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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty??

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

I wouldn't say I'm fed up, or even bothered by it, but I agree that the definition of curvy seems to have loosened up over the past few years.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still classed as overweight for my height but I describe myself as curvy. OP does that mean I need to call myself fat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs here we go again...

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

You were expecting Kelly Brook weren't you? Poor guy. *hugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has got a way with words hasn’t he. I bet he’s going to be inundated with meeting requests now

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty??

You were expecting Kelly Brook weren't you? Poor guy. *hugs*"
Or Scarlett Johansson

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Fat people can be curvy - I definitely go in at the waist before my hips and bum take over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell it as it is....im fat but even big ladies can be busty and curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it's fed up not feed up. And please review the Oxford or Collins dictionary on the definition of a curvy woman. Oooo he's going to be popular now

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Op it's fed up not feed up. And please review the Oxford or Collins dictionary on the definition of a curvy woman. Oooo he's going to be popular now "

Freudian slip do you think? Maybe he is a secret feeder looking for prey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op it's fed up not feed up. And please review the Oxford or Collins dictionary on the definition of a curvy woman. Oooo he's going to be popular now "

‘feed’ up....

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

Just remember, "busty" only counts if your tits stick out further than your gut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's a secret passion. Just why oh why would you even. Oh I dunno ha ha

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No,cant say it bothers me ...

As long as they have pics to show their build ,let them be what they want.

Curvy seems to mean diff things to diff people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have way more important things to bother about. If I don't like a profile I move on. It doesn't affect my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get fed up with people with shite profiles ranting about what I choose to describe my body shape as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. Those words are what make me pay attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. Those words are what make me pay attention "

Good profile too

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By *ranberriesWoman
over a year ago

London

No

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

Saucer of milk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm....it's a bit like guys when they say they have a rugby player physique...possibly did a few years ago.

Or guys that say they are VWE and turn out to be average.

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't care how people describe themselves. Pics make it surplus to requirements anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Why on Earth would that make you fed up? If you don't like it just ignore them and move on. People can call themselves whatever they like...really not worth getting ya boxers in a knot for is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busty and curvy women seeking an athletic guy? Anyone know one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hook, line, and sinker

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Repetitive strain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic?

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Actually I laugh more at guys who haven't obviously taken any exercise for a year or two who think they are still athletic! Darts is not a physically active sport ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either"

Grrr now that's the attitude love it

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either"

Exactly this...it you dont like it...move on. Doesn't bother us one bit

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Grrr now that's the attitude love it "

thanks!

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Exactly this...it you dont like it...move on. Doesn't bother us one bit "

Fuck yes always plenty of people who enjoy us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic?

Actually I laugh more at guys who haven't obviously taken any exercise for a year or two who think they are still athletic! Darts is not a physically active sport ... "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Curvy and busty lady here (not a girl) OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Grrr now that's the attitude love it

thanks! "

No need for thanks. Nothing more attractive than body confidence.

Anyway, I'm biased due to my lust for dangerous curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever there was a need for a popcorn emoji....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm over weight I know I am, I am curvy and busty a size 14 with 32hh breast counts as busty.

Try getting over how other people want to lsble themselves it's thier choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm busty. I'm curvy. don't consider myself fat. im happy with my body.

do I care what op thinks. hell no. so keep walking past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol

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Ok would make an exception for you lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

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Are you a GP?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I'm over weight I know I am, I am curvy and busty a size 14 with 32hh breast counts as busty.

Try getting over how other people want to lsble themselves it's thier choice."

Label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why you're not verified and very unlike to be anytime soon.

Oh and athletic my fat CURVY arse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it safe to come out yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol "

Guessing that’s tongue in cheek, as it’s hardly charming to describe someone as better than someone else, lol x

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Anyone else (females) fed up with men being complete tossers?

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Is it safe to come out yet ? "

Yes, gay men are welcome here

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I envy some people, honestly I do. Not a care in the world so choose to get upset how other people describe themselves.

Sigh...First world problems!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol "

You do realise you can express appreciation without being derogatory?

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

I couldn’t give a monkey’s left toenail how people define themselves. I do, however, tire ever so slightly at the need some people have to insist how others conduct themselves when it doesn’t chuffing impact on their silly little world.

