FabSwingers.com forum: Gloryhole do's and don'ts

By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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I'm just starting to get more curious about glory holes in clubs, 6 months ago I never thought I would have even tried one, and now I have been in one a couple of times and enjoyed it.

Mostly I like taking a bi guy in with me and asking him to touch well I watch and occasionally touch with him.

I never want to seem rude, but if a a cock has been poked through the hole that I don't want him or me to touch, usually it's because it's soft, or it's very hairy, or both. What is a polite way of declining?

I would love to wave a flag through saying hard and hair-free only... but I somehow think there's probably a better way.

I don't really understand why someone would put a soft cock through in the first place. Surely they want it to look as attractive as possible to the person on the other side, and I would feel it likely that most people think a hard cock is more attractive than a soft one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite way of declining is...

2 bricks

Bolt choppers

Zippo lighter

Semtex

Mince grinder

Cheese grater

Circular saw

That's gonna let the fucker know

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Ping the tip with an elastic band - it'll soon be a mere memory.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Do bleach the hole.

Don't bleach the penis.

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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Is there maybe a more subtle way?

Does anybody ever put a note near a glory hole saying for example "hard only"

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Is there maybe a more subtle way?

Does anybody ever put a note near a glory hole saying for example "hard only" "

You could save ink by dispensing with the 'ly'.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'm just starting to get more curious about glory holes in clubs, 6 months ago I never thought I would have even tried one, and now I have been in one a couple of times and enjoyed it.

Mostly I like taking a bi guy in with me and asking him to touch well I watch and occasionally touch with him.

I would love to wave a flag through saying hard and hair-free only... but I somehow think there's probably a better way.

I imagine a "no thank you" should do the trick, but if you're worried about giving him a complex then you could simply ignore it and/or make use of whatever other holes are available. Thirty seconds should be enough for him to get the message. Or am I being woefully naive?

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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I don't like to talk as I like it too feel anonymous.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

How can u make a cock look attractive lol

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How can u make a cock look attractive lol"

That's why I have a tiny portrait of ryan gosling tattooed on the glans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont touch it, they will soon get the message.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I understand your preference op. Some guys like to start soft and enjoy the sensation of getting hard in the ladys mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow how gutted would you be if you put your cock ina glory hole and no one sucked it

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I don't like to talk as I like it too feel anonymous. "

Push it back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use the letterbox!

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Wow how gutted would you be if you put your cock ina glory hole and no one sucked it

That's the thing... I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings or esteem.

I wish there was a signal to say thanks but no thanks, instead of potentially ignoring it.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Carry a lump hammer for thoose over insistent ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having never experienced this and to be honest I haven’t got any interest so I may sound really naive here but I thought the whole idea of a glory hole was you never knew what you was gonna get, you don’t know what’s coming through and they don’t know if the person on the other sides chomping down with 4 teeth left lol I thought that was part of the kink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having never experienced this and to be honest I haven’t got any interest so I may sound really naive here but I thought the whole idea of a glory hole was you never knew what you was gonna get, you don’t know what’s coming through and they don’t know if the person on the other sides chomping down with 4 teeth left lol I thought that was part of the kink?"

And how would you feel if they had a quick nosey through the hole and no cock came through

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Having never experienced this and to be honest I haven’t got any interest so I may sound really naive here but I thought the whole idea of a glory hole was you never knew what you was gonnta get, you don’t know what’s coming through and they don’t know if the person on the other sides chomping down with 4 teeth left lol I thought that was part of the kink?"

It is... and if you don't like what you see or you don't like what you feel, I guess you can choose to withdraw your offer at any point

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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I'm just a very new at it, and wanting to explore it confidently, but I don't really know enough about the etiquette I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just a very new at it, and wanting to explore it confidently, but I don't really know enough about the etiquette I guess."

I’m not sure on etiquette, honestly not trying to be provocative but I really just thought it was a case of get what your given and that’s the turn on, etiquette wise don’t bite, scratch or write marks out of ten with a waterproof marker and hope you don’t follow out a bloke who had a great cock but turns out to have a scabby face and dirty nails

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm just a very new at it, and wanting to explore it confidently, but I don't really know enough about the etiquette I guess."

You have to learn morse code -1 knock means can I, 2 means you can, lots of repetitive knocking means they're otherwise engaged

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

I guess that wasn't the most helpful set of responses for you.

It's a tricky one and I suppose it depends on the way the glory hole is set up. Most of the ones I have seen you can't really see who is in either side and whether or not there is anyone there. The proper thing to do is if you do not feel comfortable or attracted to the cock that is presented then you have the right to not partake of it. Slip quietly out of the glory hole and hope for better luck next time. I'm pretty sure most guys will get over it and if nothing happened assume that their appendage just didn't do it for whoever was on the other side. That's part of the gamble isn't it?

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Never been to one but surely you could get him hard by playing with him it is a two way thing isn't it???

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By *ophieRabbitTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Simply dont touch it, they will get bored and move on. If enough people saw you go in, there will be more queuing.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Is part of the fun not getting someone hard?

If you don't want what's presented then stay quiet and ignore. If they don't leave, take your chance to go instead and go back later if you want to.

