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"Lucky lady." Thank you I feel very lucky indeed he’s amazing. I’m sure he’d say the same though! That’s what’s great is we’re both on the same page. X | |||
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"Congrats this site actually workout well for you both " Hopefully still incredibly early days but we both have strong feelings. I’m just enjoying his company. It’s nice because we don’t just “fuck” it’s so much more. | |||
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"Def possible. I've met some absolutely stunning women over the years from here both with personalities and looks. Best of luck with it.. Sexual open couples are far more likely to be stronger than closed book couples. That's just my opinion anyway " I took him to a female friends for a threesome and totally freaked out when I saw him with her yet I’ve been part of 3somes before but usually as the third party. We’ve discussed sharing it’s not something we are keen on at all. The only thing we’d be ok with is me with a woman and him watching but not touching her and that was his idea. We’re open with eachother about how we feel which is refreshing and saves any awkwardness. X | |||
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"Happy for you, op. Good luck. " Thank you!!! Hehe xx | |||
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"Wedding photographer her I’ll shoot the wedding???????????" Hahaha far to early for that!!!! We’re not even official... yet. | |||
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"There are loads of forum members who have met and fallen in love and it’s said that only 1% of Fab members use the forums. " Urban myths..... A | |||
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"I think there's absolutely the possibility to find love on fabs. " Wouldn’t say love just yet but we’re very smitten | |||
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"Im so completely and utterly jel xx good luck " I really hope you find your happiness. It’s not easy. There’s a lot of pricks out there!! I’m just glad I replied to his message now x | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " I wish you happiness and success 3 | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. I wish you happiness and success 3" Thank you that’s lovely of you. Probably be heartbroken in a few weeks and back on but we will see | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married. | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married. " Amazing congrats. I don’t think we will end up as swingers though we both don’t wanna share what we have haha x | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " We met through swinging, both in the scene as singlies. We are now happily married | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. We met through swinging, both in the scene as singlies. We are now happily married " Awwh I’m loving all these happy endings so cute. | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married. Amazing congrats. I don’t think we will end up as swingers though we both don’t wanna share what we have haha x " Thanks, Personally I think that's a shame, but as long as you're both happy that's the most important! | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. I wish you happiness and success 3 Thank you that’s lovely of you. Probably be heartbroken in a few weeks and back on but we will see" That made me chuckle, there's the postive spirit Hope it all does work out. Xx | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " Firstly, congratulations and I sincerely hope it works out for you both... Secondly, I believe that if “it” is meant to happen it will happen however you meet. In person? On Fab? At work? The biscuit aisle in Waitrose? Someone I met on here ages ago asked me if I’d have a relationship with a Fabber, I said I’d have a relationship with anyone who made me feel like it was worth trying regardless of where we met. They were horrified. Seriously! If I’m good enough to fuck, I should be good enough to date, really. Just because it’s Fab doesn’t mean we are less deserving yet they couldn’t comprehend that. Yeah... I get all the loons | |||
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x " Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x | |||
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x" Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you | |||
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you " That’s so true we both said we were thrown a curve ball when we met | |||
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you That’s so true we both said we were thrown a curve ball when we met " we denied it for ages lol | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " Have had 2 LTR from here. It's as good a place as any. Good luck to you | |||
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here. there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ." could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air.." That’s how I feel | |||
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"Totally understand where you are coming from. We met 4 plus years ago and we deeply love each other so while sex is fabulous, there is Also other fealings that adds to our overall pleasure. " I just love being with him. He makes me so happy and laugh like mad. X | |||
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"Oh, the dream! If only that would happen " Awwh it’ll happen when you least expect it. He was only ever gonna be a quick shag and now we’re hooked on eachother | |||
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"Well done OP. This is exactly what I'm looking for too. Good luck to you both. Xxx" Awwh thank you. He’s rather yummy. We will see where it goes. I’m counting the sleeps til I see him again! Haha. Oooh you’re local ish.... fancy a friendly chat? X | |||
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey. What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple? How do you make it work? How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship? " A. Take some time away from the site/meeting and enjoy what you have. Truly explore and enjoy each other and what you have. B. Talk. A fuck lot. Whenever. Ask questions. Answer honestly. Try and show respect and understanding to each other. C. Try and put each other first. If one is wobbling about something, address that. Stop if necessary. Have a lot of sex. Remember that this is a small part of an additional thing to our relationship, not the main thing. | |||
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey. What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple? How do you make it work? How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship? A. Take some time away from the site/meeting and enjoy what you have. Truly explore and enjoy each other and what you have. B. Talk. A fuck lot. Whenever. Ask questions. Answer honestly. Try and show respect and understanding to each other. C. Try and put each other first. If one is wobbling about something, address that. Stop if necessary. Have a lot of sex. Remember that this is a small part of an additional thing to our relationship, not the main thing." Absolutely amazing advice thank you. I know for now we are no way near ready to share yet we are still getting to know eachother intimately. I don’t want to share him but if the time comes I know that we will talk. We always do. We had an awkward 3 some encounter a while ago and after we sat in the car and chatted and had a bit of a debrief about it. It’s so refreshing to meet a man who’s not afraid to talk and express his feelings. I think that’s key for any swinging couple is to communicate. X | |||
