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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "Depends. Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening? So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria. A | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer." Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all? | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
Depends.
Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening?
So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria.
A"Ok perhaps need to be more careful with veris. Must admit usually message perhaps phone is a way to suss out the ones who maybe just want some dirty sex chat while they can get it lol! | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Very much so. With the exception of the women I have formally dated, I have never had a social prior to sex. I have absolutely no problem with a social first, it certainly wouldn't put me off, but the idea had never even been suggested when making arrangemnets wuth any of them. | |||
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Really gets my goat as I don't have much spare time and I hate to waste it. | |||
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"January = hibernation mode, people can’t be arsed. I know I can’t, but then again that might just be me.... " Hibernating is not a bad thing as hopefully you come back feeling refreshed and looking forward to fun times ahead. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all?" I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social .... | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all? I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social ...." Yeah don't guarantee it but If they think there's no chance it might be why they flaked on you. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " I have done many times, still do! | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Yes, loads. Like everything in life, some weeks are good some are full of let downs and disappointment. Brush it off, onwards and upwards! | |||
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though" That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems. | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
Depends.
Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening?
So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria.
A"I've had 2 requests for WebCam from members with veri's, but come the time we've arranged they were nowhere to be found, but I get accused of being a time waster cos I'm not verified. I took it they had a better offer at the time and haven't heard from either couple since. I have never had the chance to waste anyone's time as I can't get a meet , social or other, cos I have no veri's. When I 1st joined I was a newbie, caution advised, I was told the other day I must be a time waster cos I'd had no meets in 6 months. If I'd arranged a meet of any kind I'd attend, using veri's guarantees nothing , but that's all you'll read | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Definitely not social first always | |||
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Anyway Sharon ... there is no right or wrong way. Just do what you feel is right for you  X | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "I'd social with you any daytime or evening any day or night . I'll turn up guaranteed.  | |||
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"Hi Sharon, Sorry to read that you've been let down ... they're idiots, so I wouldn't give them the time of day if they message you again. Everyone has their own way of getting to know someone before a meet...social or otherwise. I've just come back to Fab after 3 months off with a hip injury. But prior to this I had some amazing meets and a couple of them became regular playmates. I have a really hectic life so like others on here have said ... time is precious. So, for me, I want to make sure I select the right playmate. I like to chat on Fabs for a day or two and share further pics. If all is good, we'll swap numbers and chat on Whatsapp for a few days, then arrange a date to meet and before the date we'll have a couple of phone calls. We always agree to meet with no expectations of sex, but if we click then yes, it pretty much happens the same day. I've been lucky not to have been stood up. However, since I've come back out to play...I haven't stuck to my tried and tested format ... I made rash decisions with the guy and he turned out to be a real arsehole
Anyway Sharon ... there is no right or wrong way. Just do what you feel is right for you X"Thanks very much I will | |||
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems." trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first | |||
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first" See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here. I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. | |||
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here. I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. " ive no experience with dating sites as im not looking to date i use or used this site to meet like minded people to swing with By swing i mean not just hook up for sex but to find someone to have different experiences. Maybe guys are coming from dating sites and wanting it to be the same here. Think is we all do things our own way and its finding others that want to do things the same way | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all? I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social ...." Don’t feel you have to justify anything on here hun. I don’t meet anyone unless they agree to a social first. Pics can be deceiving, or I might just not like the aftershave someone is wearing! | |||
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here. I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. " It is. And it’s because you can normally see a face on dating sites. The sheer number of guys on here who expect a woman to meet them without sending a face picture (often just a dick pic) is just mind-blowing. | |||
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"The ones that message you to death before a meet and ask every daft question going, their the ones that are usually a total waste of time." I agree. Normally they’re just after wanking material. I don’t give anything away (pics, dirty chat) until I’ve met a person, as you’ll find a lot of them disappear before the actual meet. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " yes plenty never been on a social meet here n never will it works for me tho | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Lots just do it as a combined thing. The idea of an interview csn be a bit off putting | |||
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"I feel your pain Op.... But you have to realize that most of the good looking men on here are married or attached... It’s very hard to sneak away from the family for a no sex social.... If they are making a excuse, the prospect of sex has to be on the table....." I'm an anomaly  | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "More fools them looking at your pictures  | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " No there aren't. There are however alot of men who talk a good talk and then bottle it at the last minute. If socials work for you then keep asking for them. | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "Some men get so far with a lady or couple then their bottle goes. It not reflection on you. For future reference I won't let you down if you ever pass my way xx | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "We tend to over invite. If we want to meet 2 guys or couple's then invite 10, if they all turn up then WOW what a night, but its inevitable most wont show | |||
