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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Ghosting is after you have met somebody though. It is cowardly behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a variety of reasons this happens sometimes unfortunately and although it's easier said that done try not to take it personally x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is after you have met somebody though. It is cowardly behaviour."

We did meet...

Socially with plan of playing this weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must be nuts not meeting you!!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Ghosting is after you have met somebody though. It is cowardly behaviour.

We did meet...

Socially with plan of playing this weekend."

Ah right, maybe got cold feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosting is after you have met somebody though. It is cowardly behaviour.

We did meet...

Socially with plan of playing this weekend."

Looking at your pics I'd say it's definitely his loss

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Ghosting is after you have met somebody though. It is cowardly behaviour.

We did meet...

Socially with plan of playing this weekend.

Looking at your pics I'd say it's definitely his loss "

I concur

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

It's crap isn't it...

It's not that hard to say thanks but no thanks is it..?

Chris x

Ps. He must be mad...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr"

You can have the abundant mindset though. Be queues lining up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's crap isn't it...

It's not that hard to say thanks but no thanks is it..?

Chris x

Ps. He must be mad...!

"

I really could understand someone saying- No thanks. I’m a big enough girl...

But nothing after weeks of messages- meeting and sending pics.

I feel rejected

Lol

Mrs P

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr"

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

"

He crazy not to meet you, but unfortunately as most couple and single ladies say you just have to move on, people change their minds weather their women, couples, or men. Put it down to experience plenty more single guys on here.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

People are weird I can't work them out we're all here to have fun and get on as swingers we should be open and respectful not everyone will find me there cuppa tea and likewise not all are for me. Why people lead on or pretend otherwise il never get but I do agree with another poster here about the threads authors by the sneak peak il admit to having of you there fools and there loss x

Sadly for everyway genuine decent respectful person or couple on here there seems to be half dozen idiots maybe I'm sceptical lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know. "

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives"

If you've already met him and he turned up last time, he may well do.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Oh yes we all accept a valid reason life can't always go to plan but a decent person has decency to give that reason and explain or apologise or rearrange perhaps as well as sceptical I'm bit old fashion in my ways x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives"

On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yes we all accept a valid reason life can't always go to plan but a decent person has decency to give that reason and explain or apologise or rearrange perhaps as well as sceptical I'm bit old fashion in my ways x"

Yup

Exactapod

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?"

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

"

I would of guessed higher as he might have a more abundant mindset with women.

Some flake because they get a more appealing offer to themselves like maybe a 1-1.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bit weird when you've already had a social!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

"

Happened so much to us. I don’t think we’re an unattractive couple. Sure we look better in the flesh than our pics. Yet still we struggle. Either they disappear before a social or get cold feet on play meets. Given up with Fab now as nothing since September but disappointment after disappointment so profile hidden and we’re concentrating on friends, clubs, socials and fun. (And dipping into forum!) people forget to be honest on here and that’s where the decency has disappeared to...Mrs J

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

"

Well as the others have already commented he must be made as your as sexy as hell and it would be a dream to play with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

Happened so much to us. I don’t think we’re an unattractive couple. Sure we look better in the flesh than our pics. Yet still we struggle. Either they disappear before a social or get cold feet on play meets. Given up with Fab now as nothing since September but disappointment after disappointment so profile hidden and we’re concentrating on friends, clubs, socials and fun. (And dipping into forum!) people forget to be honest on here and that’s where the decency has disappeared to...Mrs J"

I’m so sorry to hear that.

It is truly pants!

X

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

Happened so much to us. I don’t think we’re an unattractive couple. Sure we look better in the flesh than our pics. Yet still we struggle. Either they disappear before a social or get cold feet on play meets. Given up with Fab now as nothing since September but disappointment after disappointment so profile hidden and we’re concentrating on friends, clubs, socials and fun. (And dipping into forum!) people forget to be honest on here and that’s where the decency has disappeared to...Mrs J"

Your very right in what you say but don't give up there's some genuine decent people still here x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows "

His ears were burning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

Well as the others have already commented he must be made as your as sexy as hell and it would be a dream to play with you"

Lol

You flirt x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows "

*Delete thread quick!!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His wife probably cancelled bingo

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

Well as the others have already commented he must be made as your as sexy as hell and it would be a dream to play with you

Lol

You flirt x"

Can't help but agree with his statement about you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows His ears were burning. "

He has his spies

Or other profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives On a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive would you say he was?

Lol

6 or 7...

sexy as fuck but hadn’t seen his cock yet!

Well as the others have already commented he must be made as your as sexy as hell and it would be a dream to play with you

Lol

You flirt x

Can't help but agree with his statement about you xx"

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows "

Alls well that ends well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows

Alls well that ends well "

Well- we can only but see...

I’m all for giving people a second chance

But if he steps out of line again- it’s honestly.... NEXT!

I’ll make him do press ups next time I see him!

Mrs P

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Stand down

Stand down

He’s been back in touch

Seems the power of you guys has brought him out of the shadows

Alls well that ends well

Well- we can only but see...

I’m all for giving people a second chance

But if he steps out of line again- it’s honestly.... NEXT!

I’ll make him do press ups next time I see him!

Mrs P"

Mixed press-ups I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

"

He may have got cold feet. A lot of single guys like the idea of swinging. However when they get the chance to have a meet they shit themselves and get scared.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time. "

I literally only meet by chance in clubs now if people just happened to be there.

Takes me completely out of the ghosting/timewasting arena.

I found there are so many flakes, fakes and time wasters on here that that's the only way I will let my time we spent now.

I have a fabulous time at clubs, usually a lot more social than anything else, but it works for me and I feel it's time well spent and invested.

Each to their own of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time. "

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

I literally only meet by chance in clubs now if people just happened to be there.

Takes me completely out of the ghosting/timewasting arena.

I found there are so many flakes, fakes and time wasters on here that that's the only way I will let my time we spent now.

