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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " and who are you to decide how people should use the site? I dont use facebook but i assume its to keep in contact with friends ....oh bugger thats what i use this site for...OP you are right!!!  | |||
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"I come on here to chat with friends... I meet when I want to meet.." +1  | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " occasionally people dont want to meet due to a number of reasons and i wouldnt want everyone having my msn | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " Don't know why it bothers you, especially if they have said so on their profile so's not to waste your time. I'm not gonna be meeting for quite some time, but I'm not going to stop coming to the forums, why should I? 
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"Can some one show me in the rules where it says "Must meet if using site" ? I guess I am stupid cos I cant find it? There was me thinking freedom of choice was derigure (sp) for swingers? "its in the same bit of the rules where say you must meet whoever contacts you | |||
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"OP I think I know what you mean, but it's not just this site where this is happening. It's just a little irritating when they don't make it obvious they're only here to chat." and it very irritating for those who DO make it clear they arent meeting and still ppl message them exspecting to meet lol !! i dont see what issue is if some folks just want to chat at present . you can very quickly find out i they are actually looking for meets or not . if its not for you then you just move on ! they may not be wanting to meet for meny varied reasons .some folks just take timeout for personal or family ?work commitments . others maybe just dipping their toe into swinging and just finding their comfort level and deciding if its actually for them . what ever reason how they use site ,how often and why they are on here are all up to the indervidual !why concern yourself with what others do ,just concentrate your energies on what you do on site and other will sort themseleves . | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " Because they can..... next question. | |||
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"I am just sorry that we all don't use the site up to the OP's exacting standards.... If he would like to write up the rules on how it should be use so we all don't make any faux pas then I for one would be eternally grateful! Sorry.. What was that! Less sarcasm! " next thing you will be saying you like fake profile???? | |||
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"some of us like to like who we have sex with ...not any port of call in a storm xxx" Nothing to do with your post, but your avatar pic is lovely...the basque is a lovely colour. | |||
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"I am just sorry that we all don't use the site up to the OP's exacting standards.... If he would like to write up the rules on how it should be use so we all don't make any faux pas then I for one would be eternally grateful! Sorry.. What was that! Less sarcasm! next thing you will be saying you like fake profile????" why not and i like married men who play away | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " ever thought it maybe they just arent meeting at this time ?????? plenty of genuine swingers whove had plenty of meets take time out from meets (health,work,family ect ). just because they dont wish to, or arent able to meet at this time doesnt mean they cant use the site lol !! somethings take priority over swinging and fun has to be put on back burner .swinging isnt the be all and end all for everyone on here lol | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. ever thought it maybe they just arent meeting at this time ?????? plenty of genuine swingers whove had plenty of meets take time out from meets (health,work,family ect ). just because they dont wish to, or arent able to meet at this time doesnt mean they cant use the site lol !! somethings take priority over swinging and fun has to be put on back burner .swinging isnt the be all and end all for everyone on here lol" can totally understand people who put not meeting at present but have had meets in the past. Am talking about profile where they have been on for over a year never meet anyone but are just here to chat. Can't see the point of them being on here. Its the same as a fake profile or a man saying he's a female to collect pictures. | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. ever thought it maybe they just arent meeting at this time ?????? plenty of genuine swingers whove had plenty of meets take time out from meets (health,work,family ect ). just because they dont wish to, or arent able to meet at this time doesnt mean they cant use the site lol !! somethings take priority over swinging and fun has to be put on back burner .swinging isnt the be all and end all for everyone on here lol can totally understand people who put not meeting at present but have had meets in the past. Am talking about profile where they have been on for over a year never meet anyone but are just here to chat. Can't see the point of them being on here. Its the same as a fake profile or a man saying he's a female to collect pictures. " see now this picture collecting thingy i have never really understood....millions of porn images on the tinterweb | |||
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"I'll use this site how the admin intended it to be used - as a networking site including chat, forums and meets. If the OP doesn't like the facilities the admin have given their members then I think the phrase is 'tough toasted titties'." and that's what I use fab for!!! I would like admin to do a filter so i don't have dreamers in my search. | |||