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"If anyone’s interested he said he loved me for the first time tonight. I am so happy I could burst!!! " | |||
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"If anyone’s interested he said he loved me for the first time tonight. I am so happy I could burst!!! " Aw thats lovely xx | |||
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"Good luck to you both and happened to me around a year ago but did fizzle our eventually but fun while it lasted and was not looking for it either." It is wonderful x | |||
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! " This guy has a fb when we met but said he wasn’t into her and now he’s deleted fab for me so I must’ve made a quite an impression. He said he would like to take me out too so that means not just for sex. Can’t wait to see him again Thursday. It will have been 6 days and let’s see if absence does make the heart grow fonder. | |||
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"We both met on here over4 years ago and both not looking for love. Even with age gap, we fell in love,been engaged for four years and been living together since then. Love will find you no matter where you are,although it might not knock on your door if youre just hiding under the bed " Haha I wouldn’t have met him if I hadn’t said yes to a d*unken lift home. Thank god I did. X | |||
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"Hubby and i met via another swinging site. Neither looking for love but it just happened We moved in together, got married 5 years ago. Life is bliss. We do swing still but didnt all the time. Talk to each other xx" Thank you!! Hehe xx | |||
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"Dating sites are soul destroying, people are even harder to please than on here! " I’ve never bothered. Always found them to Be fickle x | |||
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here. there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ." could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air.. That’s how I feel" ^^^ thats me ...and yes we met on here ....(best day ever was our one year anniversary)...and yes i am totally head over heels in love with my man xx and its just getting better and better xx | |||
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here. there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ." could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air.. That’s how I feel ^^^ thats me ...and yes we met on here ....(best day ever was our one year anniversary)...and yes i am totally head over heels in love with my man xx and its just getting better and better xx " Awwhhhh this makes me all happy x | |||
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"Apologies if you have already answered, not read all the thread but how come you haven't deleted but your man has? " I wondered that | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. " Congrats. I joined primarily to find the ONE! Not to end my swinging days but to enrich it. My search continues x | |||
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey. What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple? How do you make it work? How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship? " communication and trust is key | |||
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! " they are right you will not find it here, but it will find you :-0 x | |||
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! they are right you will not find it here, but it will find you :-0 x" So true! He found me. I replied to his message and here we are potentially planning our future together. | |||
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"Congrats! I'll continue to say it, anywhere and everywhere that there is interaction with other people has the potential for you to find a sebody to have that higher connection with. Often from the most surprising of places. " Pretty much what I said above the other day... “Firstly, congratulations and I sincerely hope it works out for you both... Secondly, I believe that if “it” is meant to happen it will happen however you meet. In person? On Fab? At work? The biscuit aisle in Waitrose?” | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe. Met my fella off fab.. We know each others likes dislikes.. We do happy couple relationship stuff but we also go to clubs together and swing.. Talking is the key. Finally found a knight who likes swinging n kink. " | |||
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"Thought I had until I realised she was just with because I drive a Peugeot Pussy wagon C" | |||
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"I met my partner on here as she came to one of my swinger's parties, neither of us looking for a relationship at the time. We have happily been living together the past three years, still swing together too. Love for life. " this | |||
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! " Being told the same. I’m going to be in Uk for 6 months and I don’t know. I’m sorry but dating sites are for ppl that don’t want to share. I want to find a woman to fall in love with and build the trust. The way my mind works you love one person. But sex is sex and it’s like going for a meal, you can go for a meal with the person you love but your there to eat. Sex is the same to me, go to the club with your partner to have sex but you can also have sex with someone else it’s just sex. Love is with that special person. Maybe I’m just weirdly wierd. | |||
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"Well two weeks since we last met up and he’s gone ghost on me. Not replying my messages and cut of all contact. Knew this would happen. He said he loved me what a douche. I’m upset. I let him close. Oh well. " Sorry to hear that hun. Please don’t give up on the idea. As I’m hoping for the same as you. Hopefully will find it | |||
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"Just seen your status OP, are you OK? X" Really down to be honest this thing with this guy was the icing on the cake to a properly awful week. Had some dreadful news about a close family member this week and been up to hospital with another. So life’s sucking a bit right now. Could do with him for some hugs but been ghosted. | |||
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"Just seen your status OP, are you OK? X Really down to be honest this thing with this guy was the icing on the cake to a properly awful week. Had some dreadful news about a close family member this week and been up to hospital with another. So life’s sucking a bit right now. Could do with him for some hugs but been ghosted. " If he knows you need him and he’s still not there, that tells you everything. You deserve better chick | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab? " Yes | |||
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?" It's a lot harder when you go UNLOS. | |||
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