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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

If you didn’t realise it’s not your fault. Did you try to contact her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore"

If you enjoyed it and was respectful to her and you arent cheating then put it down to experience. Maybe chat a bit more. A phone call or two before you agree to meet. Make it more of a social meet than a fuxk and go meet. Always the better way

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore"

Sorry if I'm reading this wrong but this sounds like something I'd expect to read on one of the punting / prostitution / escorting websites I know of. However there is no mention of money changing hands.

If this was a enforced / controlled encounter are you sure it wasn't filmed to put online? It all just seems a bit odd, don't know how old you are, what you look like. But an attractive 19 year willing to shag a stranger just on the spur of the moment when not pissed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore

Sorry if I'm reading this wrong but this sounds like something I'd expect to read on one of the punting / prostitution / escorting websites I know of. However there is no mention of money changing hands.

If this was a enforced / controlled encounter are you sure it wasn't filmed to put online? It all just seems a bit odd, don't know how old you are, what you look like. But an attractive 19 year willing to shag a stranger just on the spur of the moment when not pissed? "

That's the first thing that went through my mind that someone might of been filming it

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore

Sorry if I'm reading this wrong but this sounds like something I'd expect to read on one of the punting / prostitution / escorting websites I know of. However there is no mention of money changing hands.

If this was a enforced / controlled encounter are you sure it wasn't filmed to put online? It all just seems a bit odd, don't know how old you are, what you look like. But an attractive 19 year willing to shag a stranger just on the spur of the moment when not pissed?

That's the first thing that went through my mind that someone might of been filming it "

Glad it's not just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks,

FFS I hope it wasn’t been filmed.

Yes I’m 39 but I’ve been with younger girls before and it’s never been a problem. I’ve always been what they are looking for and there has always been a very social side before anything happened.

I’m probably just beating myself up about it because I’ve always steered clear of this sort of meet and have looked down on it when I’ve seen other people doing it (sorry). As far as I’m award I didn’t do anything wrong and the messages were pretty clear what we were doing.

No money but you’re right it does feel that way. Could just be because I’m feeling bad and it’s coming across in the words.

It’s really bothering me that her status was updated while we were together and I know that neither of our phones moved from the little table because we made a point of putting them on silent

Just looked and her profile has disappeared now. Guess I need to man up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe boyfriend was arranging it? Part of their kinks. He could have been watching?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I would suggest you keep all phone records, fab messages, etc of the encounter, for your own peace of mind.Based on what you say, I have a feeling this might not have been consensual on her part.She may have been coerced into this meeting with you.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Serves you right for using a 19 year old girl as a cum bucket. Have some respect for women. No wonder you're not feeling guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serves you right for using a 19 year old girl as a cum bucket. Have some respect for women. No wonder you're not feeling guilty "

Very harsh and judgemental, especially when the OP clearly has a conscience and has done what was requested of him!

OP, your assessment of the situation sounds correct. Don't beat yourself up over something that is not of your making. You sometimes need a thick skin to be on here and to be able to put bad experiences behind you and move on. If you believe there might be a criminal element or she's vulnerable (e.g. trafficking, report). Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling BS on this one.....

But carry on

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Don't worry,some people get off on fucking complete strangers,it's just thier kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calling BS on this one.....

But carry on"

Yeah the fact theres no 19 year old women who can acomm within 10 miles of Barnsley dpes make it seem like a fantasy post lol

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"Calling BS on this one.....

But carry on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calling BS on this one.....

But carry on

Yeah the fact theres no 19 year old women who can acomm within 10 miles of Barnsley dpes make it seem like a fantasy post lol"

He said her profile had gone?

Maybe I just give people the benefit of the doubt. I didn't think it sounded like bs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calling BS on this one.....

But carry on

Yeah the fact theres no 19 year old women who can acomm within 10 miles of Barnsley dpes make it seem like a fantasy post lol

He said her profile had gone?

Maybe I just give people the benefit of the doubt. I didn't think it sounded like bs? "

Ah. I. Didn't read that far I honesty.

Maybe a couples fetish or like a lot of the times when people dont speak english google translate.

When i was in germany i met a woman and we could text fine but she didnt have a word of english nor me a word of german so we spoke more when we were apart than when we were in person.

I doubt it would be filming though as most just say they want a guy to film with on here. Much easier to do your job when you can openly direct

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Just done my very first ‘cum and go’ meet tonight with a stunning 19 year old girl within an hour of seeing her status. Had a shit day at work and just wanted to unwind and she was just there and literally 2 minutes away.

She could barley speak English when I arrived but was definitely the girl who sent the pictures, and I’m pretty sure now thinking back that there was someone in the other room who was controlling the account because our messages were very fluent and smooth which she clearly was not.

I had my own condoms and came on her chest so all safe but I feel like I’ve used her and that someone else has used me.

It’s been going downhill on here for a while but I’ve never regretted anything before.

Don’t know if I’m cut out for this anymore

If you enjoyed it and was respectful to her and you arent cheating then put it down to experience. Maybe chat a bit more. A phone call or two before you agree to meet. Make it more of a social meet than a fuxk and go meet. Always the better way"

I think your moral compass is a bit squiffy-but hey ho, who am i to judge if all seems dandy in the wonderful world of fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your gut is screaming "this is wrong" I'd advise anyone to listen to it

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

You get a nice verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a bloke close to me, he could accommodate. He had been on for 10 months with no verification.

He wanted to wank and cum over my stockings, I went round MASSIVE COCK, and load all over me. I left him feedback, and the next day he had gone

Guilty feelings, but what a shame

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"If your gut is screaming "this is wrong" I'd advise anyone to listen to it"

Like Sigourney Weaver in Alien kinda screaming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was very nervous but huge cock and load, such a shame he had no bottle

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Alarm bells are ringing"

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By *werty987Couple
over a year ago

hull

Are u in a relationship? Cash exchange?!

Or hold a decent job post? Police/prison/military?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Call me a cynic, but there's something that doesn't ring true about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic, but there's something that doesn't ring true about this.

"

Agree. Seems a bit too much of a coincidence that her profile disappeared once the OP’s post started getting a lot of attention.

But maybe I’m just a fellow cynic!

V

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