I have a fabulous time at clubs, usually a lot more social than anything else, but it works for me and I feel it's time well spent and invested.

Each to their own of course"

I just can’t get to clubs regularly enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man was mad!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

I literally only meet by chance in clubs now if people just happened to be there.

Takes me completely out of the ghosting/timewasting arena.

I found there are so many flakes, fakes and time wasters on here that that's the only way I will let my time we spent now.

I have a fabulous time at clubs, usually a lot more social than anything else, but it works for me and I feel it's time well spent and invested.

Each to their own of course

I just can’t get to clubs regularly enough "

Yes I can understand that it can be difficult and take a lot of arranging, babysitters, transport, etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man was mad! "

Hell yeh!

I will give him a second chance to redeem himself

You know when you just hope the sex is going to be fab as the social was...

Let’s see... we’ve rearranged for next weekend...

I hope he rises to the occasion

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time. "

As well as being stunningly gorgeous it seems you may be if I may say to nice perhaps for your own good which in retrospect isn't a bad thing and giving people second chance shows even more good in you just don't let people take advantage of those qualities

Why you have to be miles away from Kent xxx

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"The man was mad!

Hell yeh!

I will give him a second chance to redeem himself

You know when you just hope the sex is going to be fab as the social was...

Let’s see... we’ve rearranged for next weekend...

I hope he rises to the occasion

"

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man was mad!

Hell yeh!

I will give him a second chance to redeem himself

You know when you just hope the sex is going to be fab as the social was...

Let’s see... we’ve rearranged for next weekend...

I hope he rises to the occasion

"

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know how exciting it can be, when you get on so well with someone that ypu can't wait to see them again, for more. Hopefully it will wprk out and be as great as you anticipate. Like you OP, i like to give the benefit of the doubt, if i feel they are worth it. It's usually one more chance, then block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

As well as being stunningly gorgeous it seems you may be if I may say to nice perhaps for your own good which in retrospect isn't a bad thing and giving people second chance shows even more good in you just don't let people take advantage of those qualities

Why you have to be miles away from Kent xxx "

Thank you! That’s so kind

I do hope I’m a good egg in this world. I have a lot of love to share. I have a great hubbie who has encouraged me to be true to myself.

I guess I just want to be treated the way I would someone else- with respect..

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The man was mad!

Hell yeh!

I will give him a second chance to redeem himself

You know when you just hope the sex is going to be fab as the social was...

Let’s see... we’ve rearranged for next weekend...

I hope he rises to the occasion

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know how exciting it can be, when you get on so well with someone that ypu can't wait to see them again, for more. Hopefully it will wprk out and be as great as you anticipate. Like you OP, i like to give the benefit of the doubt, if i feel they are worth it. It's usually one more chance, then block "

Lesson learnt boss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not, that's the same kind of treatment single men get.

I'm not saying what he did was right but he could have had some bad experiences in the past.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Believe it or not, that's the same kind of treatment single men get.

I'm not saying what he did was right but he could have had some bad experiences in the past."

I think it's the same treatment many seem to get, many times regardless of gender.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x"

Yeah I was really stupid lol.. I left it after the second one, months later he messaged again and I said yeah ok, if you promise. Got ready, sat waiting and nothing until days later with excuses, I blocked him after that.

Mug I am a soft touch, I believe everyone deserves a second chance but its made me a bit more dubious with others.

I am sure you will be ok, and won't have as bad luck as me lol x

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over a year ago


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x

Yeah I was really stupid lol.. I left it after the second one, months later he messaged again and I said yeah ok, if you promise. Got ready, sat waiting and nothing until days later with excuses, I blocked him after that.

Mug I am a soft touch, I believe everyone deserves a second chance but its made me a bit more dubious with others.

I am sure you will be ok, and won't have as bad luck as me lol x"

Oh no! That’s just disgraceful!

You’d think mature gentlemen would have some balls...

I’m nervous now... should men on here get a second chance- or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe it or not, that's the same kind of treatment single men get.

I'm not saying what he did was right but he could have had some bad experiences in the past.

I think it's the same treatment many seem to get, many times regardless of gender."

That's true, unfortunately nothing can be done about it.

Since I've stopped making the first moves I've actually been really lucky with the type of people I interact with and meet on here

That worked for me might not work for everyone though.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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If you feel that they deserve a second chance then I personally would go for it, but make sure it's on your terms, as in you not needing to travel more than a couple of miles or laying anything out in advance for expenses ( hotel etc)

If it works out you could always sort out where to go between you once you are actually physically in each other's company.

If they are legitimate and they accept they let you down the first time I would think they would completely understand that, respect that, and would suggest it themselves

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x

Yeah I was really stupid lol.. I left it after the second one, months later he messaged again and I said yeah ok, if you promise. Got ready, sat waiting and nothing until days later with excuses, I blocked him after that.

Mug I am a soft touch, I believe everyone deserves a second chance but its made me a bit more dubious with others.

I am sure you will be ok, and won't have as bad luck as me lol x

Oh no! That’s just disgraceful!

You’d think mature gentlemen would have some balls...

I’m nervous now... should men on here get a second chance- or not? "

Surly that depends on the individual

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

As well as being stunningly gorgeous it seems you may be if I may say to nice perhaps for your own good which in retrospect isn't a bad thing and giving people second chance shows even more good in you just don't let people take advantage of those qualities

Why you have to be miles away from Kent xxx "

Ah thank you yeah although it's a curse of its own, I just got a lot more wary of people and their intentions. Like I'd be less likely to meet people far away incase it happened or new people ect.

I'm soon to be snowed in too lol

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham

Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

As well as being stunningly gorgeous it seems you may be if I may say to nice perhaps for your own good which in retrospect isn't a bad thing and giving people second chance shows even more good in you just don't let people take advantage of those qualities

Why you have to be miles away from Kent xxx

Ah thank you yeah although it's a curse of its own, I just got a lot more wary of people and their intentions. Like I'd be less likely to meet people far away incase it happened or new people ect.

