FabSwingers.com forum: Bad boy or nice guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you ladies like then .??

I’m more nice guy with adventurous naughty streak .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good guy with a bad side

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mystique you look amazing very sexy melting here xxxxx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

A good guy with the glint of the devil in his eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Annabelle great legs look amazing xxx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I prefer a nice guy with a little bit of a naughty streak.

Bad boy is just another name for an asshole!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I seem to be a bad boy of swinging but it's funny because I'm really not. I just take no shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice guys finish last.

Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.

Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...

(This is only my opinion)

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Nice guys finish last.

Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.

Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...

(This is only my opinion)"

It's not true, women who know what they want don't. You can't be a doormat though have to have some backbone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a nice guy with a little bit of a naughty streak.

Bad boy is just another name for an asshole! "

Probably right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice guys finish last.

Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.

Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...

(This is only my opinion)"

Most women will love a guy cumming last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice guy every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice guys finish last.

Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.

Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...

(This is only my opinion)"

I love a strong man that values their own worth. Not a bad boy

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Annabelle great legs look amazing xxx"

Thanks hun appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha affliction for bad boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good guy with a lusty naughty glint in his eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nice guy, bad boys bring too much drama and I’m too old for that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice guys finish last.

Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.

Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...

(This is only my opinion)"

Nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good guy with a bad side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good guy with a bad side

This. Got a particular Scouser in mind.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Good guy with a bad side

This. Got a particular Scouser in mind.

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I'm only half scouse though.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I like a nice guy with a backbone! It's a fine balance, I don't like a guy fawning over me, I need someone who can also keep me on my toes but excite me at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good guy with the glint of the devil in his eye"

I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good guy with a bad side

This. Got a particular Scouser in mind.

Oh I fit that description!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy" "

God yes.

I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.

Bad boys so often lack basic respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Yeah, that's somewhere between not important and annoying.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

"
Just a chivalrous thing to do.

Don't do it to a feminist though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

A bad boy is all ways a good guy around me x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

"
See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla. "

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. "
My old man is a true gent, taught me a few things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. My old man is a true gent, taught me a few things.

As much as you annoy me and wind up I don’t doubt for a minute that you’re not.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. "
Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

As much as you annoy me and wind up I don’t doubt for a minute that you’re not. "
I just bribe people for good veris.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A good guy with the glint of the devil in his eye"

This, everytime x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys can still be nice without fawning over you and acting like it's the 1950s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy"

God yes.

I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.

Bad boys so often lack basic respect. "

In my experience, referring to yourself as a “nice guy” tends to mean you actually hold chauvistic attitudes towards women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though. "

Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. "

This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treaded like one.

Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy"

God yes.

I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.

Bad boys so often lack basic respect.

In my experience, referring to yourself as a “nice guy” tends to mean you actually hold chauvistic attitudes towards women. "

Like what? Define chauvinism. If holding doors and pulling chairs out is chauvinistic then this is a very sad world we live in.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.

Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it!"
Yeah I thought vanilla just meant missionary position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.

This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.

Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise. "

I was brought up to respect everyone and treat people how I expect to be treated. I wouldn't know how to be a bad boy as its just not in me to be one. Has it hampered my sexual endeavours....well yes, yes it has but so be it. I am who i am and i won't change that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I display tendencies of both. So I’m gonna sit on that fence lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should always be who you are and proud of it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.

This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.

Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.

Do you really believe that not being a 'bad boy' has ruined your chance of a shag sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.

This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.

Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.

I think by bad boy people mean naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

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See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.

Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it! Yeah I thought vanilla just meant missionary position."

I don’t have a clue what it is. I like what I like and won’t do what I don’t like. Whatever that makes me I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are just as appealing if authentic. Authenticity and being true to yourself is what is attractive. Men trying to be bad when they aren't is very unattractive. I have fallen in love with bad boys and nice boys. Can't say i prefer one over the other.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets

. Please. Thankyou

See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.

You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.

I don’t have a clue what it is. I like what I like and won’t do what I don’t like. Whatever that makes me I don’t know. "
Yeah same, just find compatible people.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'd rather have a gentleman... that I can corrupt

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

A nice guy but not a yes man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You could corrupt me anyway _inful xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell for a real bad boy when is 16, still with him now and he is a really nice guy, and everyone who knows him, knows this.

They say a leopard never changes its spots, I disagree, he is my proof.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fell for a real bad boy when is 16, still with him now and he is a really nice guy, and everyone who knows him, knows this.

They say a leopard never changes its spots, I disagree, he is my proof.

Jo.Xx"

*when I was 16

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.

One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though

Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?

This always puzzles me

Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.

This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.

Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.

Do you really believe that not being a 'bad boy' has ruined your chance of a shag sometimes?"

100% definitely, being the nice guy tends to get you friend zoned, particularly if there us a bad boy within the group as well!!

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Guess it depends what we mean by 'nice' and 'bad'?

But i just love a nice guy with that naughty glint

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"Good guy with a bad side

I got nice guy out of bed and bad guy in it

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By *lwaysdiscreetMan
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

So if everyone wants a nice guy.

Why is it that the nice guys like myself can't for the life or want of trying so dam hard get a meeting.

But then here from ladies and couples about the amount of guys that are not doing things the right way.

But for some reason still go with them.

So this nice guy thing is pants.

Because we try try try so hard to get the door shut in are face.

But be the other side of the coin and happy day's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice on the street and a devil in the sheets

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some years ago I knew a lass who's boyfriend was sent down for robbing a taxi driver. He had been sent down for robbery before, she told me that the first time they met he stole her mobile. However she told me that she liked 'bad boys.' I advised her that if she wanted a 'bad boy,' date a banker, they can steal millions and get away from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once formally assessed as 'cunning but legal, with the ability to be an absolute bastard should the occasion demand it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a bit of both

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