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How Long have you been Swinging for

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up

Ive been swinging a long time now... had my first 3sum at 20 and It kinda all went down hill from there.. I didn't know it was called swinging when I started.

It just was fun.. and it took some sorting out back then without the internet.. Started to go to parties with my ex husband.. but I hated them as he wouldn't let me play with the guys my age.. and I basically spent the evening sat talking to anyone that couldn't get laid...

about 17 or 18 years ago I went to Chams for the first time and that for me was a game changer.. Loved clubs and from then on never looked back.

Ive swapped and changed over the years.. Still like group play but currently not my soul ambition and I am sure over time I will carry on involving..

So how long and what brought you to swinging in the first place.

Thanks... from a Nosey Cali x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Certainly over 40 years and I didn't know it had a name, I just enjoyed it

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By *ofusandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have been swinging for about 8 years on and off, had 2 kids in between. All started when I (mr) had the fantasy of seeing the Mrs with another man. Didn't know how she would react when I asked her but we talked about it for a while before deciding to meet a couple. I had no interest in playing with another woman but we thought it would it be a more chilled out scenario. Didn't work out that night so we ended up sticking to single men and I couldn't be happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 years iirc. Used to be a member on D&Ms. Various degrees of success tbh

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

10yrs or so... but sexually active over 25yrs

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Probably about 5 years, but in two phases: 2010-13 (the introduction!) and got back into the swing, as it were, earlier this year. Hoping it's just as much fun this time round!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we have been swinging for 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years which covers doing it as part of a couple twice and also solo time. Like you OP started at Chams which I still frequent now and then.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

About 10 years or so - been here on Fab since 2010

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Only been going clubs for just over a year now but loving the scene so far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over a year now and enjoying it.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We started about 15 years ago after my wife told me she’d had a threesome when she was 15 years old! I started asking why nothing like that had happened to me! we started exploring within our boundaries, we’ve done it all since then, from mfm to gangbangs, full swaps and full on group fun to closed separate solo meets! Then it all got a bit much so we took long time out! We just dip our toes occasionally nowadays when we fancy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 minutes.

I should probably jump off and try seesaw-ing or sliding.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

like you op never knew it had a name but over 35 years for me

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

About 20 years, used contact mags then..hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 15 minutes.

I should probably jump off and try seesaw-ing or sliding."
lol....

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

4 months, which isn't a lot compared to the years on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11years for me but 20 years for hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since June 2016 xx

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By *arahBaby123Woman
over a year ago

WORCESTER

11 months...and loving every minute! Xx

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

About 15 years now ...started on AOL chat rooms then another swinging site .Been on her about 8 years now . Currently having a rest ....but be back playing later in year

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"About 15 years now ...started on AOL chat rooms then another swinging site .Been on her about 8 years now . Currently having a rest ....but be back playing later in year "

We too moved on to other sites,but this is by far the best

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It was polaroids and PO boxes when we first delved into this life, popped it on the back burner for a long time, so much easier now

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We first started playing with friends over 25 years ago, but we've become rather more active in the last 10 years

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"About 10 years or so - been here on Fab since 2010"

Just checked - joined here on 2009 and was active elsewhere two or three years before that... doesn't tempus bloody fugit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very brief encounter back in 2006 but I didn’t really enjoy it, so it was another three years after that when I bit the bullet and gave it another go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only occasionally over a near 30 year period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been swinging for about 10 years, love it even if meets have dried up recently

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By *ristolwife4blkWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"About 20 years, used contact mags then..hilarious "

Lol snap! It's over 20 years for me I can remember the first time was an ad in the trade it lol ???? sad times x

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Joined a 'heaven'ly site when I was at uni some 15 years back.. Have lerked on forums, met in clubs and the off private meet here and there since, with some big blank spots. If we're counting the actual time playing out of that ? Probably been swinging since about mid day Hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had first mmf with an ex partner about 15 years ago we loved it did it regular it the same said person, when that ended didn’t really have the bond or trust so to speak to continue the lifestyle regular! Had various situations and am probably more promiscuous than a swinger. Been on and off fab about three years but used other sites before this one and even contact mags. Clubs about two years ago and love them ! My journey had barely started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging for 10 years although for the last 5 years (on & off) dabbling/educating myself into the D/s dynamics/ BDSM Scene more these days..

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Only 5 years for me ... still ticking the boxes as I go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5/6 weeks!! Loving it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 month or so but I am hooked and getting more and more filthy!

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