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

We describe our body shape as we wish, I clearly state in my profile I'm fat, just bring realistic.

Again, that's what pictures are for. If I look like a pig, and I'm not your type, move on.

Why all this drama about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what shape you are? As long as you are a genuine and fun person, not to mention amazing in bed.(particularly important lol) everything is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

What's it got to do with you how anyone describes themselves ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest.

What does irritate me is that we joined a swinging site to chat and hopefully meet people that was like-minded to ourselves.

But no it just seems to be more threads moaning about body sizes.

I'm fat. It's not a great word and some can find it offensive.. so to soften it a little people call me larger lady. Bigger lady. BBW. Curvy.

Chunky and even thick. Now thick to me means I'm not very brainy but that word these days are to describe a plus size woman. Who knew

Unfortunately I can't be called busty as I've only got a handful so that's me out of that one!

I'll cope

Now if you see me eating a burger..don't judge me...

Go fetch me some fries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

Describe yourself how you feel

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

Not at all, I just love women of all shapes and sizes.

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By *layalongCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Literally biting my tongue.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Curvy and busty ladies bring them on,much better than skinny Minnie’s lol

You do realise you can express appreciation without being derogatory? "

Exactly, I am sick of that attitude on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a quick look at your profile and you seem like a decent guy. So I'm gong to assume you're not actually a complete Dick, and that you are just stirring the pot a little for fun....

I love it when a woman describes herself as curvy or busty. To me it shows a sexy confidence and somone who is comfortable within themselves. I don't have a specific type physically. I'm far more fussy about personality and making a mental connection! I'd much rather be with somone you describe as overweight who feels sexy and horny and really into getting and giving pleasure than somone who is perfectly toned, diet/ fitness obsessed, who is really vein or not body confident and etc..

Sexiness is a state of mind!

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Exactly this...it you dont like it...move on. Doesn't bother us one bit "

It's a great attitude ! Although these threads do tend to fill up very fast...

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Literally biting my tongue. "

Ouch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid OP it would appear with the wording of your post that you may have just put your foot in it slightly.

Personally speaking, I love females of all shapes and sizes but my preference is and always has been curvy. I understand not everybody shares the same preferences as me and nor do they have the same confidence levels either but I believe that both men and women should be able to label themselves if they wish to do so - within a category that they feel confident, comfortable and sexy in rather than have people judging them and calling them out for their appearance.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The boundaries are difficult. I call myself curvy because I am sort of hourglass shaped. My body curves. Could I stand to lose some weight? Sure. But I'm still curvy. Whether I'm large or fat is in the eye of the beholder. And they can look at my pictures and judge for themselves.

But, for what it's worth, I've been curvy since puberty, including when I've been thin. It's just how my body is.

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

I would describe myself as something between curvy and bbw.

Why does it upset you to the point you need to come on here and insult us bigger girls?

Sure you're popular.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

How many times do we need to hash over this. Its boring. Look at the pictures ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell it as it is....im fat but even big ladies can be busty and curvy "

Love that outfit Kelly it looks lovely on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feed up, does thatnot cause peple to be over weight.

Who are you to judge anyway.

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By *quirtydirtyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

You can be busty whatever size you are if you have big boobs your busty I’ve seen big girls who are aren’t busty

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Curvy is a shape not a size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curvy / fat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Wow! there are some guys on here who say they’re well endowed too lol. We don’t need to be harsh do we? Let’s just move on to somebody that is more appealing to our eye as we all have different tastes. Is it really necessary to be pernickerty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I'm fed up, or even bothered by it, but I agree that the definition of curvy seems to have loosened up over the past few years."

I remind girls tyat curves go in as well as out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember, "busty" only counts if your tits stick out further than your gut! "

I love it

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic? "

Yup, but worse is 47 yr old guys saying they're 32

Or

Married guys saying they're single

Or

Bi guys saying they're straight.

Or

A guy saying he lives on his own but after the meet starts his friend "just pops by"

Or

A guy who says no drugs is cool then sneaks lines in the bathroom.

I could go on

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By *ranberriesWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anyone else fed up with skinny men describing themselves as athletic?

Yup, but worse is 47 yr old guys saying they're 32

Or

Married guys saying they're single

Or

Bi guys saying they're straight.

Or

A guy saying he lives on his own but after the meet starts his friend "just pops by"

Or

A guy who says no drugs is cool then sneaks lines in the bathroom.

