FabSwingers.com forum: How soon do you get down to sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious what the norm is regarding meets, the majority of my meets are spur of the moment invites where I’ve gone along and had a quick drink before we ended up stairs. I’ve had meets where I’ve literally not walked through the door before having my jeans pulled down and had my cock in a mouth, it frustrates me when asked to meet for a social first as I’m not used to it. What are your thoughts/experiences?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

" I’ve had meets where I’ve literally not walked through the door before having my jeans pulled down and had my cock in a mouth, it frustrates me when asked to meet for a social first as I’m not used to it. What are your thoughts/experiences?"

You're a liar no man would be frustrated by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a liar no man would be frustrated by that.

I think he means he's frustrated that some people want a social meet before agreeing to let him put his penis in their person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You think right! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies, communicate with the person you're meeting

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I thinks its all when u both are comfortable there is no need to rush i little sexual tension adds to it x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You're a liar no man would be frustrated by that.

I think he means he's frustrated that some people want a social meet before agreeing to let him put his penis in their person.

P"
Ah right, typical man then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much we want eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who,when and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who,when and where"

Notes taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing pics Kel, if only you lived closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious what the norm is regarding meets, the majority of my meets are spur of the moment invites where I’ve gone along and had a quick drink before we ended up stairs. I’ve had meets where I’ve literally not walked through the door before having my jeans pulled down and had my cock in a mouth, it frustrates me when asked to meet for a social first as I’m not used to it. What are your thoughts/experiences?"

I can see that

Why bother with dull coffee drinking?

Im not even really interested in their names tbh.

Any cock'll do. You cant be picky at my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is usually at least one social for me first. Then depends on the person. Someone I see regularly it's literally seconds before we are on each other but that's because that's the stage we are at with each other. For me it's not something instant. Also it usually takes a couple of socials before I actually want someone to stick their Penis in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what floats your boat.. I'll only ever do socials first. Straight to sex does nothing for me if my minds not engaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing pics Kel, if only you lived closer "
if she lived closer what let us all know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when the attraction is very strong, I like to take my time and enjoy the experience. I always like a social first, I've come across too many people who aren't what they profess to be, to let someone I don't trust enjoy my body.

I guess it all comes down to what you want, and what you enjoy - there's a myriad of ways to enjoy what sites like Fab have to offer, but personally, if you weren't interested in exploring who I am as a person, you wouldn't get the opportunity to get me naked and explore all the pleasures my body has to give you.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anticipation is a huge turn on when I first met my fb we couldn’t check into the room straight away so had two hours to kill in the bar We were gagging for it by the time we got to the room x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

As 99.9 % of my precious meets have been at clubs.. And I've rarely even known names... then not long... But for anything more intimate it can take me a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends what I am looking for at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing pics Kel, if only you lived closer if she lived closer what let us all know

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haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done it both ways. 30 seconds through the door and upstairs or had an hour long chat beforehand ...never had a complaint either way.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Personally I prefer the sexual tension and anticipation. The journey is as important as the destination. Some things shouldn’t be rushed.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just let me in, bend me over on the stairs and give it to me!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shame I’m too young to message you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a no sex social and Probaly never will....

I’m not shaving my balls or leaving my house if sex is not on the table....

I have no problem meeting for a drink in public or chatting until someone is comfortable....

But sitting in Starbucks flirting over coffee is not a sexual fantasy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see that

Why bother with dull coffee drinking?

Im not even really interested in their names tbh.

Any cock'll do. You cant be picky at my age"

Why can't I find more women like you, near me

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I can see that

Why bother with dull coffee drinking?

Im not even really interested in their names tbh.

Any cock'll do. You cant be picky at my age"

LMAO, dry very dry..... & I agree

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I have never had a no sex social and Probaly never will....

I’m not shaving my balls or leaving my house if sex is not on the table....

I have no problem meeting for a drink in public or chatting until someone is comfortable....

But sitting in Starbucks flirting over coffee is not a sexual fantasy...."

That’s exactly how we saw it .

We never had a social unless it was gonna be a sex meet if we all clicked . A social only meet was never on the cards for us .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think ten minutes was my quickest

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I prefer social first then next meet is play meet, I state as much in my profile as I know it's not for everybody. I don't get much free time so I choose to do it this way to hopefully out those who aren't what the profile says they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a liar no man would be frustrated by that.

You really should read a post properly before commenting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never usually do socials, very quick drink maybe then get to the fun part!

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

It's because you're James Bond!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You think right! Lol"

I can see your point, how tiresome to waste time finding out if there's mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to get a quick hello and get the front door shut before getting down to it eh.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

It's normally with in seconds I walk in fuck the chatting and straight to the fucking

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's normally with in seconds I walk in fuck the chatting and straight to the fucking

Yep , watching you and my wife taking on multiple cocks has been one of the highlights of our swinging experience

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