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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is "Do people tell you that is their reason for not being interested? Cal | |||
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Do people tell you that is their reason for not being interested?
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc" it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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yes on more than one occasion "That's very sad. It certainly isn't something that would concern us. Unfortunately on here you just need to accept that lots of people will not be interested, their reasons are irrelevant and you won't change their minds. For Anita, it would be the messy cock-pics that would put her off. Maybe try a club, there you'll be able to show your capability. Cal | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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That's very sad. It certainly isn't something that would concern us. Unfortunately on here you just need to accept that lots of people will not be interested, their reasons are irrelevant and you won't change their minds.
For Anita, it would be the messy cock-pics that would put her off.
Maybe try a club, there you'll be able to show your capability.
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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That's very sad. It certainly isn't something that would concern us. Unfortunately on here you just need to accept that lots of people will not be interested, their reasons are irrelevant and you won't change their minds.
For Anita, it would be the messy cock-pics that would put her off.
Maybe try a club, there you'll be able to show your capability.
Cal I'll keep it in mind an thank you for your reply x"Stay positive, it makes a world of difference. Cal | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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That's very sad. It certainly isn't something that would concern us. Unfortunately on here you just need to accept that lots of people will not be interested, their reasons are irrelevant and you won't change their minds.
For Anita, it would be the messy cock-pics that would put her off.
Maybe try a club, there you'll be able to show your capability.
Cal I'll keep it in mind an thank you for your reply x
Stay positive, it makes a world of difference.
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"You are lucky that you have a great club near you - Quest which is fully wheelchair accessible. " I've been wanting to go for a while but I'm a little nervous tbh x | |||
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"The owners wife uses a wheelchair. All the staff are really welcoming and friendly. I have seen other wheelchair users vising the club. " I look into it a little deeper, it could be just what I'm looking for x | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X" OP whether it's a preference or a prejudice there is nothing you can do about it. Sex isn't an equal opportunities activity where someone has to fuck anyone who asks just to be fair to everyone. Have you considered putting more detail about your disability on your profile? What may put many people off is not knowing what you are able to do and they may feel uncomfortable asking. I don't know what level of impairment you have but I've seen something like this on other profiles: "my legs don't work too well so some positions may not be possible but everything else is in working order". | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X OP whether it's a preference or a prejudice there is nothing you can do about it. Sex isn't an equal opportunities activity where someone has to fuck anyone who asks just to be fair to everyone. Have you considered putting more detail about your disability on your profile? What may put many people off is not knowing what you are able to do and they may feel uncomfortable asking. I don't know what level of impairment you have but I've seen something like this on other profiles: "my legs don't work too well so some positions may not be possible but everything else is in working order". " Great advice | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X" There may also be other reasons that they wouldn't meet you / others - height, age, build, interests, cock size, interests, looks, sexual orientation, etc, etc. We've been turned downfor some of these and have equally turned down others. It might be that being a wheelchair user is the most obvious issue to them and they don't get beyond that in considering the others. Bear in mind it's a numbers game on here for single guys. Couples and single females get to choose and will have a natural tendency to go for the easy option when there are do many options available to them. If they perceive meeting a wheelchair user will require a bit more effort/ adjustment, it might not be their preferred choice. If you were a female wheelchair user, you would probably have had loads of meets in which case, its your gender that's making the difference, not being a wheelchair user. Whether its preference or prejudice, it doesn't matter - they don't want to meet you and if I was you I would be taking the view that if that is there attitude, I wouldn't want to meet them anyway - maybe see it as useful filter! | |||