I'm soon to be snowed in too lol

"

Snow dayyyyy!!

Night guys xxx

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x

Yeah I was really stupid lol.. I left it after the second one, months later he messaged again and I said yeah ok, if you promise. Got ready, sat waiting and nothing until days later with excuses, I blocked him after that.

Mug I am a soft touch, I believe everyone deserves a second chance but its made me a bit more dubious with others.

I am sure you will be ok, and won't have as bad luck as me lol x

Oh no! That’s just disgraceful!

You’d think mature gentlemen would have some balls...

I’m nervous now... should men on here get a second chance- or not? "

Honestly, people deserve a second chance and he might of genuinely had something happen in life.

Just make sure he knows there's no 3rd time, especially if you book hotel rooms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology."

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i ask how long you didnt hear from him for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the genuine guys on here who do what they say and never let down the saying wild horses comes to mind x

I hope it goes really well for you jay x

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x"

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x"

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x"

I wouldn’t say he’s messed me about- I’m fact we were the ones that had to change the location.

However- he Has not returned messages for a while even though read them... when it’s about a meet in two days that has become frustrating

As a result- we have now rearranged.

Do you think I’m over reacting now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours."

24 hours? That's not that long to be honest. He genuinely could have been busy. With you being a couple, perhaps he didnt feel it needed a prompt reply and got back to you, when he was able. I wouldn't blow someone out or be overly upset if they didn't communicate for that short length of time.... unless it was the day of the meet

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Some people just aren't worth your time and do not deserve a second chance. second chance. after reading all I can about this, I certainly wouldn't be him a second chance.. unless there was a really good and convincing reason, delivered in a very sincere apologetic manner.

I somehow don't think that's going to be the case, but I do hope that it is.

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours."

Please try to not let it affect you. Some people take advantage of decent honest people. It does sound like this person is being less than honest with you, and with themselves. A second chance is a luxury not to be squandered. A third chance really shouldn't happen.

If it was me, I certainly wouldn't mess you about. I think I can speak for a large number of us on here in that sense x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

24 hours? That's not that long to be honest. He genuinely could have been busy. With you being a couple, perhaps he didnt feel it needed a prompt reply and got back to you, when he was able. I wouldn't blow someone out or be overly upset if they didn't communicate for that short length of time.... unless it was the day of the meet "

Thank you

That was my initial thoughts

Then I read people’s opinions on here and my mind became doubtful about timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x

I wouldn’t say he’s messed me about- I’m fact we were the ones that had to change the location.

However- he Has not returned messages for a while even though read them... when it’s about a meet in two days that has become frustrating

As a result- we have now rearranged.

Do you think I’m over reacting now? "

If he's that blase without even a single daily message leading up to the meet bit of flirting etc building things up it seems like he isn't too flustered tbh so if I was you I'd still go with the live pic and location on messenger

And I still can't believe I'm saying this to a hotwife like yourself if you can get that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Please try to not let it affect you. Some people take advantage of decent honest people. It does sound like this person is being less than honest with you, and with themselves. A second chance is a luxury not to be squandered. A third chance really shouldn't happen.

If it was me, I certainly wouldn't mess you about. I think I can speak for a large number of us on here in that sense x"

Thank you for yet another kind and non judgemental opinion

I really want to believe him but there is doubt in my mind and a tad mistrust.

I think I’m answering my own queries- if I get a genuine apology now he knows I was confused then we can move on.

But I honestly feel if I don’t then this ship has sailed sadly and I have to learn from this and all your advice here.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x

I wouldn’t say he’s messed me about- I’m fact we were the ones that had to change the location.

However- he Has not returned messages for a while even though read them... when it’s about a meet in two days that has become frustrating

As a result- we have now rearranged.

Do you think I’m over reacting now?

If he's that blase without even a single daily message leading up to the meet bit of flirting etc building things up it seems like he isn't too flustered tbh so if I was you I'd still go with the live pic and location on messenger

And I still can't believe I'm saying this to a hotwife like yourself if you can get that x"

I am a tad confused with your message...

Live pic and location?

But I agree- why no messages leading up to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

"

Did you cha ge the plans or did he you seem a bit vauge there

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over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

24 hours? That's not that long to be honest. He genuinely could have been busy. With you being a couple, perhaps he didnt feel it needed a prompt reply and got back to you, when he was able. I wouldn't blow someone out or be overly upset if they didn't communicate for that short length of time.... unless it was the day of the meet

Thank you

That was my initial thoughts

Then I read people’s opinions on here and my mind became doubtful about timewasters."

Based on what you've said, i don't think he is a timewaster. He has already met you for a social. He is still making arrangements with you. He got in touch before the date you were supposed to meet. I've had this a few times, where they've gone quiet for a day. In the grand scheme of things, it's little time at all. All i would say is to trust your instincts. People on here will give opinions based on experiences they've had, but it doesnt mean that it will be your experience. I would definitely give him the benefit of the doubt and hopefully you will have a great meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

24 hours? That's not that long to be honest. He genuinely could have been busy. With you being a couple, perhaps he didnt feel it needed a prompt reply and got back to you, when he was able. I wouldn't blow someone out or be overly upset if they didn't communicate for that short length of time.... unless it was the day of the meet

Thank you

That was my initial thoughts

Then I read people’s opinions on here and my mind became doubtful about timewasters.

Based on what you've said, i don't think he is a timewaster. He has already met you for a social. He is still making arrangements with you. He got in touch before the date you were supposed to meet. I've had this a few times, where they've gone quiet for a day. In the grand scheme of things, it's little time at all. All i would say is to trust your instincts. People on here will give opinions based on experiences they've had, but it doesnt mean that it will be your experience. I would definitely give him the benefit of the doubt and hopefully you will have a great meet "

Thank you x

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Please try to not let it affect you. Some people take advantage of decent honest people. It does sound like this person is being less than honest with you, and with themselves. A second chance is a luxury not to be squandered. A third chance really shouldn't happen.

