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By *runo30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rye

Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "

Too many lovely normal guys. What a bummer!

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "
where in south??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the time of year, no one is vwe in this weather, good luck with your search Op, maybe wait for the Spring.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "

To be fair, your profile is doing nothing to attract people.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the time of year, no one is vwe in this weather, good luck with your search Op, maybe wait for the Spring."

It's true. They all migrate South for winter.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "

check out my guy _ice guy 44 he is 9 inch solid god does it feel so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check us out. 3 guys can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same problem. No decent guys that are VWE here in the southwest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class vwe

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"What do you class vwe"

Critical this

Which remote? Normal lynx or the newer smaller can etc

Measure from the base, balls or arsehole

So many variables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you class vwe"

Bigger than a tic tac, smaller than a butternut squash.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Same problem. No decent guys that are VWE here in the southwest. "

Same in Leeds. Plenty of huge dicks with cocks. But a decent and respectful VWE male is hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you class vwe

Bigger than a tic tac, smaller than a butternut squash."

I like the answer

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are plenty of VWE guys this way. Although I try to attract people with my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the 'bigger guy' is too busy grooming his ego....

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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago

Bexley/Buxton


"I guess the 'bigger guy' is too busy grooming his ego...."

Or fucking the women you are chancing lol. Well your comment does come acoss as sour grapes.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Ohh there are definitely a few on here and some of them very humble and polite too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ohh there are definitely a few on here and some of them very humble and polite too. "

Yeah, I've met a few great guys where it's like... Holy shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh there are definitely a few on here and some of them very humble and polite too. "

Oh dear lord you're hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God damn those men and their biologically unchangeable characteristics

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

ah you see op you have that infamous profile which says the single man must be very exceptional. we all think we are, but how do we know you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah you see op you have that infamous profile which says the single man must be very exceptional. we all think we are, but how do we know you are?"

Does it matter? I mean seriously, does it actually matter whether she is in practical reality?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It’s the time of year, no one is vwe in this weather, good luck with your search Op, maybe wait for the Spring."

Well if they are VWE this time of the year then keep in touch with them because they’re going to be eye-watering in the Summer lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There's plenty.

But they have to want to meet you too.

As Mick once said - you can't always get what you want......

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s the time of year, no one is vwe in this weather, good luck with your search Op, maybe wait for the Spring.

Well if they are VWE this time of the year then keep in touch with them because they’re going to be eye-watering in the Summer lol "

I'm just going to clamp my legs shut now.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

What is your version of VWE? And yoi have no public photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere?

check out my guy _ice guy 44 he is 9 inch solid god does it feel so good"

You 2 could make this lady a very happy woman!!!!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I guess the 'bigger guy' is too busy grooming his ego...."

Well, big penis does equal big head

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Plenty on fab and they can be like buses, waiting a while and then suddenly a load queue up. Mostly they don't make a major thing of it, in my experience - just great people who have a very well proportioned gift to delight. The midlands and north seem great for good guys - London too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same problem. No decent guys that are VWE here in the southwest.

Same in Leeds. Plenty of huge dicks with cocks. But a decent and respectful VWE male is hard to find."

Isn't that how you want to find them? Hard!

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere?

To be fair, your profile is doing nothing to attract people.

Cal"
Amen to that guys xx

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By *onkatimMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Same problem. No decent guys that are VWE here in the southwest. "

depends on what you define as vwe

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By *ockyjohnMan
over a year ago

North West

Travelling to the south is where I fail .....

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

Maybe the VWE guys don't like buckets. Throwing a sausage down an ally is no fun no matter how big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the VWE guys don't like buckets. Throwing a sausage down an ally is no fun no matter how big "

No need to be bitter just because the OP's preference is VWE

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

There’s loads of vwe on here, just read the stories section, everyone that puts a story on is at least 9 inches

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By *runo30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rye

As the female half, nothing wrong with a vwe man as a treat, so good might try two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere?

To be fair, your profile is doing nothing to attract people.