I could go on "

Or guys who say they’re 6ft but you meet them and you’re taller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been three threads in 3 days moaning about how women choose to describe themselves.

Also women and men feeling they have to justify how they describe themselves. do you know what it's fuck all to do with anybody else!

It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

Neither is acceptable but the biggest problem is everybody is so concerned with how everyone else decides to describe their body shape so why doesn't everybody just look at the pictures, read the profile and make a decision.

It's hardly rocket science!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either"

Good speach xxxc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Good speach xxxc"

Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fat and busty and i couldnt give a fuck what you think and im sure most woman dont care about your opinion of them either

Exactly this...it you dont like it...move on. Doesn't bother us one bit

It's a great attitude ! Although these threads do tend to fill up very fast..."

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"I wouldn't say I'm fed up, or even bothered by it, but I agree that the definition of curvy seems to have loosened up over the past few years.

I remind girls tyat curves go in as well as out lol"

bravo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm overweight and still curvy and busty. It's the same thing as with word fabulous. I believe on fab it means that you have fuller figure yet some people use it just because they are too sassy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh look, thin people who don't want bigger people to have even one word that isn't (yet) a slur. Yawn.

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands


"I’m still classed as overweight for my height but I describe myself as curvy. OP does that mean I need to call myself fat? "

You look delicious to me.

On the more general point, I think people should be free to describe themselves as they choose. And - while I realise sexual preferences aren't rational and aren't easily modified - I think it would behove us all to cultivate broad tastes and find attractiveness in all sorts and shapes of people. We can miss out if we let one aspect cloud our judgement and prevent us getting to know someone who may be very wonderful in other areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how this became a single guy bashing thread, the joys of fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I love how this became a single guy bashing thread, the joys of fab "

I think you're reading too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it."

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tsk skinny Minnie. That’s not gonna get you laid.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

If a lady wasn’t busty & curvy where would a man place his hands ?

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By *oobsaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

That's why I block people like you.

What do you want us to say.. Hi I'm fat with big tits fancy a meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty??

That's why I block people like you.

What do you want us to say.. Hi I'm fat with big tits fancy a meet "

I'm unworthy of attention but will accept a pity fuck. (sometimes it does really feel that people want me to feel this way, although of course I don't)

Yes, I'm overweight. I'm bang on average size wise for a UK woman, slightly above height wise, an outlier in terms of muscle mass (I lift), and my body is curvy whether I'm a size 10 or 20 (neither are true right now). But yes, I am regularly told in my inbox that I'm disgusting.

I can lose weight, but being a jerk is much harder to change.

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty??

That's why I block people like you.

What do you want us to say.. Hi I'm fat with big tits fancy a meet

I'm unworthy of attention but will accept a pity fuck. (sometimes it does really feel that people want me to feel this way, although of course I don't)

Yes, I'm overweight. I'm bang on average size wise for a UK woman, slightly above height wise, an outlier in terms of muscle mass (I lift), and my body is curvy whether I'm a size 10 or 20 (neither are true right now). But yes, I am regularly told in my inbox that I'm disgusting.

I can lose weight, but being a jerk is much harder to change. "

Well said. I'm fed up of the horrible messages i get myself but as the saying goes:

Beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes right to the fucking core!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've seen people I find unattractive of all demographics. I leave them alone. If they come to me, I treat them as I would any other person I'm not interested in. It's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Just look at pics and quit moaning.

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over a year ago

I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

"

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?"

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think "overweight" is something between you and your doctor. If someone doesn't like my body, more power to them (although I'd rather not hear about it, it's often rude. Just say no thank you, or don't message me). It can be hard to tell, as bodies do come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. I personally couldn't be less than a size 10 without surgically altering my skeleton (my hips are quite wide, I was a size 10 on the bottom before I hit my teens). For some people, that's a bit chubby. As an outsider you don't and can't know.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Don't feel fat tho I do weigh alot, not really slim or ample - so curvy it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m still classed as overweight for my height but I describe myself as curvy. OP does that mean I need to call myself fat? "

Say what you are perfect in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

"

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'"

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat. "
Maybe if she was a bodybuilder yeah. Otherwise I highly doubt it.

