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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() It’s a struggle | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() I'm the same as you bi wise. Never felt the need to 'come out' to anyone apart from being up front about it on here. Fox and I met in here so it was never 'news' that I had to break to a partner. I can see it being more difficult IRL of course. A | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() That's what i have thought, it would be easier to have a relationship on here, where your sexuality is up front and accepted. ![]() | |||
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"I'm divorced now (and before you ask... no, not because of my bi side! hahah) - but did discuss my desire too play with a cock with my wife. Mostly this was discussed during sex or when we were both horny - So she knew I was open to wanking and sucking a man - but it simply didnt do anything for her, so I didn't pursue it. A previous girlfriend LOVED the idea but we never got around to it. That's all changing now... ![]() Glad to hear and thanks for sharing | |||
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"If you're not looking to meet men while you're with your partner I don't see a need to say anything. " Yep agree with you ![]() | |||
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"been bi since i was 16 and never had an issue " That's good to hear, did it affect any relationships you have had and from your experience has being open about your sexuality helped? | |||
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"Like you op, I’m open to say that I’m probably orally bi-curios (never been in the situation to do anything about it). Told my wife and that’s it, I didn’t think I was coming out to her though, I just look at it as a thing I’m curious about. " Sucking or being sucked? | |||
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"Like you op, I’m open to say that I’m probably orally bi-curios (never been in the situation to do anything about it). Told my wife and that’s it, I didn’t think I was coming out to her though, I just look at it as a thing I’m curious about. " Good to hear it went well and was not something that freaked her out. Sounds like you have a great woman ?? | |||
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"My bisexuality is only known on here. I’ve been hinting at it for a while though without blurting it out in real life with those that I want to know when I feel the time is right." Openly bi on here. Straight in the vanilla world. ?? | |||
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"I only mention it when relevant. So on here it is but in real life less so. That said, it's not been an issue to anyone I've told... Yet... " Good to hear and i am much the same ![]() | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() Mrs got turned on a lot | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() I always tell my partners from the start. Both my husbands knew even though our relationships were vanilla. Id want to know if i was ever thinking about a serious relationship with a man. | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() I choose to remain happily closeted as I've no strong desire to wear it like a high visibility best. I don't feel as if my sexuality is anyone elses business. If I did choose to go public I suspect I'd start to feel very anxious about it. My ex took it upon herself to tell my best friend and his wife, many of the parents in my children's classes. The shame I used to feel going to pick them up, the unessercarry conversation I had to have with my still best friend and my parents reaction to my sister's teenage prank about my sexuality. Other people's reactions to my sexuality are all factors that have effected my decision to choose to remain closeted. If prejudice were less and people less cruel in their ignorance. I'd probably change my view, though I doubt it'd effect my happiness. I admire those with the courage to come out, though I don't feel as if I need to follow them down tgat path. | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() OK, remember, if you;re in a long term monogamous relationship and you come out as bi you need to accept that you;re also disclosing you have been, or might be, unfaithful. That' the deal breaker. If you haven't been, and won't be unfaithful, then you're potentially bi, and that's just a dinner party game of 'would you ever' - but if you're telling someone who thought you were monogamous that you like a bit of cock fun on the side, expect explosions, or at least think about the risk. | |||
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"Hi, I read a recent forum post about a guy coming out bi to his wife. Sounded like a vanilla relationship. I have been in long term monogamous vanilla relationships and kept my bi side secret, i am generally straight but orally bi in mmf situations, so not difficult to keep it secret. Just wondered what other fab users experiences have been about coming out ![]() This is very true and I'd urge all people never to cheat and to be more open with your partner if you are or suspect you maybe bisexual. You'd may be pleasantly surprised if you've not cheated. | |||
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