All supposition but seems the best option to me.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can u make a cock look attractive lol"

Tie a pink bow on

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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Thank you for all your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you stick it though the hole does not mean anything will happen.

There should never be that pressure. If your luck that someone chooses to play be thankful. If they don't simply be respectful.

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By *ussycock101Couple
over a year ago

london / NI

Take a razor with you, and give him a quick shave

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

So I love a glory hole especially on a bi night when there’s men and women behind the wall

and I also love a soft cock through (as long as it’s a pretty one).

I just ignore cocks I don’t like the look of

The glory holes at the VA are rubbish cos the holes are so big people just look through them. Proper glory holes you really don’t know who is the other side and I prefer that.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there maybe a more subtle way?

Does anybody ever put a note near a glory hole saying for example "hard only" "

We could go together armed with a whole stash of Post It notes to cover everyone who wanted to use it:

Hard only

Cut only

Uncut only

VWE only

BBC only

Freshly showered only

No cim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite way of declining is...

2 bricks

Bolt choppers

Zippo lighter

Semtex

Mince grinder

Cheese grater

Circular saw

That's gonna let the fucker know

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of anything more depressing than being a bloke, having nothing more than his penis exposed, to still be rejected.

I understand that not every cock is required to be serviced on entry but that would have to be a massive blow to anyone's self esteem.

In terms of what you ask, if I slipped my cock in and after a few seconds nothing happened, I'd walk away. Then go and crywank in the toilets.

You don't need to say anything or touch the cock in question, as others have said, leave it and it will wander off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can u make a cock look attractive lol"

Balance a sexy lady on it..

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I can't think of anything more depressing than being a bloke, having nothing more than his penis exposed, to still be rejected.

I understand that not every cock is required to be serviced on entry but that would have to be a massive blow to anyone's self esteem.

That's what I thought and why started this thread, although it wouldn't be personal if I didn't touch it was literally just that I don't find them attractive when they are flaccid, and I just don't like loads of hair around them.

It would be a purely visual rejection, obviously based on that would be all I would have to go off anyway, but I'd hate to hurt someone's feelings.

Maybe I should just stay away from this idea.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I can't think of anything more depressing than being a bloke, having nothing more than his penis exposed, to still be rejected.

I understand that not every cock is required to be serviced on entry but that would have to be a massive blow to anyone's self esteem.

In terms of what you ask, if I slipped my cock in and after a few seconds nothing happened, I'd walk away. Then go and crywank in the toilets.

You don't need to say anything or touch the cock in question, as others have said, leave it and it will wander off."

Honestly I don’t think you would... glory holes are such an impersonal expression of sexual behaviour you’d probably wander off, come back and try again later and that time it would be successful. Last weekend I walked into a glory hole and not one guy turned up

. One might say that’s equally depressing. I stayed there for 3 minutes. Giggled to myself and wandered off.

V x

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Simply don't, not at all interested in glory holes as it's all too seedy and needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a dog with you

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Take a dog with you

And peanut butter?

V x

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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Oh lord, but taking a bi man is a lot of fun!

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Me and wife tried gh at infusion was great fun

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By *ce cream poke man 2Man
over a year ago

lincoln&Belfast

"I guess that wasn't the most helpful set of responses for you.

partake of it. Slip quietly out of the glory hole and hope for better luck next time. I'm pretty sure most guys will get over it and if nothing happened assume that their appendage just didn't do it for whoever was on the other side. That's part of the gamble isn't it?

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

They’re probably putting it through soft, for you to make it hard.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

"They’re probably putting it through soft, for you to make it hard. "

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"How can u make a cock look attractive lol

Balance a sexy lady on it.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Corrected*

As a guy who would never be on the business end of a glory hole I've always been amused at the concept. Knowing fab and how people have their tastes and won't even open a message fron someone who doesn't fit their tastes; that those same people would countenence playing with a cock without knowing the provinence of said schlong

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"*Corrected*

Think the whole thing is not knowing whose cock it is and also not knowing whose sucking you kinda same as a blindfold I guess heightens your other senses

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"*Corrected*

That’s the point. Couple of weeks ago I was in a female glory hole in Club Sx. Basically you shove your legs through a hole in the wall with your spotter the other side to ensure you’re safety/enforce your rules. Your legs get put in straps and people the other side get to have fun. I had no idea who they were. It was a lot of fun. Laughable but horny all at the same time.

Then (later) they kept introducing themselves to me .... now I have to deal with the image of being fucked by people I wouldn’t usually fuck.

Luckily I find it funny rather than worrisome.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

How can people be so prissy and fussy about who they meet, yet anybody can fuck or blow them in a glory hole is Beyond me.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"How can people be so prissy and fussy about who they meet, yet anybody can fuck or blow them in a glory hole is Beyond me. "

It’s not really that difficult. The attraction of the glory hole whether male or female is in the anonymity of it. It’s like any other sexual thrill or kink, designed to meet a sexual desire at a point in time.

Meeting people based on mutual attraction (which I don’t consider prissy or fussy.. more just human nature) is a very different thing.

