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Low demand for a young single white male ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is my thoughts true or is this really the case...

my inbox is waiting to prove me wrong...

single ladies or couples, where you hiding

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not at all

i will meet over 25's if i like them and can hold a conversation

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

No you are correct us oldies have the upper hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh go on then "

shame i am too young to send you both a message !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

There is a low demand for single men full stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha you so do have the upper hand...the cards are in your and the couples hand, us young guys just here waiting to be delt our hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is my thoughts true or is this really the case...

my inbox is waiting to prove me wrong...

single ladies or couples, where you hiding

x"

If, as a single male on here you are waiting for the approaches from single fems and couples I hope you are a patient sort...

It's not that there is a loow demand, more that there is an awful lot of choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wish this wasnt the case... we are all here for a FAB 2012 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, that is all.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just be yourself

choose wisely

don't compromise

take your time

don't react like a performing seal when asked to 'catch'

good luck, there is fun to be had and I am sure you will get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and sure every1 gets flooded by us young men which doesnt help us genuine ones...

see on so many profiles single men blocked due to time wasting messages. grrr

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There is a low demand for single men full stop."

Bloody isn't! I can never find enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is my thoughts true or is this really the case...

my inbox is waiting to prove me wrong...

single ladies or couples, where you hiding

x"

You think you got it bad?! Try being a single asian male on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and sure every1 gets flooded by us young men which doesnt help us genuine ones...

see on so many profiles single men blocked due to time wasting messages. grrr "

And also to stop you young lads messaging us that are only interested in our own age group too, that's what the message filters are for

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"don't react like a performing seal when asked to 'catch'"

Hahaha... brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problems of being a young one :/

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

young... and single... and white.....

that was almost the whinging version of the "home run"... if you had mentioned some sort of sexuality it would have been...

but since you didn't i score that whinge wise "a triple off the centre field wall"....

the "prove me wrong" step was a nice touch... like i am see conversations going on all over the swinging university now saying "muriel.... drop ya knickers love.....some chappie needs proving that you'll drop em for anyone!!!! do it for england.. its your duty goddammit woman!!!!".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gettin a shag onhere is harder than u think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha it wasnt a whinge, more just getting thee _iews of people on here on the topic...its ok for you and all the women with the BBC fantasy lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If you spend time looking through the profiles of single guys (which I do), you soon notice some of them got a meet within a day or two of joining (a few within hours)and haven't stopped getting meets since.

You gotta ask yourself.... how do they manage it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its more than just a shag... its the experience i looking for.

maybe this is why its so hard for us younger men on here ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"If you spend time looking through the profiles of single guys (which I do), you soon notice some of them got a meet within a day or two of joining (a few within hours)and haven't stopped getting meets since.

You gotta ask yourself.... how do they manage it?"

I have a single female profile and I charge the fuckers £1 a word for their first verification...

and £5 for HUGE & Massive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty on here looking for younger guys, YOU will have to find them as a lot of women don't message 1st

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

"

The first point you make, I would agree with if you are meaning 'some people'.

The second point saying "unless you are stunning and hung like a donkey" is very much a sweeping generalisation that I don't agree with at all.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

"

see... conflict time..

the 1st paragraph.. absolutely spot on and agree with

the 2nd paragraph... total and utter pish... you make your own niche, and you get out what you put in... those who are successful make people think "wow I have to get to know and meet that person!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the shag is a big part of the experience for me that coupled with the setting

theres lots of oppurtunity onhere depending on preferences. if ur not fussy get stuck in from the word go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

"

I wouldn't necessarily say it was hard work. Sure there's putting a decent profile together, but typing a profile is merely putting into words your desires, which I find fun. Taking decent photos can be time consuming with sorting through them, but taking them is no great shakes, in fact even enjoyable! Uploading is a piece of piss.

Its not hard work getting meets either, provided you have set up your profile right. For a start you won't appeal to everyone, so only message those who are looking for someone who fits your description. Make it interesting, show your intellect and imagination. Most that you message will then reply. Likewise with all the mails females and couples send you first, make sure that you fit each others desires. Once you start meeting then you are verified genuine, so offers start to come thicker and faster. If you have plenty of time free (sadly I don't, lol, work is a bitch) then meets can be arranged more often than not.

Just a case of setting yourself up right really mate. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some members seem to have a sense of entitlement! Some of us realise we WONT appeal to everyone and accept that without desperately trying to get people to change their minds with attention seeking threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

"

And does that mean stunning hung like a donkey only means stunning bucket pussy then well I guess I will remove my profile right now then as I'm never going to get anywhere am I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you spend time looking through the profiles of single guys (which I do), you soon notice some of them got a meet within a day or two of joining (a few within hours)and haven't stopped getting meets since.