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"It's all them woman hiding on men's accounts seriously though 4 no shows just makes it harder for us genuine men to get meets "If you didnt get invited the first 4 times why do you think tbe fact they didnt turn up makes it harder for you? | |||
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"I feel your pain Op.... But you have to realize that most of the good looking men on here are married or attached... It’s very hard to sneak away from the family for a no sex social.... If they are making a excuse, the prospect of sex has to be on the table..... I'm an anomaly "Yes you are a man amongst boys | |||
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"I usually talk to people awhile before I agree to go on a social, not had anyone cancel yet" If youd like to try something new im near by and currently got the excuse of being snowed in as im on a bike. We could not meet for coffe in Rhyl at around 5 o'clock if you like :p | |||
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"Four guys in one week... Maybe they were each speaking to four other women? How can anyone possibly get a good feel for someone, develop a discussion, build a confidence, etc, at the rate of four meets in one week? That's what I feel is wrong with this site. Too many people talking to too many other people at the same time. Not enough attention or commitment given to any one opportunity. No offense to the op - I have also been let down many times, one way or another. " The few that I've managed to get a chat going with, I've felt I was 1 of many and they were mostly casting a wide net for choice or having a back up or 2 in case their 1st choice didn't work out | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "Would love to know what excuses are classed as good.... surely you suss this out before hand... | |||
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" The few that I've managed to get a chat going with, I've felt I was 1 of many and they were mostly casting a wide net for choice or having a back up or 2 in case their 1st choice didn't work out " Yes but these are people, with feelings, that we are talking about. And someone is going to get dropped last minute if one of those other choice's turn into something. It happens on here. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " I do, but they have to talk on here a lot first. | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
Some men get so far with a lady or couple then their bottle goes. It not reflection on you.
For future reference I won't let you down if you ever pass my way xx"Thank you x | |||
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"Four guys in one week... Maybe they were each speaking to four other women? How can anyone possibly get a good feel for someone, develop a discussion, build a confidence, etc, at the rate of four meets in one week? That's what I feel is wrong with this site. Too many people talking to too many other people at the same time. Not enough attention or commitment given to any one opportunity. No offense to the op - I have also been let down many times, one way or another. " Actually I wasn't speaking to 4 at a time, only 2 and one of those I had been chatting to since before Christmas never seemed to be able to pin him down and so not really surprised he let me down really although he has good veri's. Guy two arranged date for weds, he cancelled on Tuesday. Guy three starting chatting Thursday arranged for sat, cancelled on sat. Last guy started chatting sat arranged date for Monday cancelled sun. | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
We tend to over invite. If we want to meet 2 guys or couple's then invite 10, if they all turn up then WOW what a night, but its inevitable most wont show "It’s seems very strange to us that you would invite 10 people who you don’t know at all to your home ? Are you being serious or is this some sort of joke ? | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "I didn’t experience this at all for my first year here, now it’s happened a few times. I havent changed, I still meet socially first, I still choose carefully (check verifications, establish common ground). I was let down for Tuesday evening, he picked the date, loads of chat on Kik, I’d have bet anything he was genuine. He just stoped talking the Thursday before, didn’t read his Kik messages and I’ve not heard from him since. It’s annoying, but that’s just the way it is. I try not to let it bother me, there are some truly lovely people here who don’t mess me around | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
I didn’t experience this at all for my first year here, now it’s happened a few times.
I havent changed, I still meet socially first, I still choose carefully (check verifications, establish common ground).
I was let down for Tuesday evening, he picked the date, loads of chat on Kik, I’d have bet anything he was genuine.
He just stoped talking the Thursday before, didn’t read his Kik messages and I’ve not heard from him since. It’s annoying, but that’s just the way it is. I try not to let it bother me, there are some truly lovely people here who don’t mess me around
"I’ve found guys that use Kik - on the whole - aren’t really genuine. Secret lives, not single, etc. If they’re happy to give out their number I’ve found they’re normally ok. There are, of course, exceptions. Just my experience. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . " Or there is the fact that even single people work, and may need to be a sleep at midnight. If they are that desperate for a shag I'd not consider them a swinger personally, but a player. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . " So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . " Or 7:30 pm! the mrs may go to bed at 11pm | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep" I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. " Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed..." What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Not many. I certainly wouldn't. In fact, I'm on my 3rd social meet with the same guy, next week  . If the reason is the social element and it's something you need, they are clearly not the right type for you... though it could also be genuine excuses and just a bad coincidence, in regards to the timing | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there." I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line...." What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. " I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying..." I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. " Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. " No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him " That's me! Mr right now | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now" Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... " I'm an anomaly though as I've said. Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time? | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... I'm an anomaly though as I've said. Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time? "Hugs , they always want hugs | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... I'm an anomaly though as I've said. Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... I'm an anomaly though as I've said. Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. Touché In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps... They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual. My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along... Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial.... So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex... I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me..... So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him That's me! Mr right now Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them... I'm an anomaly though as I've said. Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
Hugs , they always want hugs If it's an attractive woman, I'll be the hug monster.
