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Gentlemen, what do you like about older women?

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By *rs Ravensong OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x

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By *exysurferMan
over a year ago

Bromley

For me personally I tend to find older women are a bit more experienced in knowing what they like and want to have done during sex.

I’ve heard others say there’s an element of taboo with it, such as “She’s old enough to be your mum / you’re young enough to be her son “ yet their fuc_ing each other.

I also had one lady sat to be at s cougar and cub night that I reminded her of one of her sons friends who she always had a soft spot.

Irrespective I love the older lady and have done from my early teens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just relaxed, like a laugh and enjoy friendship.

Works for me

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not afraid to tell you what they want ,that's the key , and op your a firm favourite to admire xx

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Not afraid to tell you what they want ,that's the key , and op your a firm favourite to admire xx"
^^well said lol

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By *hil LandererMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

Maybe it's just you look Great in your Pics and ofcourse they are loo_ing at the experience side of it.

Personally You have a great smile and look welcoming

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

Older women who?!!! You...Don’t think so.

What I like in slightly more. Mature women is the mature beauty that comes from the confidence they have and also seem to know what they want.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

They know how to make a good cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not their age or anything like that it's always been the fact that most know what they want. I find the convo and the build up better and turn the sex is better as a result. Others just like the fact they are older lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They know how to make a good cup of tea."

Lol and a nice sandwich

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich "

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then "

We have more in common!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Spending their pension money.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

The same thing that attracts me to younger women. Looks, personality, whether we click or not etc.

The only thing I find with more mature women is that sometimes they seem more open and confident with what they want sexually.

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By *oungnhung69Man
over a year ago

crewe

For me personally they are so much sexier than women my age.know what there doing in bed and great to b with and so much mature xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s exciting chasing an older woman.

More often than not they know what they want and how to get it. This might just be me but I get satisfaction from it

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

They make the bed when they've finished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are usually the same age as me, so what is there to not like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find that older women have way better sex as they don't shy away from positions and exposed insecurities which I think is great also it's a lot more passionate and steamy where as younger are shy, and mostly not the best at sex ...yet! I'm not saying I'm a God I just like being taught a few things thats all i like all ages as long as there legal ofcourse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life experience, wisdom, intelligence, many are mothers or grandmothers, many still look incredible, regardless of their age.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

Older women are dirtier than a dogs bum

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By *tuartlicksMan
over a year ago

reading

For me it’s the confidence that an older lady has. The way she carries herself the confidence in her body knowing what she like and how she likes it.

Op a lady like you is stunning and would love to meet you socially and see where it leads to come say hello to me when you get a moment

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

We have more in common! "

He has us laughing our socks off.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

We have more in common!

He has us laughing our socks off. "

It's not your socks I want off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich "

With me it would be a home made cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us older ladies are generally more relaxed and open and not afraid if trying new things ... plus we're not pushovers and think that's why younger men are attracted to us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

We have more in common!

He has us laughing our socks off.

It's not your socks I want off. "

I walked into that one ya devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both young and older have positive attributes,that's why I can't decide which to meet

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Both young and older have positive attributes,that's why I can't decide which to meet "

He who hesitates is lost.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

We have more in common!

He has us laughing our socks off.

It's not your socks I want off.

I walked into that one ya devil "

They're more widely wise and not as naive as younger ones or so I thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich

I was channelling Micky Flanagan then

We have more in common!

He has us laughing our socks off.

It's not your socks I want off.

I walked into that one ya devil

They're more widely wise and not as naive as younger ones or so I thought. "

You know I'm as innocent as the day is long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women generally know how to handle a cock

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Older women generally know how to handle a cock "

You're right in both senses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would be your good looks ,attractiveness , breasts and lovely nipples op

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Confidence and knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x

Older women are dirtier than a dogs bum "

Charming terminology. Hopefully i am not. Although i am fit and full of energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly could not put my finger on what exactly I don't even think it's anything a younger woman does not have. Just more of a different approach to certain things maybe, the whole experience vs naivety deal. Saying that I find very few younger women to be naive these days.

So yeah, who knows!?

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

For me _rs ravensong, it’s more to do with I find them more approachable at times or easier to have conversations with. Not to mention be it at swingers clubs or just everyday life a lot off older ladies tend to approach me more which tbh I like as pretty much all my partners be it play or date have been older....it’s not a necessity for me I’m happy to go with women around my age group I’ve just had more fond/good experiences then I have bad experiences with older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife asks the same question.

She says they don’t fancy her more but think they have more chance to get what they want......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x

Older women are dirtier than a dogs bum "

Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My wife asks the same question.

