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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." It's too impersonal and will come across as an obvious copy and paste message, I've had loads on C&P messages over the past 18months and they do stick out like a sore thumb. The general tone is good, but rather than asking if they want a conversation, try and start one, if they want one they will engage with it. | |||
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"Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." I'm very well thank you. No. | |||
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"It's awful...don't do it" Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo. | |||
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"It's awful...don't do it Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo." Change your message and try messaging different kind of women but saying this in a forum might annoy people and less likely to message you in the future | |||
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"It's awful...don't do it Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo. Change your message and try messaging different kind of women but saying this in a forum might annoy people and less likely to message you in the future " If it annoys people let it. Everyone gets annoyed at something on here anyways. We're always adapting and changing what we do to get a better understanding and experiment with new ideas. | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." I personally hate messages that say hey beautiful/gorgeous/sexy. It just looks like you’re trying to blow smoke up my arse especially as I have no face pics on public and in reality could look like a bulldog chewing a wasp. ‘Is it ok if I can talk to you’ comes across as needy and not very confident/assertive. Putting the majority of women down by saying they can’t hold a convo comes across like a bitter person who can’t get meets so blames it on the women he speaks to. Also saying after that you want to see how it goes chatting to said message recipient comes across as condescending and like you will decide if their chat is quality enough to engage with. Lastly copy and paste messages will get you absolutely hee haw on here because it looks like you’re casting your net as wide as possible and will fuck anyone who replies Mrs | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." I stopped reading after the second question and skimmed to the middle of the third. Just no. I personally find a simple introduction of who you are and what do you want as a good start. But that's just me. Mrs | |||
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"It's awful...don't do it Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo." Creepy and a turn off. Maybe its not that people can't hold a convo they just don't want one with you. You are basically slagging others off in you message. | |||
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"It's creepy that's how it comes across " Yep. Creepy was the vibe I got too. | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." First line screams that you're a cheese ball | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." *shudder* | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different. I personally hate messages that say hey beautiful/gorgeous/sexy. It just looks like you’re trying to blow smoke up my arse especially as I have no face pics on public and in reality could look like a bulldog chewing a wasp. ‘Is it ok if I can talk to you’ comes across as needy and not very confident/assertive. Putting the majority of women down by saying they can’t hold a convo comes across like a bitter person who can’t get meets so blames it on the women he speaks to. Also saying after that you want to see how it goes chatting to said message recipient comes across as condescending and like you will decide if their chat is quality enough to engage with. Lastly copy and paste messages will get you absolutely hee haw on here because it looks like you’re casting your net as wide as possible and will fuck anyone who replies Mrs" Couldn't agree more. P | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." Why not try .. A you there with the sad face you what to come to my place and live it up... ![]() | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." It’s creepy and terrible. | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." Insulting others to try and make somone feel special never works just makes you seem like an arse. Its one of those shitty pick up artist manipulations, the implication being if they dont engage you then they can't hold a conversation. Some punctuation besides question marks would help too. | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." No it wouldn't work for me, for all the above reasons ![]() | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." ![]() | |||
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"It's awful...don't do it Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo." Take that as a hint - They're just not into you | |||
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest. Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different." Hey there beautiful how are you? = Sexual harassment is it ok if I can talk to you? = Is patronising and won't get a lot of response expect the block button. Sorry like most guys on here you must look like Tom Hardy have tattoos be over 6ft a ripping six pack and not show your cock on site be local and match her tiny unique preferences and that "MAY" get you a hi back. Good luck | |||
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