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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is really a pure interest post. I have since joined this site told that I am particully well hung and to start with I really did not listen to the hype but it does add a little digree of confidence. But I was wondering to females does the size really matter? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes size matter

I dont like hung men they hurt me, id sooner have a nice average cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I love the feeling of being full, so yes. I think it's all personal though.

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"yes size matter

I dont like hung men they hurt me, id sooner have a nice average cock"

Awwww now you have dented his confidence again lololol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha ha !!! no I am fine, some people dont like it x have a look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So yes it matters.

You can have a big cock and not be right.

You can have an average one and not be right.

You can have a fat one and not be right.

You can have a dick thinner than a pencil and not be right.

But then again all the above could be great!!!

Its completely subjective and down to personal choice.

Don't you just love how amazing and intricate women are. At least the number of available choices of cock make it easier than shoe shopping hey ladies

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha Ha love it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have never hurt anyone x

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Nope, its what you do with it that counts, unless its so small you cant feel it. But generally of course it dont, sometimes the big cocks hurt anyway, so makes it not that pleasurable, im more into the rythem xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the size doesn't really bother me (Louise) iv had all different sizes and thickness i suppose its all down to the guy and what he can do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, its what you do with it that counts, unless its so small you cant feel it. But generally of course it dont, sometimes the big cocks hurt anyway, so makes it not that pleasurable, im more into the rythem xx"

Its not the size of the wand. It's the magic it can conjour. Shazam.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Had a variety of sizes i personally dont like them massively big, apperently im quite tight so that proberbly did'nt help but i have been hurt and sore for days after so the thought of having a big boy does not fill me with excitement. A well skilled average+ extra size cock does me fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha ha magic!!! x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

too big is a waste as painful

but too small is unnoticable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are bigger than 6" in girth, most women wont be able to take it that well until after a few times.

length is different as you need to be careful of hitting the cervix. Some enjoy it, many dont.

Personally if a woman didn't like my member size I wouldn't see her again. Plenty more women around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the average penis size when erect ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think big cocks look better in photos than smaller ones, thats why they have them in porn films.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On to the facts: The average penis size is 3.5 to 3.7 inches when soft and between 5.0-5.7 inches when hard. For those still paranoid, that’s 9 to 9.5 centimeters at ease and 12.8 to 14 centimeters at attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys."

that could be true actually

I met a guy once who was native america, ive always had a soft spot for them and took me bloody months if not years to find one, but his cock was so damn big i took one look at it and did a runner lol

such a shame

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys."

Unfortunately not many of them in my neck of the woods.

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

By the look of this posting you are looking for an ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys.

that could be true actually

I met a guy once who was native america, ive always had a soft spot for them and took me bloody months if not years to find one, but his cock was so damn big i took one look at it and did a runner lol

such a shame "

whaaa?

He could have had in his posession a natural family made lube which gives the ladies something to "oooh" about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought my hubby cock was huge, although he insists its average. The first time i started to see other men was when i met another much older man, i couldnt believe how small his cock was, it was miniscule, only after seeing just hubbys cock for the last 30 years i for some reason thought they were all the same size.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Doesn't matter....

Its all about having FUN

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By *irlnextdoorWoman
over a year ago

brighton

Size does matter to me but I prefer girth to length.

A nice average to long (not too long) quite thick cock does the trick for me. But nothing that can split me in half, that's just painful. mmm... not making much sense.

Well, if the size isn't right there better be some fan-tas-tic foreplay.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Mind you...

Am getting fed up with all the small ones

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

No offence to the OP but I wouldn't say that was "Well hung"....

Above average, yes....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

guy with a small cock on his wedding night..

wife sat in bed waiting, he drops his clothes and turns around..

her in a disapointed voice say 'and who are you going to please with that?'

he just smiles and says 'me'....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"No offence to the OP but I wouldn't say that was "Well hung"....

Above average, yes...."

I think the problem boils down to just how many cocks people have seen. The OP is def above average and, IMO, bordering on well hung. However there are some monsters out there!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Guess iv just been spoilt all my adult life...

Well, until I joined FAB

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By *irlnextdoorWoman
over a year ago

brighton


"No offence to the OP but I wouldn't say that was "Well hung"....

Above average, yes....

I think the problem boils down to just how many cocks people have seen. The OP is def above average and, IMO, bordering on well hung. However there are some monsters out there! "

Interesting thought. Maybe you should ask in a nunnery. If I speak for myself, I've seen a LOT of penises. (including nudism/clubbing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I'm new to sex, I've had my fair few and prefer bigger cocks but not huge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys.

that could be true actually

I met a guy once who was native america, ive always had a soft spot for them and took me bloody months if not years to find one, but his cock was so damn big i took one look at it and did a runner lol

such a shame

whaaa?

