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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

At the moment, want to meet new people but lacking a bit of confidence to go and meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

what's making you feel a lack of confidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep an eye out for the next group social in your area. They're mostly guaranteed nothing will happen, so can take the pressure off a bit.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s a fine line

Confidence is a BIG yes

But then Arrogance is a BIG DELETE

Without confidence just hide away.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"It’s a fine line

Confidence is a BIG yes

But then Arrogance is a BIG DELETE

Without confidence just hide away."

Just been off the bicycle for a while. It's also very nervous meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they sold confidence in bottles what little i had is going by the day

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"I wish they sold confidence in bottles what little i had is going by the day"

Is confidence gained from yourself or others?

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By *onelfMan
over a year ago

Saltash

Confidence is a preference.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Confidence is a preference.

"

Not sure it is a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they sold confidence in bottles what little i had is going by the day

Is confidence gained from yourself or others? "

Confidence is a belief in yourself and is not gained or gifted from others. Is it lack of confidence or nerves OP? .. only you can answer that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake it till you make it. Some days I have none but build my own confidence. Mines been hit this week by ending things with a regular meet. But I'm determined to come out stronger and more confident

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Confidence is a funny bugger - you can't *make* yourself be confident purely by thinking about it as such, but you can drain your confidence completely by thinking about it in a negative way.

The only real way to gain confidence is by doing the very thing you are lacking confidence in, and accepting that sometimes it just might not go the way you want it to, but the more you do it, the more it goes right and the more you gain confidence or come to realise that the things you were doubting yourself for weren't worth worrying about.

I find it helps to try and think of the positives even if they're just tiny seemingly meaningless ones, of any given situation and try and focus on them, rather than the negatives - you'll be amazed how much positive thinking can help.

Now I know all that is easier said than done, but just thinking of the positives is a good way to start to turn your thoughts around.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Confidence is a funny bugger - you can't *make* yourself be confident purely by thinking about it as such, but you can drain your confidence completely by thinking about it in a negative way.

The only real way to gain confidence is by doing the very thing you are lacking confidence in, and accepting that sometimes it just might not go the way you want it to, but the more you do it, the more it goes right and the more you gain confidence or come to realise that the things you were doubting yourself for weren't worth worrying about.

I find it helps to try and think of the positives even if they're just tiny seemingly meaningless ones, of any given situation and try and focus on them, rather than the negatives - you'll be amazed how much positive thinking can help.

Now I know all that is easier said than done, but just thinking of the positives is a good way to start to turn your thoughts around."

PMA!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You're in Blackpool, I would suggest Club SX, just go along along with the flow, no pressure and a very relaxed atmosphere, see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence is a preference.

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Parklife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the people .... so many people ...

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"At the moment, want to meet new people but lacking a bit of confidence to go and meet. "

go to clubs that's were I started you want get sex first time but the more you go the better and in time you get lots that can see your real and not just someone off here

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Thanks

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