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over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

"

My mistake. Regardless, it does still depend on definition. I see slim women put curvy on their profile and they clearly do not have the small waist, big hips definition. So are definitely not curvy. If the OP is going to moan about putting curvy on a profile, then I can't see how it's fair to only call out those he deems as overweight. Or could it be that he finds slimmer women desirable, so it's okay for them to put whatever they want on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!"

There was no reason to quote the whole thing. I quoted the part that was relevant to my reply. It wasn't a ploy to misquote or take it out of context. It appeared to be a stand alone comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only they had shapes as size definitions on here.

I would be pumpkin.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If only they had shapes as size definitions on here.

I would be pumpkin."

Aubergine here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be skinny, now I'm fat.

In fact, I went from a bag of bones to a heifer in less than a year.

Call me what you want, I'll only fuck you if I like your face and you have an endearing personality-whether I'm fat, average or skinny.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm almost looking forward to the outrage when I decide to start calling myself athletic, lol. (not yet, probably not for a few months at least, but I'm working on it)

Arsehole filters are amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only they had shapes as size definitions on here.

I would be pumpkin.

Aubergine here"

I'm working my way down to apple and then, hopefully, aubergine.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language."

But that would require people to acknowledge that fat people deserve dignity, and that's not allowed, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost looking forward to the outrage when I decide to start calling myself athletic, lol. (not yet, probably not for a few months at least, but I'm working on it)

Arsehole filters are amazing. "

I was a skinny Minnie at school and ran cross country. I didn't have any muscle to be proud of.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If only they had shapes as size definitions on here.

I would be pumpkin.

Aubergine here

I'm working my way down to apple and then, hopefully, aubergine.

"

I'm a big slightly misshapen aubergine, but I'm OK with that for now.

I'm the worst sort of fatty: the one who's OK with where she is and has disdain for those who want to put her down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

My mistake. Regardless, it does still depend on definition. I see slim women put curvy on their profile and they clearly do not have the small waist, big hips definition. So are definitely not curvy. If the OP is going to moan about putting curvy on a profile, then I can't see how it's fair to only call out those he deems as overweight. Or could it be that he finds slimmer women desirable, so it's okay for them to put whatever they want on it?"

It's a headfuck this site lol

I think it would benefit from a filter search regarding dress size, cock size, height,bra size etc.....so if I searched for a woman I could search for women that have put on.their profile they like guts 6ft onwards say so that they don't appear on my search or say they tick.boxes on.their profiles saying they would only meet guys with 7 inch cock onwards so that mean them women wouldn't show in my search as I'm not their target audience. .

Saves a lot of time for everyone

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm almost looking forward to the outrage when I decide to start calling myself athletic, lol. (not yet, probably not for a few months at least, but I'm working on it)

Arsehole filters are amazing.

I was a skinny Minnie at school and ran cross country. I didn't have any muscle to be proud of.

"

I was skinny through slightly chubby and hated sport. It's only in the last couple of years I've started figuring this stuff out on my terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language."

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

My mistake. Regardless, it does still depend on definition. I see slim women put curvy on their profile and they clearly do not have the small waist, big hips definition. So are definitely not curvy. If the OP is going to moan about putting curvy on a profile, then I can't see how it's fair to only call out those he deems as overweight. Or could it be that he finds slimmer women desirable, so it's okay for them to put whatever they want on it?

It's a headfuck this site lol

I think it would benefit from a filter search regarding dress size, cock size, height,bra size etc.....so if I searched for a woman I could search for women that have put on.their profile they like guts 6ft onwards say so that they don't appear on my search or say they tick.boxes on.their profiles saying they would only meet guys with 7 inch cock onwards so that mean them women wouldn't show in my search as I'm not their target audience. .

Saves a lot of time for everyone "

It would save a lot of time. It would even reduce the message amounts, that some get.... hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple "

Fabulous is an accurate description. All that's required is that people choose more carefully the language they use and show a little consideration, it's not difficult.

Would you like to see body type used as a filter on here? I can see where it could be useful to some but it's not something i'd consider using.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat. "

My GP told me to ignore BMI. By my BMI I'm about 1/2 a stone overweight but she said a better indicator is your waist circumference should be less than half your height. I'm 5ft 7 (67 inches) and my waist is 27 inches so by that measure I'm fine. I think my BMI may be skewed by lifting weights and having G cup boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple

Fabulous is an accurate description. All that's required is that people choose more carefully the language they use and show a little consideration, it's not difficult.

