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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just surveying my friends list and doing a bit of downsizing...wondered for what reasons do other folk remove people from their friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I decide that actually I don't want to meet them either for a social or second meet. Those that abuse my mobile number and those that I haven't seen on line for several months.

And of course those I have to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only add people who we have met in person, or are going to the same private party, or trying to arrange a meeting with.

If we dont meet at the party or trying to arrange a meet has fizzled out we'll remove them.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I only add people Ive met or a meet is imminent.

If we subsequently dont meet I remove them, and I remove others I have met if we dont keep in touch and its fairly obvious we are not going to meet again.

Its not meant to be any sort of snub, I just dont see the point of having a long list of people I dont keep in touch with...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em."

Haha yes I agree with that,I just knock em off if they don't keep in touch,if they were interested they would be chatting to me

Not literally knock em off!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Oh I removed one yesterday as I did'nt like his status

Not that im at all fussy!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em.

Haha yes I agree with that,I just knock em off if they don't keep in touch,if they were interested they would be chatting to me

Not literally knock em off! "

Please dont knock me off. Oh go on then you can.

Agree with View and HPC though

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

When they not friends???

We only add people we have met or intend on meeting....

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em."

Because they screaming out for some of them to instigate a chat?

Gawd forbid they be the ones that start the conversation......

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em.

Because they screaming out for some of them to instigate a chat?

Gawd forbid they be the ones that start the conversation......"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do a cull every now and then, if I have no intention of meeting or they haven't made contact in say a month but been online every night then gone!

Always get questioned afterwards though! No idea why some people make it a big deal about being on someone's friends list? I find it bizarre....does anyone else?

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We send the odd message out to people on our list once in a while..like christmas/new year for instance..those that dont want to reply get 'offed'..it wont bother them, and it keeps our list down to genuine people who are happy to remain friends..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I never quite get the 'am clearing my friends in 24 hours' thing... if they haven't spoken in ages, why give them 24 hours.

just clear em."

I do that

But you have just made me think... why do I do it

I think it's just a habit from msn and yahoo... I would have regular clearouts on there because of all the one-offs which I didn't need to keep in touch with... but sadly I am crap at remembering people if the dialog isn't regular, so I would do a message saying it was clearout time and if they wanted to stay on the list to let me know.

It didn't mean I wanted to talk to them, I just wanted to be sure whoever stayed on my contacts was a potential future booty call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i delete people who havent msg me in a while or who have added me and never reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I don't hear anything from them after the first contact and I feel we are unlikely to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I removed a few recently as they dont msg or reply to any of mine and therfore must have no intentions of meeting up in the future so no point being on there really is there

I no what a ladys private parts look like so am in no hurry to collect pictures off them from friends list that never keep in contact, no correspondence then no need to be on my friends list im afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the thoughts...the reasons for people being removed are similar to mine really.The primary explanation for me is when people add you as a friend and then fail to respond to a message.They are immediately deleted.Next are the ones who initially express an interest and then go silent.Neither seem 'friendly' to me so I remove them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they are online frequently and dont chat. i change my mind about them or if meet isnt a success. i never add if request sent before chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point of friends?

If you want to keep up to date with their statuses etc, add them to your hotlist.

People look through friends list and think 'were not playing with them if they played with that couple...'

Similar with Verifications too.

You either meet and play or your just looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete for numerous reasons, due to lack of contact, if we do not want to meet them etc It is hard to have a definitive reason as they change from profile to profile.

We do not use Fab friends as we do with other social networking sites. Often we add people as a reminder to us that we want to meet them etc.

Sarah and Mat xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Oh I removed one yesterday as I did'nt like his status

Not that im at all fussy! "

I do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only add people who we have met in person, or are going to the same private party, or trying to arrange a meeting with.

If we dont meet at the party or trying to arrange a meet has fizzled out we'll remove them."
+1

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