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What people think about hotel meet

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

As we have been invited to join one party

Is it safe

Any suggestions please

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

It is, its a public building so there will be people milling about

Just don't make too much noise in the room

Have fun

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s safe but I booked a room in the same Hotel to get changed in and so I’d have a place for safety if things got nasty.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

It's what we do, no problems yet but, would say we do choose our meets carefully.

We tend to meet established people on the scene with a solid verification trail and are clearly used to hotel meets.

There's an element of danger to all meets, afterall you're meeting strangers, eliminating that aspect is impossible but reducing that via your selection process will certainly help.

Good luck

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By *erkshireBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading

As above.

Hotel meets are great.

All on neutral territory, also if you feel its not for you, then it's easy to make a quick exit.

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

A meet behind a Lidl is safe as a hotel, it’s all down to meet-ers

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"A meet behind a Lidl is safe as a hotel, it’s all down to meet-ers"

Waitrose please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet behind a Lidl is safe as a hotel, it’s all down to meet-ers"

yeah when you’re 18 and on your way back from down town

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ?? "

What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a hotel meet

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

We frequently do hotel meets and they are all safe. There's a big difference though between Premier Inn and 4/5-star joints. PM us for recommendations

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Nearly all my meets are hotel meets. Easy, safe and no need to do the laundry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always enjoy hotel meets if your a bit shy try airport hotels. I use daytime hotels

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

What happened? "

Apparently two single guys were sharing the hotel cost and inviting two couple so they can join in when we tried to talk to other couple it’s just gone silent lol

I am not sure how to warn people as meet is still up for other people to get conned any one want to know PM us

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

What happened?

Apparently two single guys were sharing the hotel cost and inviting two couple so they can join in when we tried to talk to other couple it’s just gone silent lol

I am not sure how to warn people as meet is still up for other people to get conned any one want to know PM us "

So the guys are paying for the hotel? What is your concern? Insist on communication first. Check veris and if not comfortable don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet behind a Lidl is safe as a hotel, it’s all down to meet-ers

Waitrose please "

Oh far classier darling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The walk of shame afterwards as you exit past reception lol, trying to look innocent xx

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

What happened?

Apparently two single guys were sharing the hotel cost and inviting two couple so they can join in when we tried to talk to other couple it’s just gone silent lol

I am not sure how to warn people as meet is still up for other people to get conned any one want to know PM us

So the guys are paying for the hotel? What is your concern? Insist on communication first. Check veris and if not comfortable don't go."

I can pay for the hotel by my self

Concern. Is we don’t want to meet single men

They have veri as couple but now the girl disappears

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By *erkshireBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

What happened?

Apparently two single guys were sharing the hotel cost and inviting two couple so they can join in when we tried to talk to other couple it’s just gone silent lol

I am not sure how to warn people as meet is still up for other people to get conned any one want to know PM us

So the guys are paying for the hotel? What is your concern? Insist on communication first. Check veris and if not comfortable don't go.

I can pay for the hotel by my self

Concern. Is we don’t want to meet single men

They have veri as couple but now the girl disappears"

If it's not for you then walk away and move on.

Its part and parcel of the scene. Not saying its right but it helps you make your mind up quick.

One bit of advice.

Once you doubt a message.

Think about it, wait a day or two to reply.

Trust your instincts.

X

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"And as we expected it was single guy Lol ??

What happened?

Apparently two single guys were sharing the hotel cost and inviting two couple so they can join in when we tried to talk to other couple it’s just gone silent lol

I am not sure how to warn people as meet is still up for other people to get conned any one want to know PM us

So the guys are paying for the hotel? What is your concern? Insist on communication first. Check veris and if not comfortable don't go.

I can pay for the hotel by my self

Concern. Is we don’t want to meet single men

They have veri as couple but now the girl disappears

If it's not for you then walk away and move on.

Its part and parcel of the scene. Not saying its right but it helps you make your mind up quick.

One bit of advice.

Once you doubt a message.

Think about it, wait a day or two to reply.

Trust your instincts.

X

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I much prefer hotel meets. I wouldn't consider going to anyones house unless I had met them a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer hotel meets!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Yes hotel room and bar to relax before hand , london I think 22 Feb any good choices that can be booked for 3 days not the warldolf lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to call it the walk of shame & be very embarrased, but now we call it the walk of smugness! We're sure all the staff know what we do, and we don't care!

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Hotels meets are great for the first time meet. A neutral, safe place and can add a bit of naughtiness to a meet.....

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'd like a hotel meet one day as I've ever done that... it just seems so naughty

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

london

By far safer than inviting them to my house or going to theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We insist on hotel meets. Always safe and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we have been invited to join one party

Is it safe

Any suggestions please "

How would you know, until afterwards. If you don’t feel safe, don’t go. *just my pennies worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds amazing to me!

It’s on my ‘to do list’

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Of course it's safe if you're meeting another couple. Surely people arrange to meet in the bar first to chat. After all, they may not look like their photos in their profile. You will either feel comfortable to go upstairs with them or you won't. Common sense.

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

I’m a regular visitor to Manchester and stay in local hotels. I’ve been very fortunate to meet a couple at my hotel the last two weekends.

A couple of drinks in the bar before we moved upstairs to the room. It was great fun!!

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By *oxerinboxersMan
over a year ago

mk

I’ve met a lovely couple a few times now in a hotel I think it’s safer than most places to meet they text me once I’m in the hotel their room number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had many hotel meets before we moved up north

Best advise is don’t book one where you have to walk past reception to the lift

This is for your benefit as most hotels are so busy they don’t know who is staying or who is coming in for a quick shag

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We tend to meet at a pub for a social and then decide if we are up for anything. Typically we would then meet at a club and lastly after building confidence we would do a hotel meet. We like hotel meets as you aren’t keeping your eye on a clock knowing that closing time is coming like in a club.

If you talk with the hotel about really not wanting to be disturbed, they will many times leave an empty room between you and the next customer.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I've done hotel meets .I've never had any problems

Far Better and safer than the back of any lidl or waitrose for that matter

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