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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Yeah can be pointless just winking back and become stalemate. It is a green light to make a move and message. | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() If I get a wink back then I message them. | |||
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"If we like the look of them we will send a reply rather than a wink. Having said that, the majority of winks we get from accounts that seem fake or don’t meet." Yes we get that to but the fakes are fairly easy to spot now ![]() | |||
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"I might wink back, but if they can't be bothered to message, why should I?! X" Thats why we wink back. In the past we’ve wrote a nice message as a reply to a wink and then never heard a thing back lol | |||
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"I might wink back, but if they can't be bothered to message, why should I?! X Thats why we wink back. In the past we’ve wrote a nice message as a reply to a wink and then never heard a thing back lol" I think if you don't delete the wink they cant wink back, having said that who would want to play wink ping pong anyway lol | |||
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"I might wink back, but if they can't be bothered to message, why should I?! X Thats why we wink back. In the past we’ve wrote a nice message as a reply to a wink and then never heard a thing back lol" Tried to wink you but wouldnt let me. X ![]() | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Very similar to us - the majority of those we wink back, we never hear from again. Well, part from the 73 times over the next week that they look at our profile! But that's probably only 10% of who winks us on the first place - the rest generally have no info or are 83,000 miles away... We do occasionally just message instead, but we need to have enough info to have made a decision to do so, and that's fairly rare. Even then, we often get a 3 word msg in response. Least winking back has meant we've only wasted 10 seconds of our lives I guess... (Reads back - we're not quite so cynical really! Just...resigned to that this isn't easy x) | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() If we send a wink and receive one back then yes, we do send a message. If they winked first and we like the look of them then we wink back. Mrs | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Pretty much exactly same experiences there ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Same here ![]() | |||
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"In my opinion, whoever sends the first wink should then send a message if the wink is returned. " Agree x | |||
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"If we like the look of them we will send a reply rather than a wink. Having said that, the majority of winks we get from accounts that seem fake or don’t meet." We send winks out to people but we’re definately not faking it - it’s just a gentle intro really - if we get a wink back we send a message. Likewise we will wink back at people and usually a message follows from them. That seems to be the protocol. | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Just winked at you Ha ! | |||
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"Having said that, the majority of winks we get from accounts that seem fake or don’t meet." More as a point of discussion than a serious suggestion - do you think people would take winks more seriously if they was a way to limit who could send them? Train of thought from the quote really. What if you had to have met in person 5 different people to be able to send a wink? It wouldn't completely get rid of timewasters, but a big chunk of them. And it would force people to their game on msging...? Discuss! ![]() | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() Recieved and returned with a message ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() That's how we've always played it, and if somebody winks us and we wink back we would expect them to make the next move. | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() If it’s a mutual wink I’ll initiate a message always unless they beat me to it x | |||
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"If you wink at somebody on here and they reply with a wink of their own do you send them a message? We rarely wink at people, but when people wink at us and we like their profile we return the wink. But then we often never hear from them ever again ![]() ![]() i like to think so... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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