FabSwingers.com forum: CUCKOLDING....Pros and Cons ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of couples on here seem to like to engage in cuckolding. I've never been involved in cuckhold play and so completely ignorant to the allure of this interesting fetish. Would love to hear from couples / cucks / bulls what it is about cuckolding that you love ?...and what,if any, downsides those who have experimented with it have encountered ?

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s very exciting , not easy to find the right guys that understand the scenarios

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That would be my impression. I'm guessing it's a scenario a guy would have to have found fascinating all his post pubescent life and not something that he half-heartedly tries.

What is the fundamental excitement rush for you both C and/or J ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still don’t understand exactly what that is

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is"

I’ve done it a few time at Townhouse

It’s a bit like spit roasting a girl two or more guys fuck every oriface and then shopping round

Lots of fun especially for the lady xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is

I’ve done it a few time at Townhouse

It’s a bit like spit roasting a girl two or more guys fuck every oriface and then shopping round

Lots of fun especially for the lady xx"

There may have been aspects of cuckolding in what you describe, but that sounds more like a bukkake scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are most cucks bi /bi-curious ?

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Sorry yes your right

Again I meet up with couples that want me to pleasure his wife while he watches

He gets turned on by this and sometimes joins in

Sometimes the man like to film or take pictures of his wife being fucked by another man or men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when the male watches?

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Basically yes but can join in later if he she they agree

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Boundaries set at start of the night

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s about the reclaim for the Hubby !

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is

I’ve done it a few time at Townhouse

It’s a bit like spit roasting a girl two or more guys fuck every oriface and then shopping round

Lots of fun especially for the lady xx"

This reminds me of the "what is love?" Scene from Anchorman!

you literally don't have a clue!

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is

I’ve done it a few time at Townhouse

It’s a bit like spit roasting a girl two or more guys fuck every oriface and then shopping round

Lots of fun especially for the lady xx

There may have been aspects of cuckolding in what you describe, but that sounds more like a bukkake scenario."

Do you even know what a bukkake scenario is?! It's like the blind leading the blind in here, and no one's got access to Google!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically yes but can join in later if he she they agree "

That sounds more like hotwife. Cuckold has an element of humiliation. Chastity and being made to clean up after are common. Unlikely a cuck would be allowed to join in

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

From problem with cuckolding on fab is 9 out of 10 single men don't know what it is or understand it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s about the reclaim for the Hubby !"

That's the kind of insigh those of us not in the know find very intriguing and enlightening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From problem with cuckolding on fab is 9 out of 10 single men don't know what it is or understand it!

That's why the forums can be enlightening for us lesser mortals

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"From problem with cuckolding on fab is 9 out of 10 single men don't know what it is or understand it!

That's why the forums can be enlightening for us lesser mortals

You're asking other people who don't understand it...... Google it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Basically yes but can join in later if he she they agree

That sounds more like hotwife. Cuckold has an element of humiliation. Chastity and being made to clean up after are common. Unlikely a cuck would be allowed to join in"

Another quality and informing answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're asking other people who don't understand it...... Google it."

Chances are there are people on here that can articulate it's appeal far better. We can also google it, doesn't have to be one source or another.

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Dictionary meaning is as follows

A cuckold is a man who gets turned on his watching his wife fuck other men. Cuckolding occurs when a married woman fucks another man with her husband's full knowledge and consent. She does it because it makes him hard as a rock and often because he is inadequate in bed

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

Technically your both right and wrong there. Cuckold usually entails some sort of humiliation for the hubby and can be on many different levels from simply being made to watch or the more extreme side of being ordered to do humiliating tasks such as guide bulls cock into wife, cleanup duties etc. The more common practice of hubby simply watching his wife with another guy without the humiliation aspect is known as hotwifing. The problem is the word cuckolding is used far more widely and everyone’s opinion of what is what is very different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Technically your both right and wrong there. Cuckold usually entails some sort of humiliation for the hubby and can be on many different levels from simply being made to watch or the more extreme side of being ordered to do humiliating tasks such as guide bulls cock into wife, cleanup duties etc. The more common practice of hubby simply watching his wife with another guy without the humiliation aspect is known as hotwifing. The problem is the word cuckolding is used far more widely and everyone’s opinion of what is what is very different "

Great answer !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My understanding prior to this post was that there was a humiliation aspect for the cuck in what those in the lifestyle refer to as cuckolding. A friend of mine from the lifestyle told me recently that her husband had been hetting off on her having sex with other men since they joined the lifestyle. He would wait in another room and/ or wander in to where his wife was with the other man and watch. He never would join in or carry out duties, and she said there was never any verbal humiliation either. They also partake in regular swing meets with other couples where both men are straight.

