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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey all, wondering if you have any tips for me.

I never masturbated as a kid and only learnt to actually cum with a vibe about 9 years or so ago. I am getting increasingly frustrated that I can't come without one. I am getting really close, from oral, from someone else playing with me and from playing with myself but the only way I can actually cum is with a vibe. G-spot orgasms are not problem and I squirt a ridiculous amount.

So has anyone else had similar problems and does anyone have any suggestions to help. I can get insanely turned on from oral but just can't go the last step into an orgasm.

Guys, please don't see this as a challenge. I need to learn to do this myself.

Thanks for your help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax just do it,when you wanna cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey all, wondering if you have any tips for me.

So has anyone else had similar problems and does anyone have any suggestions to help. I can get insanely turned on from oral but just can't go the last step into an orgasm.

Guys, please don't see this as a challenge. I need to learn to do this myself.

Thanks for your help!!"

When you come g spot is that through normal intercourse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I don't have a vagina and therefore my opinion may mean diddley-squat

but isn't usually stuff like this all in the mind? If you get frustrated with it it will only get worse. It may, however, just be that you can't cum that way. I'm sure there are plenty of others who can't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no problems making myself cum. But there is one position that I can make myself cum in seconds, it's like an immediate trigger for me. It's a simple, quite adolescent position, but that's when I first tried it. I'm guessing everyone is different but you could try it?

Lie face down with your legs closed and grind your clit against your hands. Hands stay still body moves. Tighten the pelvic floor as you do this. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men make me cum some dont, it doesnt bother me that much, just that some men seem to want me to cum and they make more of an effort, they seem to know exactly how to do it right, either with their finger or their mouth, makes me cum quicker if i am playing with a mans cock at the same time.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I can cum through masturbation with a vibrator but not with my fingers a mans finger or oral. I occasionally cum through penetration but tbh i dont care anymore as long as I've had a good seeing to im happy.. The more its made a issue of the less likely it is it will happen. Why does having a orgasm mean you've had a good shag? I had a clitoral orgasm with a wand and was painful. Much prefer the g spot ones i have now and then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have gspot o's all the time but they are nothing like the clitoral ones, but take everyone's point about not worrying (which tbh I don't), just love the feeling of cumming and would like to do it more often. I get so close and I know it is mental, I think my body doesn't know how to let go...

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