FabSwingers.com forum: DOUBLE STANDARDS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately women can be knobheads too, especially when it comes to rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double standards seems to be the norm. I just had a couple requesting to see my veris and face pic: they displayed neither on their profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Unfortunately women can be knobheads too, especially when it comes to rejection "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it interesting when people who don’t get their way default to anger and insults.

It is almost as if they have always got their way by throwing a strop.

Narcissistic behavior and there are so many of them out there, it is frightening!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx"

Ah you broke the golden rule - you didn’t remember that as a man you are supposed to just want to fuck anything right and be super grateful that she messaged you ??

Lol joking aside it’s a sad reality that a lot of women on here are so up themselves from the attention they get on Fab they forget in reality most prob wouldn’t get a second glance

Don’t worry mate ... lol at the fact she’s prob seething in a corner somewhere haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably don’t expect to get rejected by a single guy ..

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

How dare you turn someone down!!! Being treated as a commodity gets to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx

Ah you broke the golden rule - you didn’t remember that as a man you are supposed to just want to fuck anything right and be super grateful that she messaged you ??

Lol joking aside it’s a sad reality that a lot of women on here are so up themselves from the attention they get on Fab they forget in reality most prob wouldn’t get a second glance

Don’t worry mate ... lol at the fact she’s prob seething in a corner somewhere haha

The funniest part was being blocked straight after her outburst!! Ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just about to ask how does she know your VWE when you have no pics

and then you said you hid them

Some people just can’t take rejection

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"They probably don’t expect to get rejected by a single guy .."

Us single guys should do it more often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was just about to ask how does she know your VWE when you have no pics

and then you said you hid them

Some people just can’t take rejection

Exactly that. She stated on her page that ‘she isn’t an object’ and then based her whole message on the fact I’ve got a big willy!!

Some people are just silly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, women take rejection worse than men do. I've yet to have a man on Fab lose his shit with me for rejecting them politely.

I've had a venomous reply from a women though. Other sites I've used/still use and it's the same story..

Men be like "But why? Please, I'm really nice".

Women be like "RUN!"

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"They probably don’t expect to get rejected by a single guy .."

I was a bit surprised the first time it happened. But I took it graciously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time !

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx

Ah you broke the golden rule - you didn’t remember that as a man you are supposed to just want to fuck anything right and be super grateful that she messaged you ??

Lol joking aside it’s a sad reality that a lot of women on here are so up themselves from the attention they get on Fab they forget in reality most prob wouldn’t get a second glance

Don’t worry mate ... lol at the fact she’s prob seething in a corner somewhere haha

The funniest part was being blocked straight after her outburst!! Ha."

Bonus !!! At least you don’t have to receive any more messages

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You've dodged a bullet OP. Report block and move on. She's shown her true colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find it interesting when people who don’t get their way default to anger and insults.

It is almost as if they have always got their way by throwing a strop.

Narcissistic behavior and there are so many of them out there, it is frightening!

They even have someone like this in the White House

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience, women take rejection worse than men do. I've yet to have a man on Fab lose his shit with me for rejecting them politely.

I've had a venomous reply from a women though. Other sites I've used/still use and it's the same story..

Men be like "But why? Please, I'm really nice".

Women be like "RUN!"

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

So far I haven’t had one bloke have a go when Iv replied back saying no.

Iv had the same guy message the same message about 10 times but that’s another story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it was bloke replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She had a lot of verifications... which kinda proved she normally gets her own way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She had a lot of verifications... which kinda proved she normally gets her own way!

How does having alot of veris prove that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well hung you say? Well hello there! Haha, seriously though, being a dick head isn't the exclusive domain of men.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"She had a lot of verifications... which kinda proved she normally gets her own way!

How does having alot of veris prove that?"

Yeah, that doesn't mean that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha"

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To be honest, I could be turned down 20 or more times a day and have double or triple the number of verifications I have.

But you may be right in this specific instance, of course.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Obviously she's an arse responding as she did, but rejecting so someone on the basis of their personal attributes is a bit rude.

Just say she's not your type or Just not answering at all would be fine.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"In my experience, women take rejection worse than men do. I've yet to have a man on Fab lose his shit with me for rejecting them politely.

I've had a venomous reply from a women though. Other sites I've used/still use and it's the same story..

Men be like "But why? Please, I'm really nice".

Women be like "RUN!"

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

Only had abuse once from a single guy when we turn him down but it has happened four or five times when we have turned down a woman. It strange but they always seems to default to the body shaming abuse even though we never give an exact reason for saying no just that they are not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole. "

Ha no! if someone requests to see, then I’m happy to share if we are talking. But don’t find the need to show my willy anymore! Just a personal preference for me right now!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol"

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole.

Ha no! if someone requests to see, then I’m happy to share if we are talking. But don’t find the need to show my willy anymore! Just a personal preference for me right now!xx"

Ok so tit for tat. If I send you my tits will you send me your tat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question"

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame more men didn't think with just there dick.

