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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." As someone who has lived and and worked with sex workers I can honestly say you have a very unreal vision of their lives. | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home" I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you? | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... As someone who has lived and and worked with sex workers I can honestly say you have a very unreal vision of their lives." Please enlighten me? I would love to read your incite... | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?" yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns | |||
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"Why on earch would a porn star let you bareback them and thus not be able to work for 3 month's? " What? | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns" Thank you , do you envision them being better lovers? | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns Thank you , do you envision them being better lovers?" they would ohviously be confident and have no hangups but better lovers than who? | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns Thank you , do you envision them being better lovers?they would ohviously be confident and have no hangups but better lovers than who?" Regular everyday swingers.... | |||
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"But most sex workers go it alone in the uk. I watched a program two days ago. A new sex worker as gone via a agency and each client that they set up per time they ask for 30% of the meet. Although it didn't say if that it also included the package of being on their books and advertising on sites and photos. An they have no choice who it is. Another goes alone doesn't have 2 week checks but only does safe sex. While she gets all her money she also has to travel if trade is low and she spent 4days in a hotel were i assume she picks up most staying at the hotel.. I don't really think that there is answer to why men don't really care to much for the sex worker. They see them as a business transaction mostly.. " But would you meet and play with a sex worker/porn star? | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns Thank you , do you envision them being better lovers?they would ohviously be confident and have no hangups but better lovers than who? Regular everyday swingers...." you dont have to be a porn star or even a swinger to be an amazing fuck. If i was chatting to a guy got on with him and had a connection i wouldnt give a second thought to what his job was it wouldnt influence my decision either way if i like someone i like them if i dont i dont regardless | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol" Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab? | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab?" but your op didnt ask if we would meet one it was asking for tips | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab?but your op didnt ask if we would meet one it was asking for tips" I’m sorry, I thought the title said “ Would you meet a sex worker/porn star “ I was looking for people to share their experiences , give some tips and advice.... | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab?" well it's almost the same as your cons= a sex worker/porn star will video a meet without your consent, or that you have no choice in the matter. as for the sti/std aspect, you cite that as a 'pro'- because they must be cleaner because they get tested more regularly,thus bareback will have slim to nil chance of contracting the above, I just cannot see either statements as being something that equates to what you have stated. I'd meet a porn star or a sex worker for sex, but your pros n cons wouldn't sway me to think they are any better nor less than anyone else I'd meet... I'd just not meet anyone that wants payment for sex with me...regardless.Never have and never will. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab?but your op didnt ask if we would meet one it was asking for tips I’m sorry, I thought the title said “ Would you meet a sex worker/porn star “ I was looking for people to share their experiences , give some tips and advice...." it does but the actual thread itself was saying something different. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I seriously don't know how you can say they'd be super clean because of testing meaning there's practically no chance of sti or other.... that in itself makes absolutely no sense.... it's fine to make up shit in your mind, don't let probability get in the way of scientific observations lol Please explain something to me..... is the art of having a discussion gone the way of the dinosaurs? What does me stating sex workers/porn stars having a sti/std being slim to none , have to do with you posting if you would meet a sex worker/ porn star from Fab? well it's almost the same as your cons= a sex worker/porn star will video a meet without your consent, or that you have no choice in the matter. as for the sti/std aspect, you cite that as a 'pro'- because they must be cleaner because they get tested more regularly,thus bareback will have slim to nil chance of contracting the above, I just cannot see either statements as being something that equates to what you have stated. I'd meet a porn star or a sex worker for sex, but your pros n cons wouldn't sway me to think they are any better nor less than anyone else I'd meet... I'd just not meet anyone that wants payment for sex with me...regardless.Never have and never will." Ok fair play.... I thought that being tested regularly would be something good.... | |||
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"How can you have experiences if you are saying would you meet one. You haven't actually meet one to have any tips or advice also. " I’m sorry for confusing you..... I’m asking would you personally meet a sex worker / porn star first ..... Then stating the good , the bad and the ugly on if you met a sex worker / porn star.... There is no right or wrong answer..... I just wanted everyone to add their 2 pence..... | |||
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"why do you think they would want to take pictures without your consent " I don’t think they would take pictures without my consent..... I like people taking pictures and videos of me... it’s the fact of these pictures and videos ending up on some porn site would be my concern..... Most sex workers/porn stars have their own websites... so I would be very cautious..., | |||
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"why do you think they would want to take pictures without your consent I don’t think they would take pictures without my consent..... I like people taking pictures and videos of me... it’s the fact of these pictures and videos ending up on some porn site would be my concern..... Most sex workers/porn stars have their own websites... so I would be very cautious...," whats to stop an ordinary swinger uploading videos and pictures to the internet | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners." .... and your post only refers to the testing regime in the USA, so it doesn't necessarily apply elsewhwere. You cannot apply your (flawed) beliefs in other locations without the same testing requirements, so would you travel to the USA to fulfill this erroneous fantasy? | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers"" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then." If only you weren't so frigid my dear brigid | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. If only you weren't so frigid my dear brigid" Just hurry and pop out to work there's a love I have the 'milkman' cumming round with the cream. | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. If only you weren't so frigid my dear brigid Just hurry and pop out to work there's a love I have the 'milkman' cumming round with the cream." he looks just like our son alfred...uncanny | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." A few years ago, there was a very well publicised outbreak of HIV among porn performers in the US which ended several careers which blows the whole regular testing theory out of the water And because they're sex workers, you can pretty much do whatever you want with them because you can't shock them, or because you see them as somehow sub human and there to be used? | |||