If it was me, I certainly wouldn't mess you about. I think I can speak for a large number of us on here in that sense x

Thank you for yet another kind and non judgemental opinion

I really want to believe him but there is doubt in my mind and a tad mistrust.

I think I’m answering my own queries- if I get a genuine apology now he knows I was confused then we can move on.

But I honestly feel if I don’t then this ship has sailed sadly and I have to learn from this and all your advice here.

X"

I would say that all my advice comes with a caveat.

I'm great at giving it, but like many, not particularly good at taking it. Especially when it's my own...lol

I hope things work out for you, especially as you seem like an intelligent and lovely couple. Annoyingly it's the decent ones who allow themselves to give a shit. It's when we give a shit, we open ourselves up for disappointment x

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over a year ago


"Am I allowed to admit I feel disappointed that a gentleman we were in talks of meeting this Friday has ghosted us?

Plans sadly changed from us to meet in a certain location- but we were still happy to meet.

It’s such a shame... you put in so much energy and excitement...

Sad that someone can’t just say- No thank you- my options have changed/ I no longer want to meet.

Where has decency gone?

Mrs P

Did you cha ge the plans or did he you seem a bit vauge there"

We sadly had to change location

And he then just disappeared when we tried to suggest other options or dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives"

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

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over a year ago

The best thing is

When mr P wakes im the morning and reads this he is going to laugh, cuddle me and make me realise I’ve nothing to worry about

And either:

It’s all going to be fine next week

Or

There are plenty more hot cocks in the sea

P.S you guys are all awesome! X

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"The best thing is

When mr P wakes im the morning and reads this he is going to laugh, cuddle me and make me realise I’ve nothing to worry about

And either:

It’s all going to be fine next week

Or

There are plenty more hot cocks in the sea

P.S you guys are all awesome! X"

Love this x

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"He must be nuts not meeting you!!"

I agree with this. Wholeheartedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best thing is

When mr P wakes im the morning and reads this he is going to laugh, cuddle me and make me realise I’ve nothing to worry about

And either:

It’s all going to be fine next week

Or

There are plenty more hot cocks in the sea

P.S you guys are all awesome! X"

Hot cocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s"

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X

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over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X"

Not at all! It’s just a sign of modern times I’m sorry to say. As frustrating as it is, you just have to pick yourself up, remember to never do that to others and move on to the next! Never take it personally, as you never know what’s going on in someone’s life.

x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X"

I'm extremely soft. But I've set myself a system that works for me now.

I understand you can't club as much as me, but you can decide on what you will and won't accept and how you are going to go about it.

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X

Not at all! It’s just a sign of modern times I’m sorry to say. As frustrating as it is, you just have to pick yourself up, remember to never do that to others and move on to the next! Never take it personally, as you never know what’s going on in someone’s life.

x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X

Not at all! It’s just a sign of modern times I’m sorry to say. As frustrating as it is, you just have to pick yourself up, remember to never do that to others and move on to the next! Never take it personally, as you never know what’s going on in someone’s life.

x"

Very mature and true opinion

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr P says I wear my heart so openly on my sleeve- I take things to heart so much.

I think it’s because I am so honest and open- I trust too easily..

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I was once ghosted when we had arranged a meet - he popped back up after 6 months and we had an amazing meet in the end. He had some personal circumstances happening... I didn’t hold it against him. Life can be complicated and I guess you can never really know what’s happening for that person. Good luck. X

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over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours."

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once ghosted when we had arranged a meet - he popped back up after 6 months and we had an amazing meet in the end. He had some personal circumstances happening... I didn’t hold it against him. Life can be complicated and I guess you can never really know what’s happening for that person. Good luck. X "

Thank you

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

"

No

It was meant to be Friday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your kind words...

I guess we all just invest so much time and effort.

There are some top guys on here- and when you feel like you’ve said no to some to meet with someone else who actually is going to let you down... it’s disappointing.

Grrrrrrrr

Maybe he'll pop back up, you never know.

I know I’d understand if he was able to give me a valid reason... as I know everyone has lives

Why do you need a reason? Not to put you on the spot but this is the world we live in nowadays. People have loads of options, other lives, illness, personal problems..sometimes meeting someone off the internet for sex or whatever, is just not high on someone’s agenda.

By the way, I’ve been ghosted previously (after meeting) by both guys on my veris!! They added these veris when I came back on here, hoping to change my mind no doubt. I’ll not be meeting them again, for sure!

Don’t think too much about it, it is what it is, unfortunately. :-s

I wish I had your confidence and balls

Perhaps I’m too soft for this game?

X

Not at all! It’s just a sign of modern times I’m sorry to say. As frustrating as it is, you just have to pick yourself up, remember to never do that to others and move on to the next! Never take it personally, as you never know what’s going on in someone’s life.

x

Very mature and true opinion

Thank you x"

Hey, I’ve wasted enough time myself racking my brain wondering why these people suddenly go awol. You never get an answer, unless something terrible happened and they were being genuine. One of my veris was even due to come round to mine, messaged ten mins before saying he’d a shower and was on his way...then nothing. Nothing at all. Nothing for months!

I get suggestive messages off him all the time now but he’s blown it and I’ve lost interest. Probably has a girlfriend etc. A lot on here have other romantic interests going on in the real world. Best to just forget it and realise it’s not you, but a problem they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

No

It was meant to be Friday..."

Which is still a day away. He hasnt responded for one day thats not ghosting thats just adult life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

No

It was meant to be Friday...

Which is still a day away. He hasnt responded for one day thats not ghosting thats just adult life"

Oh I didn’t realise the day of meet hadn’t happened yet...yes I’d chill out a little OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

No

It was meant to be Friday...

Which is still a day away. He hasnt responded for one day thats not ghosting thats just adult life"

Thank you

Appreciate your opinion ...

mr P even was doubting him which makes me wonder as he’s mr sensible in all of this.

