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whats the sexiest age for a woman ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just wondering what age a woman is at her sexiest ?in my own opinion its 30 plus because they know what they want and aint afraid to get it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30/40s as you know what you like ,

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

There is probably a mathematical formula for it, one would have to input one's own age though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40+ in my experience completely insatiable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst she has a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age

Chris

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Whilst she has a pulse "

you pinched my answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ....... my age!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"No ....... my age! "

ok as you and chris are pretty damned close to K's age I won't argue - but the optional extra of a pulse comes a close second

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"just wondering what age a woman is at her sexiest ?in my own opinion its 30 plus because they know what they want and aint afraid to get it !!! "
the age of the woman that says yes to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends whether or not you've got a stiffy when you ask yourself the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wouldn't put an age to it. Some women look amazing into their 50's and there are others who look dog rough by their early 20's. Same with men.

As for sexuality it's the same again. I've not long since come out of a relationship with a young women and she was.... well I'm not going to divulge anything. Let's just say we had good times

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

18 + and with some expreience fantasy to have a virgin but theyre hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

46!

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

i have a friend in is 30s he was having a rationship with a lady 10 years older than him when it finnished is next girl friend was a good 10 years younger in mid 20s , i was joking with him one day about which was best , he said young was keen and up for things any time a day anywhere but you could not beat experience he soon went back to someone a little older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you define sexy, is sexy no stretch mark and firm tits or the drive to go for what you desire?

Everyone will have their own opinion on sexy some will find a nice young firm body sexy others will find the mature mind sexy

For me confidance and experience are what makes someone sexy which can come at any age but a trait more commonly found in the more mature lady

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The age i am now, was discussing this with a guy the other night and noway would i want to be in my 20's sexualy. I love being this age, i also find that majority of men really couldnt give a shit about stretch marks, saggy skin or a less than perfect body, its the women that tend to have the hang ups about these things and not the men

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire

On the question of age, what's the oldest age that's been seen on a profile ? I've seen mid sixties, any advance ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love women in there late 30s upwards, they know what they like and are not shy when it comes to telling you what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the lady in question and how they carry themselves

Body language, confidence and dress in the right amount can be one sexy combination in anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love women in there late 30s upwards, they know what they like and are not shy when it comes to telling you what they want!

"

I totally agree mate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering what age a woman is at her sexiest ?in my own opinion its 30 plus because they know what they want and aint afraid to get it !!! the age of the woman that says yes to you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love women 35 to 60+

It's all in attitude and the mind, when a woman feels comfortable in her own skin she becomes incredalby sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How ever old the queen is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 nick says,

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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago

Near Haverfordwest

My wife tells me women go off sex at the menopause. Hence, I generally only get what is available elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on each person.

I'm 27, I have plenty of experience, I know exactly what I want and how to get it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My wife tells me women go off sex at the menopause. Hence, I generally only get what is available elsewhere!"

Well this woman has been on the change over a year and i havent gone off it

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

A Woman feels sexy at any age, it's just up to the man to keep her feeling that way

Wolf

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We reckon once you've passed the age when you know the body will not get any better and accepted it for what it is, the sexyness shines through.

Maybe it's our excuse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife tells me women go off sex at the menopause. Hence, I generally only get what is available elsewhere!"

Im sure some do, but not all women go off sex when going thro the change.......i hope i dont lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We reckon once you've passed the age when you know the body will not get any better and accepted it for what it is, the sexyness shines through.

Maybe it's our excuse!!!"

What age would you say that is then??

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

i found the real me at about 40 now feel great regardless of lumps bumps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i found the real me at about 40 now feel great regardless of lumps bumps"
its the lumps and bumps that i just loive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found women in there 40's and 50's really sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman can be sexy at any age in my opinion, every guy has a different outlook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on each person.

I'm 27, I have plenty of experience, I know exactly what I want and how to get it."

You certainly do have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely its subjective

each woman will find a different point in their lives where they found themselves to feel sexiest and each guy will find a different age he finds sexiest so there is no one definitive answer

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

| am 32 next Saturday and still don't know what I want at times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well u look lovely hunni xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 +

Dont look any where near as gorgeous, svelt and blemish free as I did as a 20 year old now.

However hitting 40+ has meant I am not affraid to ask for what I want and wont accept anything less. I am not ashamed to want horny sex, feel sexy, watch porn, go dogging, have a threesome and more somes (all guys, happy memories), and want to continue to play more and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 +

Dont look any where near as gorgeous, svelt and blemish free as I did as a 20 year old now.