You gotta ask yourself.... how do they manage it?"

i think the area you live will also play alot into the results you are finding.!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"haha it wasnt a whinge, more just getting thee _iews of people on here on the topic...its ok for you and all the women with the BBC fantasy lol"

and if you read my profile you would know that the "BBC" nonsense is the one thing I absolutely hate and want no part of....

I try and portray the best "me" i can.... and some people will like that, and others wont.... and that is fine... but to resort to thinking the reason is just because of "age" or just because of "race" is for me very lazy reasoning and is an easy excuse to make....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"If you spend time looking through the profiles of single guys (which I do), you soon notice some of them got a meet within a day or two of joining (a few within hours)and haven't stopped getting meets since.

You gotta ask yourself.... how do they manage it?

i think the area you live will also play alot into the results you are finding.!!

"

That would mean it's not about being a single male but more about your postcode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically you just got to try harder without moaning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"haha it wasnt a whinge, more just getting thee _iews of people on here on the topic...its ok for you and all the women with the BBC fantasy lol

and if you read my profile you would know that the "BBC" nonsense is the one thing I absolutely hate and want no part of....

I try and portray the best "me" i can.... and some people will like that, and others wont.... and that is fine... but to resort to thinking the reason is just because of "age" or just because of "race" is for me very lazy reasoning and is an easy excuse to make....

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you are also of an older age...which is more of my point.

im not saying the only reason you get many meets is because you are the owner of a bbc lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

And does that mean stunning hung like a donkey only means stunning bucket pussy then well I guess I will remove my profile right now then as I'm never going to get anywhere am I "

lol Not quite. What I was getting at is there is a big demand for well endowed men. I might be wrong but a lot of blokes who are part of a couple enjoy seeing their woman pleased by a large cock over a small one. I know I did and there's a lot of single women who prefer well endowed men.

No I'm not saying it's the be all and end all. I'm just saying if you've got a large cock as apposed to a small one you've more chance of success.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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lol Not quite. What I was getting at is there is a big demand for well endowed men. I might be wrong but a lot of blokes who are part of a couple enjoy seeing their woman pleased by a large cock over a small one. I know I did and there's a lot of single women who prefer well endowed men.

No I'm not saying it's the be all and end all. I'm just saying if you've got a large cock as apposed to a small one you've more chance of success. "

Oddly all the people I know (aside from a couple of gay size queens) prefer an average one most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP so far in this thread, you have complained that it is because you are white, where you live, because you are young... Yet you say you aren't having a whinge?

You need to take a look at what you expect from here and how realistic those expectations are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically you just got to try harder without moaning "

maybe misunderstood... i didnt start this is a moaning post, just more getting the opinion of the fab people on here.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Oddly all the people I know (aside from a couple of gay size queens) prefer an average one most of the time."

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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Oddly all the people I know (aside from a couple of gay size queens) prefer an average one most of the time.

"

Oh and View.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Oddly all the people I know (aside from a couple of gay size queens) prefer an average one most of the time.

Oh and View."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oddly all the people I know (aside from a couple of gay size queens) prefer an average one most of the time.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

And does that mean stunning hung like a donkey only means stunning bucket pussy then well I guess I will remove my profile right now then as I'm never going to get anywhere am I

lol Not quite. What I was getting at is there is a big demand for well endowed men. I might be wrong but a lot of blokes who are part of a couple enjoy seeing their woman pleased by a large cock over a small one. I know I did and there's a lot of single women who prefer well endowed men.

No I'm not saying it's the be all and end all. I'm just saying if you've got a large cock as apposed to a small one you've more chance of success. "

i think the mr and mrs averages get the most action onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your born in the wrong generation , if its demand you wanted youd of been more suited in the time of the Vietnam draft

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

this same applies to all ages and genders....

'the second you start taking this too seriously, it is the 1st second of the start of a downfall'...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most of my meets are with single guys

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I just did a quick search for couples seeking men (not in my area) aged 20-30 and checked the first 10 of the 270+ results.

None asked for BBC.

None asked for hung like a donkey.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Basically you just got to try harder without moaning

maybe misunderstood... i didnt start this is a moaning post, just more getting the opinion of the fab people on here.

