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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I've noticed that a lot of women (maybe men also?) join this site and are full of talk blah blah blah then swiftly (after a few days) delete their profile. What gives? I mean, do they decide it's not for them or get cold feet or is it just some sort of game they play? I guess each case is different but I'd be interested to know of any theory(ies) anyone has.

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cold Feet"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They sign up after a night on the lash, delete when they've sobered up.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"They sign up after a night on the lash, delete when they've sobered up."

pretty much my _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people join under a different name cos it is very easy to do so give it out loud insult people on site then delete profile 'user no longer ... then come back on under normal name it happens quite a bit when one of three have an extra drink or five lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback ladies.

Another theory is that some of them join and flirt with men, say they want to meet up (when actually they have no intention of doing so), then delete their account after a few days or so. I think it's known in the business as prick-teasing. Also, some of them may simply be fantasists.

Professor Mark

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Thanks for your feedback ladies.

Another theory is that some of them join and flirt with men, say they want to meet up (when actually they have no intention of doing so), then delete their account after a few days or so. I think it's known in the business as prick-teasing. Also, some of them may simply be fantasists.

Professor Mark

"

no...they're men

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Thanks for your feedback ladies.

Another theory is that some of them join and flirt with men, say they want to meet up (when actually they have no intention of doing so), then delete their account after a few days or so. I think it's known in the business as prick-teasing. Also, some of them may simply be fantasists.

Professor Mark

"
we find it mostly with guys only some couples

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They join, and because they havent arranged and had a meet in the first 3 hours have a rant and rave that everyone is a timewaster then delete their profile in a huff.

Seriously, could be a number of reasons.

They could join out of curiosity, have a look around realize its not for them.

Come on with a lot of bravado then if they make contact with someone are scared shitless.

Fantazists

Come on to mischief make

Refer to the first one i mentioned.

Guess you would only get a proper reply if you tracked down all "users no longer on site" and asked them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 12/01/12 06:55:52]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They join and they receive a deluge of mail from the people who monitor the 'new females' icon akin to the the people who Q all night for the Harrods sale... once someone appears close enough to them, THE DOOR OPENS and the swoop begins.

The lady panics and leaves.

Or gets her ego stroked, deletes, rejoins and enjoys another deluge and on and on and on.

Or the man posing as the female bangs one out and deletes.

and a million other reasons.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"They join and they receive a deluge of mail from the people who monitor the 'new females' icon akin to the the people who Q all night for the Harrods sale... once someone appears close enough to them, THE DOOR OPENS and the swoop begins.

The lady panics and leaves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who Cares??

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

private investigators on the prowl maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A myriad of reasons and including all previously mentioned. Delete button clicked on deflation of hard on, men pretending to be women, etc etc.

The ones that make me laugh are the regular deleters and reappearers. Usually they have posted something in the forum, expecting affirmation and receiving the opposite, comments get nastier and bitchier. They then start a new thread picking up on someones comment on the first thread, trying to take the piss, or another forum member will start the new thread, trying to take the piss and the original poster will start up with the comments on there again, people will get banned, delete profiles, keep looking anonymously on forum, open new profile and start gunning for the people that first disagreed with them - circle of fabswingers life in a way.

Not that I'm a cynical person of course

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"They join and they receive a deluge of mail from the people who monitor the 'new females' icon akin to the the people who Q all night for the Harrods sale... once someone appears close enough to them, THE DOOR OPENS and the swoop begins.

The lady panics and leaves.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some really mean it to start with, they get a bit of chat or message back, wank themselves silly at the thought of a meet, but then are either too empty or scared to actually meet , so delete their profile rather than face anyone they've been chatting with ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have actually turned up for three meets and after a no show go back on line to find No longer on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They join and they receive a deluge of mail from the people who monitor the 'new females' icon akin to the the people who Q all night for the Harrods sale... once someone appears close enough to them, THE DOOR OPENS and the swoop begins.

The lady panics and leaves.

Or gets her ego stroked, deletes, rejoins and enjoys another deluge and on and on and on.

Or the man posing as the female bangs one out and deletes.

"

Hahaha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prob they think it's a good idea to join then later on think "best delete account before my spouse finds what I've been up to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who knows..hang on I'll ask 'em..oh! they've gone.

still makes a change from the usual 'this profile says that' threads

these ones don't actually exist

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Who Cares?? "

+1.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"They join and they receive a deluge of mail from the people who monitor the 'new females' icon akin to the the people who Q all night for the Harrods sale... once someone appears close enough to them, THE DOOR OPENS and the swoop begins.

The lady panics and leaves.

Or gets her ego stroked, deletes, rejoins and enjoys another deluge and on and on and on.

Or the man posing as the female bangs one out and deletes.

and a million other reasons.

"

I quite fancy a number two on this list........

Watch out for CrannyGrumpet

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't underestimate how many fakes there are out there I have a site which will search images against the entire internet and if it gets matches (from other sites) it will list them, I have been using this to report all the fakes that look at us to the admins and fairplay the admins here are pretty good and they get deleted very quickly.

But yeah turn on your message on for "only verified users" it will cut down on these fakers big time, not all of them. How hard is it in this day and age to get photo verified ? not very if anyone has been on the site for longer than a week with loads of self pictures and isnt verified they are probably a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey _lackcherry would love yo know what.the name of the site you usr to.check the pictures as well.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

not allowed to link it as the site strips it out automatically ;(

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By *oger meMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I have wandered this too. I have also noticed the ones that do this pop up with a new profile with the same pics the next day or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some users use tineye reverse search and google images to check pictures out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey _lackcherry would love yo know what.the name of the site you usr to.check the pictures as well."

TinEye ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, tineye. There was a forum post in the lounge about it a while back, was so funny .... profiles were disappearing faster than snowballs in the sahara!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

yeah its TinEye

its brilliant and nets me at least 1-2 profile reports a day, even better are the ones that keep coming back with the same fake pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

found the post, read this xxx

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/46635

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the real reason is that us hard working researchers at Sydney Uni invent them to counteract all the warnings on other profiles.

It's the only way we can gather special info for our theses.

We delete them to get back at those who are having fun & actually meeting other people...

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Actually the real reason is that us hard working researchers at Sydney Uni invent them to counteract all the warnings on other profiles.

It's the only way we can gather special info for our theses.

We delete them to get back at those who are having fun & actually meeting other people..."

would hazard a guess that lawyers are NOT beating a path to your door lol

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

it is also sometimes someone who has been reported and had account closed as we had a spanish man contact us recently re some illegal act that was reported he was soon removed from sight. But there are a lot of people on here who claim to be new to the site yet they messaged my single profile 4 weeks previously and are now messaging joint one with same message lol upon being told you already messaged us 4 weeks ago they leave site within an hour

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