Just tough when he’s been responding/ sending messages regularly - then doesn’t respond.

But you’re right. It is life sometimes and I’m grateful for your balanced opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosting is just rude. If somebody changes their mind for whatever reason, you deserve an explanation. After that point you have to decide whether it is a valid reason and how to move forward. Personally I would have to get a bloody good apology.

You know you’re right...

I didn’t actually get much of an apology...

Just a - I’ve been busy...

Strike two!

Third strike and he’s out of here!

Great advice x

I'm glad I may have been of some help... I have met people from here who maybe weren't the greatest fit. You never know until you try yes? However I can't say I've followed up on someone I didn't like. I couldn't like someone like that. Piss poor excuses. There are plenty of people out there. Let's all just be honest about what we want x

I actually can’t sleep because I’m a little rattled now...

I mean it was only 24 hours but when you can see they have read the kik messages etc it has rattled me....

I am hoping tomorrow he may be able to say a sincere sorry Otherwise I think I may just be too pissed to meet him next week.

As people say- there are tonnes of damn fine and respectful men on here- who can respond when you send a message about the meet in question and not blank you for 24 hours.

Wait so the meet isnt till next week and he hasnt replied for a day a week in advance and your accusing him of ghosting you?

This seems very needy.

No

It was meant to be Friday...

Which is still a day away. He hasnt responded for one day thats not ghosting thats just adult life

Oh I didn’t realise the day of meet hadn’t happened yet...yes I’d chill out a little OP! "

Thanks!

Needed this x

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh yes if the day is still due to arrive - don’t freak out too much yet - I’m sure it’s just busy life and he might still be due to respond when he gets a minute x ps I love your profile and pics x

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over a year ago


"Oh yes if the day is still due to arrive - don’t freak out too much yet - I’m sure it’s just busy life and he might still be due to respond when he gets a minute x ps I love your profile and pics x "

Thanks for your sanity!

You guys all rock!

Think I went a bit nuts there didn’t I?

What time is it? Lol

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"Oh yes if the day is still due to arrive - don’t freak out too much yet - I’m sure it’s just busy life and he might still be due to respond when he gets a minute x ps I love your profile and pics x

Thanks for your sanity!

You guys all rock!

Think I went a bit nuts there didn’t I?

What time is it? Lol

"

Sleeeeeeep x

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

I can't believe someone would have a meet lined up with you and not turn up I mean I know it happens and people get cold feet, but he must have either been married and his conscience got the better of him, or he was just too intimidated by the thought of having to do you justice and be worthy of you. Either way it was ultimately his loss, but I understand how annoying it is for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x

I wouldn’t say he’s messed me about- I’m fact we were the ones that had to change the location.

However- he Has not returned messages for a while even though read them... when it’s about a meet in two days that has become frustrating

As a result- we have now rearranged.

Do you think I’m over reacting now?

If he's that blase without even a single daily message leading up to the meet bit of flirting etc building things up it seems like he isn't too flustered tbh so if I was you I'd still go with the live pic and location on messenger

And I still can't believe I'm saying this to a hotwife like yourself if you can get that x

I am a tad confused with your message...

Live pic and location?

But I agree- why no messages leading up to meet...

"

A live pic of the place your meeting

And share location on messenger or WhatsApp

If he moves from the bar when your on your way,you'll know what to do lol

Goodnight Devon hotwife x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no......24 hours??????? What a time waster, how dare he have a life.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot op tell him he has pissed you off and when your meeting next weekend you'd like a live pic sent showing the place your meeting.

Once done then you will set off yourself

Like all the guys and the ladies have said what a knobjockey for actually messing you about

My thoughts anyway x

I wouldn’t say he’s messed me about- I’m fact we were the ones that had to change the location.

However- he Has not returned messages for a while even though read them... when it’s about a meet in two days that has become frustrating

As a result- we have now rearranged.

Do you think I’m over reacting now?

If he's that blase without even a single daily message leading up to the meet bit of flirting etc building things up it seems like he isn't too flustered tbh so if I was you I'd still go with the live pic and location on messenger

And I still can't believe I'm saying this to a hotwife like yourself if you can get that x

I am a tad confused with your message...

Live pic and location?

But I agree- why no messages leading up to meet...

A live pic of the place your meeting

And share location on messenger or WhatsApp

If he moves from the bar when your on your way,you'll know what to do lol

Goodnight Devon hotwife x"

How low would your self worth have to be to jump through hoops like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe someone would have a meet lined up with you and not turn up I mean I know it happens and people get cold feet, but he must have either been married and his conscience got the better of him, or he was just too intimidated by the thought of having to do you justice and be worthy of you. Either way it was ultimately his loss, but I understand how annoying it is for you x"

Err the meet isnt till friday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thid thread is beautiful for the guys tripping up over themselves to try and get in though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thid thread is beautiful for the guys tripping up over themselves to try and get in though "

It sure it, spread your cheeks then pretty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thid thread is beautiful for the guys tripping up over themselves to try and get in though "

The things you read on the forums.....

I bet her inbox is overflowing now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thid thread is beautiful for the guys tripping up over themselves to try and get in though

The things you read on the forums.....

I bet her inbox is overflowing now"

My inbox already was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thid thread is beautiful for the guys tripping up over themselves to try and get in though

The things you read on the forums.....

I bet her inbox is overflowing now

My inbox already was

"

Go TeamPerve69!

I am going to read this thread at a more convenient time to find out what happened when and why... sounds spooky!

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Unfortunately we have found this happens quite a lot, it does get you down but you have to move forward and find someone even better next time

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

If people don't want to communicate then they just don't want to communicate people change their mind all the time just move on and not fret over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened lots of times to me.

Even a mutual friend of ours OP. Who is obviously not my friend anymore.

Wonder who this chap is?? Fab is a very small world remember.

Gem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened lots of times to me.

