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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've a pal, bit out of shape low confidence and lonely, try as I might he will rarely go out with me as I embarrass him by trying to set him up. Although he asks me to when we're alone, can't take him to a club as his head will fucking pop. Done tinder, match and everything else I can find. I'm a good wingman, better than ice man! But fuck me I'm struggling now, help

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So I've a pal, bit out of shape low confidence and lonely, try as I might he will rarely go out with me as I embarrass him by trying to set him up. Although he asks me to when we're alone, can't take him to a club as his head will fucking pop. Done tinder, match and everything else I can find. I'm a good wingman, better than ice man! But fuck me I'm struggling now, help "

Take him to a club, you may be surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in Huddersfield, can't you take him to that erotic cinema first before a full blown club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think outside the box - salsa dancing classes where there is no alcohol involved and it is close proximity to the ladies.

It boosts confidence plus a man that can dance is sexy.

Baby steps should be taken and then one day he can be your wingman darling.

Psyche

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

He's asking you to set him up but won't go out with you in case you do so basically you're always going to be doing the wrong thing. I think you should ask your friend to have a bit of a think about what he really wants from life and how he's going to go about getting it himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get him out the house. His confidence needs building up. Anywhere, anything at first.

Actually take him to the gym with you, and make it a regular arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All valid points and I've tried most, we don't get much time off together as he works away and has his son every other weekend. So the time we do get I drag him out and I mean literally drag. I'm seriously considering setting him up with an escort just to empty his sack, is that bad?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Have you asked him what he actually wants to do?

What sort of things does he enjoy doing? Maybe do something around that, but not in a 'let's get you laid' way. That could be too much pressure. For example, if he likes reading, maybe go to a book signing, a literary festival, the British Library etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote a couple of phrases, 'the lord helps those who help themselves' or, 'you create your own luck'. There aint no magic wand in this world, he has to do something himself and cant rely on you to sort it. What you can do is give him some tips. Look at how he presents himself, show him how to break the ice, how to be light and humerous but come across as genuine etc etc. Take fhe focus off getting laid. Maybe get him to develop his leisure interests, so he meets kindred spirits. FFS dont put him on here, it can be brutal for single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All valid points and I've tried most, we don't get much time off together as he works away and has his son every other weekend. So the time we do get I drag him out and I mean literally drag. I'm seriously considering setting him up with an escort just to empty his sack, is that bad? "

Why are you so invested in getting him laid? From what you've said he seems more like he needs a mate to hang out with and boost his confidence so he can begin to approach women on his own.

If I was him I'd be embarrassed that my friend was constantly trying to get sex for me. I can't imagine it would be completely satisfying knowing you were having sex because of someone else's efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All valid points and I've tried most, we don't get much time off together as he works away and has his son every other weekend. So the time we do get I drag him out and I mean literally drag. I'm seriously considering setting him up with an escort just to empty his sack, is that bad?

Why are you so invested in getting him laid? From what you've said he seems more like he needs a mate to hang out with and boost his confidence so he can begin to approach women on his own.

If I was him I'd be embarrassed that my friend was constantly trying to get sex for me. I can't imagine it would be completely satisfying knowing you were having sex because of someone else's efforts. "

C

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Just fuck him -he'll appreciate the gesture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people swimm well when thrown in at the deep end but don’t turn him into one of the wanking dead

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