FabSwingers.com forum: Do you go on just Verifications meeting a new person ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I meet alone now and again and do worrie if the person at times will ok ... I chat in letters here, But at times mailed people thay have meet just to ask if ok thats only if i know the people and ask nothing about how thay was swinging just if nice person . Is that bad its just over the years i had come across one or too not for me . And some people will wright down a good feed-back even if the meet was not the best . I just like to keep myself safe if i can as i know the risks.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

No, I take no notice of what is said in a verification...

Stay safe and meet them in public and dont be afraid to just walk away from them if you feel the need to x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I have on a couple of occasions, when some I know well, has met someone asked if they OK.

Again no details just if they safe to meet and would be happy to confirm if someone asked me

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No, I take no notice of what is said in a verification...

Stay safe and meet them in public and dont be afraid to just walk away from them if you feel the need to x"

agree

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

And just because they liked them/didnt like them...doesnt mean you will/wont...

Give them a chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have on a couple of occasions, when some I know well, has met someone asked if they OK.

Again no details just if they safe to meet and would be happy to confirm if someone asked me"
Thats how i looked at it i never asked about nothing to do with there meet .. as for them to know not me . jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read veries because im nosey lol but lets face it all verifications are good, people wouldnt post a bad one, so i dont decide if im going to meet someone based on them

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had a couple of messages from women and neither of them mentioned who but both said they where going to meet someone of my verification list was everyone ok on it. I replied that i could vouch that everyone on my list was a decent genuine guy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Veris would play a part in choosing who I'd meet, but they wouldn't be the only reason.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Verifications are a Part of my selection process, i have a lot of proceses that is just one and i only meet verified people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Verifications are a Part of my selection process, i have a lot of proceses that is just one and i only meet verified people"
what are thay ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And just because they liked them/didnt like them...doesnt mean you will/wont...

Give them a chance

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yes i know its a risk a woman meeting a man alone when you know nothing about them , Would it up set you knowing a woman asked if you was ok ?

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"And just because they liked them/didnt like them...doesnt mean you will/wont...

Give them a chance

yes i know its a risk a woman meeting a man alone when you know nothing about them , Would it up set you knowing a woman asked if you was ok ?"

No, would understand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This got me thinking as I would be happy for anyone to contact me regarding someone I had meet, and equally understand and emphasis the fact that what was good for one may not be good for another

However I have recently been the victim of an odd one, who before and during the meet was good, but after it was not an experiance I wanted to repeat and gently made this clear, and to be friends nothing more (Made very clear) but since found out the the said person would arrange cpl meets to include me!! and would invite me over on the pretence of just friends, I soon became spooked by this and have since blocked him and told him my reasons and canged my profile to make people aware if I play I always make direct contact.

But this is one small encounter of which I have had the pleasure of meeting some great people.

Good Luck & Safety First

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet alone now and again and do worrie if the person at times will ok ... I chat in letters here, But at times mailed people thay have meet just to ask if ok thats only if i know the people and ask nothing about how thay was swinging just if nice person . Is that bad its just over the years i had come across one or too not for me . And some people will wright down a good feed-back even if the meet was not the best . I just like to keep myself safe if i can as i know the risks."

You can meet me any time ya like and you not that lol hows things any way hun aint spoken to ya in what seems like ages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a couple of men who werent very nice and i didnt leave them a verification, some of them might have one verification saying they are nice blokes, depends what you think is nice i suppose, i am bit wary when someone only has one face pic, its hard to tell what they are like sometimes even if they sound nice. Have met some newbies with no verification who were nice types though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This got me thinking I had a meet last year with a woman who looked amazing on her pictures.

Anyway got to her house and it was like a different person.

I thought what the hell am here now but wasn't the best I've had lol

I didn't leave her verification because I didn't want to lie and say she was great.

She sent me a nasty message and blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont believe verifications not as they are all made up hype but they are egotisical

i like people to meet me as im a nice person and they might want some sex

i have met people with great veris and thought what the fuck

and i have met people with no veris

but its not the most important thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Would it up set you knowing a woman asked if you was ok ?"
No i wouldn't be concerned about it..its probably a positive move...like profilers building up a kind of library of reliable contacts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to come to my own conclusions when meeting. We're all individuals and good verifications doesn't guarantee anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This got me thinking I had a meet last year with a woman who looked amazing on her pictures.

Anyway got to her house and it was like a different person.

I thought what the hell am here now but wasn't the best I've had lol

I didn't leave her verification because I didn't want to lie and say she was great.

She sent me a nasty message and blocked me "

i hate it when you meet someone and didnt really like them that much and they ask you to verify them, i never know what to say because i dont want to say....i didnt like you enough to verify you but then im not going to lie and say someone was a good meet if they wanst

Its amazing how many people get the hump over you not verifying them, i find some are just collecting them, some of the best meets ive had off here have been with guys ive never verified nor have they me

Now days i only verify someone if they do me first and anyone who mails me to ask deffo dont get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This got me thinking I had a meet last year with a woman who looked amazing on her pictures.

Anyway got to her house and it was like a different person.

I thought what the hell am here now but wasn't the best I've had lol

I didn't leave her verification because I didn't want to lie and say she was great.

She sent me a nasty message and blocked me

Now days i only verify someone if they do me first and anyone who mails me to ask deffo dont get one "

Lol and that's why Veris mean nothing!

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

hahahaha its a gud thing to check verification @ times but wot worked 4 another person mite not work 4 you.Thats why i dont even like ppl sending me messages telling me that they have met ppl that i have met so asking 2 meet us to.With verification we never leave one if we met and the meet was crap.just meet in public 2 b on a safer site

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think they add to the overall picture in the context of potentially meeting someone. They arent really the be all and end all though but they are a helpful indicator.

Though we have talked to people with verifications as long as they come and after a while got very suspect around how "real" the people are even with the verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This got me thinking I had a meet last year with a woman who looked amazing on her pictures.

Anyway got to her house and it was like a different person.

I thought what the hell am here now but wasn't the best I've had lol

I didn't leave her verification because I didn't want to lie and say she was great.

She sent me a nasty message and blocked me

Now days i only verify someone if they do me first and anyone who mails me to ask deffo dont get one "
i decided a while ago that i'd never ask..if someone wishes to fine but i won't prompt or push the matter, verification i understand what the benefits are suppose to be..i get it...just not very bothered by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I _iew verifications differently than most, at least with regards to my own. I can imagine most single guys seek verifications simply to get meets as they prove they are at least genuine. I'm not fussed, getting meets isn't a problem at all, I like to be verified so I can look back at them and remember fondly the delights that took place...it may seem strange, with all the whinges and gripes that crop up daily on here, but in the two years I've been on site I have yet to have a bad meet or one of these so called "timewasters" I keep hearing about for that matter. Granted many of my veris have gone due to folk leaving the site, but the ones that remain are still fun to look through and think to myself, "Fuck yes, now that little encounter was GOOD"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I _iew verifications differently than most, at least with regards to my own. I can imagine most single guys seek verifications simply to get meets as they prove they are at least genuine. I'm not fussed, getting meets isn't a problem at all, I like to be verified so I can look back at them and remember fondly the delights that took place...it may seem strange, with all the whinges and gripes that crop up daily on here, but in the two years I've been on site I have yet to have a bad meet or one of these so called "timewasters" I keep hearing about for that matter. Granted many of my veris have gone due to folk leaving the site, but the ones that remain are still fun to look through and think to myself, "Fuck yes, now that little encounter was GOOD"...

im still waitiong for a meet

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

if i am meeting a woman or couple i prefer if they are verified, but dont read anything into the veris other than the fact they have turned up to other meets. i do not assume it means they will turn up to anything i arrange.

i prefer to get a sense of people and go off my own feelings, 90% of messages get no futher than thanks but no thanks because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i am meeting a woman or couple i prefer if they are verified, but dont read anything into the veris other than the fact they have turned up to other meets. i do not assume it means they will turn up to anything i arrange.

i prefer to get a sense of people and go off my own feelings, 90% of messages get no futher than thanks but no thanks because of this."

im the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im still waitiong for a meet

Oh I don't think you will have long to wait my delicious lady...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read veries because im nosey lol but lets face it all verifications are good, people wouldnt post a bad one, so i dont decide if im going to meet someone based on them"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read all the profile and don't judge on verifications alone, and it annoys me immensely when a guy sends the introductory message with "look at my verifications, that says how good I am"

or similar

what's good for some isn't necessarily good for others. I do like to see however if they have met anyone I know, feel they are more genuine and trustworthy then I think

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