He could have had in his posession a natural family made lube which gives the ladies something to "oooh" about! "

haha he'd have needed a natural family made lube and a medicine man sat in the corner to resuscitate me after and he still wasnt coming near me with that lol

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

My girlfriend thinks size matters. She's had a fair few experiences with guys, where she couldn't feel anything, wondered if it was in? But she's also been with some monsters, and was just like "this is too big". She has a definite preference for long & thick, but there is an upper limit.

I think if you're bashing the back of a love canal (hitting her cervix), then you're too long. As for thickness, the vagina has been built to give birth to babies which have heads far girthier than the thickest cocks. So if it feels too thick, then I reckon it's because the woman isn't wet enough.

I'd say half of the women I've done, I've been able to hit their cervix with some length to spare (including some women that have been taking BBC's/BWC's/BAC's for years, so it's not like their pussy has re-shapened). Just need to be more gentle and don't go all the way in, and careful with other positions.

But even though I consider myself pretty wide, a lot of women have started out tight, then after a while have felt quite loose. So it's just arousal/lubrication.

My opinion: Size matters, but so does so many other things (Sensuality, Athleticism, Stayer, Repeater, The mighty Tongue! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what you do with it that counts!

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow


"Native American Indians have the biggest wangs on average.

Not the black guys."

As a keen human anthropologist, this is very interesting.

Considering Native Americans descend from N.East Asians, you'd assume them to have similar anatomy. Although they've spent a considerable time in the Americas.

I wonder if this relates to Puerto Rican girls having some impressive booties (black+taino+iberian).

Would be hard for us to conduct research living outside of the Americas.

Anyone had any experience with Mexican guys?

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow


"It's what you do with it that counts! "

Cavemen had 3 feet long "Mushroom tips", they used to use them to club women over the head before putting it in to make love to them.

On a side note, I've been in Spas & Adult parties, and I've seen some guys with some seriously small penises. I'm talking 1/2 inch to 1 inch, and they even look erect. I mean why God why?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Its not about the size of the cock, its about the dick on the end of it!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"It's what you do with it that counts!

Cavemen had 3 feet long "Mushroom tips", they used to use them to club women over the head before putting it in to make love to them.

On a side note, I've been in Spas & Adult parties, and I've seen some guys with some seriously small penises. I'm talking 1/2 inch to 1 inch, and they even look erect. I mean why God why?"
why bother more like. Bring back the cave man. I flipping love a long one banging hell out my cervix....id love a big fat one stretching me and making me sore. Little ones ......nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As a keen human anthropologist, this is very interesting.

Considering Native Americans descend from N.East Asians, you'd assume them to have similar anatomy. Although they've spent a considerable time in the Americas.

I wonder if this relates to Puerto Rican girls having some impressive booties (black+taino+iberian).

Would be hard for us to conduct research living outside of the Americas.

Anyone had any experience with Mexican guys? "

I read up somewhere that Mexicans natural intollerance of sugar makes them fat.

Whether its true I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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haha he'd have needed a natural family made lube and a medicine man sat in the corner to resuscitate me after and he still wasnt coming near me with that lol "

So it was a Carrie Sex & The City moment for you?

DOnt ask me how I know but I saw an episode where she had a guy who was 'too big', even for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girlfriend thinks size matters. She's had a fair few experiences with guys, where she couldn't feel anything, wondered if it was in? But she's also been with some monsters, and was just like "this is too big". She has a definite preference for long & thick, but there is an upper limit.

Just a thought about your comments, find it amazing that your pictures of your body show a white man but your willy is black and being held by a black hand??

explain

I think if you're bashing the back of a love canal (hitting her cervix), then you're too long. As for thickness, the vagina has been built to give birth to babies which have heads far girthier than the thickest cocks. So if it feels too thick, then I reckon it's because the woman isn't wet enough.

I'd say half of the women I've done, I've been able to hit their cervix with some length to spare (including some women that have been taking BBC's/BWC's/BAC's for years, so it's not like their pussy has re-shapened). Just need to be more gentle and don't go all the way in, and careful with other positions.

But even though I consider myself pretty wide, a lot of women have started out tight, then after a while have felt quite loose. So it's just arousal/lubrication.