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"Im guessing they are just like anyone else when they are at work they are just doing a job out of work their biggest turn on might just be plain vanilla sex. Just cause they do it at work doesnt mean they want it at home I’m confused..... Would you meet a porn star/sex worker? If yes , what would be your concerns? If no , why wouldn’t you?yes i would meet one and i would have no concerns"  | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners." Hmmm ... so would you meet a sex worker/porn star from Fab.... | |||
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"I like the assumption that getting checked every 14 days means that the possibility of stds is low.. They could have had sex with dozens of people since then. Whereas an amateur might have only had a handful in a year. " So does this mean it’s a no from you? Or you would meet a sex worker/porn star only if safe sex was on the table? | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners. .... and your post only refers to the testing regime in the USA, so it doesn't necessarily apply elsewhwere. You cannot apply your (flawed) beliefs in other locations without the same testing requirements, so would you travel to the USA to fulfill this erroneous fantasy?" Seriously please stop replying to my thread and trying to match wits with me.... You come off as one of these horny single men that can’t read a profile but send unsolicited messages...... Please read a profile before trying to have a dig at someone... | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers"" You see this is what I don’t get.... You said your peace now you’re trying to Slut shame sex workers.... the word hooker is derogatory to sex workers.... | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then." The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums... | |||
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"Yes I have. Pros: he was attractive with a hot body and physically very fit. Cons: he wanted a baby with me. That relationship didn't last long." How old were you when this took place? | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums..." Am I fuck so don't put words in my mouth. Your bareback comment was ridiculous so I presumed this wasn't a serious thread. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... A few years ago, there was a very well publicised outbreak of HIV among porn performers in the US which ended several careers which blows the whole regular testing theory out of the water And because they're sex workers, you can pretty much do whatever you want with them because you can't shock them, or because you see them as somehow sub human and there to be used?" I don’t look at anyone in the world as subhuman.... on the contrary I try to be a voice for the people being bullied on the forums.... I’m trying to be the Vladimir Ilyich Ulyanov of Fab.... Now for some reason, you haven’t stated if you would meet a sex worker/porn star from Fab? | |||
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"Yes why not as long as they don’t want paying " Would you allow them to take pictures and videos of your face during the meeting? | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums... Am I fuck so don't put words in my mouth. Your bareback comment was ridiculous so I presumed this wasn't a serious thread." and get your flipping facts right I don't crave bi mmf as I've experienced plenty. | |||
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"Yes I would. And I'd give them a hug too. Having been a sex worker it is not a case of I've done everything imaginable. Admittedly I did try most things. It isn't sex like with a partner. It's about the paying customer. Their choices within limits and their pleasure. Rarely is it a equal thing. " Thank you so much for sharing.... it must be a age thing..... but the younger posters tend to read a thread and reply with something useful on topic... It seems The over 50 crowd tend to give sexual education lectures and not reply with anything relating to the topic..... | |||
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"I wouldn't have sex if there was a payment element, I'd prefer someone I'm intimate with to actually want to be there. If the scenario is off the clock, then they are just people whether they are sex workers or porn actors, so it's unlikely I'd know anyway. Random Bob/Tracey who has a quick fuck by the bins behind Whetherspoons is probably more of a health risk. As long as you protect your own health as best you can the persons job shouldn't be an issue. " Thank you very incite full post... | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums... Am I fuck so don't put words in my mouth. Your bareback comment was ridiculous so I presumed this wasn't a serious thread. and get your flipping facts right I don't crave bi mmf as I've experienced plenty. Ohh the irony..... you experienced plenty of bi mmf and chimed in on a bareback comment.... Yes and? You seem very blinkered and choose to ignore certain facts don't you." No I hold you to a higher standard.... since you enjoy bi sexual men.... I thought you would be open to meeting sex workers/porn stars.... | |||
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"A few years ago I met a sex worker via the AW website as I was looking for a specialist service she had outstanding reviews in the service I was looking for.The experience for me was out of this world.She still does what AW call tours and in London 8-10 times a year after the first experience I saw her a few more times in London.We got talking about why she does it which I respect and understand." Geddon then. Tell us why she does it? | |||
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"I think i gave enough tips: meeting sex workers will be better because you can go bareback due to being tested regularly. a sex worker will do all kinky shit. sex workers will photo/vid you. being a swinger associated with a sex worker will be a scandal for said swinger. now reading the above, my tips would be something like none of the above will make viz's top tips. My last entries, were like an echo of the original statements.The whole thing started the train wreck I'm afraid..." | |||
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"A few years ago I met a sex worker via the AW website as I was looking for a specialist service she had outstanding reviews in the service I was looking for.The experience for me was out of this world.She still does what AW call tours and in London 8-10 times a year after the first experience I saw her a few more times in London.We got talking about why she does it which I respect and understand." No no.... I’m talking about off the clock | |||
