FabSwingers.com forum: Have you kept count?

By *ondongreg79 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Who keeps count of the notches on their bed post? Know exactly, rough idea, lost count ages ago, couldn’t d count that high if I tried...?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Not.

Clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No can't say I keep count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not.

Clue.

Feel free to add a couple more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 50 less than hundred. I hate the phrase " notches " though .

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

More than I would admit to my friends

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By *ondongreg79 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Ok “conquests”

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Lots

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve had sex with a lot of people! I’ve no idea how many quite frankly!

I doubt it will ‘matter ‘ until or unless I start to seek a ‘vanilla ‘ relationship - which is highly unlikely tbh! Anybody who cared about numbers rather than sexual health wouldn’t be right for me anyway!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We counted,

1, 2, some, lots.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I use to keep count a couple of years ago then i joined here and went to a fee clubs and parties and ummmm

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

My next will be my 50th...

....any volunteers?

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I know exactly. I keep count.

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By *umpassion69Couple
over a year ago

newark (not really) but thats not far

Hubby keeps count, he loves it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Who keeps count of the notches on their bed post? Know exactly, rough idea, lost count ages ago, couldn’t d count that high if I tried...?!"

My accountant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, can easily count mine but I'm fairly newish fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero, I thought his place was for fancy garden furniture

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I deliberately stopped counting so no idea.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

How many people I've slept with yes. How many dicks I've sucks. Fuck knows. And how many women I've been with yes.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I keep a diary in my secure folder,I know exactly who,when,where I've met people

(also written in there private notes on fab)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many people I've slept with yes. How many dicks I've sucks. Fuck knows. And how many women I've been with yes. "

Exactly this for me too

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t keep count, but almost every single male who messages me asks that question sooner or later...

“So, have you met many on here?”

“Have had much fun on here?”

“How many meets have you had?”

Beats me why they want to know. I certainly don’t keep count!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

In the eight years on here we’ve gone from being like kids in a sweet shop to OAP’s in a retirement home . And the amount ?

Absolutely no idea , but it’s a fair few

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

Not really. Except when doing greedy girls nights. I had a rough idea but if you take 22 years... take maybe 5 weeks off each year and say 5 each week.. erm it adds up.. And I know many weeks in my hey day it was way more than 5 a week...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not notches its bite marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it like counting sheep when I'm trying to sleep!

50 ish I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsure. Under 60? A lot more than I tell my friends anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant count ! Its 7 or 2 . Mmm A? Lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s easy to keep count because I very rarely meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than one, less than a hundred...!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon about 30 meets

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By *teveuk77Man
over a year ago

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped the counter when it broke a few years ago

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Who keeps count of the notches on their bed post? Know exactly, rough idea, lost count ages ago, couldn’t d count that high if I tried...?!"

If I have a threesome with a couple, but don't touch the other man, just the woman, does that count as one or two?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, wish I had have, saves time when trying to recollect and add up when your woman asks you 'how many women have you slept with'? If only I'd kept a book, would have had a instant latest score rather that an awkward 5 minutes of calculation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the exact number. And all their names

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

"I know the exact number. And all their names

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I am impressed... I am really bad with names. I once met someone and had sex 11 times before i found out his name. Buggered if I could remember now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know the exact number. And all their names

I am impressed... I am really bad with names. I once met someone and had sex 11 times before i found out his name. Buggered if I could remember now though "

That's when pet names come in handy!

It's not quite so juvenile as a spreadsheet, more a quick note on the back page of an old address book.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

harlow

Way lost count I’m pleased to say.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Enough to keep me content.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

"I know the exact number. And all their names

I am impressed... I am really bad with names. I once met someone and had sex 11 times before i found out his name. Buggered if I could remember now though

That's when pet names come in handy!

It's not quite so juvenile as a spreadsheet, more a quick note on the back page of an old address book. "
I'd need a bloody big address book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can still count who I have had encounters with. I have never really been one for 'pulling' on a night out. Been on swinging sites for a fair few years now. Its less than 20 in total.

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By *wing_Bi4FunCouple
over a year ago

Truro

I definitely know my number for both full sex and sexual encounters for both men and women plus all their first names even though I'm well into double figures including everything! My number of males and females is also pretty 50/50!

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By *yvanwy black wild childTV/TS
over a year ago

Northwich

"Who keeps count of the notches on their bed post? Know exactly, rough idea, lost count ages ago, couldn’t d count that high if I tried...?!"