My opinion: Size matters, but so does so many other things (Sensuality, Athleticism, Stayer, Repeater, The mighty Tongue! )"

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Non-erect penis size has virtually no relationship to its erect size. Most guys don’t even realise this themselves.

A guy who is feeling threatened, or maybe on the edge of going into shock through accident/injury etc. IF he looked would find that his tackle would have almost disappeared. It’s a natural automatic protection reaction that cause the scrotum and penis to retract into the body.

The whole subject comes down to personal preference, so size DOES matter as it’s got to be somewhere near right for ‘you’ at the time.

It seems that both the boys and girls are impressed when they ‘see’ a big one, typically met with a wide-eyed WOW when they are on display. Mrs prefers 6 to 7 inches, much smaller than 6” and it doesn’t hit the spot, bigger than 7” is at best uncomfortable to just too bloody painful.

The idea that a woman can take any size ‘after all they give birth to babies’ is totally misleading. On the lead up and during birth hormones are released that allow the hips to expand and dilate the birth canal including the vagina. If you don’t believe me, when your misses has a baby.... try putting it back! I guarantee it won’t fit no matter how hard you try!

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Just a thought about your comments, find it amazing that your pictures of your body show a white man but your willy is black and being held by a black hand??

explain"

I should make a thread on this explaining to those clueless about photographic lighting, and how melanin works in non-white people (Black/Asian/Latinos/Mixed).

===Lighting===

Ok, so firstly due to lighting. Photos of many dark skin people (whether black or asian), can appear rather light 'caramel-yellow hue' (although not pale white/pink).

===Melanin===

This skin pigmentation isn't evenly distributed around the body, even in white people (mediterraneans). Areas of the skin which tend to be more elastic or expand/contract i.e. at your joints, nipples, genitalia, around the eyes. This is why your penis is darker or pinker (if you're white) than the rest of your body.

Hence why the photo looks like a brown man holding a black man's cock, and why I appear yellow-brown in the other photos.

I know, I (probably like many other brown skinned people) probably wondered why they were given a black penis instead of a brown one. But it's just the way skin complexion works.

Anyway, I've sent you face pics, including the photo which has my face blocked out, to remove any doubts about me not being black (Mixed Race).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this whole thread was just a 'look at the size of my cock' excuse anyway.

Cock size doesn't really matter...as long as its big enough to please. Obviously if you have an acorn then that's different!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


" Obviously if you have an acorn then that's different!

"

You've seen Ice Age then?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non-erect penis size has virtually no relationship to its erect size. Most guys don’t even realise this themselves.

A guy who is feeling threatened, or maybe on the edge of going into shock through accident/injury etc. IF he looked would find that his tackle would have almost disappeared. It’s a natural automatic protection reaction that cause the scrotum and penis to retract into the body.

The whole subject comes down to personal preference, so size DOES matter as it’s got to be somewhere near right for ‘you’ at the time.

It seems that both the boys and girls are impressed when they ‘see’ a big one, typically met with a wide-eyed WOW when they are on display. Mrs prefers 6 to 7 inches, much smaller than 6” and it doesn’t hit the spot, bigger than 7” is at best uncomfortable to just too bloody painful.

The idea that a woman can take any size ‘after all they give birth to babies’ is totally misleading. On the lead up and during birth hormones are released that allow the hips to expand and dilate the birth canal including the vagina. If you don’t believe me, when your misses has a baby.... try putting it back! I guarantee it won’t fit no matter how hard you try!"

+1

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow


"Non-erect penis size has virtually no relationship to its erect size. Most guys don’t even realise this themselves. "

Yup this is very true. I'm a major grower. Although for some reason, even when I'm un-erect, women can tell that I'm carrying something big.

Incidentally Black guys un-erect penises are still quite big (this is due to lack of adaption to cold-climate, or adaption to hot climates, whichever way you look at it). But you'd be foolish to assume this is the only reason for the BBC phenomena.


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The idea that a woman can take any size ‘after all they give birth to babies’ is totally misleading...

"

The vagina is quite flexible, in terms of accommodating length and girth. What I find is that if you're going to hit her cervix, then you're going to hit her cervix. Doesn't matter how wet or how much lube she puts down there, a shallow pussy will remain shallow. However, her ability to accommodate girthy cocks is relatively much more flexible. Going into a woman the first time, she'll always feel fairly tight. But she can loosen up a lot, just takes time.

Shieet, you might not be able to put a baby back in a woman, but I've seen women put beer cans, and hands in side. I once saw a video of One Guy put One Jar (glass) up his ass, but that didn't end well. PMSL.

