FabSwingers.com forum: One night fucks v friends with benefits?

By *irtueAndVice OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have just been discussing the pros and cons of these 2 options. We have both swayed towards FWBs but would be interested to know other's views?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I much prefer regular meets as things get better as you learn what works and what doesn't! And I'm kind of hoping to find a FWB this year as I'd like to share some experiences with someone I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Has to be regular meets, simply because you can build a good friendship as well as build on great sex

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I much prefer regular meets as things get better as you learn what works and what doesn't! And I'm kind of hoping to find a FWB this year as I'd like to share some experiences with someone I like. "

Completely agree with above statement and I also find that on an initial meet, there a little bit of nerves etc so as time progresses and more meets are had, who can learn what the other FWB finds a turn on instead of wham bam thank you mam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fortunate enough to meet a chap whom I now consider and FWB, I wasn’t looking for it to be honest as I was previously on the side of “I want to meet lots of new people” camp. However I have found that regular meets with my new friend has/is a lot of fun and so would like to keep it this way.

Hubby has always liked the more long term side so he loves it when he has an FWB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here. Has to be regular meets, simply because you can build a good friendship as well as build on great sex "

same here

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

P.S. in my innonce when I was a lot younger, I always thought a friend with benefits was someone who claimed Jobseeker’s Allowance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much prefer fwb but I wouldn't dismiss one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB without doubt. Much prefer a connection and knowing exactly what each other enjoys.

With that said there is always a draw and attraction to that intense sexual lust that can catch you off guard. It is usually quite rare though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"P.S. in my innonce when I was a lot younger, I always thought a friend with benefits was someone who claimed Jobseeker’s Allowance "

Technically it is still correct, and that's the best kind of correct to be!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally, I can't do one night stands, I'm too old for that now, plus they usually involved beer goggles.

However, it's not like I have had any luck of late, so seems most men are just looking for a fuck and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I much prefer regular meets as things get better as you learn what works and what doesn't! And I'm kind of hoping to find a FWB this year as I'd like to share some experiences with someone I like. "

Totally agree.. not arsed about 1 offs i want to learn what works for that lady find her buttons

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