Are you talking in one night or from when I started

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Husband thinks he knows how many meets I’ve had. Shhhh he doesn’t know the half of my meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue. Tbh, I’d rather not think about it

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not a clue, the other week I was looking through my old veris and I'm afraid to say there were quite a lot I'd evidently really enjoyed but sadly didn't remember. However when I contacted one couple who I had exchanged good verifications with they didn't remember me until i gave them the date. Hey though it's not really supposed to be about long loving relationships.

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By *umpassion69Couple
over a year ago

newark (not really) but thats not far

I love not giving my name and not knowing theirs ! Keeps it fun and filthy mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah 5999999999999999

ok i havent but answer this usually to see their faces

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I love not giving my name and not knowing theirs ! Keeps it fun and filthy mmmm "

I enjoy that excitement too and id it was good then i may ask a name.... Which is maybe a bit backwards lol

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Is it bad that I've lost count...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Ok “conquests”"

...even worse but in answer to the question...no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and does it mean fucking, oral, gangbangs, etc

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By *ondongreg79 OP Man
over a year ago

london

If you’ve lost count of how many gangbangs you’ve had you are doing well! I think it means full penetrative sex.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Having seen this thread I have tried a retrospective count as uve never kept a tally. It may take some working out...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I have, always felt like it was a good thing to know where I'm at, I'm not sure why.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

More than a hundred but less that five hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how many men but have lost count of the women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who keeps count of the notches on their bed post? Know exactly, rough idea, lost count ages ago, couldn’t d count that high if I tried...?!"
mines easy to count it's a futon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many to be honest. But my meets tend to be repeat meets and i dont meet often

. Though I'm on the hunt for a new regular

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Unfortunately our Abacus only goes as far as 9,999,999,999 so we stopped counting after that.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Not that many really. Wouldn't mind a few more.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Unfortunately our Abacus only goes as far as 9,999,999,999 so we stopped counting after that.

An Abacus? Gosh, how modern! I used rows of small rocks...

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"Having seen this thread I have tried a retrospective count as uve never kept a tally. It may take some working out...

On count back over 150

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I don't have bed posts anymore...Just a pile of sawdust.....and a big smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have bed posts anymore...Just a pile of sawdust.....and a big smile.

This comment wins ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough fingers n toes to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t keep count, but almost every single male who messages me asks that question sooner or later...

“So, have you met many on here?”

“Have had much fun on here?”

“How many meets have you had?”

Beats me why they want to know. I certainly don’t keep count! "

Haha they do always ask. They really want you to say "none. take me now big boy I'm gagging for it"

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

i was over a hundred and then we started swinging 24 years ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Nope, not a clue! I remember how many it was before I started, it got a bit hazy about 20 people later...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Hubby keeps count, he loves it

Does he have a spreadsheet?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I don't have bed posts anymore...Just a pile of sawdust.....and a big smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 40 from my workings out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nuh uh. If it were about quantity for me then maybe I just might have to take my socks off to do a serious bit of counting

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

I’ve had a lot of sex with some guys and some girls, a little sex with some guys and some girls; i don’t keep tabs on how many times I’ve had sex with one person, so keeping track of numbers of people seems daft as well. Just my view

Is it really any different having sex 500 times with 1 guy or 1 time with 500 guys!?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm over double figures, so I'm happy.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Roughly for me!

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

I know the girl i fucked on my 18th was my 20th different sexual partner, but thats 20 odd years ago so no clue now

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By *exysingle11Woman
over a year ago

Near Louth

I know the exact amount and their first names. At least i know what they said their first names were......

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By *ondongreg79 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Definitely the best

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

Im a virgin so easy to keep track of

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South

Wife lost count years before we met

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Im a virgin so easy to keep track of

Are you trying to win Brownie points?

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Im a virgin so easy to keep track of

Are you trying to win Brownie points?"

Dont be stupid....brownies is for girls.....boy scouts was my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12/13.

Think i've had sex around 20 times, maybe less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't count the notches op

Just count how many new headboards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm over double figures, so I'm happy."

We are talking in your lifetime wet?

Not any given year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have bed posts anymore...Just a pile of sawdust.....and a big smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that many to be honest. But my meets tend to be repeat meets and i dont meet often

. Though I'm on the hunt for a new regular

Ditto m

To the second part

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

I'd lost count before I started swinging! Not that there were so many that I lost count, I just couldn't be bothered to keep tally! Mrs x

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley

If I notched my bedpost for every person my bed would be a pile of sawdust by now xx

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By *orruptedWoman
over a year ago

Battersea, London

Stored in my memories, not on a score sheet

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Easy since starting swinging

2 including wife

Before that

32years 1 person my wife.

Starting to think I'm not really a swinger?

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