The any hole is a goal brigade have a lot to answer for on here.

We're often told that the fem is extremly beautiful, bizarre as we don't have face pics on display.

It's water off a ducks back to us.

Well done OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread."

Righty ho.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

It happens to me all the time

June ignore them n move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole.

Ha no! if someone requests to see, then I’m happy to share if we are talking. But don’t find the need to show my willy anymore! Just a personal preference for me right now!xx

Ok so tit for tat. If I send you my tits will you send me your tat?"

But but... my tats are on show already??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread."

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You didn't do anything wrong, sometimes people just can't deal with rejection very well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block. "

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole.

Ha no! if someone requests to see, then I’m happy to share if we are talking. But don’t find the need to show my willy anymore! Just a personal preference for me right now!xx"

Same. I prefer to be judged based on who I am, not what i am or what I'm packing. On neither profile do I show my cock, unless I'm talking and it's been asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very odd how a little bit of attention through an internet page can go to ones head so much!!

It’s about the 3rd time it’s happened now... so I’ve hidden my bits! Haha

Awww put them back up, I

looking at bits!

To answer your question, no it’s not wrong for you to state a preference, it’s actually refreshing when a guy has preferences and standards and not just looking for any old hole.

Ha no! if someone requests to see, then I’m happy to share if we are talking. But don’t find the need to show my willy anymore! Just a personal preference for me right now!xx

Ok so tit for tat. If I send you my tits will you send me your tat?

But but... my tats are on show already??

Sent you some boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!"

She isnt here?

But you said she was!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"They probably don’t expect to get rejected by a single guy ..

I was a bit surprised the first time it happened. But I took it graciously. "

Rejected and gracefully accepted here too, next!

Good for you, op, you know what you want so why settle for less, we wouldn't either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!

She isnt here?

But you said she was!"

My god. I think he means she’s on fab but not using the forums and hasn’t commented on the thread. Have you had your morning coffee yet?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Some people are more balanced and rational than others. Gender doesn't come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm wishing I was very busty right now...OP is yummy

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!

She isnt here?

But you said she was!

My god. I think he means she’s on fab but not using the forums and hasn’t commented on the thread. Have you had your morning coffee yet?

Haha glad you cleared that up ??

Was starting to lose the will to live

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I just politely decline without giving a reason now if I don't need to, it saves a lot of aggro. In situations where people have asked why they haven't liked the responses but rejection is always going to be a part of this. It can be shit if you're really attracted by a profile but if it ain't happening it ain't happening, people should just move on and accept it. Great profile though, definitely a thumbs up from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!

She isnt here?

But you said she was!

My god. I think he means she’s on fab but not using the forums and hasn’t commented on the thread. Have you had your morning coffee yet?

Nah, I tend to keep it tea.

Just trying to understand what OP is on about, thats all.

Sometimes stuff just dont make sense for me

P'raps I need to start drinking coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, women can be cunts.

As you can see by some replies on here, men always turn out the bad guy.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We'd meet you, alass I have small boobies. I have amazing bj skills and one tight pussy - so I'm always told.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

You dodged a right one there OP

At least your furry pets are still safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously she's an arse responding as she did, but rejecting so someone on the basis of their personal attributes is a bit rude.

Just say she's not your type or Just not answering at all would be fine. "

No it's not. He was honest and polite. If he had said sorry, I don't do pancake boobs, that would be rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just mean she probably doesn’t get turned down all that often.

Maybe the two aren’t linked, although the way her profile read and the response she gave me... I’d say they probably were related.

That’s certainlynot to say that’s the case for everyone, before I get more abuse! Lol

Where is the abuse? I dont see any.

I was just asking a simple question

Haha... I’m not saying you sent any!

The abuse i got was from the lady I have been talking about! In the thread.

If that's so, report her for talking to you around a block.

Nooooooo... she isn’t here. I’m saying, the only abuse I’m received (thus far! Lol) is in the message she sent me, which caused me to write this whole post in the first place!

Since then... no abuse! We’re all good! Peace sign and that!

She isnt here?

But you said she was!

My god. I think he means she’s on fab but not using the forums and hasn’t commented on the thread. Have you had your morning coffee yet?

Nah, I tend to keep it tea.

Just trying to understand what OP is on about, thats all.

Sometimes stuff just dont make sense for me

P'raps I need to start drinking coffee?"

I think we are all clear now! All good! Haha

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Did someone say they have a big willy ???

Seriously though...lucky escape op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also he’s got a handsome big penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also he’s got a handsome big penis. "

Shh you!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also he’s got a handsome big penis.

Shh you!"