Even a mutual friend of ours OP. Who is obviously not my friend anymore.

Wonder who this chap is?? Fab is a very small world remember.

Gem x"

It’s ok! Can see your veri to him

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over a year ago


"Happened lots of times to me.

Even a mutual friend of ours OP. Who is obviously not my friend anymore.

Wonder who this chap is?? Fab is a very small world remember.

Gem x"

What happened to you?

A person you were planning on meeting didnt keep in 100% daily communication with you?

You wonder who this guy is!?

Seriously your starting a fucking witch hunt because a guy who has a meet on Friday didnt message a couple for all of bloody Wednesday?

I think this may be time admin steps in here and deletes this if people who csnt read are getting the wrong end of the stick and now hunting the poor bastard down.

Jesus christ

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Happened lots of times to me.

Even a mutual friend of ours OP. Who is obviously not my friend anymore.

Wonder who this chap is?? Fab is a very small world remember.

Gem x

What happened to you?

A person you were planning on meeting didnt keep in 100% daily communication with you?

You wonder who this guy is!?

Seriously your starting a fucking witch hunt because a guy who has a meet on Friday didnt message a couple for all of bloody Wednesday?

I think this may be time admin steps in here and deletes this if people who csnt read are getting the wrong end of the stick and now hunting the poor bastard down.

Jesus christ"

No ones hunting him down, you can obviously see a recent social veri. It's not rocket science is it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I can't believe someone would have a meet lined up with you and not turn up I mean I know it happens and people get cold feet, but he must have either been married and his conscience got the better of him, or he was just too intimidated by the thought of having to do you justice and be worthy of you. Either way it was ultimately his loss, but I understand how annoying it is for you x"

You read the post all wrong and have now assumed a hell of a lot of negative things about a user you don't know.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, sometimes patience is needed. Single men ( or whoever people are meeting ) don't have to answer mails or texts straight away, sometimes life is more important

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP, sometimes patience is needed. Single men ( or whoever people are meeting ) don't have to answer mails or texts straight away, sometimes life is more important"

You’re so right...

He has been awesome and messaged me a few times since

I was very grateful for everyone’s support last night when I needed it and the sensible tough love when I needed to realise life is - well life.

He’s a great guy. I am looking forward to our meet and will look forward to hopefully a happy number of meets in the future. We just need to communicate what we both expect of each other for us to all be happy.

Thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is ghosting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the people who spent the night slagging the guy off are gonna say sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if the people who spent the night slagging the guy off are gonna say sorry "

O 2 the M 2 the G

pretty boy

Is he your secret fuck buddy or something

Yesterday's old news

Move on is the word

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"To the OP, sometimes patience is needed. Single men ( or whoever people are meeting ) don't have to answer mails or texts straight away, sometimes life is more important

You’re so right...

He has been awesome and messaged me a few times since

I was very grateful for everyone’s support last night when I needed it and the sensible tough love when I needed to realise life is - well life.

Good to hear he's got in touch x have lots of fun gorgeous good luck xx

He’s a great guy. I am looking forward to our meet and will look forward to hopefully a happy number of meets in the future. We just need to communicate what we both expect of each other for us to all be happy.

Thanks again x"

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

I can't believe I've just read this nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if the people who spent the night slagging the guy off are gonna say sorry "

Wait until this guy gets new verifications ....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I wonder if the people who spent the night slagging the guy off are gonna say sorry

Wait until this guy gets new verifications ...."

*Theme from Psycho would be playing*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this all the time x"

People not speaking to you for a day because they were busy?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

For me there's a big difference between chatting and it tailing iff vs making plans then totally disappearing. If a date is set to meet - whether first time or not- you at least deserve the courtesy of even a short message saying sorry no longer interested.

Otherwise you're left thinking do we keep it free in case, feeling bad about making other plans in case they've just assumed a plan is a plan and life got busy but they're intending to check in the day before... but not wanting to waste an evening especially where childcare or shifts etc have to be pre-arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this all the time x

People not speaking to you for a day because they were busy?"

No ghosting...Not after a day lol.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"It is really shit, if you've invested your time and are talking constantly to build it up, you're excited and it's such a drop when you get ignored or stood up.

Ive had quite a few now but I don't do socials, it does get me a bit bummed but I can spot a guy with a partner a mile away now or a time waster.

I'd say it makes me less likely to meet new people .

Don't fall for excuses, I've given benefit of the doubt and even been stood up a second time.

Oh no! Really?

I’m nervous now x

Yeah I was really stupid lol.. I left it after the second one, months later he messaged again and I said yeah ok, if you promise. Got ready, sat waiting and nothing until days later with excuses, I blocked him after that.

Mug I am a soft touch, I believe everyone deserves a second chance but its made me a bit more dubious with others.

I am sure you will be ok, and won't have as bad luck as me lol x"

Don't consider it as bad luck, consider it as good riddance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......"

Probably the way you've just said it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

Probably the way you've just said it. "

EXACTLY the way you’ve said it.. Rudeboy I’m ever so proud... are you becoming more honest and brave with it?

High five x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

Probably the way you've just said it.

EXACTLY the way you’ve said it.. Rudeboy I’m ever so proud... are you becoming more honest and brave with it?

High five x"

We all grow up sometimes.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

Probably the way you've just said it.

EXACTLY the way you’ve said it.. Rudeboy I’m ever so proud... are you becoming more honest and brave with it?

High five x

We all grow up sometimes....."

I’m not adverse to things growing ‘UP’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When looking for single guys on here most of the ones we’ve chosen have been great.

Couples however are terrible for this. Twice we’ve booked a hotel room and been let down at the last minute. That’s with having good conversations with them for a few days:weeks aswell. We won’t make the same mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When looking for single guys on here most of the ones we’ve chosen have been great.

Couples however are terrible for this. Twice we’ve booked a hotel room and been let down at the last minute. That’s with having good conversations with them for a few days:weeks aswell. We won’t make the same mistake again.

That’s just rude!

