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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have .

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I beg to differ. This site rules the roost my friend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

be closing the door behind me later waiting for a message reply and gone but thanks for asking

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have . "

So you're complaining that Admim DOES sort out fakes and veri requests? High expectations much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*suspected fakes*

If admin look at it and think you're wrong then what? throw your toys outta the pram?

Having said that,If i suspect a profile is fake I just pass it by. It's not my job to wheedle 'em out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

there is a stronger swinging community in england then over here we have not even got one club

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"there is a stronger swinging community in england then over here we have not even got one club "

What does that have to do with fake profiles and verifications?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have . "

yes its all my fault you consider the site "crap" ! i accept full and total responsibilty and ownership !!! i apologise on my knees and must be suitably punnished ! .now op do you feel any better ???pmsl !!

so how do you know admin . as you say "do nothing "?? did they by chance send you a message stating sorry "in regards your report of fake profile ect ..we just canney be arsed "? .ohh right !! thought not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very rare i report someone, it has to be something quite bad before i will bother, if people have fake profiles etc so what they not hurting me, if they just after verifications, again so what, people will only waste your time if you allow them to

I dont think the sites crap tho, ive met some lively people off here, like most things in life, you get out of it what you put into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have . yes its all my fault you consider the site "crap" ! i accept full and total responsibilty and ownership !!! i apologise on my knees and must be suitably punnished ! .now op do you feel any better ???pmsl !! so how do you know admin . as you say "do nothing "?? did they by chance send you a message stating sorry "in regards your report of fake profile ect ..we just canney be arsed "? .ohh right !! thought not ! "

with a comment like that now ppl can see why there so many fakes ppl don't care !!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if you find a site free of fakes do come back and let us know - they are a part of any site i think you will find

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

having said that i havent found any in 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to fellow fabsters to report things if they think something is not right.

Admin can look behind the scenes and then decide what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?"

another ranter who seems to not like the site and he STILL on it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in life we make our own way, if it does nothing for you.... set yourself free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have . "
why did you think they were fake? (no names) Did they not want to meet you?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

you said we were all to blame for "the state" of the site . i was just accepting full responsibilty pmsl !

ill also have you know i use the report to admin and no issue with it or with the job admin do ! i asked you op how you know " admin do nothing " and see you havent replied to that . if you have issue with way admin have delt with a report then take it admin .bleeting here will resolve nothing !

as for my replie showing"why there are so meny fakes on here " i fail to see how you draw that conclusion . i dont force ppl to set up fake profiles ,i report ones i consider to be fake! admin then re_iew and take appropriate action depending on what proof they have . so how you say i dont care is beyond me lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?

another ranter who seems to not like the site and he STILL on it "

did not say that i love this site but don't like the way it's gone read the 1st message and comment on that not what someone else says about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Byeeeeeeee

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"why would you bother reporting fakes or ppl looking for verification as soon as they join if admi does do anything to sort it out . But for saying this i'l get a warning or just a single guy letting of steam this site is crap now because you all let it go that way be proud of what ye have . "
so in the 5 months you have been on site you have noticed such a massive decline in stanards!!!!. we're here few years and from time to time we find rude people arrongant people and 1 fake but as said before why let it worry you, maybe in a few more months you will see things dif, remember admin cant just take everyones word someone else is fake the need to see a patern this is by far best fun site around and it is free unless u choose to pay a small fee

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?

another ranter who seems to not like the site and he STILL on it

did not say that i love this site but don't like the way it's gone read the 1st message and comment on that not what someone else says about me "

I didn't say anything about you... I asked you a Question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?

another ranter who seems to not like the site and he STILL on it

did not say that i love this site but don't like the way it's gone read the 1st message and comment on that not what someone else says about me "

So you like crab sites then ??? oopss sorry quoted on some1 eles comment .. again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

crap not crab ffsss ^^^^ lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"crap not crab ffsss ^^^^ lol"

lol your grand

didn't mean to be taking a swip at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stick with this site there will allways be fakes out there and ppl who dont like you thats just life on here, keep doing what you are doing and soon you will fall in LOVE with this site lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks i've fallen in love already with it just the wat i see it going

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

As others have said, there will always be fake profiles on sites like this...