Cal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the female half, nothing wrong with a vwe man as a treat, so good might try two. "

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

No not bitter just standing up for the average size guys which actually make up the majority on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not bitter just standing up for the average size guys which actually make up the majority on here "

They are not putting down average sized guys though. But you chose to put them down.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Maybe the VWE guys don't like buckets. Throwing a sausage down an ally is no fun no matter how big "

Umm. Rude. They're looking for VWE. They're allowed. They didn't put you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not bitter just standing up for the average size guys which actually make up the majority on here

They are not putting down average sized guys though. But you chose to put them down. "

Oh I think that's more than a little disingenuous. It may be a small minority that actively put down average size guys but ultimately unless you are extremely delicate in your phrasing here it's pretty hard not to indirectly insult them when making a demand like this. Penis size is a metric that women have used to shame and judge men since the dawn of time, how can it be anything other than insulting when you are told you aren't good enough for someone because of it. And moreover the usual phrasing is "if you aren't bigger than X, don't even think about/bother messaging us" basically stating outright that you're effectively worthless if you aren't in their criteria.

Do they have every right? Yes, they do.

Does everyone else have the right to think they are jackasses? Yes, yes they do.

Some people should really consider how their profile comes across, and not just that but whether or not their priorities are set right. We have had a few messages, some recently where they have taken an interest in us, where our M's penis size is very clearly visible in our pictures and we simply disregard them outright because their profile is downright insulting. Perhaps they should consider why their behaviour (messaging a couple with an average sized penis) doesn't match their demanding profile and decide which is their priority. We disregard similarly the sizeable minority of homophobes we see around the place too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are 13 inches (between the 2 of us ha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh there are definitely a few on here and some of them very humble and polite too.

Oh dear lord you're hot "

Agreed

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By *rand GestureMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes/London


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "

And yet your profile states you're not looking for single men. It might be because they can't contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not bitter just standing up for the average size guys which actually make up the majority on here

They are not putting down average sized guys though. But you chose to put them down.

Oh I think that's more than a little disingenuous. It may be a small minority that actively put down average size guys but ultimately unless you are extremely delicate in your phrasing here it's pretty hard not to indirectly insult them when making a demand like this. Penis size is a metric that women have used to shame and judge men since the dawn of time, how can it be anything other than insulting when you are told you aren't good enough for someone because of it. And moreover the usual phrasing is "if you aren't bigger than X, don't even think about/bother messaging us" basically stating outright that you're effectively worthless if you aren't in their criteria.

Do they have every right? Yes, they do.

Does everyone else have the right to think they are jackasses? Yes, yes they do.

Some people should really consider how their profile comes across, and not just that but whether or not their priorities are set right. We have had a few messages, some recently where they have taken an interest in us, where our M's penis size is very clearly visible in our pictures and we simply disregard them outright because their profile is downright insulting. Perhaps they should consider why their behaviour (messaging a couple with an average sized penis) doesn't match their demanding profile and decide which is their priority. We disregard similarly the sizeable minority of homophobes we see around the place too"

So by this, you are agreeing that the comment that this user made was justifiable then? Based on the OP's question?

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham

It takes all types and I am well endowed but this couple have a reputation of messing guys about / arranging meets and simply not showing up.

It takes all types on here though and that makes genuine meets all the more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't understand why women always want well endowed they probably only can take about 4 inches and its like what a waste of all that cock.... Genuine average men are happy fucking any type of woman whether you're fat, thin, ugly, tall, small, hairy or gaping like a hotdog down a tunnel. Women only have 3 preferences it seems masculine, well endowed or black.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"I just don't understand why women always want well endowed they probably only can take about 4 inches and its like what a waste of all that cock.... Genuine average men are happy fucking any type of woman whether you're fat, thin, ugly, tall, small, hairy or gaping like a hotdog down a tunnel. Women only have 3 preferences it seems masculine, well endowed or black. "

its not always good having a big cock been to a few partys and there hubs want let me fuck there wifes because its big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe we still cannot find a vwe guy 40-60 photos and verifications who can travel to the South, must be out there somewhere? "

Very exceptional vwe guys you want yet you have no pics....and you want them between 40 - 60, 50 - 60 maybe but a very exceptional 40 year old guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is you see it all the time in porn and stuff, you get this one girl wanting the biggest cock about 14 inches ... It only goes like 5 inches into her and she can't go further ... There's like 9 inches being wasted I just don't understand the point ...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The thing is you see it all the time in porn and stuff, you get this one girl wanting the biggest cock about 14 inches ... It only goes like 5 inches into her and she can't go further ... There's like 9 inches being wasted I just don't understand the point ... "

It's what they want. Respect their wishes.

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By *runo30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rye

Not always about length ,the girth is more pleasurable

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