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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all find it hard bro

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

wow how long have you had that rant as a profile - your doing yourself any favours - get rid of all the negative stuff and maybe change your name

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong?? "

Maybe try putting at least one positive sentence in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong?? "

I have worked it out -

there are actually 7 women on here, and they are all swamped with messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep wondering what we would be doing wrong you know cause we got Experience and all that so i wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong?? "

By the way, you have an incomprehensible profile, it makes your eyes hurt to read it

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

Maybe we're just too damn sexy for them!

Don't stress it will happen when it happens, you look like a nice clued up lad so all we can advise you to do is attend parties and socials and get your face known on the scene...we struggle on this site ourselves but get a great reaction from the parties. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your age, it's your negative, petulant profile, with one cock pic and a awful user name. Not a young person, but thought I'd share all the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha Lol @Envy...well maybe you are right mate we just too sexy for them i suppose :L and i think i might change my profile and leave it BLANK! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well it seems like everyone is happy now its all worked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh i thought the name was abit off`ish aswell

try youngblackmale4sexywhitebiatchesx or something along those lines

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

And everyone lived happily ever after...

The End

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong?? "

I don't think we can talk for all young people but I think we can talk for why you may be having issues....

If you think that negativity breeds negativity, I don't think I have seen a profile as long as that without one positive word in it for a long time..

If that is how you are selling yourself then you have no one else to blame than to look at the person staring you in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did't think my username was that bad you considering what people put on their profile like i was my first BBC or something like that so you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow m8 just viewed your profile and to be honest it looks like and reads to me that you are trying to pick a fight not get laid lol why so angry dude your like 21 chill out and take your time instead of throwing the tioys out the pram yeah. I t is very very difficult for single men of all ages to get meet bro as there are so many of us on here and therefore the females can well well well afford to be sooooooooo very picky and choosy and there is nothing us single blokes can do about that. I am not female ( well at least I wernt last time I looked/ hang on let me just check again erm na im deffo not haha!) but having just viewed your profile if I was female I would be scared to fuck of you and just block you instantly from even mailing me lol. My advise to you young matey is change your profile and go with the flow and just take it easy with all the aggresion and dictatorship. This is after all meant to be a fun thing and also an equal thing so your not garunteed to get a meet and even if you do get meets it dont mean your going to get to play as it just dont work that way. See the thing is many many people on here think that this site is a fuck fest and just cos they are now online means every female in town will drop everything and meet them for a quick fuck. lol like I say m8 chill out already yeah and take your time

Hope this may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Is there any Young People out there finding it hard to meet anyone on here? and if so what do you think we are doing wrong??

I don't think we can talk for all young people but I think we can talk for why you may be having issues....

If you think that negativity breeds negativity, I don't think I have seen a profile as long as that without one positive word in it for a long time..

If that is how you are selling yourself then you have no one else to blame than to look at the person staring you in the mirror "

Well said _abio I second that entirely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

okay people put these kinda stuff on their profile "looking for some black fun" so i dont really see how is Negative you know oh well people are funny i suppose

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well i know why I wouldn't contact you, and I do like black men:

a) Your profile sucks! When a profile is rant rant rant, all I can assume is thats what you're like in real life.

b) I don't use MSN or Skype, and I bet I'm not the only one. Now you might not wish to meet a crusty old dinosaur like me, but insisting on MSN/Skype means you cut out all the profiles that don't use them

And that pic is not that nice. Get some body and bum pics up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/01/12 21:11:52]

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

A freaky BBW?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the cream pie reference puts me off and will put lots of others off. Safe sex is very important to most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus man change that username for a start, there's no need to even look at a profile when the person has a crude username x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We do our bit

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It's not your age, it's your negative, petulant profile, with one cock pic and a awful user name. Not a young person, but thought I'd share all the same!"

As for the we got experience, so what have you got maturity, the profile pic and name suggest not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That user name and that profile picture landing in someones inbox is probably not overly enticing. So before the message has been read (if it's read) the recipant may well already have a negative impression of you. And first impressions count a hell of a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cream pie reference puts me off and will put lots of others off. Safe sex is very important to most."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

Maybe have something more than your wang on show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah i think you can't please everyone to be honest so that being said fuck it! Lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Nah i think you can't please everyone to be honest so that being said fuck it! Lol"

and that would be a great attitude if you hadnt started a thread moaning about lack of meets...part of maturity is being able to take advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think, and no doubt many will pull me up on this but its only an opinion not fact

Most women on here are approching middle age, note i did say most, swinging is just easier when you get to my age, i couldnt have done this when i was in my early 20s, i had a young family, work, a hubby and not a great deal of time at all to be meeting people off sites like this, but as my family grew up and got to the age they dont need sitters and im not single so have no hubby to consider i have far more time on my hands, tho i still work, and i think many women are the same, lots of women come into this when they are a little older as family and life isnt so demanding on them and we start getting 'our' life back

But in return because we are older we dont really want to be meeting guys the same age as our kids so you will find it harder to meet older women, yet not many younger women do this so that will limit your meets too

Of course there are older women who like younger guy and there are younger women on here i just ment generally i think thats the main reason your having problems meeting, that and your one of a million single guys on here

You just have to stick it out till you do find people looking for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have actually taken then advice you know so to those people thank you! :]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have actually taken then advice you know so to those people thank you! :]"
your profile reads better now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have actually taken then advice you know so to those people thank you! :] your profile reads better now x"

Thanks the advice just keeping it simple now :]

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