"

So you got a definate come on earlier in this thread............have you done anything about it yet? Or do you need them to throw themselves at your feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

And does that mean stunning hung like a donkey only means stunning bucket pussy then well I guess I will remove my profile right now then as I'm never going to get anywhere am I

lol Not quite. What I was getting at is there is a big demand for well endowed men. I might be wrong but a lot of blokes who are part of a couple enjoy seeing their woman pleased by a large cock over a small one. I know I did and there's a lot of single women who prefer well endowed men.

No I'm not saying it's the be all and end all. I'm just saying if you've got a large cock as apposed to a small one you've more chance of success.

i think the mr and mrs averages get the most action onhere"

I believe that also to be the case. Good news for me really as I consider myself to be of an average physical type on here. My looks can vary depending on whether I get 2 or 7 hours sleep. I work out 6 hours a week, but my job isn't that of a profesional sportsman, so for a thirty-something male my body and face is probably about average.

I do have an over-active sex drive and very naughty vivid imagination however so perhaps not...

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"this same applies to all ages and genders....

'the second you start taking this too seriously, it is the 1st second of the start of a downfall'..."

Oh, what a great quote, View... I'm gonna re-use that in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think the problem is misconseption. People join a swinging site and expect to be unindated with offers and to be shagging every day of the week and that all you have to do is message someone and you're sorted.

The reality is unless you are stunning, hung like a donkey or only looking for a single female then it's going to be hard work. Not because there's no demand for single men. Simply because there's that many of them!

And does that mean stunning hung like a donkey only means stunning bucket pussy then well I guess I will remove my profile right now then as I'm never going to get anywhere am I

lol Not quite. What I was getting at is there is a big demand for well endowed men. I might be wrong but a lot of blokes who are part of a couple enjoy seeing their woman pleased by a large cock over a small one. I know I did and there's a lot of single women who prefer well endowed men.

No I'm not saying it's the be all and end all. I'm just saying if you've got a large cock as apposed to a small one you've more chance of success. "

bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically you just got to try harder without moaning

maybe misunderstood... i didnt start this is a moaning post, just more getting the opinion of the fab people on here.

So you got a definate come on earlier in this thread............have you done anything about it yet? Or do you need them to throw themselves at your feet? "

if you are referring to the first reply on here... i am too young to send a private message and no personal reply so what can i do about it hehe. again this is not a moan lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"this same applies to all ages and genders....

'the second you start taking this too seriously, it is the 1st second of the start of a downfall'..."

I think the problem is when people start to focus on the profiles which exclude them.... its pretty obvious from posts on the forum that some seem to start losing perspective … all of a sudden finding a handful of profiles who only want HUGE cock or only want black guys and that’s it… the world is against them. It’s as if from that moment they go out of their way to notice these profiles for some sort of “it’s not me it’s them” self justification….rather than skipping merrily by and focusing on the ones which they do match.

Some times it is a struggle to find the right people.... no different to buying a used car or applying for jobs..... sometimes what you want just falls in your lap, most of the time it doesn't. But if you start spending time focusing on what you didn't find, you'll likely miss something good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a look @ me thread. i need to try one at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, that is all."

id make you so tired your cock would be throbbing with soreness :P

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I think the problem is when people start to focus on the profiles which exclude them.... its pretty obvious from posts on the forum that some seem to start losing perspective … all of a sudden finding a handful of profiles who only want HUGE cock or only want black guys and that’s it… the world is against them. It’s as if from that moment they go out of their way to notice these profiles for some sort of “it’s not me it’s them” self justification….rather than skipping merrily by and focusing on the ones which they do match.

Some times it is a struggle to find the right people.... no different to buying a used car or applying for jobs..... sometimes what you want just falls in your lap, most of the time it doesn't. But if you start spending time focusing on what you didn't find, you'll likely miss something good."

Very well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my meets are with single guys"

and me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, that is all.

id make you so tired your cock would be throbbing with soreness :P"

looks like some good is gonna come of this post for ya mate hehe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same "

So it's bollox because it's not what you like? I didn't say everyone. I just said there's a big demand on here for well endowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same

So it's bollox because it's not what you like? I didn't say everyone. I just said there's a big demand on here for well endowed. "

And I didn't say attraction and personality didn't count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same

So it's bollox because it's not what you like? I didn't say everyone. I just said there's a big demand on here for well endowed. "

I see a demand for well endowed, but it's not a big one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, that is all.

id make you so tired your cock would be throbbing with soreness :P

looks like some good is gonna come of this post for ya mate hehe..."

it was a comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same

So it's bollox because it's not what you like? I didn't say everyone. I just said there's a big demand on here for well endowed.