Recently they had an argument because he accused her of cuckolding him. She basically agrees that he had engaged as a cuck of his own volition, where as he was adamant he was not a cuck. It's become very destructive to their relationship, especially with the husband throwing it in his wifes face that it was her idea in the first place, when he had often boasted it was his.

From the last contributors above it now definitely sounds like this couple were actually engaging in 'Hotwife' rather than a cuckold scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching the wife with a man and being a cuckold are similar but not the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Basically yes but can join in later if he she they agree

That sounds more like hotwife. Cuckold has an element of humiliation. Chastity and being made to clean up after are common. Unlikely a cuck would be allowed to join in"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Watching the wife with a man and being a cuckold are similar but not the same. "

I can definitely see that now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am intrigued as to why the cuck finds being humiliated, and his partner finds seeing her man humiliated is so arousing for both. I'd love to hear why from both perspectives ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of couples on here seem to like to engage in cuckolding. I've never been involved in cuckhold play and so completely ignorant to the allure of this interesting fetish. Would love to hear from couples / cucks / bulls what it is about cuckolding that you love ?...and what,if any, downsides those who have experimented with it have encountered ?"

From a woman's point of view cuckolding is win/win

The woman becomes a Mistress who has a cuck who worships her and is her slave.

In my opinion, cuck should

Very submissive

Do all household chores such as washing and ironing and keep the house/flat very clean.

Do all decorating.

Do all cooking and washing up.

Treat his Mistress like a Queen.

Get his Mistress ready for her dates with bulls.

Clean her up after her bull has cum inside her or over her body. He should be made to eat the cum.

Keep Mistress shaved if she so wishes.

Do anything Mistress asks him to do.

Etc

If was a woman and had a cuck he would 100% be signing a cuckold contract. Google cuckold contract.

If I was a woman and my guy said he wanted to be a cuck I would be very happy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is"

Google cuckold contracts. Read a few different cuckold contracts. It will give you a good idea about what cuckolding is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when the male watches?"

The male (the cuck) only watches if the female (the Mistress) allows him to.

In a cuckold relationship, the female is 100% in charge.

Some people confuse cuckolding with voyeurism. 2 totally different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically yes but can join in later if he she they agree

That sounds more like hotwife. Cuckold has an element of humiliation. Chastity and being made to clean up after are common. Unlikely a cuck would be allowed to join in"

A cuck would not be allowed to join in. A cuck may be allowed

To lick the cum up from his Mistress after the bull has cum.

Suck the bull hard for his Mistress.

Suck the bulls cock clean after he has cum.

Etc

One a cuck becomes a cuck he is never allowed sex again with his Mistress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From problem with cuckolding on fab is 9 out of 10 single men don't know what it is or understand it!

So very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is

Google cuckold contracts. Read a few different cuckold contracts. It will give you a good idea about what cuckolding is. "

Now that's an eye-opener, just googled those contracts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We still don’t understand exactly what that is

Google cuckold contracts. Read a few different cuckold contracts. It will give you a good idea about what cuckolding is.

Now that's an eye-opener, just googled those contracts

See lol. A woman in a proper cuckold relationship is very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man on radio 1 last night loved his cuckolding lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given it a bash ..funny how guys likea another bloke to Fuck their Mrs while they watch ..I've let them join in if they keep it quiet and I've stopped to wipe the sweat off my brow while having a drink of water and let fuckface lick his Mrs out then gone back to it... funny ol thing this cuckolding business

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've given it a bash ..funny how guys likea another bloke to Fuck their Mrs while they watch ..I've let them join in if they keep it quiet and I've stopped to wipe the sweat off my brow while having a drink of water and let fuckface lick his Mrs out then gone back to it... funny ol thing this cuckolding business