However hitting 40+ has meant I am not affraid to ask for what I want and wont accept anything less. I am not ashamed to want horny sex, feel sexy, watch porn, go dogging, have a threesome and more somes (all guys, happy memories), and want to continue to play more and more

"

And thats the poit that you become sooo sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering what age a woman is at her sexiest ?in my own opinion its 30 plus because they know what they want and aint afraid to get it !!! "

Its not so much about a specific age as it is as reaching a specific maturity and that can be very individual....

Personally, when I started swinging that changed my outlook about my Own body, I became less harsh and judgemental about my imperfections.

I think this is because I started seeing so many naked women- but real naked women, not just the media portraits of women that are all lithe and skinny.

In turn I realised its natural to compare your body with others, but conversely, realised its no better or worse, just different.

The self assurance came from there, and the sexual confidence with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age!!

If I find a women sexy her age doesn't come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're at the height of their sexual powers between 40-50yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the woman and who is attracted to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the individual,tbh but im in my 40s so have got a few years behind me on the swinging scene,shyness has gone out the window and i love the fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're at the height of their sexual powers between 40-50yrs"

Some are some aren't. Just like almost everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're at the height of their sexual powers between 40-50yrs

Some are some aren't. Just like almost everything else. "
Ohhhh, but for the ones that are..someone strap me DOWN!!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

what ever age I am at the time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ever I can trap, .... er.... I mean attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its impossible to define really. It varies from woman to woman, but as a general rule of thumb I find women of 20 have the most energy, women of 30 have the probably have the body that most fits the "ideal" image, women of 40 have the highest sexual appetite, and women of 50 have the highest confidence and have developed the most sexual knowledge and skills...

And that formula doesn't even fit a lot of women!

See, its impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what ever age I am at the time...."
Is the RIGHT answer! The big teddy bear off the top shelf for the lady.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

its nothing to do with what age men find you attractive,its what the Woman feels like that counts ,and if she feels good then watch out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nothing to do with what age men find you attractive,its what the Woman feels like that counts ,and if she feels good then watch out "

thats true

Tho i dont really consider myself to be sexy i do know im good in the sack lol modest too lol nah seriously, i know what i like, i know how to read a guys body, im not afraid to go for what i want and i think im good at what i do, not by compliments but by guys body language and reactions, anyone can say your good to be polite but you just can tell if your doing it for someone or not some things you just cant fake, and i think that alone will attract most guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nothing to do with what age men find you attractive,its what the Woman feels like that counts ,and if she feels good then watch out

thats true

Tho i dont really consider myself to be sexy i do know im good in the sack lol modest too lol nah seriously, i know what i like, i know how to read a guys body, im not afraid to go for what i want and i think im good at what i do, not by compliments but by guys body language and reactions, anyone can say your good to be polite but you just can tell if your doing it for someone or not some things you just cant fake, and i think that alone will attract most guys"

Well I'm changing my body language to mexican so you can't read mine

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

loving women of all ages if they have a friendly smile and nice personality, its a bad attitude that i dont like and that can come from a woman of any age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nothing to do with what age men find you attractive,its what the Woman feels like that counts ,and if she feels good then watch out

thats true

Tho i dont really consider myself to be sexy i do know im good in the sack lol modest too lol nah seriously, i know what i like, i know how to read a guys body, im not afraid to go for what i want and i think im good at what i do, not by compliments but by guys body language and reactions, anyone can say your good to be polite but you just can tell if your doing it for someone or not some things you just cant fake, and i think that alone will attract most guys

Well I'm changing my body language to mexican so you can't read mine "

im multilingual in the language of lurrrrrrrrrrrrve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nothing to do with what age men find you attractive,its what the Woman feels like that counts ,and if she feels good then watch out

thats true

Tho i dont really consider myself to be sexy i do know im good in the sack lol modest too lol nah seriously, i know what i like, i know how to read a guys body, im not afraid to go for what i want and i think im good at what i do, not by compliments but by guys body language and reactions, anyone can say your good to be polite but you just can tell if your doing it for someone or not some things you just cant fake, and i think that alone will attract most guys

Well I'm changing my body language to mexican so you can't read mine

im multilingual in the language of lurrrrrrrrrrrrve "

That is a good talent to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a good talent to have "

just one of many dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a good talent to have

just one of many dear "

What other talents do you have?

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By *xscotMan
over a year ago

Kingston

A lady who is happy in herself and wants to play with me is always the right age - lol I do draw a line at ones the same age or younger than my children though

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

41 of course

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"what ever age I am at the time.... Is the RIGHT answer! The big teddy bear off the top shelf for the lady."

wahoo, Im a winner!

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"40 +

Dont look any where near as gorgeous, svelt and blemish free as I did as a 20 year old now.