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"I wouldn’t want to meet either because it’s their job. I want someone to want to fuck me, not be getting paid for it. Can’t think of anything worse. You mention great sex... Do porn stars ride differently? Do they open their legs differently? Bend over differently? Or is it because they do anything and everything because they’re paid. Paid sex. Cringe! Porn stars. Yawn! " Couldn't agree more, the best sex is when you are there because you just want each other. Part of the fun is giving the pleasure and if someone is paid, it fake and not a turn on. | |||
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"Tips for having sex with or dating sex workers.... Treat them just like anyone else. Their choice of work does not define them. 100% accept their choice of career and don't make a thing of it. Don't assume they wish to be freaky in bed with you. Some are, some prefer a cup of cocoa. " Thank you ... | |||
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"No. The thought of having to pay someone to fuck me is a total turn off. I want someone to want me as much as I want them. Escorts have sex for fun too. I've enjoyed sex with friends who happen to work as escorts. We simply wanted each other and had sexual chemistry...I agree for me personally, paying for sex wouldn't work. But I think this thread is about "off duty" sex with sex workers. " I'm a cynical wee boot though and if someone fucked for a living I wouldn't necessary believe them when they said they were into me | |||
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"A few years ago I met a sex worker via the AW website as I was looking for a specialist service she had outstanding reviews in the service I was looking for.The experience for me was out of this world.She still does what AW call tours and in London 8-10 times a year after the first experience I saw her a few more times in London.We got talking about why she does it which I respect and understand. No no.... I’m talking about off the clock" . Sorry mate excuse my ignorance what do you mean by off the clock ? | |||
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"If they have read my profile, they would see I live in the USA , so there is no need to travel to meet a sex worker/porn star.... So are you saying that all Americans are sex workers, hence no need to travel to meet them?" No hes saying he lives in the usa so he wouldnt have to travel to the usa to meet an American porn star who got tested according to the american porn industry shedule. As somone pulled him.up saying would he fly to the usa for it. People on here worry me. Hell even my welsh village has a name sake in America. | |||
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"A few years ago I met a sex worker via the AW website as I was looking for a specialist service she had outstanding reviews in the service I was looking for.The experience for me was out of this world.She still does what AW call tours and in London 8-10 times a year after the first experience I saw her a few more times in London.We got talking about why she does it which I respect and understand. No no.... I’m talking about off the clock. Sorry mate excuse my ignorance what do you mean by off the clock ?" Not for work, not paid as in jist meeting for fun for both of you. Off the clock = thier own free time not business | |||
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"I wouldn’t want to meet either because it’s their job. I want someone to want to fuck me, not be getting paid for it. Can’t think of anything worse. You mention great sex... Do porn stars ride differently? Do they open their legs differently? Bend over differently? Or is it because they do anything and everything because they’re paid. Paid sex. Cringe! Porn stars. Yawn! No I’m talking about during swinging..... Some swingers are sex workers/porn stars Yeah I know. Only have to look at top pics to see that. Plus a girl on here who I loathe entirely is on both sites. I don’t get it myself. I really don’t. They say pussy is power... I’d rather give mine to someone who respects me and themselves. " So are you saying all pornstars /sex workers dont have any respect for themselves ? Or just basing that on the girl you mention who you loathe?  | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners. .... and your post only refers to the testing regime in the USA, so it doesn't necessarily apply elsewhwere. You cannot apply your (flawed) beliefs in other locations without the same testing requirements, so would you travel to the USA to fulfill this erroneous fantasy? Seriously please stop replying to my thread and trying to match wits with me.... You come off as one of these horny single men that can’t read a profile but send unsolicited messages...... Please read a profile before trying to have a dig at someone... You post, I comment. If you only want comments that agree with your viewpoint, don't post, it's a forum! My point is that in my humble opinion your logic is seriously flawed. You don't have to agree. If you want to have bareback sex with sex workers / porn stars, based on the risks as you perceive them, carry on, your choice. Its not for me. I am replying to your post, not your profile. Perhaps take your own advice and you will see that I am part of a couple - horny, yes. Single, no, send unsolicited messages, never! More flawed presumption! Love and peace though. I must say this... Too any couples/women on Fab who complain about single men not reading profiles and sending unsolicited messages... This is my retort.... this poster has not read my profile but continues to reply to my post in the hopes of trying to belittle me and not add anything significant to this thread.... If they have read my profile, they would see I live in the USA , so there is no need to travel to meet a sex worker/porn star.... Please remember this thread when you slag off single men who don’t read profiles... couples do it too..." Wherever you are, if you want to meet sex workers / porn stars, or any else for that matter, for bareback sex, with the risks as you perceive them, crack on with it mate, entirely your choice! I'm not quite sure where holding a different opinion to you is belittling you. If I was sending you a PM to your profile, I would read it, I'm not and don't worry, I won't! If I shouldn't have taken your profile in the forum at face value and assumed Chelsea, London, I apologise, ignore my location comment, if it helps you feel better. However, I stand by my other comments. If you feel it necessary to go down the emotive route ('belittle', etc), rather than keep it rational and reasoned, so be it. That suggests you have run out of rational points and do not believe others have right to their opinion if it is contradictory to yours. For me, my thoughts are rational and reasoned and reflect my opinion, but I fully accept that you don't have to agree with them. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." We create our world too good lol, we don't have bareback when swinging as we would be risking our health & jobs doing so. Just because I have done a 12 man gangbang with DP on film I wouldn't do this in a club, some guys expect you to do anal because you done it in a film but again thats in a controlled environment that's safe compared to a club etc. We don't film/photograph swinging meets & we would need model releases & photo ID if we used them, no genuine pornstar/adult producer would risk this as they rely on their honesty & integrity to earn peoples trust. Yes being seen with us in public can be an hazard as we get people most days in Clacton or where ever come up to us asking if we've made any new stuff or wanting autographs so being seen with us can get tongues wagging lol. Here in the UK porn people get tested every 28 days which we have done without fail for countless years now but this don't make us bullet proof, instead it helps to trace back any infections that have spread between the porn actors so it can be safely treated & eradicated...saying this me & John have done this for over 20 years & have never caught anything so why risk bareback with a swinger who hasn't got certs ? | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners." The porn Industry are sex workers as we are all sex workers, if we are being paid for a sex film or just being paid for sex there is no difference. Yes street prostitution is a big problem & no porn stars would work with them because of the risks, independent escorts do have regular tests & are among the safest people you'd meet & are treated with respect from the porn industry. Pornstars/escorts/street prostitutes all in one way have sex for money so morally none are no different. | |||