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" Have you considered putting more detail about your disability on your profile? What may put many people off is not knowing what you are able to do and they may feel uncomfortable asking. I don't know what level of impairment you have but I've seen something like this on other profiles: "my legs don't work too well so some positions may not be possible but everything else is in working order". " That's excellent advice ... Maybe tell us more about your oral skills etc. That always get my attention ha! XX | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X" When people treat you differently and more poorly because of it. Not because they won't give you their bodies for sex. Can you imagine if the PC police made t illegal to say no to a minority individual, quite ridiculous. So would you rather they lied to you? Most clubs I've been to where wheelchair access is practical, and that is quite a few, quite often get wheelchair attendees who are trwted exactly the same as other guests and invariably have a great time. I think as a single guy it would be an advantage, genuinely. | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X OP whether it's a preference or a prejudice there is nothing you can do about it. Sex isn't an equal opportunities activity where someone has to fuck anyone who asks just to be fair to everyone. Have you considered putting more detail about your disability on your profile? What may put many people off is not knowing what you are able to do and they may feel uncomfortable asking. I don't know what level of impairment you have but I've seen something like this on other profiles: "my legs don't work too well so some positions may not be possible but everything else is in working order". "  Very good advice. I found I had to do this on my profile rather than explain it in every reply. I do use a chair, but luckily quite rarely and only when the pain is a bit much. I can otherwise cavort around quite happily on one of my selection of spare feet  | |||
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"Yes it would put us off, as we like to meet at our home, which is not wheelchair friendly, You would have problems getting out of your car and actually getting to the door. what would put us off are your cock pics and that your BiCur. " What a ridiculous statement | |||
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"Yes it would put us off, as we like to meet at our home, which is not wheelchair friendly, You would have problems getting out of your car and actually getting to the door. what would put us off are your cock pics and that your BiCur. What a ridiculous statement" I'm used to it now buddy  | |||
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"Yes it would put us off, as we like to meet at our home, which is not wheelchair friendly, You would have problems getting out of your car and actually getting to the door. what would put us off are your cock pics and that your BiCur. What a ridiculous statement I'm used to it now buddy "Keep soldiering on pal. It's difficult enough on here at the best of times, must be doubly difficult if you're partially wheelchair bound. Don't let narrow minded people put you off. | |||
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"Yes it would put us off, as we like to meet at our home, which is not wheelchair friendly, You would have problems getting out of your car and actually getting to the door. what would put us off are your cock pics and that your BiCur. What a ridiculous statement I'm used to it now buddy
Keep soldiering on pal. It's difficult enough on here at the best of times, must be doubly difficult if you're partially wheelchair bound. Don't let narrow minded people put you off."I do pal I carry on with my head held high......or as high as I possibly can! Hahahahaha.....ha  | |||
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"As a fellow wheelchair user (paralysed chest down) and been on here for a bit now I’d say that as a single male your trying to find a needle in a big haystack although chuck the chair into the mix and all of a sudden it’s a needle in 100 haystacks. First thing I always get is, how will you fuck me and can you get it hard ? I can but there are more things available than my dick. Hands tongue and toys but for some reason the ladies on this site don’t appreciate toys it would seem. I’d even say that my ex always said that she was having better orgasms than her friends but like most things they will never know until they try. I know I’ll get shot with everyone has their taste but someone’s not ugly just because they are sitting down, and what does it matter when your laid down getting fucked having a good time. Anyway it’s not all doom I did meet 1 person from here even if we didn’t click it restored my faith that there is a chance even if very little. Keep it up "I get the same issues tbh but I'm happy in my own skin an don't let it bother me. It's the one that say it's not an issue that's the ones I wanna meet anyways. Thanks for the advice buddy. | |||
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"While we all have personal preferences, prejudices are something different however. People should take you as they find you for who you are as a person and not pre-judge you for being in a chair, or similarly for someone else who was blind or deaf or similar. I can understand that some folks could be nervous or uncertain but it really is not fair to pre-judge you or anyone else. I think the best people are the ones you would want to meet and those people would not be put off by a wheel chair or anything similar and see you for you. Have faith - and believe in yourself! Personally I have never been intimate with anyone in a wheelchair - but it would not put me off if I if did meet a girl/lady in a wheelchair. TBH it would be a privilege. Best of luck! " thanks buddy I do keep the faith an it's good to know not everyone is the same on here | |||
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"Would never put us off or even be part of the decision making process. If ever things are awkward or just have to be different that's what makes you, you now. We met a gorgeous lady in a wheelchair a few years ago. The chair was academic to us but the person wasn't. Alas she turned us down, lol" thanks guys, another positive post. It means a lot xx I'm guessing she must have been mad as well as wheelchair bound? Haha! Xx | |||
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It has been good for me to see other opinions as I get very anxious about meeting these days because my walking is so bad. I don’t expect it will be too long before a wheelchair will be needed. Anyway, I hope you keep having fun
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"I hope it settles your mind reading this OP
It has been good for me to see other opinions as I get very anxious about meeting these days because my walking is so bad. I don’t expect it will be too long before a wheelchair will be needed. Anyway, I hope you keep having fun