We’re not all like that x

"

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......"

I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm...... I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way."

No they start asking why?stating “ I can change “.. and then they start getting creepy on social media ....

That’s why a block is necessary.......

People on here blow my mind.... they will block someone for any reason under the sun , but think ghosting is terrible cowardly behavior....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm...... I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way.

No they start asking why?stating “ I can change “.. and then they start getting creepy on social media ....

That’s why a block is necessary.......

People on here blow my mind.... they will block someone for any reason under the sun , but think ghosting is terrible cowardly behavior...."

Ghosting is still cowardly though. I can handle a lot worse than being rejected for sex.

I'm not changing, I looked into stuff recently but it's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......"

They could say, “I have enjoyed talking to you but I am sorry I have had a change of heart but good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for”

If they start getting abusive or creepy then block.

I always respect honesty even if it’s not what I want to hear and I wouldn’t get a cobby on if someone had found a better option or just changed their mind.

At least you know where you stand.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

I can only echo others comments - it happens and it's shit when it does. Properly frustrating, especially if you have changed plans to accommodate the meet.

From what I can see, it will be their loss though. Not that it makes it any easier to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

They could say, “I have enjoyed talking to you but I am sorry I have had a change of heart but good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for”

If they start getting abusive or creepy then block.

I always respect honesty even if it’s not what I want to hear and I wouldn’t get a cobby on if someone had found a better option or just changed their mind.

At least you know where you stand."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once turned up at a house meet and after 2 hours when the male half of the other couple had enough just stopped looked at us and said "well you can f**k off now" and one no show, we only meet at chams now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

They could say, “I have enjoyed talking to you but I am sorry I have had a change of heart but good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for”

If they start getting abusive or creepy then block.

I always respect honesty even if it’s not what I want to hear and I wouldn’t get a cobby on if someone had found a better option or just changed their mind.

At least you know where you stand."

They could..but they ain’t obliged to, just so others know where they stand. You can’t change or expect anything in how others behave, so just change your reaction to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm...... I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way.

No they start asking why?stating “ I can change “.. and then they start getting creepy on social media ....

That’s why a block is necessary.......

People on here blow my mind.... they will block someone for any reason under the sun , but think ghosting is terrible cowardly behavior...."

Yeah I do that and think that..so what.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Once turned up at a house meet and after 2 hours when the male half of the other couple had enough just stopped looked at us and said "well you can f**k off now" and one no show, we only meet at chams now."

Pleasent fellow saying that to you ! Not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm...... I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way.

No they start asking why?stating “ I can change “.. and then they start getting creepy on social media ....

That’s why a block is necessary.......

People on here blow my mind.... they will block someone for any reason under the sun , but think ghosting is terrible cowardly behavior....

Yeah I do that and think that..so what."

You don’t see any hypocrisy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

They could..but they ain’t obliged to, just so others know where they stand. You can’t change or expect anything in how others behave, so just change your reaction to it."

I can see your point of view but the question was there a way to let someone down without causing any harm.

I wouldn’t take offence if someone had changed their mind and I would appreciate their honesty

If you both had taken the time to get to know each other a bit it’s the least they deserve.

But do I expect it off everyone, not at all and I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it.

If they are not the type to treat me a little decency they weren’t for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

They could..but they ain’t obliged to, just so others know where they stand. You can’t change or expect anything in how others behave, so just change your reaction to it.

I can see your point of view but the question was there a way to let someone down without causing any harm.

I wouldn’t take offence if someone had changed their mind and I would appreciate their honesty

If you both had taken the time to get to know each other a bit it’s the least they deserve.

But do I expect it off everyone, not at all and I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it.

If they are not the type to treat me a little decency they weren’t for me anyway."

Yes but their silence may have nothing to do with you at all. Sometimes it’s not even that they’re not decent people. Maybe they got super busy or something happened. I think people take things too personally a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm...... I thought 'it's not you, it's me' was the go to way.

No they start asking why?stating “ I can change “.. and then they start getting creepy on social media ....

That’s why a block is necessary.......

People on here blow my mind.... they will block someone for any reason under the sun , but think ghosting is terrible cowardly behavior....

Yeah I do that and think that..so what.

You don’t see any hypocrisy?"

No I don’t.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......"

Sex anymore? Would you let it get that far if you weren't attracted to a person?

I won't lie, I think you have to have a bit of a thick skin to be on here. I know from talking to someone after a few messages whether we'll hit it off or not and I'm not afraid of saying, look I'm sorry but unfortunately Im not feeling the chemistry here.

It may hurt a bit at first, but what's worse? If you're string someone along and ghosting them? Least they'll have closure on it.

I honestly think it's better to be honest, I would prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you!

I can see why some men and women may prefer to just keep the sex as just that. Turn up. Fuck. Leave.

But that’s not what I’m after or had advertised. We had even met and talked about this. He had been messaging regularly- meet was arranged.

Location sadly had to change but he has then just done a sad runner. It’s such a shame and I now actually feel sorry for him. He had the opportunity to be into a regular thing with a top couple (if we can say about ourselves).

Some blokes (and NOT all)- think that this is easy on here. He was new. Literally two weeks in. He’s going to get a shock when he finds how hard the competition really is- especially in little Devon.

I am frustrated at his immaturity as I had high expectations for him- and now I am disappointed in him!

Mrs P

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So he's disappeared twice?

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

The man will learn the hard way fool it's not easy for single guys so courtesy And politeness as well as respect is needed all time well needed is wrong word it should be common decency

It makes it harder for the genuine single guys on here if couples open up to accept us as a third wheel in there relationships show some respect especially when there genuine nice decent people like these two are x

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

And what kinda fool wud turn down opportunity with mrs p she's beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you!

I can see why some men and women may prefer to just keep the sex as just that. Turn up. Fuck. Leave.

But that’s not what I’m after or had advertised. We had even met and talked about this. He had been messaging regularly- meet was arranged.