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"I'll use this site how the admin intended it to be used - as a networking site including chat, forums and meets. If the OP doesn't like the facilities the admin have given their members then I think the phrase is 'tough toasted titties'. and that's what I use fab for!!! I would like admin to do a filter so i don't have dreamers in my search. " Stop telling people how to use the site then! If its OK for you to chat etc then why isn't it OK for others? Sheesh!  | |||
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"I'll use this site how the admin intended it to be used - as a networking site including chat, forums and meets. If the OP doesn't like the facilities the admin have given their members then I think the phrase is 'tough toasted titties'. and that's what I use fab for!!! I would like admin to do a filter so i don't have dreamers in my search. Stop telling people how to use the site then! If its OK for you to chat etc then why isn't it OK for others? Sheesh! " | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " Really simple, if they say 'here for chat' and you don't want to chat..... Don't message them. That way you move forward and they enjoy their time. | |||
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"some of us like to like who we have sex with ...not any port of call in a storm xxx Nothing to do with your post, but your avatar pic is lovely...the basque is a lovely colour." I was thinking that. I think it's white with a coloured light on it though ..... pretty .. | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!!" yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy can we have a party? | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. ever thought it maybe they just arent meeting at this time ?????? plenty of genuine swingers whove had plenty of meets take time out from meets (health,work,family ect ). just because they dont wish to, or arent able to meet at this time doesnt mean they cant use the site lol !! somethings take priority over swinging and fun has to be put on back burner .swinging isnt the be all and end all for everyone on here lol can totally understand people who put not meeting at present but have had meets in the past. Am talking about profile where they have been on for over a year never meet anyone but are just here to chat. Can't see the point of them being on here. Its the same as a fake profile or a man saying he's a female to collect pictures. " guess what ..you dont have to see the point lol !!!! meny may no see the point of gang bangs , dogging ,bdsm ,watersports ,cam sex ect ect !! it obviously floats others boats lol !! as said meny times ppl will use site in what ever way they wish !! may not be in the way YOU use ,I use it or how the previous poster may use sites but doesnt make it any less wrong or less validjust because we dont all use site in same way . | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!!" How does remaining to chat with people you like about topics you prefer and not sodding off to bebo land equate with fake profiles and pictures ? Your a little unreasoning aren't you? I like to be fair. I'll be on your side. Stop all the left handed people coming in ! Shoot them ! | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!!" Using the site how people want to doesn't mean people think fake profiles should be on here....I never get the pic collector theory as pics of ordinary people can be found all over the net. Why not just accept that people use the site how they want to, and you use the site how you want to...everyones happy then  | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " start paying everyone's phone/electricity bills, then start telling people how they can and cannot use the site!! | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " dont know n its really annoying..... | |||
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"Because sometimes they just meet in clubs and use this to keep in contact with friends they have made "+1 | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!! How does remaining to chat with people you like about topics you prefer and not sodding off to bebo land equate with fake profiles and pictures ? Your a little unreasoning aren't you? I like to be fair. I'll be on your side. Stop all the left handed people coming in ! Shoot them ! " Nooooooooooo  I'm left handed! | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " Choice ,some people like sprouts some dont,but its always the individuals personal choice. | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. Choice ,some people like sprouts some dont,but its always the individuals personal choice." | |||
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"wow... so the OP has gone from starting a whinge to starting a crusade now... geez, incredible... but in the subtext of it all... it has nothing to do with "fake profiles" and everything to do with wanting to control how people use the site.... which is to be honest actually a really selfish attitude to take.....I tell you what MATE we will do what you say hey you seem to know everything!!! so your way or the highway.... you are right,everyone else is wrong, you know how to use the site better than the rest of us.... " | |||
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"Now should I be afraid OP???? Going into hospital on 24th for operation on my spine, so will be unable to meet for an indefinite period. What should I do, leave the site or continue chatting using my laptop in bed whilst getting back to full fitness. Please advise." That's obvious, you need to get a note from the OP advising that you are allowed to 'just chat' that way he can sleep easy, knowing that your not fucking the nurses, on the sly. Good luck with the operation and heres to a speedy recovery | |||
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"makes a note not to ask for a meet from this guy ( winging moaning is a turn off) "I hate men that winge... | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " And the problem is? | |||
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"makes a note not to ask for a meet from this guy ( winging moaning is a turn off)