I see a demand for well endowed, but it's not a big one "

Ha ha i was going to reply to that then clicked on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bollocks, no way am I interested in well endowed, personality and mutual attraction is far more important and an awful lot of people on here think the same

So it's bollox because it's not what you like? I didn't say everyone. I just said there's a big demand on here for well endowed.

And I didn't say attraction and personality didn't count. "

No I did because that is what I prefer to the size of a man's cock

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Basically you just got to try harder without moaning

maybe misunderstood... i didnt start this is a moaning post, just more getting the opinion of the fab people on here.

So you got a definate come on earlier in this thread............have you done anything about it yet? Or do you need them to throw themselves at your feet?

if you are referring to the first reply on here... i am too young to send a private message and no personal reply so what can i do about it hehe. again this is not a moan lol "

No it wasn't but if you need things spelling out you're in thee wrong game mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically you just got to try harder without moaning

maybe misunderstood... i didnt start this is a moaning post, just more getting the opinion of the fab people on here.

So you got a definate come on earlier in this thread............have you done anything about it yet? Or do you need them to throw themselves at your feet?

if you are referring to the first reply on here... i am too young to send a private message and no personal reply so what can i do about it hehe. again this is not a moan lol

No it wasn't but if you need things spelling out you're in thee wrong game mate. "

or has been a genuine mistake and missed the comment you are talking about...all these posts its hard to keep up sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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if you are referring to the first reply on here... i am too young to send a private message and no personal reply so what can i do about it hehe. again this is not a moan lol "

I can clarify that: I was being flippant.Because of this

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/83481

Two threads that both appear to be look at me threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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if you are referring to the first reply on here... i am too young to send a private message and no personal reply so what can i do about it hehe. again this is not a moan lol

I can clarify that: I was being flippant.Because of this

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/83481

Two threads that both appear to be look at me threads"

is that not what this can be used for along with finding out usual information. its a big world out there, you need to make yourself known now and again. sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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is that not what this can be used for along with finding out usual information. its a big world out there, you need to make yourself known now and again. sorry x"

No one should apologise for starting threads. To some extent everyone that posts on here does it for the "look at me" effect.

The thing to remember is that pretty much one thing that everyone one on here agrees is that no one ever gets laid as the result of a whinge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate there are loads of couples on here that say they meet singles but they don't really you have to check verifications mate and if they haven't got any from single lads then it's unlikey you will be able to meet them, your probably just messaging the wrong type of couples, I've been pretty lucky on here and that mostly what it's down to on here just luck just catching couples at the right time, stick with it mate and if you want to meet people with out all the messaging then try Swingers clubs, good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi mate there are loads of couples on here that say they meet singles but they don't really you have to check verifications mate and if they haven't got any from single lads then it's unlikey you will be able to meet them, your probably just messaging the wrong type of couples, I've been pretty lucky on here and that mostly what it's down to on here just luck just catching couples at the right time, stick with it mate and if you want to meet people with out all the messaging then try Swingers clubs, good luck mate"

why i started the post... some good solid feedback and advice. cheers fella.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

high demand for them here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"high demand for them here "

im moving to cornwall lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha it wasnt a whinge, more just getting thee _iews of people on here on the topic...its ok for you and all the women with the BBC fantasy lol

and if you read my profile you would know that the "BBC" nonsense is the one thing I absolutely hate and want no part of....

I try and portray the best "me" i can.... and some people will like that, and others wont.... and that is fine... but to resort to thinking the reason is just because of "age" or just because of "race" is for me very lazy reasoning and is an easy excuse to make....

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+1

Gets on my nerves too.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"haha you so do have the upper hand...the cards are in your and the couples hand, us young guys just here waiting to be delt our hand. "

noinstead of waiting u should be out having a life

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We think we should slightly change our answer on this...

While single men are generally low on the pecking order for various reasons. Most have been listed above.

What is certainly in more demand are guys who are:

Polite

Is clean, hygienic and well kept,

Doesn't turn up to a meet in jogging bottoms and a t-shirt,

Can handle a regular conversation,

Have a good sense of humour,

Who actually turns up,

Who isn't cheating on his partner (Not always easy to tell)

Has a decent face picture,

Has a well written profile.