Location sadly had to change but he has then just done a sad runner. It’s such a shame and I now actually feel sorry for him. He had the opportunity to be into a regular thing with a top couple (if we can say about ourselves).

Some blokes (and NOT all)- think that this is easy on here. He was new. Literally two weeks in. He’s going to get a shock when he finds how hard the competition really is- especially in little Devon.

I am frustrated at his immaturity as I had high expectations for him- and now I am disappointed in him!

Mrs P"

Maybe he didnt take kindly to this thread?

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"[Removed by poster at 01/02/19 17:23:39]"
I read what you wrote before u deleted it I've been on the thread rite from the start if you look I was summing up where we are now with my opinion on events

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Thank you!

I can see why some men and women may prefer to just keep the sex as just that. Turn up. Fuck. Leave.

But that’s not what I’m after or had advertised. We had even met and talked about this. He had been messaging regularly- meet was arranged.

Location sadly had to change but he has then just done a sad runner. It’s such a shame and I now actually feel sorry for him. He had the opportunity to be into a regular thing with a top couple (if we can say about ourselves).

Some blokes (and NOT all)- think that this is easy on here. He was new. Literally two weeks in. He’s going to get a shock when he finds how hard the competition really is- especially in little Devon.

I am frustrated at his immaturity as I had high expectations for him- and now I am disappointed in him!

Mrs P"

Sorry to Hear that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you!

I can see why some men and women may prefer to just keep the sex as just that. Turn up. Fuck. Leave.

But that’s not what I’m after or had advertised. We had even met and talked about this. He had been messaging regularly- meet was arranged.

Location sadly had to change but he has then just done a sad runner. It’s such a shame and I now actually feel sorry for him. He had the opportunity to be into a regular thing with a top couple (if we can say about ourselves).

Some blokes (and NOT all)- think that this is easy on here. He was new. Literally two weeks in. He’s going to get a shock when he finds how hard the competition really is- especially in little Devon.

I am frustrated at his immaturity as I had high expectations for him- and now I am disappointed in him!

Mrs P

Maybe he didnt take kindly to this thread?"

Where up until today did I say anything negative about him?

I can just imagine how he found out about this thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a shame. But In all honesty, he'd only been on the site for two weeks. Perhaps the idea of meeting someone regularly, when he'd only been on a short period of time, became overwhelming, the more he considered it. When they are New, they don't know what to expect and it can become too much. I know I was like that when i initially joined. You have some lovely pictures in your gallery. I'm sure you won't struggle to find someone who suits what you are looking for. I'm also pleased that this hasn't Jaded you. There are some great guys on here

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"That is a shame. But In all honesty, he'd only been on the site for two weeks. Perhaps the idea of meeting someone regularly, when he'd only been on a short period of time, became overwhelming, the more he considered it. When they are New, they don't know what to expect and it can become too much. I know I was like that when i initially joined. You have some lovely pictures in your gallery. I'm sure you won't struggle to find someone who suits what you are looking for. I'm also pleased that this hasn't Jaded you. There are some great guys on here "
wise words worth considering a different perspective to what I wrote x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me something.....

What is the proper way to say to someone?

“ look you’re a cool person , but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore “

Without causing any harm......

Sex anymore? Would you let it get that far if you weren't attracted to a person?

I won't lie, I think you have to have a bit of a thick skin to be on here. I know from talking to someone after a few messages whether we'll hit it off or not and I'm not afraid of saying, look I'm sorry but unfortunately Im not feeling the chemistry here.

It may hurt a bit at first, but what's worse? If you're string someone along and ghosting them? Least they'll have closure on it.

I honestly think it's better to be honest, I would prefer it. "

I understand everything you’re saying but for guys it’s a little different...

When I’m looking for a partner I look for totally different attributes than when I’m looking for a sex buddy.....

I like certain kinks that I will bypass ascetics to fulfill my fantasy’s....

But here is the problem, because you have a great time with someone sexually that doesn’t mean you want more....

Not all women , but some start getting attached, and want to spend time with you away from the bedroom.....

That’s when it starts getting confusing.......

You then have two choices.....

Acquiesce to her demands to keep having sex with her...

Or end it there and find someone else.....

You can’t tell someone you are good enough to have sex with but not worth a relationship.....

I’ve tried it in the past and it became a mess....

This is the reason I only play with couples and ghost single women....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is a shame. But In all honesty, he'd only been on the site for two weeks. Perhaps the idea of meeting someone regularly, when he'd only been on a short period of time, became overwhelming, the more he considered it. When they are New, they don't know what to expect and it can become too much. I know I was like that when i initially joined. You have some lovely pictures in your gallery. I'm sure you won't struggle to find someone who suits what you are looking for. I'm also pleased that this hasn't Jaded you. There are some great guys on here "

Thanks babes

Especially that you seem to get it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt"

But I’m not a guy

I am a little more sensitive

I put emotion into my friendships etc and into those we play with.

So me coming here to listen to other wise swingers advice/ experiences has actually been really good as it’s strengthened what I want/ we want... and most certainly those we don’t!

Mrs P

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt"

Its possible but I dont think he would on this topic. Although the op has received the odd side swipe on this tread.

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over a year ago


"imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt

Its possible but I dont think he would on this topic. Although the op has received the odd side swipe on this tread."

What’s a side swipe?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt

Its possible but I dont think he would on this topic. Although the op has received the odd side swipe on this tread.

What’s a side swipe?"

Some small digs

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over a year ago


"imagine if the op was a guy and everything in reverse ..the guy would have been ripped to pieces .... nobody owes anybody anything as in real life trust no one until trust is earnt

But I’m not a guy

I am a little more sensitive

I put emotion into my friendships etc and into those we play with.

So me coming here to listen to other wise swingers advice/ experiences has actually been really good as it’s strengthened what I want/ we want... and most certainly those we don’t!

Mrs P "

You have done nothing wrong.

Remember our conversation. Stay true. Do it your way x

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