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By *ammy20177 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Be patient as it might take a few years

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

Just be patient. And maybe try and go to a club or a local social meeting.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Just be patient. And maybe try and go to a club or a local social meeting."

This. Good luck OP. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's obviously working as you've had a recent meet veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"

Just relax it will happen can take a little time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"

Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?

Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site"

You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"

Get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed. "

Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result.

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By *ammy20177 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Lol mixed comments here, I'm finding the main problem is people just read messages and don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol mixed comments here, I'm finding the main problem is people just read messages and don't reply "

You might find that some people might read your message then mark it unread again.

A no response usually means no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.

Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result. "

We always amazed at how negative some people are on the site.

If you truly believe this is no longer a meeting site why not just leave.

Yes you have to do the hard work but there are rewards

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Lol mixed comments here, I'm finding the main problem is people just read messages and don't reply "

Are you reading profiles before messaging to see if you are what they are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother, why go through the heartache of rejection and just having winks and messages from Fab *straight* men wanting to bum you ?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If the site isn't working for people no one is forcing them to stay. All the tools are there to use to help with meeting. There's an awful lot of people who complain but don't use common sense or their gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the site isn't working for people no one is forcing them to stay. All the tools are there to use to help with meeting. There's an awful lot of people who complain but don't use common sense or their gut instinct. "

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on here for two years. We also both have single profiles.

The thing always to take into account it is hard work to everyone on here.

Be you a single male female or couples

There are fantasists on here, those that just want a whole or a cock, those that just like to message people around but then there are genuine swingers on here.

The way forward is hard work and getting out there and letting people see your genuine.

Get to clubs. Be active and positive in forums.

Read profiles and if you meet their wants write a messages aimed at them or no copy and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?

Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site"

I chat and meet. It is possible to multitask!

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Your chances are virtually nil. 99% of woman don't seem to be interested in meeting, and delete messages as soon as you send them or just ignore them. There's still that 1% though, so it's possible for a meet, just unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success. "

Totally agree.

I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.

Totally agree.

I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x"

Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I dont put nearly as much time into it as I could. There's better means to get laid apart from fab. Fabs just a laugh for me.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It’s normally people with virtually no profile text or public pictures that tend to do all the moaning about lack of meets!

I never understand why they never equate the two together

I find the more effort you put in to your profile the easier you will find the site will work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.

Totally agree.

I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x

Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach. "

Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.

Totally agree.

I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x

Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach.

Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?

"

Yes it is but some will never learn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pessimistic view so many have.

About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.

Totally agree.

I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x

Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach.

Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?

Yes it is but some will never learn lol "

When I get into a rut, I always try a different plan.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.

Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result. "

It's amazing the difference a positive attitude makes...

I find that negativity is unlikely to attract people.

Nita

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Just be patient. And maybe try and go to a club or a local social meeting."

This clubs are good & if you can get over 1st night nerves you’ll do ok

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