Those factors alone will put you way above most others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha you so do have the upper hand...the cards are in your and the couples hand, us young guys just here waiting to be delt our hand."

to be honest that kind of attitude puts me off, all that says to me is if i mailed you you'd say yes because not because you liked me and wanted to me me as a individual but because your fed up of waiting for your hand to be delt so grab the first thing that comes along

I actually do not feel the cards are in my hands, infact far from it, people i contact have as much rights to say no to and not like me as i have them being a single woman on here does not put me above anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha you so do have the upper hand...the cards are in your and the couples hand, us young guys just here waiting to be delt our hand.

to be honest that kind of attitude puts me off, all that says to me is if i mailed you you'd say yes because not because you liked me and wanted to me me as a individual but because your fed up of waiting for your hand to be delt so grab the first thing that comes along

I actually do not feel the cards are in my hands, infact far from it, people i contact have as much rights to say no to and not like me as i have them being a single woman on here does not put me above anyone else "

The advantages of being a single male are as thus;-

If there's anyone who takes your fancy and you fit their requirements all you have to do is message them. Even if you get turned down its not a big deal as rejection doesn't tend to bother single males as much as it does single females.

Now look at people messaging you. How many emails would you like to read through to find those that appeal? Fifteen? Or a thousand? Being a single guy means you get enough mail to select playmates who you think will be fun without having to dig through hour's worth of shite a day.

If you travel to meet a single fem/couple then the chances of you being in danger are pretty bloody slim. Now imagine being five feet four and being as strong as you were when you were thirteen or fourteen, and imagine rape is a possibility. This explains why the majority of single fems like to exchange emails with a guy for a week or two before meeting up.

Still think single fems hold all the cards mate? Nah. Its just a different ball-game for them. I much prefer being a single guy if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least if your a single guy on here and someone does meet you you know its because they like you, ok guys do greatly out number women on here there for if a woman does contact you its because she has tralled thro all the mail, messages and profiles, seen your profile, liked you enough to mail you

Why do men mail me? because im a woman and the law of sod days mail every single one of the buggers and one will reply back

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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you are also of an older age...which is more of my point.

im not saying the only reason you get many meets is because you are the owner of a bbc lol."

I have now been swinging on and off for 9 years... which made me 3 years older than you when you started....

so let me try and give you some advice from when i started...

you can blame this, or blame that, as much as you like, and if that is what you truely believe that to be honest no amount of advice will help you because you are going to be blinkered looking for excuses......

if it all excuses... thats lazy, that "its someone elses fault" syndrome.... i am the innocent party, oh woe is me... well, this is the last place you will find a sympathy shag... it doesn't happen

as i said.. all you can do is be the best "you" you can be... are you doing everything in your power to do that, to portray that.... hand on heart.....

once you start doing that... then things may change, change the things you can control, and don't focus on the things your cant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" gettin a shag onhere is harder than u think

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i disagree haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least if your a single guy on here and someone does meet you you know its because they like you, ok guys do greatly out number women on here there for if a woman does contact you its because she has tralled thro all the mail, messages and profiles, seen your profile, liked you enough to mail you

Why do men mail me? because im a woman and the law of sod days mail every single one of the buggers and one will reply back "

There's that too. Although looking again through your profile Miss Nymphos, as I like to do, a lot will also message because you clearly have some intellect, are refreshingly open, have a lovely filthy streak and look like the fine specimen of woman that I would like to spend time with equipped with two huge jars. One of honey and one of oil...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least if your a single guy on here and someone does meet you you know its because they like you, ok guys do greatly out number women on here there for if a woman does contact you its because she has tralled thro all the mail, messages and profiles, seen your profile, liked you enough to mail you

Why do men mail me? because im a woman and the law of sod days mail every single one of the buggers and one will reply back

There's that too. Although looking again through your profile Miss Nymphos, as I like to do, a lot will also message because you clearly have some intellect, are refreshingly open, have a lovely filthy streak and look like the fine specimen of woman that I would like to spend time with equipped with two huge jars. One of honey and one of oil... "

aww but i bet you say that to all the gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least if your a single guy on here and someone does meet you you know its because they like you, ok guys do greatly out number women on here there for if a woman does contact you its because she has tralled thro all the mail, messages and profiles, seen your profile, liked you enough to mail you

Why do men mail me? because im a woman and the law of sod days mail every single one of the buggers and one will reply back

There's that too. Although looking again through your profile Miss Nymphos, as I like to do, a lot will also message because you clearly have some intellect, are refreshingly open, have a lovely filthy streak and look like the fine specimen of woman that I would like to spend time with equipped with two huge jars. One of honey and one of oil...

aww but i bet you say that to all the gals "

No. While you are not the only woman on this planet that I find appealing, I tend to just say whatever is on my mind to each, which can be a downfall as well as a pleasure, lol!

Your image for example conjures up visions of me smothering your toes with clear honey before sucking it all off. Then just drizzling your body and mine with baby oil before indulging in some slippery joy..

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