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "Alot like the chase with messages and banter then when it comes to actually meeting the thrill as gone | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? i know plenty that do" How does that work if he turns out to be not what you expected. 10 year old photos, bad breath, no chemistry. Just shag anyway? Not me but each to their own. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . Omg I'm single but wouldn't take a call at midnight to check! I'd be asleep! " The point is you wouldn’t even need to ring . If he won’t give you his number or comes up with an excuse why it’s inconvenient then that tells you everything you need to know about him . | |||
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"Had a timewaster earlier this evening. The genuine timewaster, you know, the type that block you after failing to show up. Anyhow the loser is blocked back and reported to admin. We have each other for sex. He's sat at home having a party with his hand." may have chosen a different meet? he may just be ignorant | |||
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" Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway.... Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks. The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. I think you took what I wrote a little out of context.... I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married... If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes... So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... What are you talking about! My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship. You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with. You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. " Who's on here looking for a relationship? I think what he means is unless you're looking for the perfect guy to be at your beck and call, but leave him ticking over while you have no use for him, don't expect him to be single and "available" all the time, but accept the guys you're interested in others will be too and that gives him choice, he may choose someone that's not beating his balls | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway " what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . " thats a ridiculous assumption!!! plus slightly offensive to single men? | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call" No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what! | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway " Really? I didn’t get the memo & neither did some of the men I meet. The only times I haven’t had just a social is when distance is involved. However, if there was no desire to take it any further then both parties are free to say so with no hard feelings. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . thats a ridiculous assumption!!! plus slightly offensive to single men? " | |||
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"I wonder if this thread will get back to the Ops original point before it gets too big and has to close lol" Chances are the 4 guys that cancelled were all married ,had partners ,or were sad pervy picture collectors getting online kicks. Recognising that early and blocking them is so easy but people are just too trusting and gullible on here so keep getting caught out. | |||
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"I wonder if this thread will get back to the Ops original point before it gets too big and has to close lol Chances are the 4 guys that cancelled were all married ,had partners ,or were sad pervy picture collectors getting online kicks. Recognising that early and blocking them is so easy but people are just too trusting and gullible on here so keep getting caught out. " Its really not "the chances" though. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what! "So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances. Not to mention the anything to get a shag line. | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there "I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest? | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?"because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?
because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions "No all I said is it can be a giveaway that a person may not be single if they won't meet for a public social! When looking for red flags it's a good one ... nothing is infallible and on here people will lie simple | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?
because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions
No all I said is it can be a giveaway that a person may not be single if they won't meet for a public social! When looking for red flags it's a good one ... nothing is infallible and on here people will lie simple "i disagree. but your entitled to your opinion | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ? "Shame your straight hun I would definitely turn up xx | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what!
So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances.
Not to mention the anything to get a shag line."I didn’t come up with any idea or mention anything about shagging. I do agree with the other poster about calling someone at a random time (doesn’t have to be midnight) to see if they answer. But you don’t need to call them, as I find if someone doesn’t give you their phone number full stop, they normally are hiding something. | |||
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘. Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet. As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what!
So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances.
Not to mention the anything to get a shag line.
I didn’t come up with any idea or mention anything about shagging.
I do agree with the other poster about calling someone at a random time (doesn’t have to be midnight) to see if they answer. But you don’t need to call them, as I find if someone doesn’t give you their phone number full stop, they normally are hiding something.
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. " no problem... it was directed at Mrs Robinson's comment but i welcome your comment x | |||
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed... Is this normal ?
Shame your straight hun I would definitely turn up xx"Lol thanks. I am straight but have to say lovely boobs. | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. " "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. | |||
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"Maybe you’re a bad judge of character? Or maybe you are both miscommunicating - and those people didn’t really want to have a social meet, but somehow got talked into it. Then bottled it." Have to say that was my thought. Some men just can't be arsed with socials, fair enough, but have the balls to say! | |||
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"If you can’t interact on a social level how good is a fuck going to be. To many wanting a quick empty " Horses for courses: some women and couples simply want a "quick empty" too. It's the leading on I think unkind. If it's not for you move on to the next profile: no harm, no foul...just don't waste people's time! | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something." A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. " this is essential for me | |||
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer. Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first? " More than half I’ve met skipped the social. Never had a bad experience | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. " Me too | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. Me too "Yes I could never meet people who will only give Kik or Snapchat. I believe FA what people tell me on the internet at the best of times and I need to do a bit of DD first. For safety if nowt else! x | |||
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "I don't give out my number here." Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. Me too "So you expect others to give their number out, but you won't?! | |||
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