FabSwingers.com forum: Playing hard to get.

By *ustparty OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackwater

We find playing hard to get is a real turn off. We just assume they are not interested and move on. Sometimes we find out at the end of the night that they were interested and the opportunity has been wasted.

Seriously, what is the point in playing hard to get in a swingers club if you are interested?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just couldnt make up their mind.

By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Maybe they are not playing hard to get, but just dont know how to let you know they are interested, or are feeling nervous, or lacking confidence, or think that just because you are chatting to them it doesnt mean you necessarily want to play with them....

Could be lots of reasons.

You often see threads on here from people who are kicking themselves the day after because they didnt have the confidence to say yes, for one reason or another

By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"We find playing hard to get is a real turn off. We just assume they are not interested and move on. Sometimes we find out at the end of the night that they were interested and the opportunity has been wasted.

Seriously, what is the point in playing hard to get in a swingers club if you are interested?"

sounds more like shyness to me

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with _ezebel and jemima-sounds more like shyness, lack of confidence/courage etc rather than game playing. .Make a bold move next time and see what happens!!!