I hate men that winge... "Make that 'men and women' that whinge  | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. And the problem is? " .....they no likey the way others use the site  | |||
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Make that 'men and women' that whinge "+1 | |||
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"makes a note not to ask for a meet from this guy ( winging moaning is a turn off)
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Make that 'men and women' that whinge "i moan i winge and i writhe in bed 
does that count | |||
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"Thanks Cate Topiary and as for you jacqs.... would love to join you "feel free to message me anytime for a chat im usually about x | |||
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"makes a note not to ask for a meet from this guy ( winging moaning is a turn off)
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Make that 'men and women' that whinge
i moan i winge and i writhe in bed
does that count"Drop the whinging and you've pulled a mouthy bint | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!!" Oooowww I feel a rant coming on about the misuse of a few more phrases
Is it Thursday yet? | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!! Oooowww I feel a rant coming on about the misuse of a few more phrases
Is it Thursday yet?"yes it is Thursday on ya go.... | |||
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"Okay so let's all wlecome the fake profiles and picture hunters!!! Oooowww I feel a rant coming on about the misuse of a few more phrases
Is it Thursday yet?"Every day is a Thursday if you feel a rant coming on | |||
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"I come on here to chat with friends... I meet when I want to meet.." Me too. And I love my facebook! Tabs are amazing things, don't you think? | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " because they want to | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. because they want to "change that to beacuse we want to and ill be singing that billie song next  | |||
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"Status update Just had a nice sunday dinner mmmmm yum yum am thinking tea or coffee to follow but cant quite decide " Same here but thinking about dessert | |||
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"status update Gone for a long soak in a hot bath " Freshly soaked and smelling good! Just gotta get floozies thongs off now.they are cuttin the arse off me | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " I tried Facebook, and there just weren't nowt in it, nothing to hold me there..fab has the right mix of the sensational, the naughty, ordinary and mundane...i'll be camping here for the foreseeable future | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " How do you know they never meet? Surely you cant have asked them all? | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. How do you know they never meet? Surely you cant have asked them all?" Agreed, stands to reason that some will have met..its what the sites for after all | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " What's facebook? | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " Well we came for the club re_iews, stayed for the forums and contact with people some of which like similar things to us. Been doing a very boring website job this weekend all alone as J is in London for the weekend, so I have been on the Forum for most of the last 48 hours, kept Fab open in a window on the second monitor and pressed F5 whenever there was a break from coding uploading etc. and it's been funny! quite enjoyable even went into Chat which I don't normally bother with. had some interesting debate on politics, some piss taking, some heart warming stuff all round facebook fodder probably... (don't know don't use FaceBook). BUT when we do go to a club we can let various people know and if they are free to join us that night we will have some idea of their turn on's etc. which makes the club night so much more fun. | |||
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"I'll use this site how the admin intended it to be used - as a networking site including chat, forums and meets. If the OP doesn't like the facilities the admin have given their members then I think the phrase is 'tough toasted titties'. and that's what I use fab for!!! I would like admin to do a filter so i don't have dreamers in my search. " Try ticking a couple of boxes when searching - pretty sure there's one that says 'verified as genuine' and one that says 'looking to meet today' - might help you avoid all the 'dreamers' out there! Alternatively try just talking to people! lol | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " I thought you meant some people use fab like facebook as in 'bored, nothing to do, come on here and post a load of shit in a forum just to get themselves noticed' | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " I'm not currently meeting...my choice-this may change in the future, who knows...I'll be sure and ask you if it's ok to do that shall I? I didn't realise I had to ask your permission to use the site I pay to use in the way I choose to use it... Oh, and men always "just happen" to turn their cams on on MSN...and surprise, surprise...they're nekkid...just sayin' | |||
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"Why do some people on here use fab as facebook there people on here who never meet but always online. " Lots do meet they just dont shout about it. Others want to choose who they meet not just take what's on offer. Then there are the fuglies who want to meet and try hard but nobody wants to meet them. | |||
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"Well seen on profile on here not meeting just here to chat. Have they heard of MSN lol. " But some of us may not like MSN and find it easier to chat to like minded people through here plus it has the forums people you meet at clubs etc each to their own i say | |||
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