You're rumbled, mate

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"Unfortunately women can be knobheads too, especially when it comes to rejection "

Defo this

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe it's because I also use other sites that are more dating oriented but surely rejection is just part and parcel of approaching people online for things like sex and dating? I know for myself that as a size 12, some men prefer slimmer girls than me and then the guys into curvy girls often prefer bigger than me. Nobody likes being rejected but everyone has different preferences and you're never going to be everyone's cup of tea. To be honest this is why a lot of us just don't reply if we're not interested. I've previously had responses of "well you're fat/ugly/a slut anyway" when I've sent a polite thanks but no thanks so it's just not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it's because I also use other sites that are more dating oriented but surely rejection is just part and parcel of approaching people online for things like sex and dating? I know for myself that as a size 12, some men prefer slimmer girls than me and then the guys into curvy girls often prefer bigger than me. Nobody likes being rejected but everyone has different preferences and you're never going to be everyone's cup of tea. To be honest this is why a lot of us just don't reply if we're not interested. I've previously had responses of "well you're fat/ugly/a slut anyway" when I've sent a polite thanks but no thanks so it's just not worth it."

Yeah crazy, what people resort to! I’ve been rejected on here more times than I can remember!... just move on! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest what do you consider busty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems normal these days for some people to try and use “shaming” as a catchphrase to deflect any criticism and try and make others feel bad for having a differing opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?"

Lol, if I answer that on here, I’m doomed for abuse!! Hahaha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is definitely a matter of personal opinion. We were contacted by a couple where the lady half described herself as busty, but she probably had boobs smaller than half the size of mine. It's all relative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds like a complete dick, I like it when people show their true colours early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?

Lol, if I answer that on here, I’m doomed for abuse!! Hahaha xx"

Maybe not... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She sounds like a complete dick, I like it when people show their true colours early on

I know right! Great pics by the way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?

Lol, if I answer that on here, I’m doomed for abuse!! Hahaha xx

Maybe not... lol "

Well you have the lot! Hehe.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is definitely a matter of personal opinion. We were contacted by a couple where the lady half described herself as busty, but she probably had boobs smaller than half the size of mine. It's all relative

Well you do look extremely busty! If I was searching, a profile picture like yours would certainly catch my eye... but... it’s not the be all and end all!

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx"

Good for you!

Ignore them and move on - I think some people think that because the high ratio of single men they should be grateful and willing if they get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx

Good for you!

Ignore them and move on - I think some people think that because the high ratio of single men they should be grateful and willing if they get a reply

Thank you Jay.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?

Lol, if I answer that on here, I’m doomed for abuse!! Hahaha xx"

I’m not hugely busty and you’re under my minimum age but you’ve got a nice face and good girth so you make exceptions for these things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest what do you consider busty?

Lol, if I answer that on here, I’m doomed for abuse!! Hahaha xx

Maybe not... lol

Well you have the lot! Hehe.xx"

Thanks OP xx

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

As others have said we are all guilty of double standards, being contradictory, or (as others have put it) being dickheads. It’s not just guys can be inconsistent.

The Forums are strewn with contradictory opinions. Guys saying they’re straight but not entirely, women not liking dick pics but have tits/gash out, folk demanding face pics but have none themselves, folk commenting on threads they have no interest in but hijack it for their own amusement... the contradictions are endless.

Think you’ve just highlighted that it’s not just a guy thing OP. Just Block & move on in the knowledge it wasn’t a match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, strangest thing just happened...

A women on here just contacted me and specifically stated that she wants me because I’m VWE. Her profile lists about a kazillion likes and dislikes... harder to figure out than the DaVinci code!

I politely replied that I wasn’t interested because I’m specifically after a busty playmate right now.

To which I got a whole load of abuse thrown at me about how I’m ‘body shaming’ etc...

I’m always very polite in my responses and I don’t think I’m being rude in saying I like curvy women... am I??

Is it double standards to expect certain things from a man but get irate if you don’t meet is requirements?!

What are your thoughts. No offense meant as always!xx

Ah you broke the golden rule - you didn’t remember that as a man you are supposed to just want to fuck anything right and be super grateful that she messaged you ??

Lol joking aside it’s a sad reality that a lot of women on here are so up themselves from the attention they get on Fab they forget in reality most prob wouldn’t get a second glance

Don’t worry mate ... lol at the fact she’s prob seething in a corner somewhere haha

Some single girls think they run the place. Fab has gone to their heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww what happened to him, who would admin suspend his account?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Aww what happened to him, who would admin suspend his account? "

Yeah I just noticed that too. I can’t view the OP’s profile either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww what happened to him, who would admin suspend his account?

Yeah I just noticed that too. I can’t view the OP’s profile either

Stolen pics maybe. We will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww what happened to him, who would admin suspend his account?

Yeah I just noticed that too. I can’t view the OP’s profile either

Stolen pics maybe. We will never know. "

They weren’t off any sites though I always stick pics through google and tineye and the pics on his profile didn’t show on any searches.

Admin suspended my account twice when I rejoined, first I had to photo verify myself to get my profile back. Second time I had to email admin over and over again asking for my profile back and each time all my messages had been wiped. Guys I’d been speaking to said all the messages I sent them were deleted.

Strange

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Stolen pics are not just from the Web

Either way, sometimes people are not who they seem

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