She says they don’t fancy her more but think they have more chance to get what they want......"

I'd agree with her in some cases. She's a wise woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They know how to make a good cup of tea."

I make a famously awesome cup of tea... I'm a crap shag tho

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I’m not sure if I still classify as younger anymore, but older women are far more confident, and adventurous, and just ooze sex appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their fannies, after all, a fanny closing up is the same as a fanny opening up

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By *ames WhyteMan
over a year ago

Near Manchester Airport

In the case of OP as well as generally it's because you look so awesomely shaggable.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's their fannies, after all, a fanny closing up is the same as a fanny opening up"

What age do you honestly think it closes up at? )))))))

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By *rs Ravensong OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

Some great insight, thank you folks...it's interesting to know what motivates people.

And thank you for the compliments, gents.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno we just temd to gravitate to each other only fucked 3 younger in my life

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By *ADBRUMMIEMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i think its the fact of you older women are more experienced and you might show us something new

and from past experiences it seems the more mature the more experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self-assuredness, confidence, the knowledge gained over years of experience and the ability to say 'no' when younger women would just give in or pretend to be happy with what's going on. And, for the most part, no need for constant chec_ing of their appearance and reaffirmation that nothing is out of place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They know how to make a good cup of tea.

Lol and a nice sandwich "

Surely a cuppa with chocolate hobnobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great insight, thank you folks...it's interesting to know what motivates people.

And thank you for the compliments, gents.

V x"

Its a good topic OP...like yourself i get lots of interest from young guys but have never understood why..they could go for someone nearer their own age that are wrinkle free with lovely firm bodies not ravaged by time or childbirth...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"The same thing that attracts me to younger women. Looks, personality, whether we click or not etc.

The only thing I find with more mature women is that sometimes they seem more open and confident with what they want sexually."

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

She knows exactly what the guy wants and let's him have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find an older women attractive. For me it has to be the cofidence they know what they want an they get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're loo_ing great, lovely boobs. x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"You're loo_ing great, lovely boobs. x"
Oh cheers mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

Not a lot. Although if I find a woam attractive her age is irrelevant but I certainly wouldn't say I'm attracted to older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

Interestingly, it never seems to work the other way round lol!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Self-assuredness, confidence, the knowledge gained over years of experience and the ability to say 'no' when younger women would just give in or pretend to be happy with what's going on. And, for the most part, no need for constant chec_ing of their appearance and reaffirmation that nothing is out of place "

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x

Older women are dirtier than a dogs bum "

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

Relaxing conversation relax naked knows what they like and happy to ask for it , any your not older yet

V x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love older women everything about them they know what they want and they arnt afraid to say how or what they like. They know life is to short and life is for living. Any older women feel free to message me for more in depth information xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their fannies, after all, a fanny closing up is the same as a fanny opening up

What age do you honestly think it closes up at? ))))))) "

Mine is very tight but still able to take 10 in lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"
I think you look cute young lady xx

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

V x"

When I was in my twenties I would only go out with 15+ years older women. Nothing to do with them being better in bed, it was an ego trip. I believe the same applies for most young men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bourbon biscuits, sweet teas, evenings watching Casualty, Stannah Stairlifts and Mediterranean cruises....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning folks,

I seem to have a fair bit of interest from men who are much younger than myself, some are very young which often surprises me. I'm curious to know, what is it that attracts younger men to older women?

When I was 22 I went out with a 40 year old woman amazing long legs knew what she was doing and gave great blow jobs she taught me a lot ! Personally as well at that age 30/40 year old women look more attractive in my opinion

V x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too get a lot if interest in younger guys, but I do have my filters set quite young lol. I was tal_ing to one of my friends the other week about this and I asked him why he likes older women. He said it's because we are not needy and know how to have fun and are more easy going and not loo_ing for a relationship.

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By *ingMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I love older women. I only met women older than me. They are more understanding. And more experienced. No need to pretend with them. For example, one told me to relax and not fuck so crazy because she wants to fuck me for her pleasure, not my pleasure. Lady and gentlemen my head exploded. It was the best sex of my life . I thought I got skills but she showed me her 30 years experience in marriage life sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older women I get on with them better and there more relaxed to try new things and also teach me a thing or two x

I'm young i know what i want and i have more experience then some women so age shouldn't matter x

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Confidence and knowledge. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how older women are more down to earth and kinder.

I also like how they always dress classy yet sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the face a mature woman can cook a good cake!

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Everything x

But if had to pinpoint a few of many things x

Confidence

Nothing to prove they know who they are and what they desire

Easier to talk to mature realistic and worldly aware

Nicer and more understanding

Real

And just so much sexier and seductive

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