Would you like to see body type used as a filter on here? I can see where it could be useful to some but it's not something i'd consider using."

Isn't size 16 considered average nowadays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple

Fabulous is an accurate description. All that's required is that people choose more carefully the language they use and show a little consideration, it's not difficult.

Would you like to see body type used as a filter on here? I can see where it could be useful to some but it's not something i'd consider using."

It personally wouldnt bother me. I don't choose to meet or chat to people based on body shape anyway. I dont even look at how they describe their body type. If i like their profile, then I like to engage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple

Fabulous is an accurate description. All that's required is that people choose more carefully the language they use and show a little consideration, it's not difficult.

Would you like to see body type used as a filter on here? I can see where it could be useful to some but it's not something i'd consider using.

Isn't size 16 considered average nowadays? "

Haha yes it is. But it's how I view myself. Just like how people view themselves and choose the type that they feel is appropriate to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Sits with popcorn under close guard

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

"

Jesus if those measurements are correct then these days she'd be more a size 6. Maybe a 10 on top due to being busty. I knew the size 16 thing was a myth (I thought it came from a UK 16 being a US 14 and clothes sizes being smaller back then) but she's not even close to a modern day size 12 by them measurements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are nice ways to refer to a person's body type and there are ways that are not and even insulting. Why would anyone want hurt someone's feelings by using a derogatory term, regardless of whether you think it's true or not?

You wouldn't refer to someone in a wheelchair as a cripple, this is no different. It takes no effort at all to moderate your use of language.

I'm a size 16, So prefer to class myself as large or fabulous. I know others are not bothered by the word 'fat, but i hate that term, regardless of if it is an accurate term or not. It's used far too much in derogatory way, for me to be comfortable with it. I do think some are too bothered by how people size themselves on here. You can't filter out searches by sizing. So people should just focus on the pictures. If there are no pictures on public display, then just dont message. It's very simple

Fabulous is an accurate description. All that's required is that people choose more carefully the language they use and show a little consideration, it's not difficult.

Would you like to see body type used as a filter on here? I can see where it could be useful to some but it's not something i'd consider using.

Isn't size 16 considered average nowadays?

Haha yes it is. But it's how I view myself. Just like how people view themselves and choose the type that they feel is appropriate to them "

Judging by many of the responses i wonder if it's even necessary to have body type listed on a profile. As it is it seems a little unfair not to have penis size listed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "
no not really. Same as some men who describe themselves as W.E when they are actually average.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? no not really. Same as some men who describe themselves as W.E when they are actually average. "

And the athletic dart players

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yawn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

My mistake. Regardless, it does still depend on definition. I see slim women put curvy on their profile and they clearly do not have the small waist, big hips definition. So are definitely not curvy. If the OP is going to moan about putting curvy on a profile, then I can't see how it's fair to only call out those he deems as overweight. Or could it be that he finds slimmer women desirable, so it's okay for them to put whatever they want on it?

It's a headfuck this site lol

I think it would benefit from a filter search regarding dress size, cock size, height,bra size etc.....so if I searched for a woman I could search for women that have put on.their profile they like guts 6ft onwards say so that they don't appear on my search or say they tick.boxes on.their profiles saying they would only meet guys with 7 inch cock onwards so that mean them women wouldn't show in my search as I'm not their target audience. .

Saves a lot of time for everyone

It would save a lot of time. It would even reduce the message amounts, that some get.... hopefully "

I'd only get about 2 showing in my search lol no one wants a shortie with an average cock haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has different definitions of overweight, curvy etc

If you go off that ideal weight bollocks/bmi and all that then a lot of people are overweight whether it be by 1 pound or 20 pound

Same with curvy some people think of it in different ways and opinions

My personal opinion and example of curvy women would be like kelly brook, salma hayek, scarlett johannsen, holly willoby,

Curvy is a definition not a body type in my opinion. A size 8 can be curvy as can a size 18. It's all in the shape. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 with an hourglass figure. To me, she was the ultimate definition of 'curvy'

I respect your opinion as it's good for everyone to have different opinions rather than be sheep but I had to look up marilyn monroe and look at her pics and she definitely doesn't look a size 16 so looked further into it on a few websites and apparently it was a myth and she was a size 12.