However hitting 40+ has meant I am not affraid to ask for what I want and wont accept anything less. I am not ashamed to want horny sex, feel sexy, watch porn, go dogging, have a threesome and more somes (all guys, happy memories), and want to continue to play more and more

"

I'm 21 and I feel I can enjoy all of the above as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i found the real me at about 40 now feel great regardless of lumps bumps"

I go with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering what age a woman is at her sexiest ?in my own opinion its 30 plus because they know what they want and aint afraid to get it !!!

Its not so much about a specific age as it is as reaching a specific maturity and that can be very individual....

Personally, when I started swinging that changed my outlook about my Own body, I became less harsh and judgemental about my imperfections.

I think this is because I started seeing so many naked women- but real naked women, not just the media portraits of women that are all lithe and skinny.

In turn I realised its natural to compare your body with others, but conversely, realised its no better or worse, just different.

The self assurance came from there, and the sexual confidence with it!"

also agree with this excellent description of the change that occurred to myself too.

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By *irlnextdoorWoman
over a year ago

brighton

I'm having great fun, but I guess I still have a long time to wait and find out.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

women are like fine wines ...........they taste better with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that is fantastic and believe you x Its just it took me a little longer to realise these things lol. I have always said I wish I knew then what I know now, mind you I am sure god had a hand in this!!! He was trying to keep mankind safe from me

Muhhh ha ha

xxxxxxx


"40 +

Dont look any where near as gorgeous, svelt and blemish free as I did as a 20 year old now.

However hitting 40+ has meant I am not affraid to ask for what I want and wont accept anything less. I am not ashamed to want horny sex, feel sexy, watch porn, go dogging, have a threesome and more somes (all guys, happy memories), and want to continue to play more and more

I'm 21 and I feel I can enjoy all of the above as well. "

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

feel sexier now than any other time in my life,,,,,despite all the lumps and bumps, and have loads of young guys message me on here wanting to meet, !!!

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

same here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"feel sexier now than any other time in my life,,,,,despite all the lumps and bumps, and have loads of young guys message me on here wanting to meet, !!! "

LOL it seems as though there are quite a number of guys on this site that appreciate the finer things that "maturity" can bring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"feel sexier now than any other time in my life,,,,,despite all the lumps and bumps, and have loads of young guys message me on here wanting to meet, !!! "

i do too, but am not ballsy enough to meet them, if i'm at mypeak now then god help me because i am seeing no action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt sexier than I am right now. I've been much slimmer. And obviously younger lol. But never sexier than now.

Can't put my finger on why. But just celebrating the feeling while it lasts.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"41 of course "

I'll agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i would say mid thirties early forties, but there are two women in my gym one 52 and one 53 and thay are stunning ,really gorgeous with that self assurance maturity brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over 40! in my teens i was a vain dickhead lol... twentys,...just starting to find out what i like and dislike,.. 30s,,, did all i wanted too...all i dreamt of,.. now in my 40s and im finally me,... know exactly what i want and dont and lived n learned some good some bad now ,..im happy with just me, grey hair and few rolls of blubber i acept it all!!! lol lifes good plus ive finally come out the closit too hahaha so any ladies out there who want a real fem on fem time get in touch oooeerr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the age when a woman is totally confident in her body and sexuality, there is nothing more alluring than a woman who knows exactly what she wants no matter what there age ( over 18 obviously).

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

sexiness is not an age,it's an attitude.

it's the day,there is no guilt,only pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who ever I can trap, .... er.... I mean attract"

Hehe! Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"loving women of all ages if they have a friendly smile and nice personality, its a bad attitude that i dont like and that can come from a woman of any age"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 +

Dont look any where near as gorgeous, svelt and blemish free as I did as a 20 year old now.

However hitting 40+ has meant I am not affraid to ask for what I want and wont accept anything less. I am not ashamed to want horny sex, feel sexy, watch porn, go dogging, have a threesome and more somes (all guys, happy memories), and want to continue to play more and more

I'm 21 and I feel I can enjoy all of the above as well. "

That's a good place to be in Madam! If you are as comfortable in yourself, as confident and as unashamed to ask for what you desire, then your sexual allure has already developed to the stage that it takes most women another 15 to 20 years to reach...

Which means a lot more time to enjoy enlightened fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs H is big 40 end of this month so has to be 40

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Got to be mid 40's with love handles.....sexiest thing on the planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my 20s i enjoyed sex but if i didnt like something i kind of put up with it.

Now in my 40s i enjoy sex even more i know what i like or dont like and im not scared to tell people what i want If somthing goes wrong rather than go bright red and grab my clothes i laugh and try again xxxx

I might have droopy boobs and strech marks but i no longer hide under the covers with the lights off. I quite happily walk round the room with nothing on.

I think sexy comes from within not just outside. xxxxx

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

... is the age when a woman becomes confident and comfortable with herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever age my wife is at any time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

56......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whatever age my wife is at any time! "

That's nice!

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