A x"I am having fun thank you x an my mind has been well an truly been put at rest. Sorry to hear about your issue's, a wheelchair is not the end of the world. If you need any advice feel free to give me a shout xx | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is "I find that rationality on Fab is very haphazard indeed. I get ignored/turned down a lot on here, just one of many on Fab that do. It's very difficult to stand out when all they do is judge you by a profile and a pic. Their loss.. I'm quite a catch tbh.  | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is "Welcome to the real world. Some would say preferences. Others would say prejudices. I've been to two clubs and wheelchair access for one was a bit awkward to say the least, mostly due to the out the way non visible location of the building and the secluded location. | |||
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"You're a good looking guy, wheelchair shouldn't be an issue" Thanks buddy I was starting to think it might not be the chair and I was just butt fuck ugly hahaha!! | |||
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"I hope it settles your mind reading this OP
It has been good for me to see other opinions as I get very anxious about meeting these days because my walking is so bad. I don’t expect it will be too long before a wheelchair will be needed. Anyway, I hope you keep having fun
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"I'm a full time wheelchair user (paralysed from the chest down) and wouldn't meet another wheelchair user. I've been blocked when someone learnt I used a chair. People are allowed to have preferences. Which they can't help. Just like I can't help that my preference is not to meet chair users." | |||
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"Due to a motorbike accident some years ago we both spent some time in wheelchairs, it's amazing how differently you get treated and not in a good way, everyone should try a spell in one, (if you need to or not) just to increase tolerance of others. "That's actually a good idea, especially the people who maintain our pavements. Potholes in roads are an issue for some people but it's the pavements that I struggle with lol | |||
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"You’re a very good looking bloke. A wheelchair wouldn’t put me off... but there would be one condition.... That you take me drifting in it
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"I dated a guy in a chair for a while and an ex dominant I had was a wheelchair user as he had MS. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. You can find ways to adapt! Was exciting trying different positions to encompass the chair or me being on top controlling thing during sex. I wouldn’t judge a person based on their disability. I guess I’m just open minded being that I’m a nurse.. provided the cock works I’m still game haha " my partner has ms and we went to a club just to use there swing and she loves it I feel there could be a gap in the market for disabled friendly nights at clubs | |||
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"I dated a guy in a chair for a while and an ex dominant I had was a wheelchair user as he had MS. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. You can find ways to adapt! Was exciting trying different positions to encompass the chair or me being on top controlling thing during sex. I wouldn’t judge a person based on their disability. I guess I’m just open minded being that I’m a nurse.. provided the cock works I’m still game haha my partner has ms and we went to a club just to use there swing and she loves it I feel there could be a gap in the market for disabled friendly nights at clubs " sounds like a plan. Hope someone gets one going near me | |||
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"I'm a full time wheelchair user (paralysed from the chest down) and wouldn't meet another wheelchair user. I've been blocked when someone learnt I used a chair. People are allowed to have preferences. Which they can't help. Just like I can't help that my preference is not to meet chair users." Hey babe I'm interested in you but you're age gap is too high for me lower it if interested x | |||
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"Mate if they wernt willing to meet.you.because of that they wernt worth meeting anyway. I am.deaf have people.not.wabting to.meet.just because I find he phone hard work to use. J.suggest a social.meet.im public but most won't.. So if they can't make an allowance to.hell with em" yeah I know your right and it doesn't get me down. It's hard for most single blokes on here. Going to try clubs I think, see how that pans out | |||
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"I'm a full time wheelchair user (paralysed from the chest down) and wouldn't meet another wheelchair user. I've been blocked when someone learnt I used a chair. People are allowed to have preferences. Which they can't help. Just like I can't help that my preference is not to meet chair users." actually think I messaged you a while ago looking for advice x | |||
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"I hope it settles your mind reading this OP
It has been good for me to see other opinions as I get very anxious about meeting these days because my walking is so bad. I don’t expect it will be too long before a wheelchair will be needed. Anyway, I hope you keep having fun
A x I am having fun thank you x an my mind has been well an truly been put at rest.
Sorry to hear about your issue's, a wheelchair is not the end of the world. If you need any advice feel free to give me a shout xx"I’d definitely meet you as you look gorgeous and come across as a lovely bloke. I’d take you to a club, such a shame your so far away | |||
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"I hope it settles your mind reading this OP
It has been good for me to see other opinions as I get very anxious about meeting these days because my walking is so bad. I don’t expect it will be too long before a wheelchair will be needed. Anyway, I hope you keep having fun
A x I am having fun thank you x an my mind has been well an truly been put at rest.
