FabSwingers.com forum: First swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are your memories for the first time you went to a swingers club ?

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

As we park outside and waited on the club opening,

Mrs sofa looked at me and said

“I want my mum”

I wasn’t sure how to take that as not sure her mum would enjoy watching, but we still giggle about it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i drove to jaydees3 times ,pulled in the car park and drove home 3 times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a raging hard on the whole day afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it was pretty grim to be honest. Lovely, friendly people, just no one I fancied and the club was shabby. The club changed venue though and seems to attract a much more broad spectrum of people now. I don’t go often, but always have fun when I do

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

It was hilarious but can't go into details as it was with someone from here and it wouldn't be fair.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Liberating.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I felt like I had walked into someone's bedroom and I was invading their privacy .. I kept running back to the social area...

But after a couple of drinks a couple of kind gents who took me under their wing gave me the best experience ever.... I couldn't sleep for 24 hours afterwards and was on the biggest high!!!

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Still to experience it ...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big buzz ..felt like I had walked into a porn film

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I went on a lunch time, played with a couple and came out thinking, yup - I'm going back!

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

Walking towards a door wedged between two shops, looked like I was entering a brothel

Inside the music was loud and sounded like the backing music to a 70s porno!

The staff were friendly, it wasn't the most busiest of places, but I had a good time

For my first club visit it was ok, but I've learnt that many others are so much better then that place

Still get nervous as hell when going to clubs though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiiiit..cannot wait to be able to contribute to this thread. My 1st time happening in just under 2 weeks!

Nervous asf but really excited!

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Our first club visit wasn't actually to a swingers club but a fetish club, Jane took to it like a fish to water, I on the other hand felt pretty nervous and didn't enjoy it nearly as much,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to Chams in Darlaston back in 2011. A fact finding mission, "just to look"....

We had a great time!

We've only ever been to one other club in that time and that's now closed unfortunately.

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East

Ours was not so long ago, cpl had let us down and my mrs said lets go to club, we just didnt think to much, walked up stairs and askedto join!!!

30min later we are in jucuzzi with a cpl andall felt right

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Nervous and shy locking ourselves in a private room lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

VA was my first and can remember being incredibly nervous and not quite sure what to expect - milled around the social area after our brief introductory tour, nervous about approaching anyone - moved through to the hot tub and can distinctly remember the feeling of liberation when I dropped the towel for the first time and stepped into the tub.

Can't say I'll ever be entirely comfortable in a club environment but always feel that sense of liberation when I do go.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I planned my journey turned up walked in the door sat at bar talk to a lovely couple and sat in the hot tube and played a little then went home.

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

Can’t wait to try one with my fb

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The 70 mile drive there was fine, right up to the last 1/2 mile or so, when the nerves really kicked in, but as soon as I saw the front door, I parked up, jumped straight out and almost ran in before I talked myself out of it!

Once inside, I received a nice welcome by the owner, who showed me around, explained the 'House Rules' etc, and then I sat at the bar, had a couple of drinks, and chatted to a few people. It wasn't the busiest of nights, and felt more like a Sunday afternoon in a working mens club, than a Friday night at a swingers club. Overall, the place was tidy enough, but it was a bit of an 'anti-climax', and none of the couples were willing to engage conversation with a single guy, with one couple in particular deliberately blanking me

Not a brilliant start, and unfortunately, I've experienced worse nights since

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By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Nearly drowning..... she was a squirter lol

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

It was a great, enjoyable experience. I had been looking forward to it for a long time. I had lots of fun. Loved the jacuzzi.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

A club social organised by a swinger site member.

No yearly fee, Just the night fee to be paid.

I also was the taxi driver for this member to get there, Where we all met up at a hotel before going to the club.

3 spare seats so took more people down to the club near manchester.

Nervous to say the least, But I wasnt the only newbie at the organised event.

Boxers and a towel for my attire that night

The club was welcoming and the added bonus, You was with other social people that relaxed you even more.