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"Yes why not as long as they don’t want paying Would you allow them to take pictures and videos of your face during the meeting?" John has shot profile pics for over 50 people on Fab & never used one for any commercial purpose, word of mouth goes a long way not only in the adult industry but also the swinging one too. An honest person is a honest person sex worker or swinger. | |||
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"Tips for having sex with or dating sex workers.... Treat them just like anyone else. Their choice of work does not define them. 100% accept their choice of career and don't make a thing of it. Don't assume they wish to be freaky in bed with you. Some are, some prefer a cup of cocoa. " | |||
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"You seem to not recognise the difference between sex workers and porn stars. In my definition a sex worker is anyone who gets paid for sex, so this would include street prostitutes who aren't required to get tested on a regular basis (unless they are working in certain countries) and may be at high risk of getting / being infected with sti's. You should also be aware that some sti tests can take up to 3 months to show an accurate result, so unless they are abstaining from sex for that long, their test results are worthless. Even with your assumption of 14 day validity, you would have to be certain that they havd not had sex within that period and you could never be sure. Would you be prepared to ask someone for proof of their test results before having bareback sex? I'm not suggesting for one minute that all sex workers / porn stars are infected with sti's, it applies to all bareback scenarios. Are you required to have the same sti test regime? If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners. .... and your post only refers to the testing regime in the USA, so it doesn't necessarily apply elsewhwere. You cannot apply your (flawed) beliefs in other locations without the same testing requirements, so would you travel to the USA to fulfill this erroneous fantasy? Seriously please stop replying to my thread and trying to match wits with me.... You come off as one of these horny single men that can’t read a profile but send unsolicited messages...... Please read a profile before trying to have a dig at someone... You post, I comment. If you only want comments that agree with your viewpoint, don't post, it's a forum! My point is that in my humble opinion your logic is seriously flawed. You don't have to agree. If you want to have bareback sex with sex workers / porn stars, based on the risks as you perceive them, carry on, your choice. Its not for me. I am replying to your post, not your profile. Perhaps take your own advice and you will see that I am part of a couple - horny, yes. Single, no, send unsolicited messages, never! More flawed presumption! Love and peace though. I must say this... Too any couples/women on Fab who complain about single men not reading profiles and sending unsolicited messages... This is my retort.... this poster has not read my profile but continues to reply to my post in the hopes of trying to belittle me and not add anything significant to this thread.... If they have read my profile, they would see I live in the USA , so there is no need to travel to meet a sex worker/porn star.... Please remember this thread when you slag off single men who don’t read profiles... couples do it too... Wherever you are, if you want to meet sex workers / porn stars, or any else for that matter, for bareback sex, with the risks as you perceive them, crack on with it mate, entirely your choice! I'm not quite sure where holding a different opinion to you is belittling you. If I was sending you a PM to your profile, I would read it, I'm not and don't worry, I won't! If I shouldn't have taken your profile in the forum at face value and assumed Chelsea, London, I apologise, ignore my location comment, if it helps you feel better. However, I stand by my other comments. If you feel it necessary to go down the emotive route ('belittle', etc), rather than keep it rational and reasoned, so be it. That suggests you have run out of rational points and do not believe others have right to their opinion if it is contradictory to yours. For me, my thoughts are rational and reasoned and reflect my opinion, but I fully accept that you don't have to agree with them." Hello fine Sir.... thank you for your well written opinion on a simple question I asked... I appreciate you enlightening me on the folly of my ways... But I must ask you this..... Do you give an honest answer when someone asks you a question? Or Do you not answer and ask them a question as a reply.... I would assume your IQ is above 70 , so I’ll address you as such.... The heading of my thread was would you meet a porn star/sex worker? You have not answered this question but have posted a few comments...... why? only you know . When I see a thread with these titles kiss, fuck , avoid, Brexit , Bbw appreciation, or politics... I never post , because I have no interest in these subjects... This must be a crazy concept to some people because this is a open forum and I must give my opinion about everything.... yet I choose not too... you can check my green arrow for conformation.... Now by you not answering the original question, but giving me a std lesson about the porn industry.... I find this to be disturbing behavior.... It’s akin to going to a Halal restaurant and asking them why they don’t serve pork.... | |||
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" Have a friend whos a escort and she said she wont bareback causal meets out of work or paying customers as she values her health Exactly. I've several friends who are working or have worked in the sex industry and they are among the most responsible people I know. Also many areas have specific sexual health clinics for sex workers to ensure they are treated with respect, feel comfortable going there, get bags and bags of free condoms plus lube and tested frequently with quick results. The idea that you can bareback someone because they work as an escort or worse still that you have some right to sex with them is rather worrying. In the end these are people, individuals who have their own likes, dislikes, drives and absolute right to consent. same. I know loads and they are more health conscious than your average person x
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If these sex workers/porn stars are more health conscious than your average person....
Bareback shouldn’t be a problem... "WTAF?
How is anyone, sex worker, porn star or otherwise meant to know the sexual history of the person they're sleeping with? Just because they get tested every 14 days (or even every other day should they choose) doesn't bear any relation to the health status of the other party, therefore it's irrelevant.