Sorry to hear about your issue's, a wheelchair is not the end of the world. If you need any advice feel free to give me a shout xx
I’d definitely meet you as you look gorgeous and come across as a lovely bloke. I’d take you to a club, such a shame your so far away "I'm packing up my home as we speak and moving down your way xxx | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is "Isn't just that personal preference? I am chubby no getting away from it but its not prejudicial young fit hunks not wanting to play with me because I am the way I am. | |||
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"Shame you’re far away from us "looks like I'm going to be travelling a lot this year x | |||
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"You're a good looking guy, wheelchair shouldn't be an issue Would agree with this!" Thank you xxx | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is
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That's awful OP. A few years ago I had a fwb that had to use a wheelchair..she was just as much human as the rest of humanity and she was just as good in bed as anyone else "I've found out these people are in the minority. Thanks guys | |||
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"weve had some great fun with a guy in a Wheelchair. xxx "want some more?? Haha xx | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X" Your question is exactly why I donut immediately disclose that I'm a wheeler. I know my abilities & limitations & that should only be a concern once I click with someone and discuss meeting. I don't lie about it, I'm open when the conversation calls for it, but I prefer to keep that you myself at least until I have had a few bank and forth exchanges with someone. It's a lot harder for someone too be a bigoted ass when they've clicked with you on another level. That said, don't stress about those whom flake on you, they're not worth your time. I know the questions get old..."can you still have sex", "Do things work" ex but if you have a self deprecating sense of humour, you'll find people tend you respond better. -Michelle Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X Your question is exactly why I donut immediately disclose that I'm a wheeler. I know my abilities & limitations & that should only be a concern once I click with someone and discuss meeting. I don't lie about it, I'm open when the conversation calls for it, but I prefer to keep that you myself at least until I have had a few bank and forth exchanges with someone. It's a lot harder for someone too be a bigoted ass when they've clicked with you on another level. That said, don't stress about those whom flake on you, they're not worth your time. I know the questions get old..."can you still have sex", "Do things work" ex but if you have a self deprecating sense of humour, you'll find people tend you respond better. -Michelle Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003" T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x | |||
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X Your question is exactly why I donut immediately disclose that I'm a wheeler. I know my abilities & limitations & that should only be a concern once I click with someone and discuss meeting. I don't lie about it, I'm open when the conversation calls for it, but I prefer to keep that you myself at least until I have had a few bank and forth exchanges with someone. It's a lot harder for someone too be a bigoted ass when they've clicked with you on another level. That said, don't stress about those whom flake on you, they're not worth your time. I know the questions get old..."can you still have sex", "Do things work" ex but if you have a self deprecating sense of humour, you'll find people tend you respond better. -Michelle Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x " Too bad you are so far away...
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"Try not to take it personally. We all have preferences - some rational, some not! If we were looking to meet single males, in principle, it wouldn't make any difference as long as the play opportunities were not too limited or restricted. We probably would want to have an open and honest chat in advance to have an idea of what the expectations were, any particular considerations to be taken into account, etc it's difficult not to take it personally when it's the only reason they won't meet. I get it's not everyone an I wouldn't tar everyone with that brush. When does preference become prejudice?? X Your question is exactly why I donut immediately disclose that I'm a wheeler. I know my abilities & limitations & that should only be a concern once I click with someone and discuss meeting. I don't lie about it, I'm open when the conversation calls for it, but I prefer to keep that you myself at least until I have had a few bank and forth exchanges with someone. It's a lot harder for someone too be a bigoted ass when they've clicked with you on another level. That said, don't stress about those whom flake on you, they're not worth your time. I know the questions get old..."can you still have sex", "Do things work" ex but if you have a self deprecating sense of humour, you'll find people tend you respond better. -Michelle Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x Too bad you are so far away...
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" Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x Too bad you are so far away...
it is haha! I bet you could teach me some things x"LOL guess you'll have to come to the states... | |||
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" Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x Too bad you are so far away...
it is haha! I bet you could teach me some things x
LOL guess you'll have to come to the states..."packing my bags as we speak x | |||
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" Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x Too bad you are so far away...
it is haha! I bet you could teach me some things x
LOL guess you'll have to come to the states...packing my bags as we speak x"Yeah!!! PM me you're flight info... lol | |||
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" Ps- I'm L1 from a fight with gravity in 2003 T10 with the same lost fight against gravity x Too bad you are so far away...
it is haha! I bet you could teach me some things x
LOL guess you'll have to come to the states...packing my bags as we speak x
Yeah!!! PM me you're flight info... lol"haha I wish x | |||
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"What about in a wheelchair with a storma play for year does this stop us" x | |||
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"Feeling a lot of disabled prejudice on here lately, couples an single females deciding if you can perform for themselves an turning me down just for the fact I'm in a wheelchair and "it's not practical" As if it's not hard enough for us single blokes on here as it is "If you're ever coming to Peterborough then let us know! We like the pics
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