FabSwingers.com forum: What is the definition of exceptional single male?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male....

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you have to ask its not you well thats what I was told when I queried it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look in the dictionary, it says see me.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket"

Charmed I'm sure!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Meets the very difficult and niche requirements of the profile holder.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Arnt we all a variation of a average??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that is actually single.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

For me it’s someone who engages your body and soul, also tall, dark and handsome and is magnetic in his personality and isn’t too bad at sheet tangling,,,

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
a single guy who actually is single ?

Maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy without an over inflated ego...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket

Charmed I'm sure!

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket"

What’s the view like from Mardy Bum Towers ?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."

It's a regular male who thinks putting the word "exceptional" on their profile will get them laid quicker and more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we all not "Exceptional"

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

George Clarke and his mate with the hat!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The decidedly average in search of the exceptional is a common appearance on fab!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me, on here, an exceptional guy (couple, woman) is one who reads my profile and engages politely and interestingly with it. Rare indeed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it’s someone who engages your body and soul, also tall, dark and handsome and is magnetic in his personality and isn’t too bad at sheet tangling,,,

Ah well 1/6 ain't so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on reading a lot of profiles on here, it neans you have to hit at least two of the following, though you really want four or more.

- Movie-star handsome

- Look like you spend four hours a day in the gym

- Cock like a rolling pin

- Black

- Bisexual

- Exactly the righr number, size and location of tattoos

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows.. I like people on the same wavelength... exceptionally funny or entertaining maybe.. not in reference to how they look.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Someone who can read a profile maybe? That tends to be pretty exceptional in my experience and not gender specific lol.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs! "

It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you).

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!

It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you). "

Isn’t that sort of ‘normal’ on here? Is it really that unusual? I’d have thought the majority would fit that fairly comfortably

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!

It's depressing that this is exceptional. It should be bog standard (but I completely agree with you).

Isn’t that sort of ‘normal’ on here? Is it really that unusual? I’d have thought the majority would fit that fairly comfortably "

Lol no. My updates page is full of people offering or seeking drugs, my inbox full of demands that I meet right this second and do stuff I'm in no way up for with strangers if at all. The number of profiles which say "I know what soap is" is high, and I've met a guy who's verified as "smells amazing" among other things who uses bar soap and bog standard spray on deodorant (that's not a problem, but if that's amazing I shudder to think!).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Oh, and some people won't meet people who haven't been drinking because they don't know how to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to ask its not you well thats what I was told when I queried it.

Oh god, sounds like you had a harsh reply. Lol

So did u get a meet? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who can read a profile maybe? That tends to be pretty exceptional in my experience and not gender specific lol. "

Ha ha! Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s about having the whole package....

-Confident but not cocky.

- Handsome but not completely vein

- respectful and not pushy.

Large cock and good body is always a bonus.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it they mean a person/people that ticks every box for them, what would be perfect to them in every way, obviously everyone’s idea of what this would be different though as we all like different."

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional single male would be one that has it all. Good looks, good physique, decent penis, intelligent and charismatic and confident.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"For me it’s someone who engages your body and soul, also tall, dark and handsome and is magnetic in his personality and isn’t too bad at sheet tangling,,,

Ah well 1/6 ain't so bad

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship? "

I understand this...

I’m just trying to understand if someone is making demands for the exceptional single male, they should expect him to be attached in some way....

It would be like me asking for a hot supermodel and expecting her to be a virgin.....

I’ll like to add there are no right or wrong answers... this thread is just for everyone’s opinions....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

There are some lovely guys on here.

The exceptional ones are the ones I want to meet again.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I see that I think they must be looking for a tall, gym honed guy with impeccable manners and a massive wang.

Good job I like average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs! "

All of those still cant get anyone to respond to messages lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It will mean something different for different people I would have thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats exacly it ..single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been lucky enough to meet a few, but they are rare

What makes them stand out?