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If no, these sex workers / porn stars are willing to, or having sex with (multiple, in your view) untested partners. .... and your post only refers to the testing regime in the USA, so it doesn't necessarily apply elsewhwere. You cannot apply your (flawed) beliefs in other locations without the same testing requirements, so would you travel to the USA to fulfill this erroneous fantasy? Seriously please stop replying to my thread and trying to match wits with me.... You come off as one of these horny single men that can’t read a profile but send unsolicited messages...... Please read a profile before trying to have a dig at someone... You post, I comment. If you only want comments that agree with your viewpoint, don't post, it's a forum! My point is that in my humble opinion your logic is seriously flawed. You don't have to agree. If you want to have bareback sex with sex workers / porn stars, based on the risks as you perceive them, carry on, your choice. Its not for me. I am replying to your post, not your profile. Perhaps take your own advice and you will see that I am part of a couple - horny, yes. Single, no, send unsolicited messages, never! More flawed presumption! Love and peace though. I must say this... Too any couples/women on Fab who complain about single men not reading profiles and sending unsolicited messages... This is my retort.... this poster has not read my profile but continues to reply to my post in the hopes of trying to belittle me and not add anything significant to this thread.... If they have read my profile, they would see I live in the USA , so there is no need to travel to meet a sex worker/porn star.... Please remember this thread when you slag off single men who don’t read profiles... couples do it too... Wherever you are, if you want to meet sex workers / porn stars, or any else for that matter, for bareback sex, with the risks as you perceive them, crack on with it mate, entirely your choice! I'm not quite sure where holding a different opinion to you is belittling you. If I was sending you a PM to your profile, I would read it, I'm not and don't worry, I won't! If I shouldn't have taken your profile in the forum at face value and assumed Chelsea, London, I apologise, ignore my location comment, if it helps you feel better. However, I stand by my other comments. If you feel it necessary to go down the emotive route ('belittle', etc), rather than keep it rational and reasoned, so be it. That suggests you have run out of rational points and do not believe others have right to their opinion if it is contradictory to yours. For me, my thoughts are rational and reasoned and reflect my opinion, but I fully accept that you don't have to agree with them. Hello fine Sir.... thank you for your well written opinion on a simple question I asked... I appreciate you enlightening me on the folly of my ways... But I must ask you this..... Do you give an honest answer when someone asks you a question? Or Do you not answer and ask them a question as a reply.... I would assume your IQ is above 70 , so I’ll address you as such.... The heading of my thread was would you meet a porn star/sex worker? You have not answered this question but have posted a few comments...... why? only you know . When I see a thread with these titles kiss, fuck , avoid, Brexit , Bbw appreciation, or politics... I never post , because I have no interest in these subjects... This must be a crazy concept to some people because this is a open forum and I must give my opinion about everything.... yet I choose not too... you can check my green arrow for conformation.... Now by you not answering the original question, but giving me a std lesson about the porn industry.... I find this to be disturbing behavior.... It’s akin to going to a Halal restaurant and asking them why they don’t serve pork...." Dear Sir, reading of my reply (not the one you quote above), states 'My point is that in my humble opinion your logic is seriously flawed. You don't have to agree. If you want to have bareback sex with sex workers / porn stars, based on the risks as you perceive them, carry on, your choice. Its not for me.' 'Not for me', can be taken as no I would not, within the context of casual bareback sex with a sex worker or porn star. (That I believe, is the context of your post.) For the record, I would not have bareback casual sex with anyone (and have turned down opportunities of such, including on here). If I had an ongoing relationship with a sex worker or porn star, I might after considering all aspects. You seem mystified as to why I should post comments. Your post sees porn stars and sex workers as being 'super clean'. I disagree with this in principle. Porn stars may be tested every 14 days, but this does not completely cover them for the full three months that some tests require. Secondly, you refer to 'sex workers'. Sex workers might not be porn stars, which if they are not, are not required to have a test every 14 days. If porn stars / sex workers are prepared to have bareback sex with you / others who are not tested every 14 days, the risks clearly increase. Sex workers are by definition getting paid for sex and in the general context they will, be having sex with multiple partners on a regular basis, which may include the period since their last test and may include you. On the basis of the above, I believe your understanding that the chances of them having an sti/std is slim to none' to be incorrect. Using your analogy of Halal meat (I am not commenting on Halal meat), the analogy is more, 'Would you eat Halal meat, as there is no risk / very limited risk in eating it?' My reply has been ' I disagree with your understanding of the process of preparing Halal meat, for these reasons, so for me your understanding is flawed. 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"Can I suggest that people maybe read the chapter on the porn industry in Chris Hedges' book, "Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy and the Triumph of Spectacle for some of the reality? Here is a short extract Shelley Lubben, who also worked as a porn actress, agrees. “You have to do what they want on the sets,” she says. “There’s too much competition. They can always find other girls. Girls bring in their friends and get kickbacks. They feel like stars. They get attention. It’s all about the spotlight. It’s all about me. They have notoriety. They don’t realize the degradation. Besides, this is a whole generation raised on porn. They’re jaded and don’t even ask if it is wrong. They fall into it. They get into drugs to numb themselves. They get their asses ripped. Their uterus hemorrhages. They get HPV and herpes, and they turn themselves off emotionally and die. They check out mentally. They get PTSD like Vietnam vets. They don’t know who they are. They live a life of shopping and drugs. They don’t buy real estate. They party, and in the end they have nothing to show for it except, like me, genital herpes and fake boobs.”Porn is like any other addiction,” Lubben says. “First, you are curious. Then you need harder and harder drugs to get off. You need gang bangs and ******** and **** porn. Porn gets grosser and grosser. We never did ass-to-mouth when I was in the industry. Now you get an award for it. And meanwhile the addicts make their wives feel like they can’t live up to the illusion of the porn star. The addict asks, ‘Why can’t she give blow jobs like a porn star?’ He wants what isn’t real. Porn destroys intimacy. I can always tell if a man is a porn addict. They’re shut down. They can’t look me in the eyes. They can’t be intimate.” She would shoot scenes with men who disgusted her, whose sweat and smell “made me cringe.” And when the lights went off and the cameras stopped, she would stumble off the set in pain, her face often covered with semen. “Sometimes they would hand you a paper towel to wipe your face off,” she says, “and sometimes they would say, ‘Don’t touch us. You’re gross.’ I remember the first time I had come all over my face. I was so pissed off, but I took it. I pretended to like everything they did. I took pride in being a good gonzo girl. My fame came from this.” By the second year of shooting, with an income of $100,000, she had turned to drugs, including painkillers and muscle relaxants. (asterisks substituted because these genres probably fall outside FABs allowed standards)" This just shows don't always believe what you read. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips...." I'm going to assume you're making a hypothetical evaluation based on the best possible variables. As in, you wouldn't actually meet a sex worker or porn star and have bareback sex with them if that's what they regularly offered. Or, you're just saying that if that sex worker or porn star only barebacked with you since their last test months ago then there's a slim chance that they have an sti because the 'ideal' sex worker will be totally up to date with tests and with the added experience that they have, having seen it all, they'll give you the wickedest ride!! Whereas, a porn star who is filming your encounter for their next big production (because that's just what pornstars do) might put it online and then you're kinda fucked a second time for free. | |||
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"... This just shows don't always believe what you read." Or maybe it shows people should read more. I've read similar accounts from former porn stars. | |||
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"A mate of mine sometimes offers homeless women money for sexual favours. He sees it as a win win. I'm not sure i agree. But I'm not gonna judge. " You're not gonna judge? I will. That's fucked up! Unless the homeless woman enjoys it. Don't want to assume they don't want sex too. Couldn't do that though. Yeah, fucked up, final answer. | |||
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"It's not true, they are NOT clean, my friend! Check out the documentaries and reports from women in the industry who have caught STD’s because they were told that it's safe - due to testing - by bosses who said what they had to to get the production going. The porn industry is teeming with disease. I would steer clear, especially for any barebacking activity moreso than in general. A sex worker is more likely to be cleaner as far as that goes but I could never bring myself to fork out £££'s for something that is free. I'd sooner charge for the dick so just don't get it. Plus the fact that who knows how many have been across the threshold that day whom she doesn't actually want to be with and I become just another number. It's cold, impersonal (ironic), unfulfilling. She may be getting forced, she may be a drug addict, she may be deeply unhappy about it. Now of course there are those who do genuinely enjoy it as their profession, some are nymphos and love it. But that's all the more reason for me not to pay her. Its a no from me. " You get some very ignorant ill informed people on here lol | |||
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"A mate of mine sometimes offers homeless women money for sexual favours. He sees it as a win win. I'm not sure i agree. But I'm not gonna judge. You're not gonna judge? I will. That's fucked up! Unless the homeless woman enjoys it. Don't want to assume they don't want sex too. Couldn't do that though. Yeah, fucked up, final answer. " I also don't like to judge but that is fucked up and I bet he's tight too! | |||
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"How many people on here slating porn stars industry workers actually get tested on a regular basis even though they swing with various people..." So now you're slating swingers then, aren't you? And are swingers barebacking with various people? FYI I was last tested at the end of November. No barebacking with anyone. Why not listen to pornstars themselves who have gotten diseases while working? C'mon you have to appreciate that getting barebacked by pretty much every single guy you fuck on camera puts you at more risk. | |||
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"I wouldn’t want to meet either because it’s their job. I want someone to want to fuck me, not be getting paid for it. Can’t think of anything worse. You mention great sex... Do porn stars ride differently? Do they open their legs differently? Bend over differently? Or is it because they do anything and everything because they’re paid. Paid sex. Cringe! Porn stars. Yawn! No I’m talking about during swinging..... Some swingers are sex workers/porn stars Yeah I know. Only have to look at top pics to see that. Plus a girl on here who I loathe entirely is on both sites. I don’t get it myself. I really don’t. They say pussy is power... I’d rather give mine to someone who respects me and themselves. So are you saying all pornstars /sex workers dont have any respect for themselves ? Or just basing that on the girl you mention who you loathe? "Probably! | |||
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Pornstar definately oooh "Youll sleep with a pornstar but not a escort ....why ?? | |||
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"I wouldn’t want to meet either because it’s their job. I want someone to want to fuck me, not be getting paid for it. Can’t think of anything worse. You mention great sex... Do porn stars ride differently? Do they open their legs differently? Bend over differently? Or is it because they do anything and everything because they’re paid. Paid sex. Cringe! Porn stars. Yawn! No I’m talking about during swinging..... Some swingers are sex workers/porn stars Yeah I know. Only have to look at top pics to see that. Plus a girl on here who I loathe entirely is on both sites. I don’t get it myself. I really don’t. They say pussy is power... I’d rather give mine to someone who respects me and themselves. So are you saying all pornstars /sex workers dont have any respect for themselves ? Or just basing that on the girl you mention who you loathe?
