FabSwingers.com forum: First Meet

By *r sabba OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Hi i am new to this lifestyle i have always been into it but my wife wasnt as i am a single guy now i am trying to get into and meet fun people but i am not getting any response i know i am not a hunk but i am honest and my profile says most of what i am about everyone was a newbie once any help in progressing into this scene would be appreciated

By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We're completely new to this as well. The advice we have had from everyone is to get to a club to get an idea of the atmosphere & the people.

We're finally taking the plunge on Saturday, the idea being just looking around, chatting & seeing the "real" swinging world rather than an "imagined" one. We think we will feel more relaxed in a no pressure environment rather than a one to one meet where things could possibly feel awkward. We're going to treat it as an ordinary night out, no playing, just getting to know a few like minded folks. Obviously we haven't got first hand experience so this is probably not helpful at all but thought we'd let you know what the general consensus of opinion was when we asked.

Whatever you decide to do all the best & have fun!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The above is good advice getting out in an club enviroment with the intention of socialising and just getting to know people is a great way forward.

If you think there are hundreds more single men on here than women or couples and as such trying to stand out is really difficult.

If you go to the club and actually talk to people (I say this as the number of single men who go to a club and do not chat to anyone seems very hi)

You will start to make friends. If your lucky you may get play but get people's fab name that you talk to them X you can verify them and hopefully they will return the favour xx

By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

First meet always a social

Then there are no expectations

Works well