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

Although I'll have to confess, just because it felt a good fit for me (girth wise). Doesn't necessarily mean the woman wasn't in discomfort. And I've had some women that have needed their sessions over relatively quickly (despite definitely enjoying it). So girth could well be an issue.

In hindsight, I think this thread probably was an attention grabbing one. I find his photo on all fours quite funny (his facial expression looks so serious )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non-erect penis size has virtually no relationship to its erect size. Most guys don’t even realise this themselves.

Yup this is very true. I'm a major grower. Although for some reason, even when I'm un-erect, women can tell that I'm carrying something big.

Incidentally Black guys un-erect penises are still quite big (this is due to lack of adaption to cold-climate, or adaption to hot climates, whichever way you look at it). But you'd be foolish to assume this is the only reason for the BBC phenomena.

The idea that a woman can take any size ‘after all they give birth to babies’ is totally misleading...

The vagina is quite flexible, in terms of accommodating length and girth. What I find is that if you're going to hit her cervix, then you're going to hit her cervix. Doesn't matter how wet or how much lube she puts down there, a shallow pussy will remain shallow. However, her ability to accommodate girthy cocks is relatively much more flexible. Going into a woman the first time, she'll always feel fairly tight. But she can loosen up a lot, just takes time.

Shieet, you might not be able to put a baby back in a woman, but I've seen women put beer cans, and hands in side. I once saw a video of One Guy put One Jar (glass) up his ass, but that didn't end well. PMSL. "

I dont know how women can get beer cans inside them without it really hurting, i havnt tried it, but i have tried other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too. prefer to feel the cock inside me and like to swallow it. too big and I feel nothing and can't do certain positions and can't get it down my throat. average works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be ok to be an average joe as I have never had any complaints so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really is true though that it's not what you've got it's what you do with it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it really is true though that it's not what you've got it's what you do with it!!"

haha well from what I have just seen what you have got is a great sounding profile hun x

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

From my experience (it's Mr writing) the vagina has a capacity best measured in 'volume'. Mrs enjoys fisting so in terms of girth that's about a beer can but then depth is limited to about 4" However a 7" cock is usually a lot less girth than a fist or beer can and and will just about fit to full depth/length. So it seems there is a trade off, or 'balance' between girth and length.

Also in our experience it seems most guys either bend the truth or have no idea how to measure their weapon correctly. If they were true/accurate most guys, by way of what they 'claim' on their profiles would stand no chance of meeting the Mrs for sex, cos as previously stated, if it really is more than 7" she don't want it.

The Mrs will still do the (as do I) 'WOW look at the size of that beast'. Equally the comment "WOW look at them six inch heels" doesn't mean she wants to wear them! Why... cos they f****** HURT that's why. They 'look' fantastic but that's all.

Maybe this is at least in part why so many men are insecure about the size of their cock, because the bigger ones do tend to get attention, they do inspire the 'wow' type comments, but honestly guys if you think bigger is better you need to think again

But then for the person that wants a big one nothing else will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 3 1/2" hard and most women do say it's to small. But get over this in other areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mr man is right-a large cock will draw lots of curious attention but although noone has said-no thank you have caused a little pain so need to excercise caution-personally i dont think i fall into the vwe its just that i seem to get more attention if i write that on posts.anyway-the more women that do love them the better i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paranoid and insecure people worry about cock size ! if it fills a pram

BOOM ! job done !!

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

Mine's on the larger end of the spectrum, and some women have said it's too big. None ever said too small. So I wouldn't want to be any bigger for practical reasons.

However, that said it's easy for even me to feel self conscious, if there is a guy with a bigger dick -I'm certainly not the biggest. You can't help but think "superior stud". Even when in practicality that extra length or girth has no real advantage.

So it's just a silly male insecurity. As that guy may have problems getting hard, staying hard, repeating, and may lack other sexual skills. To others his big penis is a novelty, so it's easy for him to think "it's all about the dick, just keep banging for 5-10 mins, and job done".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never won a rosette with it yet, but always get approving comments before and after and that's good enough for me. Always been a careful owner driver too - important is that.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all sorts long and thin can feel great sliding in and out slow.

But if it's shorter love a fat one

... also, I find that big fat vein running down the back of a nice cock, sooooo sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is really a pure interest post. I have since joined this site told that I am particully well hung and to start with I really did not listen to the hype but it does add a little digree of confidence. But I was wondering to females does the size really matter? xxx"

whether cock size matters or not, at least you got a few profile views

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Paranoid and insecure people worry about cock size ! if it fills a pram

BOOM ! job done !! "

Ahhaaaaa! Some sense!!'

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