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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So. I started swinging about 3 years ago. I was timid and I'd say on a scale of 1 to 10 I was probably a two. It took me a few club visits to bite the bullet and play. I'd wear my underwear with a towel covering as I was self conscious. I'd only play in private rooms

As time wore on I went to organised socials, had private meets ventured into public rooms occasionally.

I've gone from a two to maybe a six going from underwear to chemises to wearing a full on see thru body stocking and each time I push myself it thrills me. I think that brings out my confidence more.

My fantasy is to take some of my toys and just start playing alone and see where it leads.

Of course as a bi fem, there are issues about safety, though I've met some friends and could probably arrange a look out

So you gorgeous lot.

Where were you on the scale. Where are you now and what fantasy will get you higher.

I'm down for my first house party next week. Nervous and excited all at once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I (lucy) am around a 4. Visited clubs but I always feel self conscious when dressing down. I tend to wear a chemise with stockings so I feel a little more covered up and not flashing too much of my wobbly bits. Hope to move a little higher up the confidence scale x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say I (lucy) am around a 4. Visited clubs but I always feel self conscious when dressing down. I tend to wear a chemise with stockings so I feel a little more covered up and not flashing too much of my wobbly bits. Hope to move a little higher up the confidence scale x "

I used to feel that way. But now I think don't like it, don't look. I'm like it on holiday too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

May I add. You're body is cracking. I'd be giving it a once over. Or twice over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I add. You're body is cracking. I'd be giving it a once over. Or twice over "

thank you....you'd be most welcome to give it a thrice over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh my days.

Get yourself to quest on couple night and I just will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like the evolution of your sexual self I haven’t been doing this for very long and always said I would never want husbands or bf watching me fuck their wives / girlfriends but that has already gone out the window I think it comes down to confidence and the more meets you have the more confident and open you become to other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a 7 lots more to do and more fun to be had.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my days.

Get yourself to quest on couple night and I just will "

I'll hold you to that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegged at zero. I don't think it's connected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A zero at start three years ago, had no idea what the clubs even where don’t even know what I had agreed to?! About and five now not even dipped my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving forward to a 5 had single meets... Now couples... Next step clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some interesting replies. I wonder what would be a ten. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some interesting replies. I wonder what would be a ten. X "
well done your for biting bullet first of all been to 2 clubs different experiences but both enjoyable first night at 2 orgies though so going be hard to top that

interested house parties but rather have met them first in person rather than a listed me as don't who may turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some interesting replies. I wonder what would be a ten. X "

If you’ve retired from swinging and done everything you wanted to we guess x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

im a 10 been swinginging all my adult life ansolutly nothing i havent done that ive wanted to do so now im in part time retirement

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