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My friend is a independent escort and trust me she respects herself highly ,is fussy about who she sees ,gets tested monthly and wont bareback anyone,no matter how much they offer
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"How many people on here slating porn stars industry workers actually get tested on a regular basis even though they swing with various people... So now you're slating swingers then, aren't you? And are swingers barebacking with various people? FYI I was last tested at the end of November. No barebacking with anyone. Why not listen to pornstars themselves who have gotten diseases while working? C'mon you have to appreciate that getting barebacked by pretty much every single guy you fuck on camera puts you at more risk. " We only work bare back in regulated conditions so yes it's a far safer environment than people think, as we said earlier 20 years in the adult industry & we've never caught any diseases. You must mix with the wrong people lol. | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I'm going to assume you're making a hypothetical evaluation based on the best possible variables. As in, you wouldn't actually meet a sex worker or porn star and have bareback sex with them if that's what they regularly offered. Or, you're just saying that if that sex worker or porn star only barebacked with you since their last test months ago then there's a slim chance that they have an sti because the 'ideal' sex worker will be totally up to date with tests and with the added experience that they have, having seen it all, they'll give you the wickedest ride!! Whereas, a porn star who is filming your encounter for their next big production (because that's just what pornstars do) might put it online and then you're kinda fucked a second time for free. . Honestly this came about because I was approached by someone in the swinging scene that happens to be a sex worker/porn star... She gave me a lot of information about her line of work to put my mind at ease.... So I decided to get people’s opinions and stories about meeting sex workers/porn stars is the swinging world.... So far only Kimnjohn and a few other people have given thought out responses to my inquiries.... The rest have just posted conjecture " I didn't post conjecture. I posted a response to a comment you made claiming it was 'safe' to sleep bareback with someone because they got tested every 14 days. Which you chose not to respond to. The same lack of response you've chosen to give others with similar points of view just because in your mind they haven't answered your 'wihld you sleep with a porn star/sex worker' question. The nature of a forum is that responses aren't limited to the initial question and some may be in reply to later comments. You can't complain about people's responses just because they don't suit your agenda. A | |||
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"A mate of mine sometimes offers homeless women money for sexual favours. He sees it as a win win. I'm not sure i agree. But I'm not gonna judge. You're not gonna judge? I will. That's fucked up! Unless the homeless woman enjoys it. Don't want to assume they don't want sex too. Couldn't do that though. Yeah, fucked up, final answer. " I think he pays them 20 quid or so. More if they're got good teeth. Apparently that can be an issue..  makes my stomach churn just thinking about it. | |||
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"A mate of mine sometimes offers homeless women money for sexual favours. He sees it as a win win. I'm not sure i agree. But I'm not gonna judge. You're not gonna judge? I will. That's fucked up! Unless the homeless woman enjoys it. Don't want to assume they don't want sex too. Couldn't do that though. Yeah, fucked up, final answer. I think he pays them 20 quid or so. More if they're got good teeth. Apparently that can be an issue.. makes my stomach churn just thinking about it. "You may not judge but I sure a hell will. Your friend is taking advantage and abusing these people when they're at their most desperate. If he wants to help them then give them the money, or buy them food. If any person that I was associated with did this then I would very quickly let them know exactly what a low life they are and cut all contact. | |||
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"I like the assumption that getting checked every 14 days means that the possibility of stds is low.. They could have had sex with dozens of people since then. Whereas an amateur might have only had a handful in a year. So does this mean it’s a no from you? Or you would meet a sex worker/porn star only if safe sex was on the table?" I've met at least three ladies on fab, who are sex workers, but just for fun, not business. And I only do safe-ish sex with everyone. (condoms for vaginal and anal, not necessarily for oral) | |||
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"An old friend dated a porn star (not a big one). She never ever wanted sex and had a lot of problems (medical) from her time in the business. It's really not like the videos.... Sex worker? Have a heart, no way. I feel sorry for them, even if they loaded from it." Why feel sorry for them ? | |||
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"Very few do it through choice, and very few make a good living from it. However, this doesn't mean that they shouldn't make a living from it." If you mean sex workers ,alot do chose that work and aren't forced and can make a decent living through it ,especially if independent. | |||
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"I wouldn’t want to meet either because it’s their job. I want someone to want to fuck me, not be getting paid for it. Can’t think of anything worse. You mention great sex... Do porn stars ride differently? Do they open their legs differently? Bend over differently? Or is it because they do anything and everything because they’re paid. Paid sex. Cringe! Porn stars. Yawn! No I’m talking about during swinging..... Some swingers are sex workers/porn stars Yeah I know. Only have to look at top pics to see that. Plus a girl on here who I loathe entirely is on both sites. I don’t get it myself. I really don’t. They say pussy is power... I’d rather give mine to someone who respects me and themselves. So are you saying all pornstars /sex workers dont have any respect for themselves ? Or just basing that on the girl you mention who you loathe?
