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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not!

I've met my Mr actually at a swingers party, we both understand we love the swingers world as is apart of each others lives and we get to enjoy it together now

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We grew up as kids in the same street as kids. 30 odd years later met and got together. We fell in love straight away and totally get each other and what we both want and enjoy. Started swinging and made our relationship even stronger as there are no lies, cheating or bullshit etc we love the lifestyle and wouldn’t go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think I could. It's certainly easier. But then I get naughty thoughts and woah somehow I'm back on fab

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Yes. I could. It’s an entertaining diversion for me. It’s not the be all and end all.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

This is just a bit of occasional fun for my husband and I so yeah we will eventually go back to it just being us two but we'll have some great stories to talk about

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Definitely not. Once you've had mint and choc chip there's no way that you can go back to vanilla

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'm not open to relationships at the moment but if I was, I would prefer it to be someone who was interested in exploring the scene to some extent or another. I can't imagine not being around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "

No and as a single man that’s a huge huge issue!

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

No!

We both enjoy the naughty fun and the intimacy that follows the next morning. It is something we share as a couple.

We couldn’t go back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a lifestyle choice for us but a bit of fun. If it stops being fun for either of us then we stop do it and without any resentment from either side.

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By *ristolwife4blkWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Definitely could not go back to vanilla. I have been on the scene for over 20 years and I sometimes think about stopping but don't think I could. I do have a break due to everyday life but it's our thing now. I am sure one day when everything heads south I will have to lol

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Not quantum physics really, bit of a no brainier “ the score board says” ugh ugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while. "

This for me too...

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes. Without hesitation for the right person.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

[Removed by poster at 06/02/19 22:52:01]

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "

We have , and from being the most prolific swingers for seven years , we just stopped last May , and don’t miss it at all .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while. "

Ain’t that the truth

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By *uriousCouple36Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

We could, but it takes a lot of effort for a couple to keep it fresh decade after decade, involving other people is an easy and hot way to keep the spark. If we do stop at least we have lots of fun times to talk about.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while. "
On this path me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could walk away tomorrow and never look back, if.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will defo go back to Vanilla at some point in the future, may be another couple of years.

Just wanted to experience the swinging world.

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would love to find mr right but would need to be with someone familiar with swinging. I doubt I would be happy with a vanilla relationship

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I would love to find mr right but would need to be with someone familiar with swinging. I doubt I would be happy with a vanilla relationship "

What she said but with Mrs right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could, but my other half is smitten so I'm just going with the flow.

I wouldn't know what to do with so much time on my hands if we went UNLOS

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nope ..., never could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not. Once you've had mint and choc chip there's no way that you can go back to vanilla "

Cute redhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 is good

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I've dipped in an out of both lifestyles since my 20's (tho back then there was no such thing as the term swinging really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could .......

ive had meets and played, been to clubs but never played.

if i left this site id never mingle with people into the scene so would be easy.

loadsa blokes in the real world dont swing as such but spend fortunes on happy ending massages and lap dancing clubs

not surewhat the girls do , either double happy with one man or there life or might have a bit on the side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there is one person i'd happily not sleep with anyone else again for.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Yes, there is one person i'd happily not sleep with anyone else again for."

The Queen?

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We dip in and out of this scene when it suits us so it can be done, if we never got the chance to meet others for fun again I’m sure we’d get over it!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while. "

Yes I can relate to this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Mr P would happily leave it behind and not look back... he tells me I’m all the lady for him and he wouldn’t miss it....

I’m not certain I could... I was on here as a single girl and I’m back again ‘dragging’ Mr P- not!

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, there is one person i'd happily not sleep with anyone else again for.

The Queen?"

Zero banter

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "

Swinging is not important. I am a deviant, a perv, a kinky individual. But being with someone who accepts me for all I am (including the deviant), loves me and loves to revel in my deviance with me is a must. I could never be in a relationship were I could not be myself and share my deviance with the one I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship?

Swinging is not important. I am a deviant, a perv, a kinky individual. But being with someone who accepts me for all I am (including the deviant), loves me and loves to revel in my deviance with me is a must. I could never be in a relationship were I could not be myself and share my deviance with the one I love."

Well said!

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did try to find someone on here to play as a couple. No luck which is annoying to say the least. If I met the right person on here it could be fun, that being said I would only partake now and again as I treat. Gets boring if it's all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked this question for many reasons, main one is I don’t seem to click with people on vanilla dates, I have a dark sense of humour and very open minded but find “vanilla guys” are to boring, close minded and generally uptight! Maybe I should state on my profile that I’m open to dating, may not go down well but worth a shot I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I could. Sex with strangers became soul destroying after a while. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked this question for many reasons, main one is I don’t seem to click with people on vanilla dates, I have a dark sense of humour and very open minded but find “vanilla guys” are to boring, close minded and generally uptight! Maybe I should state on my profile that I’m open to dating, may not go down well but worth a shot I suppose "

Do it. There's been quite a few posts recently from men looking for a relationship.

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