In 1945 she was 120 lbs and dress size 12 then in 1962 from the coroner's report she weighed 117 lbs so don't know why people would think she was a size 16

Available documentation verifies Marilyn’s height and weight at several different times during her life, and her first modeling contract verifies her measurements:

August 2, 1945

Blue Book Modeling Agency

5’ 6”, 120lbs

36-24-34

“Size 12”

February 8, 1954

DOD ID Card

5’ 5 1/2”, 118lbs

August 5, 1962

LA Coroner Medical Report

5’ 5 1/25”, 117lbs

Jesus if those measurements are correct then these days she'd be more a size 6. Maybe a 10 on top due to being busty. I knew the size 16 thing was a myth (I thought it came from a UK 16 being a US 14 and clothes sizes being smaller back then) but she's not even close to a modern day size 12 by them measurements."

I had to look at pics of Marilyn and I was adamant she wasn't a size 16 that's why I put all this info on lol.....now you've got great pics and definitely a lovely curvy body x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever term they decide to use for themselves, you are all delicious either way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing is OP that people will describe themselves as they want. And if you or anyone else don't like the look or sound of someone then walk on by.

If I chat to someone that I think is fugly.. I'm nice enough to not actually tell them that. I say thanks but no. They have an answer and there feelings aren't hurt.

I don't make a thread about people that describe themselves as good looking when actually they are a munter.

We all have different tastes so some may think I'm fugly but others might think I'm beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!

There was no reason to quote the whole thing. I quoted the part that was relevant to my reply. It wasn't a ploy to misquote or take it out of context. It appeared to be a stand alone comment. "

Yes it was because if you had quoted the entire thing you wouldn't have had a leg to stand on because I made it very clear what I meant you just chose to quote a very small portion. You chose to make that part relevant and ignore the rest of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!

There was no reason to quote the whole thing. I quoted the part that was relevant to my reply. It wasn't a ploy to misquote or take it out of context. It appeared to be a stand alone comment.

Yes it was because if you had quoted the entire thing you wouldn't have had a leg to stand on because I made it very clear what I meant you just chose to quote a very small portion. You chose to make that part relevant and ignore the rest of it!"

I've already explained why I quoted that paragraph. If you'd rather argue that than the point I made then I'll leave you to it.

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By *oobsaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I hate getting called fat. Curvy sounds more sexy I think.

Xx

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

In my eyes its not what they look like, its their personality I go for and that majes the dufference between a good meet and a bad one.

I get judged because of the colour of my hair, always had it, especially when.I was younger, but thise people who have met me said I wad a great guy and they were glad they gave me a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting called fat. Curvy sounds more sexy I think.

Xx"

Of course it does, that's why i used it in my profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!

There was no reason to quote the whole thing. I quoted the part that was relevant to my reply. It wasn't a ploy to misquote or take it out of context. It appeared to be a stand alone comment.

Yes it was because if you had quoted the entire thing you wouldn't have had a leg to stand on because I made it very clear what I meant you just chose to quote a very small portion. You chose to make that part relevant and ignore the rest of it!

I've already explained why I quoted that paragraph. If you'd rather argue that than the point I made then I'll leave you to it. "

because if you would quoted the whole thing your statement would have been irrelevant because I very clearly said it is up to the individual on how to describe then self not anybody else! so if an individual wants describe themself as fat or as a skinny mini it is there decision, it is not for anybody else to make judgement or tell them they cannot describe them self in that way. if somebody wants to call themselves curvy its individual choice. So if you're going to quote me quote the whole thing don't just pick a part that suits you and your agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all carry on girls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting called fat. Curvy sounds more sexy I think.

Xx"

Most definitely this

I know what I am.. but if a guy is going to try to seduce me and says I love your fat rather than I love your curves I'd probably flick him in the eye

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I hate getting called fat. Curvy sounds more sexy I think.

Xx

Most definitely this

I know what I am.. but if a guy is going to try to seduce me and says I love your fat rather than I love your curves I'd probably flick him in the eye "

I’m definitely fat and quite like being able to win that, I’m also curvy and describe myself as thick and juicy but it isn’t an option on fab

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By *ighthandfulMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

They are both very alluring terms.. What's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting called fat. Curvy sounds more sexy I think.