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My friend is a independent escort and trust me she respects herself highly ,is fussy about who she sees ,gets tested monthly and wont bareback anyone,no matter how much they offer
"I dunno. I honestly just don’t understand it. I think it is more so because of the person I know of. She’s not exactly “high class” ( meowh!) but I kinda feel sorry for her... Anyway! Lol I retract my previous comment. But it’s not for me. Kurdos to those that can and do x | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums... Am I fuck so don't put words in my mouth. Your bareback comment was ridiculous so I presumed this wasn't a serious thread. and get your flipping facts right I don't crave bi mmf as I've experienced plenty. Ohh the irony..... you experienced plenty of bi mmf and chimed in on a bareback comment.... Yes and? You seem very blinkered and choose to ignore certain facts don't you. No I hold you to a higher standard.... since you enjoy bi sexual men.... I thought you would be open to meeting sex workers/porn stars.... Have I missed where I wrote whether I would meet them or not? I merely read the thread and replied to one person,with a silly comment I admit. I didn't ask you to comment on my profile which as we all know... Hmm I didn’t comment on your profile nor am I looking for a fight..... " Erm....Yeah ya did | |||
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"What are the pros and cons of meeting a sex worker/pornstar ? Pros - they are super clean and you can go bareback... sex workers/porn stars are tested every 14 days in America .... so the chances of them having a sti/std is slim to none ... You can have very kinky sex ..... if someone is a sex worker/porn star they must have seen everything sexually imaginable... so they should be unshockable... you can live out your kinkiest desires... Cons - Pictures and videos......if during a meet they decide to take pictures, you have no control if it ends up online.,. Scandal...... if you’re a discreet swinger being associated with sex workers/porn stars can become a scandal..... Please feel free to add some tips.... I'm going to assume you're making a hypothetical evaluation based on the best possible variables. As in, you wouldn't actually meet a sex worker or porn star and have bareback sex with them if that's what they regularly offered. Or, you're just saying that if that sex worker or porn star only barebacked with you since their last test months ago then there's a slim chance that they have an sti because the 'ideal' sex worker will be totally up to date with tests and with the added experience that they have, having seen it all, they'll give you the wickedest ride!! Whereas, a porn star who is filming your encounter for their next big production (because that's just what pornstars do) might put it online and then you're kinda fucked a second time for free. . Honestly this came about because I was approached by someone in the swinging scene that happens to be a sex worker/porn star... She gave me a lot of information about her line of work to put my mind at ease.... So I decided to get people’s opinions and stories about meeting sex workers/porn stars is the swinging world.... So far only Kimnjohn and a few other people have given thought out responses to my inquiries.... The rest have just posted conjecture I didn't post conjecture. I posted a response to a comment you made claiming it was 'safe' to sleep bareback with someone because they got tested every 14 days. Which you chose not to respond to. The same lack of response you've chosen to give others with similar points of view just because in your mind they haven't answered your 'wihld you sleep with a porn star/sex worker' question. The nature of a forum is that responses aren't limited to the initial question and some may be in reply to later comments. You can't complain about people's responses just because they don't suit your agenda. A" I’m not complaining at all..... I was just hoping people would stay on topic..... Now I still stand by my statement that a person that is tested every 14 days is safer to have bareback sex with than someone that doesn’t get tested at all or infrequently.... | |||
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"I've found this thread an interesting read, honestly! I do have a few points though; Firstly, to answer your question OP, I don't know if I would meet a sex worker, I highly doubt it and certainly not if it were paid. Simply because they do certain scenes in their films doesn't mean they enjoy them, I don't go home and do my job, that's when I do the things that I enjoy. To assume that they want to do those things does smack of a degree of dehumanisation, which brings me to my second point: There is a certain mysticism that surrounds porn and the workers, I think that this is part of a wider issue in modern society. Viewing sex in the act in itself like porn, can dehumanise the act and the people involved. The actors become sexualised constantly and 'must' want these things. I wonder if it's this mysticism that attracts you as opposed to the person? I hasten to add that I'm not judging you, I'm simply asking the question. " I would never dehumanize a fellow human being.... honestly I love people more than money.... Having sex with a porn star/ sex worker was a bucket list kinda thing.... something I can tell the nurses in the old age home .... I’ll be staying in my final years.... | |||
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"I said to my wife, "it's not like I've been shagging run of the mill swingers behind your back darling, I've been fucking hot barebacking pornstars and hookers" That's ok then darling everything is tickerty boo then. The irony of this post..... you crave a bi mmf, it’s your fantasy... but you are Slut shaming sex workers.... Some men do read what people write on the forums... Am I fuck so don't put words in my mouth. Your bareback comment was ridiculous so I presumed this wasn't a serious thread. and get your flipping facts right I don't crave bi mmf as I've experienced plenty. Ohh the irony..... you experienced plenty of bi mmf and chimed in on a bareback comment.... Yes and? You seem very blinkered and choose to ignore certain facts don't you. No I hold you to a higher standard.... since you enjoy bi sexual men.... I thought you would be open to meeting sex workers/porn stars.... Have I missed where I wrote whether I would meet them or not? I merely read the thread and replied to one person,with a silly comment I admit. I didn't ask you to comment on my profile which as we all know... Hmm I didn’t comment on your profile nor am I looking for a fight..... Erm....Yeah ya did " Hi , Jay .... thank you for your contribution to this thread.... I’m not sure if your comment was to defend the honor of this poster but I’m not looking for any confrontation with you.... Thank you fine Sir | |||
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"It's a job or in some cases just a hobby and most likely very different to any activities in their personal life. Sometimes you wouldn't even know to make that decision " So that’s a yes? | |||
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"Sex workers = prostitutes " Their still still humans ,female and male with feelings ...people seem to forget that . | |||
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"Sex workers = prostitutes Their still still humans ,female and male with feelings ...people seem to forget that . " +1 It's sad but often true. As demonstrated on this very thread. Just remember you're talking about someone's friend, daughter, sister, partner, mother... Every time you denigrate female sex workers. | |||
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"Sex workers = prostitutes Their still still humans ,female and male with feelings ...people seem to forget that . +1 It's sad but often true. As demonstrated on this very thread. Just remember you're talking about someone's friend, daughter, sister, partner, mother... Every time you denigrate female sex workers. "
I "ranted " on another thread about how for a site for swingers ,people i would expect to be open minded ,alot arent .their are plenty of men and women on here who are very rude /disrespectful to any sex worker ..yet their meeting random people for sex .
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