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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Please help any men been suffering to keep their cock hard need advice "

Just keep yr mind in the moment....you can't let it wonder...or a little blue pill..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

See your gp

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me "

Not allowing you to sleep, stuck at 60°?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me "

Well meaningless sex with random people may not be the answer . I always found it difficult to stay hard on meets , whether with strangers or friends in the scene , but never had a problem with my wife one on one .

We stopped meeting others in May and things have got even better between us , so perhaps a break and enjoying each other may rekindle it , with no pressure .

If you want to keep swinging , maybe take a back seat and enjoy the voyeuristic side of it so there’s no pressure on you for a while . One thing is certain , and that’s when you are feeling under pressure it’ll get worse .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me

Well meaningless sex with random people may not be the answer . I always found it difficult to stay hard on meets , whether with strangers or friends in the scene , but never had a problem with my wife one on one .

We stopped meeting others in May and things have got even better between us , so perhaps a break and enjoying each other may rekindle it , with no pressure .

If you want to keep swinging , maybe take a back seat and enjoy the voyeuristic side of it so there’s no pressure on you for a while . One thing is certain , and that’s when you are feeling under pressure it’ll get worse . "

This is very good advise indeed.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Take your time...thrill your partner with foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me

Well meaningless sex with random people may not be the answer . I always found it difficult to stay hard on meets , whether with strangers or friends in the scene , but never had a problem with my wife one on one .

We stopped meeting others in May and things have got even better between us , so perhaps a break and enjoying each other may rekindle it , with no pressure .

If you want to keep swinging , maybe take a back seat and enjoy the voyeuristic side of it so there’s no pressure on you for a while . One thing is certain , and that’s when you are feeling under pressure it’ll get worse .

This is very good advise indeed."

Second that. And see your GP.

You need a supportive missus as well. That's a big one. Talk to her honestly. Let her know it's not her fault (this effects you both).

Might be a stupid idea.... but why not have sex where your dick is not part of the equation at all. Therefore no pressure. Use a dildo for that bit.... and focus on her.

Anxiety where you are worrying/thinking about allsorts of things when you should be focusing on the job at hand could be the cause. It then adds to your anxiety and snowballs. Hard to break the cycle.

And remember it will affect most men at least one point in the lives.

Good luck bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See your gp"

A guy has that username on fab, are you referring to him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to see your GP and possible get a referral to Urology.

There are other medications and specialist support available.

It is important to take these steps as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tried pill works for a while then dead killing me

Well meaningless sex with random people may not be the answer . I always found it difficult to stay hard on meets , whether with strangers or friends in the scene , but never had a problem with my wife one on one .

We stopped meeting others in May and things have got even better between us , so perhaps a break and enjoying each other may rekindle it , with no pressure .

If you want to keep swinging , maybe take a back seat and enjoy the voyeuristic side of it so there’s no pressure on you for a while . One thing is certain , and that’s when you are feeling under pressure it’ll get worse . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice from everyone

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