dont know if that counts. But we are open to the idea of a social with the right couple/s.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally, depending on the type of meet. For longer term playmates I would always want a social first.

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

Yes

Simple answer to a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More socials than anything else. Am exceptionally fussy and value my safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social always 1st not yet been to an area social

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

We always have a social first. I won’t ever play on first meet!

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

I like socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer facials to socials but we are open to suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are great, have to see if there's an attraction before anything else happens & see if they pass the kiss test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Who doesn’t. Gotta see the person beyond the profile and be disappointed in new ways.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Does anyone actually go for socials on here ? Xx

Yes. Also I am in Stafford every day..... Just sayin'

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