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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles

i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles

i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment

"
If its a private house party, then yes

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles

i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment

"

I was invited to one the other day and tried to find out who was attending as i prefer to know.

They were not keen to tell me so i decided not to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?

I would like to know as I'm going as a single

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nah, I like to be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?

I would like to know as I'm going as a single "

i always liked to tell the people whos going some dont like to give others names out depends on the host of party xx

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

i host partys on a reguler basis i am always being asked who is attending

i do not let anyone know reason being

would you like me to let all n sundrey you areattending a private party ?

its not discreet to tell others who is attending

and if anyone turns up and dont like what they see well they can bugger off !

as it is ive never encountered any problems but i have come to also realise that the one who ask who dont get told never seem to come ! timewasters n picture collectors comes to mind

take my advice

build it and they will come lol

ie advertise but dont inform anyone who is coming other than a general 3 couples 2 females and 5 guys etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here as a couple we went to a party and our neighbours turned up. Not exactly next door neighbours but they were from just around the corner. The ex was mortified. To make things worse they had got the train up and I'd drove so I thought it only polite to offer them a lift home, the ex wasn't keen but I eventually made her see sense. We were all there for the same reason after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you ever see the neighbours again??

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.

I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.

To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"... but i have come to also realise that the one who ask who dont get told never seem to come ! timewasters n picture collectors comes to mind

.... "

So the obvious thought of... they weren't told so they chose not to go totally escapes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you have a confirmed list of people I dont see any harm in sharing it as it gives peep a chance to chat a little before hand and I cant see anyone having any privacy issues as only the people who are going anyway are going to get this list x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?

I would like to know as I'm going as a single "

Yes it is OK. For all you know it could be one couple in their 60's and 14 single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.

I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.

To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".

"

thats what i was getting at thank you i invite a group of people that i hope will get on ,never a open list i find that if you have a set preference list you look for just that type party goes so well

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

I'd like to be invited to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't fancy going to a private house party without seeing a list first.

Its nice to know there's a good chance of compatibility with others attending.

XXXX

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.

I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.

To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".

"

Agree

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles

i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment

"

It wasn't on an island was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes it is OK. For all you know it could be one couple in their 60's and 14 single guys."

Cool, I'll get nosey then

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles

i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment

It wasn't on an island was it? "

;)

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