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How young is to young!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was browsing the new pictures section and through a hop, skip and a jump, came across the profile of an 18 year old male who had a fair number of verifications from males, females and couples all attesting to what a great lad he is and how much fun has been had with him by all.

Now maybe I’m a little jealous here because I’d have loved to have done half of what he’d done by the time I was 18 (alright, even a quarter would have been great) but my point is, if you’re an 18 year old bi guy (or girl) and you’ve explored fun with guys, girls and couples with nothing off the table, what’s left on your bucket list by the time you’re 20?

I’m in my 40s and have played for the last 5-7 years and now am pretty much through my bucket list. There’s a couple of things left that I’m intrigued to try but (pardon the pun) if I kick the bucket and don’t try them, I won’t feel like I’ve missed out on maximizing life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ugh - typo in the subject *too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I feel, as long as you're of age and are able to consider risk and behave responsibly, have at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who needs a bucket list? It’s legal. Let them do as they wish. Good for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel, as long as you're of age and are able to consider risk and behave responsibly, have at it. "

Some people can't do that at 40

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I feel, as long as you're of age and are able to consider risk and behave responsibly, have at it.

Some people can't do that at 40"

Unfortunately true.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

He might not view his sex life as a series of experiences to be ticked off as he goes along. It might be the life he will live long term.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've removed posts. Please don't mention under 18s

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've removed posts. Please don't mention under 18s "

I was going to say re that... That's too young.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've removed posts. Please don't mention under 18s

I was going to say re that... That's too young. "

It's a forum rule

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've removed posts. Please don't mention under 18s

I was going to say re that... That's too young.

It's a forum rule "

Oh no, I know that. But I meant 18 and up is fine, otherwise no. There's my line.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I've removed posts. Please don't mention under 18s "

Why was mine removed the moment I posted it? It didn't mention under 18s at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as it's over 18 then anything goes......with full consent where needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably sound like an old man, but the OP has a point. For me 18 is a young age to experience the swinging lifestyle and get your head around it. He may also have been taken advantage of. At 18 you are still developing, he may be very mature and well balanced, most 18 year olds I know would still be on their Xbox. That's my thoughts any way. And before anyone says it he is old enough to make his own decisions, he's old enough to vote etc

Anyway happy swinging

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Probably sound like an old man, but the OP has a point. For me 18 is a young age to experience the swinging lifestyle and get your head around it. He may also have been taken advantage of. At 18 you are still developing, he may be very mature and well balanced, most 18 year olds I know would still be on their Xbox. That's my thoughts any way. And before anyone says it he is old enough to make his own decisions, he's old enough to vote etc

Anyway happy swinging"

Life comes with regrets. He may one day regret it. That's up to him, because that's the line we've drawn as a society.

I regret not doing it sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possible to fulfil every fantasy, wish or dream in a year, or two or three?.

Would you say the same to a 40 year old who had done the same?

An 18 year old could do all that, then get married at 25 and continue with a partner.

Some people have adventurous sex lives throughout their lives.

Some have breaks and pick it up again after a few years.

There is no diary or itinerary we have to stick to.

Starting young doesn't mean ebdubg young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to fulfil every fantasy, wish or dream in a year, or two or three?.

Would you say the same to a 40 year old who had done the same?

An 18 year old could do all that, then get married at 25 and continue with a partner.

Some people have adventurous sex lives throughout their lives.

Some have breaks and pick it up again after a few years.

There is no diary or itinerary we have to stick to.

Starting young doesn't mean ebdubg young.

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well said

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely. My fantasies are evolving. And I don't do things for the sake of doing them.

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By *urveLurverMan
over a year ago

Skyview

If you have to have a regret, regret something you have done, not something you have not done.

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By *arble EyeMan
over a year ago

Wherever I am

Totally agree, enjoy what you can for as long as you can

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Live your life your way and leave him to live his.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

OP ....the younger generation is far more sexually liberated therefore to them it's just natural. Back when I was 18 it was frowned upon to even mention sex.

Fair play to him, life's for living and I'm trying to catch up !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair thoughts everyone, it’s just my point of view. I don’t think I’m criticizing his lifestyle, just questioning what’s left to try.

Many will disagree but sex gets boring after a bit and I’m always intrigued to try new things to keep it fresh.

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