Great night was able to venture around the building, join in with others in the pool area.

I walked in on a couple and appologised, Hadnt realised they was there.

Smokers area was interesting in a camper van outside the building.

Wasnt enough room in there a few times and got offered to sit on a few ladies knees.

However those ladies hands couldnt keep there hands to themselves

Once they found out im warm to the touch.

They kinda disappeared on many occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went with no preconceived ideas, more anticipation than nervous. Loved it so much went six weeks in a row. Went as a shy voyeur but now also enjoy being watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overwhelmed and not able to do anything

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

My first club was the now defunct " Junction 2 " located in Hampshire. I had met a woman and started dating. She told me she was a swinger and would I be interested in that. So we went to J2 and started there. Second club was chameleons .It was always couples parties to start. I was fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was Partners in Bury on a busy Saturday night.

I'd gone with people I knew, so got introduced to people which broke the ice. Ended up playing on a few occasions and had an amazing night. I ended up going again the week after and every other free weekend I had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was Xtasia. It was a fab night with a fab group of people. Plenty of laughs and plenty of stories for that night.

Good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ares was chams, felt a bit of a wall flower, Ali soon found it intriguing and first time she ever had the pleasure of the spa area too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a Sunday afternoon at Chams. I remember feeling really nervous driving there but saw a couple having sex while I was being shown around and I fell in love with the whole idea of clubs.

Telling one special couple that I was a swinging virgin proved to be a good idea too

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine was Le chambre with Jack

Really nervous,but made to feel really welcome.

Didn't meet anyone we wanted to play with that night,but played in one of the rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was for the cougars and cubs event at DV8. I went there in my own and was really nervous as I didn’t know what to expect, but had a great time at the end meeting sexy people and even being fortunate enough to have some fun in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time in a club is yet to come, but we look forward to it!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Bricking it at first, but embraced it once we got in and were the first ones getting down to playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really nervous as was going on my own, didn’t know anyone personally but a couple of people from a kik group I was in, met some amazing people, felt like it was where I belonged and ended the night on my first gangbang.

I’ve not looked back, still my favourite club and my favourite event.

I’m so glad I made that first step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was really nervous as was going on my own, didn’t know anyone personally but a couple of people from a kik group I was in, met some amazing people, felt like it was where I belonged and ended the night on my first gangbang.

I’ve not looked back, still my favourite club and my favourite event.

I’m so glad I made that first step"

Ending your first visit with a gangbang it’s an amazing achievement imho. Well done for embracing the right spirit straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first got involved on the scene the site I was in organised a social at a club up north (think it may have been partners, really not sure though) being eager newbies we signed up and it was a great night but I broke up with that girlfrind not too long afterwards and was living in London so never went back to a club for about 5 years after that!

Once I left London I I went through a tine where was either at a fetish club or at Tease or VA more weekends than I wasn't but git completely bored of it. Now am an I frequent visitor but get that great mix of nerves and excitement before any visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was impromptu and wasn’t supposed to happen but intrigue after a social in the pub next door with a couple led to leaving 5 hours later and a few firsts taking place

but still a very surreal experience. I think the fact it wasn’t planned helped that first time.

Our first time together a year later at another club and it felt like it was a first time again ... I was physically shaking and it took a few hours of the hot-tub and playing together before the nerves started to subside - glad they did as we seem to really like a bit of controlled exhibitionism lol

Shame we just don’t get the time to go as often as we’d like

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travelled a fair distance to our first club as we didn't want to potentially bump into someone we'd know.

Entered the club and we were like rabbits caught in the headlights so nervously looked around the club, we soon settled in and got chatting to a nice couple in the bar area when someone caught my eye, the couple in question were minor celebrities from a smallish football club(unless you followed the team then you'd have no idea who they were). Obviously up at this club thinking no one would recognise them.

So basically we went and had a look around, used the facilities, chatted to a few people, played together and recognised someone.

For obvious reasons we have never mentioned this couples names to any.

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