Every man to his own. Can't help admitting that it's difficult for me to what appeal such disrespect and demeaning from both his partner and the bulls holds for the cuck ? It would be fascinating to hear why from a committed cuckold

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Basically it’s what ever you want to make it for yourselves in our book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cuck couples are great love them all its great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I had a 2 year relationship with a married couple, at first it was a full on threesome with everyone equal but as time went on, the husband enjoyed watching more than joining in and then cleaning up. Sometime he would drop his wife off at mine and pick her up in the morning. We would then show him the pics and videos of the night before. He absolutely loved it and was so turned on by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some very very off the mark comments on here lol wow just wow porn has a lot to answer for and as for cuckold contrats ?? what aload of coswollop i know of not one cuckold couple (real couples) that have this not one sound more like a femdom sub male contract nothing cuckold about it at all... take porn out of the cuckold and all cuckolding to..another man seeding the his wife as the cuckoo bird lays it eggs in another's nest ... anything after that is added on so it can be as tame as one wants to as wild as one wants...cuckolding is a veried as swinging its self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No two cuckold couples are the same, every couple different and that is the beauty of cuckold.

Alot get hotwifing(great) mixed up with cuckolding and there is a big difference. There again how many guys just think fucking another man's wife is cuckold!!!

Cuckolding is amazing, it is a no time limit scenario, newcomers to extreme, and the mental build up just as important as physical.

I've been involved with cuckolding couples 7 years and is a truly amazing experience for all three involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its incredibly difficult to find the right couple.

But onceyou do it can be incredibly erotic. I am drawn to the psychology of the whole arrangement and the Ds connections, as well as control, chastity and the fun. I woukd highly recommend it but it needs careful dialogue, Personally I prefer a regular couple who can build s cuckold relationship with rather than a series of one offs.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Are most cucks bi /bi-curious ?"

Only if the "bull" is to..... otherwise pretty pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Basically it’s what ever you want to make it for yourselves in our book

Very honest answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there are some very very off the mark comments on here lol wow just wow porn has a lot to answer for and as for cuckold contrats ?? what aload of coswollop i know of not one cuckold couple (real couples) that have this not one sound more like a femdom sub male contract nothing cuckold about it at all... take porn out of the cuckold and all cuckolding to..another man seeding the his wife as the cuckoo bird lays it eggs in another's nest ... anything after that is added on so it can be as tame as one wants to as wild as one wants...cuckolding is a veried as swinging its self."

Definitely sounds varied and very individual to each couple. There dors seem to be an overlap in understanding on here between hotwife, femdom and cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple 40 years ago through a contact mag.He was a Merchant Navy Officer on leave.When he went back to sea she would write and send him pics of my cock in her mouth etc. And tell him my cock was bigger than his and how useless he was in bed.At the time she was 45 and I was 25.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

The bull for us has to be self confident, strong, a larger cock than the cuck, sexually dominant with the ability to satisfy with intense prowess beyond the capabilities of the cuck who for his part will admire and be grateful for the bulls capabilities. We could go further but we save the full detail for the right bull.......Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The bull for us has to be self confident, strong, a larger cock than the cuck, sexually dominant with the ability to satisfy with intense prowess beyond the capabilities of the cuck who for his part will admire and be grateful for the bulls capabilities. We could go further but we save the full detail for the right bull.......Mwah x"

Great answer Buttons, and your profile gives a great insight into what Jane gets from the cuckold scenarios. It's brilliant to get an insight like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The humiliation one I know nothing about.

However, wife with another man is about the connection between wife and husband. The fact she could share her fantasy (all women have it), with her man and that he loves her so much he wants her to fulfil it. The fact that husband is so attracted to wife that simply watching her with another man is the biggest turn on. He is proud of her and her talents. It's all about how deeply connected husband and wife are. That look at her husband as she sucks another guy, or as he first enters her..... The extra guy might as well be a dildo. There's so much more to it as well..... Deepest love possible. Hard for most to comprehend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The humiliation one I know nothing about.

I'm sure it's impossible to fully understand unless you are involved in such a relationship or privy to them. Again that seems to tie in more on the hotwife side, but great insight though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The greatest impression this thread has given me personally is that it seems very difficult for those accomplished in cuckolding to convey to us who have never has experiance of it, exactly what the cuck gets from the humiliation side of it ?

