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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else get absolutely sick of people messing them about?

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

It happens a lot on here too meny time wasters but allso some great people so do juge everyone the same

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be picking the wrong people. Be careful who you reply to and arrange meets. Never been stood up. Having said that I also don't meet we the drop of a hat so we've chatted a while before a meet as been arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of. "

So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it??

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Anyone else get absolutely sick of people messing them about? "

Yep, People suck.

Welcome to real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens to us all.

dont let it drive you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get one chance with me then I am on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm betting a lot of men think I mess them about, as I can't always decide if I want to meet them.

I don't want to dismiss them right away, in case I warm to them.

Sometimes my life gets so busy (at the drop of a hat) that I can't do what I said I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm betting a lot of men think I mess them about, as I can't always decide if I want to meet them.

I don't want to dismiss them right away, in case I warm to them.

Sometimes my life gets so busy (at the drop of a hat) that I can't do what I said I would.

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Same here!!

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of.

So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it?? "

Never been that ruthless. I'm thinking more of the ones who have for a long time said they want to meet, then on more than one occasion when we have agreed to meet they back out for one reason or another. This despite the fact they know our opportunities for meets are very limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way to many time wasters on this site and let downs just standard.

Some may have genuine reasons but just all to frequent

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of.

So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it?? "

Yes, last Saturday I was supposed to be meeting a couple I've met before but a few days before I got this bug that's been doing the rounds, felt awful. I was dreading telling them and for a couple of days hoped i'd pick up. However the day before we were due to meet I contacted them, turned out he had the same thing too.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Way to many time wasters on this site and let downs just standard.

Some may have genuine reasons but just all to frequent"

I find it hard to understand how many people get called into work last minute on a Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time wasters I can deal with ... It's just the selfish low life women that give me abuse and being body shamed for being stocky that are really getting to me at the moment. A real confidence knock and a half that was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way to many time wasters on this site and let downs just standard.

Some may have genuine reasons but just all to frequent

I find it hard to understand how many people get called into work last minute on a Saturday night"

It’s hard for married people to get out on the weekends.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The time wasters I can deal with ... It's just the selfish low life women that give me abuse and being body shamed for being stocky that are really getting to me at the moment. A real confidence knock and a half that was. "

Don’t let these women get you down.....

It’s their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I find it great to have very low expectations, and be pleasantly surprised when I find a good one.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Anyone else get absolutely sick of people messing them about? "

Absolutely. There's a never ending plethora of time wasters in Leeds and surrounding areas. As others have said it's now one strike and they're out. No accepting friend requests from anyone without private pics and if they just waffle on asking personal questions we just assume they're having a tug and block them (everyone hates a cliffhanger lol).

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