You think if admin got rid of any that they wouldn't come straight back with a new one?

If I think a profile is fake I simply ignore it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she contact me asking to be verified i offer her my number for her to call me and we chat and see if she was real , she declined her profile had two different ages on it she contact me again i declined to verfy and was blocked she contuines to be here . Very hard to ignore that but i have

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

I would like to ask anyone who has verified someone just by talking on phone...

If said person had pics on profile, how do you know its really them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's that 'crap'... Why are you still here?

another ranter who seems to not like the site and he STILL on it "
a perfect measure of its true value.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"she contact me asking to be verified i offer her my number for her to call me and we chat and see if she was real , she declined her profile had two different ages on it she contact me again i declined to verfy and was blocked she contuines to be here . Very hard to ignore that but i have "

Think yourself lucky that I'm on my best behavior otherwise I could be really bitchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she contact me asking to be verified i offer her my number for her to call me and we chat and see if she was real , she declined her profile had two different ages on it she contact me again i declined to verfy and was blocked she contuines to be here . Very hard to ignore that but i have "

Who gives a shit. Why are you arsed about her blocking you if she has a fake profile anyway? But complain to admin if you must, I suppose it helps clear the site of fakes after all.

The thing I don't get though is your foregone conclusion that because of that the whole site is unsatisfactory?I refer you to my earlier rebuttal my old chum. This site is ace. If you have beef with this simple fact then thats your choice and you can address your complaints to a brick wall of your choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"she contact me asking to be verified i offer her my number for her to call me and we chat and see if she was real , she declined her profile had two different ages on it she contact me again i declined to verfy and was blocked she contuines to be here . Very hard to ignore that but i have Who gives a shit. Why are you arsed about her blocking you if she has a fake profile anyway? But complain to admin if you must, I suppose it helps clear the site of fakes after all.

The thing I don't get though is your foregone conclusion that because of that the whole site is unsatisfactory?I refer you to my earlier rebuttal my old chum. This site is ace. If you have beef with this simple fact then thats your choice and you can address your complaints to a brick wall of your choice."

well mr lick i'm not your old chum and your töne and bully like messages will not stop me from expressing my thoughts on any aspect of this site and your i don't care is the type of opinion that allows fakes to get away with ruining the site for everyone best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she contact me asking to be verified i offer her my number for her to call me and we chat and see if she was real , she declined her profile had two different ages on it she contact me again i declined to verfy and was blocked she contuines to be here . Very hard to ignore that but i have Who gives a shit. Why are you arsed about her blocking you if she has a fake profile anyway? But complain to admin if you must, I suppose it helps clear the site of fakes after all.

The thing I don't get though is your foregone conclusion that because of that the whole site is unsatisfactory?I refer you to my earlier rebuttal my old chum. This site is ace. If you have beef with this simple fact then thats your choice and you can address your complaints to a brick wall of your choice.

well mr lick i'm not your old chum and your töne and bully like messages will not stop me from expressing my thoughts on any aspect of this site and your i don't care is the type of opinion that allows fakes to get away with ruining the site for everyone best of luck to you "

To be fair, I think you actually have a good point about getting rid of fakes as it makes everything run more smoothly. You've reported to admin, which is the right thing to do. But to be fair if admin contacted her she could simply suggest that she had made a typo error on her profile, and how could they prove otherwise? If she didn't "correct" it then fair enough.

But to suggest that the entire site is crap because of it is absolute poppycock. Every site will get fakes and spammers, that's why the verification system exist. Its impossible to eradicate all fakes from a site, unless you had some sort of elitist club where no one was allowed on site till they had met. A lot of folk wouldn't even get started. That's why users atre advised to make their own judgements about potential meets.

To throw your hands up and say the entire site is rubbish, and comes across like chucking your toys from the pram. Everything is flawed in life, but on the whole I for one am fond of this site and think it works pretty well, using my own judgement I've not had the misfortune to attempt to meet one timewaster or fake yet.

And that's not bullying, its simply my honest opinion...

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