FabSwingers.com forum: Doms taking control

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m not sure I like the idea of a Sub letting the Dom take over her profile

Writing her status’s

Answering her messages

Are these people just control freaks ?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not about what you like though is it...its not your profile.

your knowledge of a Dom/sub dynamic is non exisent.

why dont you read up on it and you may get the answer to your question.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sure I like the idea of a Sub letting the Dom take over her profile

Writing her status’s

Answering her messages

Are these people just control freaks ?"

Sounds dodgy if someone else is using the profile. Surely it's against site rules.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I’m not sure I like the idea of a Sub letting the Dom take over her profile

Writing her status’s

Answering her messages

Are these people just control freaks ?

Sounds dodgy if someone else is using the profile. Surely it's against site rules."

I don't see why it would be against site rules *if* it's genuine (and not just a guy saying that is the case to get wank fodder using borrowed pics) and *if* it's done with the consent of the page owner - realise there are two big ifs in that though.

As for the OP *if* it's genuine and consensual and fits their D/s dynamic then I don't see the issue personally - D/s involves control and that can manifest itself in any number of ways

If it doesn't fit what you're looking for, just move on to a profile that does.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its not about what you like though is it...its not your profile.

your knowledge of a Dom/sub dynamic is non exisent.

why dont you read up on it and you may get the answer to your question.

Rude

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I message a female profile

It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"So

If I message a female profile

It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?"
if it clearly states that then I don't see the issue.

I used to have a profile many many moons ago where at times I would not log on and it would all be sorted for me. It always said when it was.

If it's not your thing. Pass the profile by

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the dynamic and how long they were talking etc

I would be worried if they had just started talking and he told her that all doms had access to their subs profile and it was his things were done

I know some subs like their doms having access to help with the crap messages they get

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"So

If I message a female profile

It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?"

*IF* they have been upfront about it and it genuinely is the case that there is a lady involved who has given permission to her Dom to have that level of control - then I personally don't see an issue with it - you're aware of the dynamic so the choice is yours whether to accept it.

That said I would be very wary and have my guard up that it wasn't just some bloke saying that was the case to string you along and play games and would want absolute proof that it's genuine, and that there really is a woman involved.

As always, if it smells fishy it often is fishy until proven otherwise

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple in a D/s relationship will have rules and boundaries in place, it will have all been discussed and there will be a high level of trust from both Dom and Sub, so yes its fine to talk to the Dom , but then on the complete flipside women on here will claim to be owned after one meet lol

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nothing upfront

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple in a D/s relationship will have rules and boundaries in place, it will have all been discussed and there will be a high level of trust from both Dom and Sub, so yes its fine to talk to the Dom , but then on the complete flipside women on here will claim to be owned after one meet lol"
further more men will also put their stamp on a woman early too , you would usually sense who is real and who isnt x

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Nothing upfront

So when and how did you find out it was a bloke controlling the profile?

If they'd led you to believe it was the woman controlling it, but then several messages down the line let slip that it was actually a bloke, then it's somewhat different from them telling you in the first message.

Either way, as I said before, if you have your doubts just move on

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"A couple in a D/s relationship will have rules and boundaries in place, it will have all been discussed and there will be a high level of trust from both Dom and Sub, so yes its fine to talk to the Dom , but then on the complete flipside women on here will claim to be owned after one meet lol further more men will also put their stamp on a woman early too , you would usually sense who is real and who isnt x"

Paper collar syndrome

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing upfront

Then report the messages and profile. It's a fake situation. If no-one reports them they'll just carry on duping other people.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing upfront

So when and how did you find out it was a bloke controlling the profile?

Either way, as I said before, if you have your doubts just move on

A status saying

‘ this is Dom ‘

Then a load of wants and demands

You think I’m making it up ?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"So

If I message a female profile

It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?"

No,someone else can't use your profile. Report the profile and Admin will take a look.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Edited * No,someone else can't use another persons profile. Report the profile and Admin will take a look.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately