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"50 is the start the older you are the more you like it we do we fuck and do more things now than ever" It isn't happening down in Banbury though ???? wish you were closer, I'm hornier than I was in my 20s lol | |||
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"it will get out and meet people , go to clubs and that" It always seems the ladies go for the fully toned six pack younger m3n | |||
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"I’ve been swinging since my 30s and I have to say I’m 50 now and it definatley becomes more limited but not impossible " Hi I'm finding the same have been swi nging on and off for 20 years it's just younger models are sending us oldies to the swinging scrap heap !! | |||
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"Look for people who are looking for you. I see profiles every so often where they'll only accept up to a certain dress size and aren't going to go near us fatties. If they message me (it's happened) I wouldn't respond, and I wouldn't message them. Same with age, really. It's a hard slog for everyone here in some ways. " That's so sizest of them, I just want to be given the chance of a couple to meet me possibly for a social then if they don't like no problem, I would sent a face photo too so I'm genuine, but they just pass me by, will just have to keep trying !!!! | |||
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"I think people over simplify things. Age is just one of a number of factors that make people attracted to one another. 50 isn’t too old (for me at least). However, I find that some people over 50 seem to take less care over the way they present themselves. Or the way some people communicate is a bit off. So sometimes that’s the issue rather than age. On the flip side there are people in that age group that are stunners, full of wit, amazing photos and I feel are waaaay out of my league. It’s the whole package that matters. Not age." Oh sure. I meet guys (potentially people) over 50. But I won't meet just anyone over (or under) 50. They have to tick my boxes. | |||
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"it will get out and meet people , go to clubs and that It always seems the ladies go for the fully toned six pack younger m3n " Nothing standing in your way from achieving the same fitness and toned body. It's a mental attitude, have a positive one. | |||
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"it will get out and meet people , go to clubs and that It always seems the ladies go for the fully toned six pack younger m3n Nothing standing in your way from achieving the same fitness and toned body. It's a mental attitude, have a positive one." And not everyone is looking for gym fit. | |||
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"I think people over simplify things. Age is just one of a number of factors that make people attracted to one another. 50 isn’t too old (for me at least). However, I find that some people over 50 seem to take less care over the way they present themselves. Or the way some people communicate is a bit off. So sometimes that’s the issue rather than age. On the flip side there are people in that age group that are stunners, full of wit, amazing photos and I feel are waaaay out of my league. It’s the whole package that matters. Not age." Well said. A lot of those that complain of being left on the fab scrap heap have dreadful profiles with very poor pics on them, and expect to be able to meet younger women to boot, as they might find on a dating site. On fab the situation is reversed, because of the excess of men, most women are meeting men younger than themselves. I'm specifically looking for over 50's though. | |||
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"Look for people who are looking for you. I see profiles every so often where they'll only accept up to a certain dress size and aren't going to go near us fatties. If they message me (it's happened) I wouldn't respond, and I wouldn't message them. Same with age, really. It's a hard slog for everyone here in some ways. That's so sizest of them, I just want to be given the chance of a couple to meet me possibly for a social then if they don't like no problem, I would sent a face photo too so I'm genuine, but they just pass me by, will just have to keep trying !!!!" No, it's their preference. I don't want a pity fuck from someone who thinks I'm hideous. | |||
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"it will get out and meet people , go to clubs and that It always seems the ladies go for the fully toned six pack younger m3n Nothing standing in your way from achieving the same fitness and toned body. It's a mental attitude, have a positive one." I am fit athletic, with a good body I think !?? | |||
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"OP Banbury is full of idiots that think the world is flat and if you live in one of the surrounding villages instead of in the town then they start thinking you must be posh I know these things as I lived there for over 25 years. As for the age thing everyone has different opinions and preferences try looking at it a little differently. I don't believe you are ever too old for things you want to do so keep your chin up like the saying goes the best things come to those who wait Lol it seems that way here, I used to live in Watford and it was different there, there are some nice people in Banbury though, just haven't found any swingers yet ?! C" | |||
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"it will get out and meet people , go to clubs and that It always seems the ladies go for the fully toned six pack younger m3n " My veris suggest otherwise. | |||
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"I will let you know about 50 in a few months time. Meanwhile, get yourself to a social or club to meet people and get verified. Bleating on about not getting a meet after 2 weeks on Fabs isn’t cool. Iron your shirt and see what happens. Just my opinion. " I've been on and off here for 10 years, and tried other sites, it just seems to get harder (pardon the pun) as you get older, and I wear a suit hence why the shirt doesn't look ironed I tend to tuck it in my trouser and not leave it hanging out points taken on board though thanks xx | |||
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"OP Banbury definitely has swingers as spoken to a few on here which is odd as I've not lived near there for a long time" Just no one seems I interested and I remember when Fabs first opened it pages it was fab on here but I was 12 years younger then lol | |||
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"OP I have seen men and women on fab who are in their 70's and 80's who are meeting people. 50 definitely isn't too old. Yes, you will be too old for some people but there are plenty of others who like to meet older folks. I would hazard a guess that you are looking at profiles of people quite a bit younger than you are and are a bit miffed that they choose to meet those in their own age group!" I think you may be partly right but speaking to another person on here who used to live in Banbury they said to a great degree it's the people, maybe I need to extend my search are, I tend to go for more mature couples and ladies anyway as our sense of humour and life style are similar although I would look at younger swingers too | |||
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"OP I have seen men and women on fab who are in their 70's and 80's who are meeting people. 50 definitely isn't too old. Yes, you will be too old for some people but there are plenty of others who like to meet older folks. I would hazard a guess that you are looking at profiles of people quite a bit younger than you are and are a bit miffed that they choose to meet those in their own age group! I think you may be partly right but speaking to another person on here who used to live in Banbury they said to a great degree it's the people, maybe I need to extend my search are, I tend to go for more mature couples and ladies anyway as our sense of humour and life style are similar although I would look at younger swingers too" If you're limiting your search to Banbury, as you seem to be, you're immediately reducing your chances - you have several major cities within easy reach in all directions - perhaps widen your search to include them | |||
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"I think it's different for women. I'd hope that if I were still looking for meets that being 50 next month wouldn't put a stop to who I'd be interested in." I think you are right Lola by the way you look amazing, it seems as there are so many men on here couples and ladies can be very very choosey which is fine and understandable, but I wish they would perhaps sometime keep a slightly more open mind about over 50s we haven't quite reached the grumpy old man stage yet | |||
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"Loving the feedback was starting to worry this site was turning into young and fit only. " The oldies are still up for a good time and hopefully are more understanding too x | |||
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"Look for people who are looking for you. I see profiles every so often where they'll only accept up to a certain dress size and aren't going to go near us fatties. If they message me (it's happened) I wouldn't respond, and I wouldn't message them. Same with age, really. It's a hard slog for everyone here in some ways. " | |||
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"Good manners, good grooming, non pushy attitude appeals to some ladies who are or looking for a ....Dare use the word...GENTLEMAN" | |||
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"Loving the feedback was starting to worry this site was turning into young and fit only. The oldies are still up for a good time and hopefully are more understanding too x" Whilst there are some people who will meet single guys over fifty, it's obvious that their chances will decline the older they get. | |||
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"I think it's different for women. I'd hope that if I were still looking for meets that being 50 next month wouldn't put a stop to who I'd be interested in." Can’t believe you’ve moved to the North West, unless of course it’s a fake location | |||
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"Both here over 60, we seem to do ok, just need to leave the zimmer at home and be careful with the dodgy knees and hope the false teeth and wigs do not drop off mid shag." It is easier for couples and single women over 50. Not so for single men. The problem is : lots of single women and couples set their age filters to 45 or 50 max. That being the case, single men over 50 are blocked from sending a message or wink to such people. So not matter what you do , age can be a limiting factor once you go past 50 for single men. At that age you are excluded from many peoples updates and feeds, so if they can’t see you, then they can’t contact you either. | |||
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"We run a night for over 40s called Mature Mischief at Liberty Elite on the first Wednesday of the month. However there is a waiting list for single guys as we get inundated with requests to come along." Ooooo sounds fun ... any space for single ladies? | |||
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"I think people over simplify things. Age is just one of a number of factors that make people attracted to one another. 50 isn’t too old (for me at least). However, I find that some people over 50 seem to take less care over the way they present themselves. Or the way some people communicate is a bit off. So sometimes that’s the issue rather than age. On the flip side there are people in that age group that are stunners, full of wit, amazing photos and I feel are waaaay out of my league. It’s the whole package that matters. Not age." I agree | |||
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"I don't condone it but in my experience a lot of men seem to lie about their age on here! If you can't beat em, join em! L x" Ya I'm really 99 | |||
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"I started on here at 50, I continue to have fun. I meet mainly guys in their 40's. I find some men my age a bit miserable. " We know what you mean. Isn’t it weird how about half the people you know start to go all withdrawn and miserable and closed in their forties? And the other half just think “sod it” and get on with their loves even though they will never be 21 again. We always try to be in the cheerful group. | |||
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"Iv seen a post by a couple with a 71 yr old! Personally i wont go above a certain age due to my line of work S" Intriqued? | |||
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