Reliable

Respectful

Can perform.... Repeatedly

Can hold conversation

Unselfish sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd suggest one who prepares for a meet with a good shower and shave

one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers

one whos brushed his teeth cleaned and cut his nails , hands and feet and checked his ears lol

be on time polite and well mannered , buy a drink if in pub , ask the lady first , or take a bottle of her favourite wine .

Take condoms dont expect them to supply .

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

One persons exceptional is another persons average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to say myself but im afraid i must the girls have forced me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's someone they think is exceptional.

I've seen women say they only meet exceptional men, then looked at who they have met and thought, meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."

One who looks half as good as he thinks he does and strings more than 10 words into multiple sentences in an opening message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's someone they think is exceptional.

I've seen women say they only meet exceptional men, then looked at who they have met and thought, meh."

That's very interesting point you make there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

Because they like sex with multiple partners?

I don't believe in all that exceptional hoo ha any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

Because they like sex with multiple partners?

I don't believe in all that exceptional hoo ha any way. "

Yes I think your on to something.i need to pay attention to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male....

It's a regular male who thinks putting the word "exceptional" on their profile will get them laid quicker and more often."

Haha! Accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not me!

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hmm... gym fit and toned body, attractive face, perfect balance between length n girth in his cock, personality is down to earth, they are funny with good banter. They are amazing in bed, with great stamina to go all night and they understand and get the lifestyle. So yeah, pretty much everything lol xxx

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By *erncoupleCouple
over a year ago

newquay

For us, a connection is important and someone with a sense of humour.

Looks and body are important too.

Just coz someone has a massive dick, they need to know how to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers

Because a good fitting pair of denim jeans, a well fitting t shirt and some spotlessly clean trainers looks so terrible compared to a cheap shirt, some chinos and a pair of loafers bought from Primark?

It goes without saying that anyone with a clue would go to some effort to be clean and presentable if they are attending a club or a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one who wears smart trousers a shirt and polished shoes , not old jeans and trainers

It goes without saying that anyone with a clue would go to some effort to be clean and presentable if they are attending a club or a meet.

who mentioned cheap and primark...

ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who mentioned cheap and primark...

ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers"

Only an idiot or a foolish child would think that tracksuit bottoms or a hooded sweatshirt is acceptable attire for trying to impress or going out to a club.

Trainers have come a long way from the days of scruffy plimsolls in a gym bag...they are top end fashion and perfect for smart casual dress. I know that any one pair of my vast amount of box fresh trainers are a lot smarter than that pair of brogues that you have been keeping in the back of your wardrobe for the last fifteen months.

Keep your polished shoes and slacks for your next visit to the golf club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

who mentioned cheap and primark...

ive seen plenty of lads turn up in tracky bottoms and trainers

Only an idiot or a foolish child would think that tracksuit bottoms or a hooded sweatshirt is acceptable attire for trying to impress or going out to a club.

Keep your polished shoes and slacks for your next visit to the golf club."

I get what you’re saying but what is your opinion of what a exceptional single male is?

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs! "

Wow I'm exceptional then!!

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."

Think Mr Big from Sex and the City and you’re in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
exceptional well that’s me bolloxed

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"I have been lucky enough to meet a few, but they are rare

What makes them stand out?

Reliable

Respectful

Can perform.... Repeatedly

Can hold conversation

Unselfish sexually"

I'm here! Sorry thought you were describing me! lol my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere around 6 foot, low body fat, decent face, doesn't care about them much.

That's what i've gotten so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!

Wow I'm exceptional then!!

Exactly. Exceptional means not of the norm; not typical and unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prime example

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/morningstar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exceptional for us is: respectful, non pushy, clean, showered, shaven, laid back, sober and not on drugs!

Wow I'm exceptional then!!

Exactly. Exceptional means not of the norm; not typical and unusual.

Ironically the exceptional that a lot of women state they looking for are probably not that exceptional. Exceptional in terms of good but not in terms of unusual.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It would help if people described their example of a exceptional single male on their profiles...

Also why would a exceptional single male on a swinging site be single?

