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Why do you like Crossdressers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm very new to all this, both casual sex websites and Dressing as a woman. Normally I just rely on my confidence to talk to women face to face, or go to a gay sauna if I'm feeling the other side pull a bit stronger.

What I wasn't prepared for, is the interest I'm getting. Personally I don't think I'm that convincing, as I'm quite muscular and broad shouldered (something I hide in my photos I think). I've only used make up once and don't always want to put it on, but this deters very few people from wanting to know more about me. I'm really rather flattered and nearly every message has been polite, complimentary and has filled me with confidence (men included).

Now call me naive, inexperienced or plain stupid, but would you mind explaining to me what you like about men who crossdress? Is it our open mind? Our kinky side? Our confidence to do as we please? How we look? That there's a chance we may be a little more considerate when messaging? Our potential flexibility? Our adventurousness?

Like I said, I'm new to dressing and I'm just trying to get a feel for why people may find me attractive or desirable when I put women's clothes on?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No idea what the attraction is. I just take people as I find them and have a few TV/TS/TG friends. You could find a club that does TV admirer days or nights. Some even help with make up.

Do whatever makes you happy and comfortable. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No idea what the attraction is. I just take people as I find them and have a few TV/TS/TG friends. You could find a club that does TV admirer days or nights. Some even help with make up.

Do whatever makes you happy and comfortable. x"

There's one I know of, I've got bucket loads of confidence, I'm not sure I'm ready for that yet Would take a lot of courage to mingle in a crowd. Need to be more comfortable with things first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh I dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"eh I dont "

Then there was no need to answer was there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eh I dont

Then there was no need to answer was there? "

why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I was asking those who do. I've no problem with you answering.. just questioning the point if you're not interested in crossdressers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I was asking those who do. I've no problem with you answering.. just questioning the point if you're not interested in crossdressers?"

horrid things,,did,nt realise anyone liked them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I was asking those who do. I've no problem with you answering.. just questioning the point if you're not interested in crossdressers?

horrid things,,did,nt realise anyone liked them "

I know right!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I was asking those who do. I've no problem with you answering.. just questioning the point if you're not interested in crossdressers?

horrid things,,did,nt realise anyone liked them

I know right!? "

my advice is lay down some "traps" or call pest control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love you all xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love you all xxxx"

quite frankly they give me the willies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a crossdresser (which I'm not) I'd call myself Holly Wood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was a crossdresser (which I'm not) I'd call myself Holly Wood."

oh I thought you'd be sluttysusan69

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love you all xxxx

quite frankly they give me the willies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love you all xxxx

quite frankly they give me the willies "
like to give you mine

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

It's each to their own see do some don't. Some dress then act like a diva or some dress and are scared to go out. We're a mixed bag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's each to their own see do some don't. Some dress then act like a diva or some dress and are scared to go out. We're a mixed bag"

oh I get that, I was just wondering why each individual feels drawn..

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