Xx

Most definitely this

I know what I am.. but if a guy is going to try to seduce me and says I love your fat rather than I love your curves I'd probably flick him in the eye

I’m definitely fat and quite like being able to win that, I’m also curvy and describe myself as thick and juicy but it isn’t an option on fab "

Ohhh now that I like the sound of! May have to "borrow" your wording lol

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat.

My GP told me to ignore BMI. By my BMI I'm about 1/2 a stone overweight but she said a better indicator is your waist circumference should be less than half your height. I'm 5ft 7 (67 inches) and my waist is 27 inches so by that measure I'm fine. I think my BMI may be skewed by lifting weights and having G cup boobs!"

Exactly. It has its place but its not the best way to measure 'weight' I'm obese according to my BMI. Doesn't take in to account I used to powerlift and now I do oly lifting and strongman. You look fab by the way

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think it's clear that people don't understand what overweight is. Some of the women classifying themselves as fat and overweight are far from it.

BMI is also a poor measure to go by.

Are you a GP?

You don't need to be a GP to know BMI isnt the best measure. Doesn't take in to consideration the weight of muscle or fat just your total weight. You could be 90kg as a woman who is 5'2 and have 15% body fat. Maybe if she was a bodybuilder yeah. Otherwise I highly doubt it."

As a general rule of thumb its okay but in specifics terms when we are talking about individuals its not great.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Anyone else fed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Confused here!

The more overweight I am - the bustier I become! A lucky few ladies are slim with large natural boobs - but as most of a large breast is body fat - it stands to reason that more overweight ladies will be busty than slim ladies?

In the unlikely event that I ever get really slim again - I’ll practically have inverted boobs!

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley

Busty and curvy women are hot!! If you dont think so then maybe you dont fancy busty and curvy women......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer curvy and busty women to skinny ones.. I prefer to say 'voluptuous'. As the owner of a dad bod it would be hypocritical to say otherwise!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Is anyone else fed up of judgemental twats thinking they have the right to decide what women describe themselves as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Not as much as guys who describe themselves as athletic when there actually just skinny

It’s up to each the person how they describe themselves.

Mr

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be perfectly acceptable to call someone fat and nobody has a major problem with it however the minute you say somebody is a skinny minny the world jumps on it.

The majority of people on this thread using the word fat are using it to describe themselves.

if you were going to quote me then please quote everything I've said not just a small portion of it because that is not all I said!

There was no reason to quote the whole thing. I quoted the part that was relevant to my reply. It wasn't a ploy to misquote or take it out of context. It appeared to be a stand alone comment.

Yes it was because if you had quoted the entire thing you wouldn't have had a leg to stand on because I made it very clear what I meant you just chose to quote a very small portion. You chose to make that part relevant and ignore the rest of it!

I've already explained why I quoted that paragraph. If you'd rather argue that than the point I made then I'll leave you to it.

because if you would quoted the whole thing your statement would have been irrelevant because I very clearly said it is up to the individual on how to describe then self not anybody else! so if an individual wants describe themself as fat or as a skinny mini it is there decision, it is not for anybody else to make judgement or tell them they cannot describe them self in that way. if somebody wants to call themselves curvy its individual choice. So if you're going to quote me quote the whole thing don't just pick a part that suits you and your agenda."

My agenda?! To clarify, I agreed with everything in your post, except the paragraph I quoted, hence why I quoted it.

I was just disagreeing with your point that it's seemingly perfectly acceptable to call someone fat, but not a skinny minny. This thread doesn't show that, in fact it shows the opposite.

Again, the only ones to use the word fat were people describing themselves. However, skinny minny was used almost with impunity! The OP didn't even use the word fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feed up with overweight girls describing themselves as curvy or busty?? "

Like men saying they are athletic and they Arnt, I don’t class myself as curvy I’m honest I’m fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell it as it is....im fat but even big ladies can be busty and curvy "

Same here, lots of curves. But I do describe myself as a fatty on my profile, best be open and honest, saves disappointment when the hot model type curvey beauty doesn't turn up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell it as it is....im fat but even big ladies can be busty and curvy

Same here, lots of curves. But I do describe myself as a fatty on my profile, best be open and honest, saves disappointment when the hot model type curvey beauty doesn't turn up xx"

Just means more to play with ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certain have got the right curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ain't fat ffs!!!

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