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"The greatest impression this thread has given me personally is that it seems very difficult for those accomplished in cuckolding to convey to us who have never has experiance of it, exactly what the cuck gets from the humiliation side of it ?

You're assuming he's humiliated. Wrong again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're assuming he's humiliated. Wrong again. "

I've certainly got the strong impression that the humiliation and clean up duties are a big part of true cuckolding Mary....seems without one or both of those aspects it's merely a hitwife fetish.

It would be great if you could put us all right on cuckolding Mary, I get the impression anyone who's so definite on what's incorrect must be a fountain if knowledge on the subject.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

You're assuming he's humiliated. Wrong again.

I've certainly got the strong impression that the humiliation and clean up duties are a big part of true cuckolding Mary....seems without one or both of those aspects it's merely a hitwife fetish.

It would be great if you could put us all right on cuckolding Mary, I get the impression anyone who's so definite on what's incorrect must be a fountain if knowledge on the subject."

The biggest mistake anyone can make is to assume anything. In fact a cuckold couple who may enjoy sex in one way with one "bull" might like it a completely different way with another "bull", because people are not all the same..... there is no one size fits all with cuckolding...

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Please read our profile that is what cuckold lifestyle is like

Ask any questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The humiliation one I know nothing about.

I'm sure it's impossible to fully understand unless you are involved in such a relationship or privy to them. Again that seems to tie in more on the hotwife side, but great insight though.

I think 'Hotwife' is more at the top of the spectrum of what I am talking about. This could include the wife being used and returned for 'reclaiming', which is similar to the 'cleaning' of a cuckold wife. Everyone is to quick to label others and bracket interests, I think everyone is completely different.

I imagine the 'humiliation' is more a sub/dom thing to what I am talking about. I could be wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve played as bull in the past been very enjoyable for me hubby waited in bar of hotel for first then I met them at theirs, where he would listen as we got to know each other better we ended up

As mmf threesum which was amazing.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"It’s very exciting , not easy to find the right guys that understand the scenarios "
Great profile.. do you fund it difficult to return to "nornal" life after playing or how do you feel with that side of things?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Its incredibly difficult to find the right couple.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

The absolute correct definition in our opinion is this.....

Cuckolding is whatever you decide it to be within the dynamic of the people involved. What’s good for one is not for another, kinks are varied and diverse and may or may not be for all scenarios.

The only way to know is to chat at length and set boundaries and interests so everyone is on the same page

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've contributed to many of these threads over the years and the confusion between the two is always apparent, mainly because the lines do blur. If you add the more recent Stag and Vixen scenario into the mix and it's gets even more complexed.

There's a great site for those of you wanting a further understanding that a forum poster gave us a few weeks ago, Google keys and anklets. It's a podcast and is an excellent insight into all being discussed here.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"The absolute correct definition in our opinion is this.....

Cuckolding is whatever you decide it to be within the dynamic of the people involved. What’s good for one is not for another, kinks are varied and diverse and may or may not be for all scenarios.

The only way to know is to chat at length and set boundaries and interests so everyone is on the same page

Yep its so diverse but variety is the spice after all , we host the cucks night at cupids and everyone plays so differently.I would say where more stag and vixen but with a bit of cuckold thrown in .Agreed to discuss and set boundaries and above all have fun

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By *arbonistaMan
over a year ago

Bedford ish

Of course we know what it is. I even know they makes clocks in Switzerland about it.

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By *estiswestMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Love the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw the word into the search bar of xhamster and you will get a good insight to what cuckolding is. Not to be confused with similar kinks like, hot wife, wife sharing, stag and vixen to name a few. I guess putting lables on everything just confuses things

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By *otwife2002Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"It’s very exciting , not easy to find the right guys that understand the scenarios "

We'll absolutely 2nd that xx

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

Back when I was single I was primarily interested in couples who enjoyed aspects of the cuckold lifestyle. That whole period was as frustrating as it was addictive as it was oh so deliciously rewarding on those oh so rare occasions when everything clicked. I used to blog about my adventures on a fairly regular basis over the years.

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