It’s not just couples or single females that say looking for exceptional, you can’t categorise like that, single guys put exceptional meets only on their profile but only they know what’s exceptional to them and some surprise me by what they consider to be exceptional but you just have to chance your arm or not bother, not worth stressing over that’s for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."

Exceptional single male = We don't meet single males, However, if you are the type of guy who who walks into a nightclub and has 95% of the women drooling over you we will waiver our no single guys rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional = exception to their own definition of what they normally would not go for but you convinced them otherwise.

Eski

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

It's just a way of saying the ultimate fantasy guy.. one lady on here says she is very very picky.

The text went on forever 're wants.. she could have been miss world and I just could not be bothered to wade through it to find the guy she seeks must have symmetrical tattoos on both arms or something just as insane.

Women on her no matter how unattractive can fuck the best looking guys. It's a way of life on here ... just seek the lady and there are some who seek Mr nice and average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some lovely guys on here.

The exceptional ones are the ones I want to meet again."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just a way of saying the ultimate fantasy guy.. one lady on here says she is very very picky.

Women on her no matter how unattractive can fuck the best looking guys. It's a way of life on here ... just seek the lady and there are some who seek Mr nice and average"

Maybe because I’m in NYC and it’s no women here... but I love reading long profiles.....

The things people have asked for is mind boggling....

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Yep and sad.. but this is not a dating site and plenty of very good looking guys are willing upload on even the most plain lady. One meet and they are happy... What it does to the ladies confidence in the vanilla world is something to think on.

I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope I don't find my idea of the exceptional male on here as I would want to keep him..... I'm having way too much fun for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep and sad.. but this is not a dating site and plenty of very good looking guys are willing upload on even the most plain lady. One meet and they are happy... What it does to the ladies confidence in the vanilla world is something to think on.

I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties "

I respect your honesty but this comment will not turn out well for you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many think the same guy would hit on them in a bar full of young beauties

I respect your honesty but this comment will not turn out well for you....

I don't think it will help him much in this woman's world where we are in the candy store and ONLY the best sweets will do.

Can you tell I'm on low carb ... I'm using sweets as an example...

Eski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to exceptional... To me it's someone who is attractive in my eyes, someone who is respectful of my relationship and speaks to trim to gain his consent before trying to lead me away to a room and doesn't try to get anything more than what's on offer, a play in the club at the time we are there.

Eski

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"The decidedly average in search of the exceptional is a common appearance on fab!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket"

I guess that most would, what with that being the definition of average...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of exceptional male being....ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Going back to exceptional... To me it's someone who is attractive in my eyes, someone who is respectful of my relationship and speaks to trim to gain his consent before trying to lead me away to a room and doesn't try to get anything more than what's on offer, a play in the club at the time we are there.

Eski"

If that’s all it takes.... I might have a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soryy..Definition of exceptional SINGLE male....it's still me.

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By *anguyXXXMan
over a year ago

torquay

"No idea but i doubt those who are looking would find him on here...

Most fall into the rather average bracket"

"Waves from the average corner"

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

From what I have seen and what other women/couples have told me:

* Gym fit (athletic build)

* Good looking (subjective of course)

* VWE

* Verified

* Confident (but not arrogant)

* Tall (6ft+)

* Dresses and smells good

* Good and unselfish performer when it comes down to business

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male...."
You bigboy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that is actually single. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to ask its not you well thats what I was told when I queried it.

You seem pretty exceptional to me, did they miss out on your company?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

in fab terms - probably one that can read profiles and understands what is written!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet straight single males, through my choice in case people think I'm a poor victim to the Monkey's non-existent insecurities, so my definition of an exceptional single male is, one I would be prepared to make an exception to that rule for...hope that helps

Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that arranges to pick you up in his private jet flys you to Dubai for dinner flys you home and never once try’s it on lol lol

Mrs comments not mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Martin Luther King was exceptional

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m starting to read only looking for exceptional single males on profiles of couples and women....

Before I throw my hat into the ring....

I would like everyone’s opinion on what is a exceptional single male.... You bigboy"

No way , you must be talking about yourself and Mr. White

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