V x

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

"How can people be so prissy and fussy about who they meet, yet anybody can fuck or blow them in a glory hole is Beyond me.

Meeting people based on mutual attraction (which I don’t consider prissy or fussy.. more just human nature) is a very different thing.

V x "

Not in my book, I wouldn't fancy some munter on the other end, not that desperate.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"How can people be so prissy and fussy about who they meet, yet anybody can fuck or blow them in a glory hole is Beyond me.

Meeting people based on mutual attraction (which I don’t consider prissy or fussy.. more just human nature) is a very different thing.

V x

Not in my book, I wouldn't fancy some munter on the other end, not that desperate."

Yes all of us who enjoy glory holes as part of our adult sexual experiences are desperate munters. That is obvious.

V x

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

"How can people be so prissy and fussy about who they meet, yet anybody can fuck or blow them in a glory hole is Beyond me.

Meeting people based on mutual attraction (which I don’t consider prissy or fussy.. more just human nature) is a very different thing.

V x

Not in my book, I wouldn't fancy some munter on the other end, not that desperate.

Yes all of us who enjoy glory holes as part of our adult sexual experiences are desperate munters. That is obvious.

V x "

Please don't take my opinion personally, and I wouldn't call you a munter or desperate. Sorry if I offended you, it's just my opinion on glory holes.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I would say that if you saw a cock that you weren't that keen on, just don't touch it. It's passive, and gets the message across.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Great to watch Sue multi tasking in a club glory hole .....find it a turn on to see all the cocks twitching for attention..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say it with tact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its like pick a mix sweets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Great to watch Sue multi tasking in a club glory hole .....find it a turn on to see all the cocks twitching for attention..x

Hope I am lucky enough to be there someday x

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By *ild85Man
over a year ago

justask

Sorry to take things a little of topic but is there any rule on cumming in a glory hole? Should you, shouldnt you? Bit of a warning?

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

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I think it's kind of expected and goes with the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't glory holes for people that will suck/be sucked by anyone? Those that aren't fussed?

I thought the whole idea of them was to be anonymous...

Not something that appeals to me in the slightest hence my lack of knowledge I guess.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How can u make a cock look attractive lol

That's why I have a tiny portrait of ryan gosling tattooed on the glans."

Is he eating cereal?

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can't think of anything more depressing than being a bloke, having nothing more than his penis exposed, to still be rejected.

I understand that not every cock is required to be serviced on entry but that would have to be a massive blow to anyone's self esteem.

In terms of what you ask, if I slipped my cock in and after a few seconds nothing happened, I'd walk away. Then go and crywank in the toilets.

You don't need to say anything or touch the cock in question, as others have said, leave it and it will wander off."

Now I'm visualising a dejected cock with wee legs (and one eye) slinking off to the changing rooms to have a greet.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oh lord, but taking a bi man is a lot of fun! "

Even more fun for me is taking a bicurious man and feeding him his first ever real cock.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Don't be tempted to peep through the hole. You never know who'll be on the other side

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Do expect different sensations on yr cock and balls...

Warm mouth/ silky tongue/ hot flannel/ ice cubes/saliva/lube satin gloves etc!

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

I just have the image of a dirty old man in a plastic Mack, too seedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just a very new at it, and wanting to explore it confidently, but I don't really know enough about the etiquette I guess."

It used to be, a finger through the hole said place your penis in the hole no finger no penis. But in a club well for some guys any hole will do. Male

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Give it a gentle high five and ruffle his pubes.

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By *renchieAndTheDomCouple
over a year ago

lichfeild

I was in a Bdsm night at a swingers club.

In the middle of a bdsm scene, with 5 couples. Suddenly my sub had a cock hit her in the back, from a glory hole in the wall.

This wasn’t a swingers night, it was a bdsm night, so I politely let the guy join in.

By striking the end of his cock with a spring steel cane, well it definitely went out quicker than it came in and didn’t come back again lol

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"*Corrected*

Then (later) they kept introducing themselves to me .... now I have to deal with the image of being fucked by people I wouldn’t usually fuck.

Luckily I find it funny rather than worrisome.

For one how do they know it was you by your bottom half and two they shouldn’t really introduce them self’s that defeats the object surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's too funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which clubs have glory holes, straight for Mrs ? Xx

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By *renchieAndTheDomCouple
over a year ago

lichfeild

"Which clubs have glory holes, straight for Mrs ? Xx"

Xtasia has a few

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Which clubs have glory holes, straight for Mrs ? Xx"

I actually don't know any that don't.

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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Also, on the do's and don'ts, if you happen to know or suspect who is in a glory hole don't stand there knocking on the door or wall calling their name, part of the fun aspect of it is the anonymity.

(please read with humour if you have done this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently in a sex cinema where video booths had glory holes with just enough light to see who was in next booth. Realised from the style and size of the footwear of the person in booth next to me that it was a woman. Obviously thought my luck was in but soon became clear she wasn't playing just watching a video. On taking a better look and trying to grab her attention I noticed she was wearing full hijab and packed into a small booth full of shopping bags. She didn't move a muscle in about 10 minutes. Don't know why it amused me but just had visions of someone popping in for a quick watch on their way home from doing the shopping.

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